emwyy:


Bring those your fresh boobs to me

ibkayee:

No justification for physical violence unless it's in self defence, not everyone can be helped or wants help and he's not likely to stop so leave him asap

EgunMogaji:


You do that by breaking up with him and moving on.

It's not your job to treat his medical condition.

Trying to fix stwepid

victorian:
Op you can't change him. Only series of failed relationships and eventually failed marriages that can make him sober and calm. He's in for a bumpy sad life later on.
And later you will get tired and frustrated then either eventually dump his assz or God forbid, you may either leave him the simple way or the hard painful way called death.

A man who gets angry at every opportunity ends up beating his woman firstly with slaps and ends with severe blows. So don't worry, u will make a final decision on your own later. Have dated such before, I simply fled at the sight of his angry outburst everytime. He's still single at 49, with two divorce cases on his neck. Now he's cooling off alone .

Optionally:

I've tried countless times to speak to him about it but he only gets angry and only on few occasions he hit me.

RedDistrict:
never ends well babe, trust me on this.

hot tempered and abusive guys only get worse and 2 years is already a long time for him to have actively tried to calm down for you at least

i attended my guy's sisters wedding to a younger temperamental guy.
The marriage crashed after a year cos the crazy guy was beating the wife who was pregnant already. She would run into the bedroom and close the door and the hubby woukd be hitting the door ( i saw pictures). she had scars on her body also.
My guy and his other brothers went to the house to beat the crazy guy and carried their sister away.
She has a baby boy now and is taking care of her son herself

Run now or manage for now and run after you get married, you'll still run eventually

Optionally:

I've tried countless times to speak to him about it but he only gets angry and only on few occasions he hit me.

MariaLavina:
You again? Please don't give me a tag here . Heaven knows I'm a gentle soul

Unless the word "gentle" has a new meaning

Always put on this tag. It will make more monikers avoid you, and it will reduce the number of deactivations and alternates we have monthly

Optionally:
I Have been dating him for almost 2 years now and i am looking forward to marrying him but his temper has always been too much.
He easily get annoyed over little things.
One minute he his happy and loving with me and the other minute he is something else. Sometimes i would be confused on what to do cause i may do A and he will get annoyed and i may do B and he will still get annoyed,I just get tired and confused.
Please what can i do cause i really love him but sometimes he can be really aggressive towards me.

Daeylar:



OP's question
"How can I control my boyfriends temper"

Answer
"It's not your job to control your boyfriend's temper, your boyfriend is a grown man and should know to control his temper, if he cannot or will not, move on and find someone else. Forget that you " love" him,
You'll heal and find someone else you can love and who will love you back. He is not the last man on earth, don't worry, you'll heal, you'll be fine."


You even added that he hits you, Domestic violence, you should have ran the first time he tried it. You can still run now. Run!!!!!!

victorian:
Op you can't change him. Only series of failed relationships and eventually failed marriages that can make him sober and calm. He's in for a bumpy sad life later on.
And later you will get tired and frustrated then either eventually dump his assz or God forbid, you may either leave him the simple way or the hard painful way called death.

A man who gets angry at every opportunity ends up beating his woman firstly with slaps and ends with severe blows. So don't worry, u will make a final decision on your own later. Have dated such before, I simply fled at the sight of his angry outburst everytime. He's still single at 49, with two divorce cases on his neck. Now he's cooling off alone .

Optionally:
I don't even know.I honestly love him so much but his behaviour can be really bad attimes but he loves me too.

milemimi93:


He is annoyed with you because you have nothing to offer him..

First of all control your demanding nature..
Stop being a leech, offer him something other than sex and his temper will calm...

XhosaNostra:

Anger issues.

Optionally:
I Have been dating him for almost 2 years now and i am looking forward to marrying him but his temper has always been too much.
He easily get annoyed over little things.
One minute he his happy and loving with me and the other minute he is something else. Sometimes i would be confused on what to do cause i may do A and he will get annoyed and i may do B and he will still get annoyed,I just get tired and confused.
Please what can i do cause i really love him but sometimes he can be really aggressive towards me.

MariaLavina:
Sometimes we get attracted and attached to what hurts us because we think those things /people are the best we can ever get. We get scared to lose them. But No! Whatever hurts, or takes away value from you are never the best. Break free and open your heart for better things come to you.


If he truly loves you, he will never want to hurt you.

MariaLavina:
Do think his " D " is why she's hooked?

dingbang:
Obviously you are getting good dicking that's why you feel so confused

Optionally:
I Have been dating him for almost 2 years now and i am looking forward to marrying him but his temper has always been too much.
He easily get annoyed over little things.
One minute he his happy and loving with me and the other minute he is something else. Sometimes i would be confused on what to do cause i may do A and he will get annoyed and i may do B and he will still get annoyed,I just get tired and confused.
Please what can i do cause i really love him but sometimes he can be really aggressive towards me.

Dreydoe:
i pity u...... until u end up dead or ur body broken into pieces b4 u know u av enter one chance... odeeeee
....


instead of you to work on urself and goals, u dey carry boyfriend 4 head up and down... u are a fool and a weak minded girl with no plan 4 her dumb self...


i" am a dude... dey are thousands of guys out dere better dan ur bf dt wil treat u right....ur bf have issues he has to work on, if he does drugs,,,he should stop

I don't even support Boyfriend and girlfriend relationships, u yall just use dt hs an excuse to be nasty, dirty and commit sins... which will later Bleep u up emotionally..



if u are a christian or a Muslim and u do boyfrnd/ girlfnrd relationship, doing all d whole nasty & banging ish, and u think its a normal thing... u need to serius evaluate ur faith or religion.. we humans think we are smarter dan our creator!


am not holier dan thou because i av done all ds things beforeee.. but my eyes are wide open now

satowind:
you are still
Stocking him hmmm

Optionally:

I've tried countless times to speak to him about it but he only gets angry and only on few occasions he hit me.

Optionally:
I don't even know.I honestly love him so much but his behaviour can be really bad attimes but he loves me too.

Optionally:

I don't think he even knows that he has serious temper cos each time i try to talk to him about it he gets really annoyed.

Optionally:
I Have been dating him for almost 2 years now and i am looking forward to marrying him but his temper has always been too much.
He easily get annoyed over little things.
One minute he his happy and loving with me and the other minute he is something else. Sometimes i would be confused on what to do cause i may do A and he will get annoyed and i may do B and he will still get annoyed,I just get tired and confused.
Please what can i do cause i really love him but sometimes he can be really aggressive towards me.

Optionally:
Yes i am living with him.
I have a small job but my salary is not much and am planning to meet his sister so she can talk to him.