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NwaAmaikpe:




Yes it is very safe.
But before I explain why I think it is very safe I'd first ask you a simple question.
How confused can you be?

Your own mother that gave birth to you told you it is not a safe decision, your own siblings that genuinely care for you have told you it is not wise.
You.....Solomon Onyeamamihe has already decided on not changing how you run your family, so what is the essence of your question?

You know better than your mom,
You know better than your siblings,
You know better than NwaAmaikpe the Seriki of NdiAla because you've decided to think and see life through the panty lace of a woman you've not been married to for up to 7years.

She has made you accept yourself as being prudentially inadequate and painted herself as the financially responsible one. That's is a tactic based on weakness used to manipulate your financial free thought.

That woman runs that home and has you in a bottle but you don't know it yet.
She knows when you want to buy condom, she knows when you want to give your mom 1k, she knows when you want to subscribe your sidechick's cable tv.
She knows when financial virtue is in you and when it has left you.

What type of man are you?
You want to be totally open with your wife, I pity you because a real man is a mystery to his woman.
Humans are creatures of familiarity. A little suspense will keep her at her toes. That's why it is said that the only time a woman truly knows her husband is at his funeral because men MUST never tell it all to their wives. NEVER!

Despite that money being yours, you are at her mercy.
I can only imagine the interviews, explanations and jurying you undergo with her to justify why she should withdraw some money for you.

Forget what they tell you. Marriage is a wicked battleground. It is a non-ending emotional battle where mind games and suspense must be used to retain the interest of the other spouse.
Once she knows there's nothing for her in it, she'd no more be interested in it.

I won't advice you otherwise.
It is very safe.
Don't just stop handing your balls over to her to squeeze for you.

butterfly777:
The Fulani conquered the Hausa, and they live together in a subtle master/slave kind of relationship.
The Fulanis are masters in the art of political scheming. Similar thing they did in Ilorin to the Yorubas.

SqueezedPant:
That means my message was got
?? I don't understand your point

SqueezedPant:
would love to have conversations with you , is there a way I can reach you apart from nairaland on socials?

Gentle0wavez:
See I don face masturbation before and I can tell you that to stop am no be by power or by determination oh. All these people saying get a boyfriend, injure yourself or have enough sex never jam at all. The masturbation demon is real, the bible says anointing breaks the yoke, what does that mean? Anointing here means maturing in the spirit while a yoke is like a chain around your neck. Meaning as you grow spiritually, you break free from a lot of dark bondage. This may sound ironical but FORGET ABOUT THE PROBLEM AND TURN ALL YOUR ATTENTION ON GOD. Seek him earnestly, not just because you want to solve am addiction problem.

I BELIEVE IN THE WORD OF GOD

tsdarkside:
yeah yeah....when boko wan kidnap they will ask wheather you voted fee dee fee or apc....

no,they will ask wheather you are muslim or christian....