Ode,, must you talk.

rosalieene
post=72873778:
thumbs up to the girl
probably you were expecting her to start begging you.

I like as she no even send you.

please send her stuffs to her, relationship is not by force. I see no much sense in your writeup apart from the fact that you guys re tired of each other.

At least she no send you or even try to beg, that's a plus.

I don't know why you guys get worked up when your gfs receive calls from other guys.
she is still a single and not married so isn't indebted to you so imagine after she has shunned other guys for 5 yrs and you both break up, whose lose?
am not advocating for cheating... there is a big difference between cheating and been friendly with other guys..... Her future hubby might not be u so don't block her chances with your jealousy.

You acted well since the girl cannot apologize when you told her you were quitting. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage...

Useless freedom indeed,, useless thing.

rosalieene:


na today?

biko we all have freedom of speech biko

you're seeing it from a man's angle, I am seeing t from a girl's angle that's the difference.

carter009:
Useless freedom indeed,, useless thing.

this little kid, biko carry your stupid self off my mentions

Date fine girls like us that drive 2015 cars and earning in 6digits, they will say no, "Our wahala is too much". Continue doing UBER o

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Rocktation:
I must let you know something though; we really do not like to be "left alone", whenever we start giving that attitude.

naah, its only a sissy who would yield to the antics of Nigerian women

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ImaIma1:
You both are acting like children. And do you feel too proud to apologize to her when you have wronged her?

Because I have noticed that some guys will form ignorance and want to go on like nothing happened instead of acknowledging their offence and apologizing.That is disrespect.

Both of you are probably better of apart.

I guess you didn't read the part where he said "she was angry for no reason"

But let's say she was angry about something he did,why did she pick up calls from other guys just to spite him?
I guess you didn't see that part....

As much as I know that people can get angry in relationship, its not an excuse to start flirting with other guys....
Is that how she will make him admit his wrongdoing?
By being disrespectful?

Daniwes:

I obviously didn't type much, but if I tell you I wanted to talk things with her and apologize where I did wrong, you wouldn't believe me. I asked what I did wrong, she wouldn't tell me... Meanwhile the attitude started when I told her I couldn't see her due to my busy schedule (After already meeting twice in the same week). Well, I did resolve not to bother myself with her poor level of communication and lack of respect. Its not my job.. Maybe the next guy can take care of that

Exactly

Ugly fat broke ass bitch,, look at her YAM leg , ugly thing

rosalieene:

this little kid, biko carry your stupid self off my mentions

carter009:
Ugly fat broke ass bitch,, look st her YAM leg,, ugly thing

at least I am much more prettier than every girl from your family generation.

Try again next time.

openmine:

I guess you didn't read the part where he said "she was angry for no reason"

But let's say she was angry about something he did,why did she pick up calls from other guys just to spite him?
I guess you didn't see that part....

As much as I know that people can get angry in relationship, its not an excuse to start flirting with other guys....
Is that how she will make him admit his wrongdoing?
By being disrespectful?

In his response to my comment, he said the attitude started when he told her he could not see her because of his busy schedule...I guess you didn't see that part.

ImaIma1:


In his response to my comment, he said the attitude started when he told her he could not see her because of his busy schedule...I guess you didn't see that part.

You are still missing point hence you are trying in vain to be evasive!
She should never be disrespectful no matter what!

Lolz,, ugly bitch, can't you see u look really sick, poverty is written all over you, I know your a prostitute and am not surprised by your words, no need talking about your family cos I know they are all cursed.

rosalieene:

at least I am much more prettier than every girl from your family generation.

Try again next time.

openmine:

You are still missing point hence you are trying in vain to be evasive!
She should never be disrespectful no matter what!

I am not missing the point. It is a relationship between two people who know exactly how they have been running it. We talk about this respect as if it is only given by the lady. Does he also show respect to her?

We are only hearing from the side of the guy and he will say it to his favour. The funny thing is that if it were a lady who came here with a story, most guys will not support her but will say they need to hear the guy's part too. But a guy comes with this and it is "bash the girl galore"

Some men just carry the respect thing as a banner but meanwhile they are disrespectful towards their womem

ImaIma1:


I am not missing the point. It is a relationship between two people who know exactly how they have been running it. We talk about this respect as if it is only given by the lady. Does he also show respect to her?

We are only hearing from the side of the guy and he will say it to his favour. The funny thing is that if it were a lady who came here with a story, most guys will not support her but will say they need to hear the guy's part too. But a guy comes with this and it is "bash the girl galore"

Some men just carry the respect thing as a banner but meanwhile they are disrespectful towards their womem

As much as you are entitled to your opinion,the foundation of your analogy is to say the least faulty!
Respect is non negotiable in any relationship and if you have lost respect in your partner,the best thing to do is quit rather than staying in the relationship and being annoying and disrespectful!
If at any point in time you feel you are being disrespected in a relationship,the best thing to do is leave instead of constituting a nuisance!

Secondly,Op came to tell us his version which for me is valid until we hear the other side of the story!
However,its like a norm for "some" ladies to flirt or seek the attention of other guys instead of resolving issues with their partners!
Which to me should be condemned by you instead of trying in vain to support her and make it sound as if its a girl bashing thread!

Finally,no one is bashing the girl but rather her acts and behaviour,however,if any one no matter the gender does something wrong or bad,it must be condemned outrightly rather than pointing fingers at the other gender as an excuse for being immature!

Rocktation:
I must let you know something though; we really do not like to be "left alone", whenever we start giving that attitude.

ur attitude is ur problem not ours.

jesmond3945:
My brother if she comes back please take her back. Nothing spoil. From your writeup there is nothing wrong, it is a normal phase in women. She is just using that guy to make you jealous. Nothing spoil bro. Cheers.

na so una take dey marry useless women wey no get respect for una tinking u know too much! women psychologist!

openmine:

As much as you are entitled to your opinion,the foundation of your analogy is to say the least faulty!
Respect is non negotiable in any relationship and if you have lost respect in your partner,the best thing to do is quit rather than staying in the relationship and being annoying and disrespectful!

Secondly,Op came to tell us his version which for me is valid until we hear the other side of the story!
However,its like a norm for "some" ladies to flirt or seek the attention of another guys instead of resolving issues with their partners!
Which to me should be condemned by you instead of trying in vain to support her and make it sound as if its a girl bashing thread!

Finally,no one is bashing the girl but rather her acts and behaviour,however,if any one no matter the gender does something wrong or bad,it must be condemned outrightly rather than pointing fingers at the other gender as an excuse for being immature!

Obviously you speak from the standpoint of a guy. You think guys don't flirt with other girls instead of solving their issues. It is just that when a lady does it, it is termed "disrespect".

And at what point did I support the lady? By asking the guy if he offended and refused to apologize?

Did you even see my response to his reply? I guess you did not.

The op has obviously downplayed his own faults and involvement.

rosalieene:
thumbs up to the girl
probably you were expecting her to start begging you.

I like as she no even send you.

please send her stuffs to her, relationship is not by force. I see no much sense in your writeup apart from the fact that you guys re tired of each other.

At least she no send you or even try to beg, that's a plus.

I don't know why you guys get worked up when your gfs receive calls from other guys.
she is still a single and not married so isn't indebted to you so imagine after she has shunned other guys for 5 yrs and you both break up, whose lose?
am not advocating for cheating... there is a big difference between cheating and been friendly with other guys..... Her future hubby might not be u so don't block her chances with your jealousy.

u go really tey for market.

its a progression...no sane girl disrespects her guy.
U didnt see the signs. But they were standing right in front of you.or perhaps you choose to avoid those signs.

ImaIma1:



Obviously you speak from the standpoint of a guy. You think guys don't flirt with other girls instead of solving their issues. It is just that when a lady does it, it is termed "disrespect".

And at what point did I support the lady? By asking the guy if he offended and refused to apologize?

Did you even see my response to his reply? I guess you did not.

OMG did you peruse the comment you quoted before you came to this hasty conclusion?
I made it explicitly obvious that that no matter the "gender" involved,being disrespectful should be condemned by all!
With all due respect,your reason for this response is totally baseless and unnecessary!

Daniwes:
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Thank me later.

openmine:

OMG did you peruse the comment you quoted before you came to this hasty conclusion?
I made it explicitly obvious that that no matter the "gender" involved,being disrespectful should be condemned by all!
With all due respect,your reason for this response is totally baseless and unnecessary!

Your outburst is misplaced and unfounded. What hasty conclusion did you read in my comment?

pedrilo:
na so una take dey marry useless women wey no get respect for una tinking u know too much! women psychologist!

nobody is perfect, the guy has shown he diapproves of her manners by breaking up. When she comes back, she would have learnt her lesson and would never do anything that will make her loose him.

ImaIma1:


Your outburst is misplaced and unfounded. What hasty conclusion did you read in my comment?

Your usage of words are hilarious to say the least....
Can you perceive an outburst from my comments?
My assertions are simple...No matter who is involved,no matter the "gender" involved....
They must totally be condemned rather than shielding such people all in the name of "girl bashing"

From observation,its either you have issues comprehending one's comments or You seriously and personally have a problem with men...!

tosyne2much:
Seriously, dating a lady with attitude problem is like putting a fire under your roof.. Attitude problem is a trait that doesn't really leave women unless they just want to pretend for a while.

My advice for you is that you should never joke with red flags. There's a limit to how you tolerate disrespect from a woman

Red flags.. They are always flying around in ladies with attitudinal problems. It can't be hidden for too long if you observe well.. I take a walk once I see such. Life is too short to tolerate BS from idiots.

rosalieene:
thumbs up to the girl
probably you were expecting her to start begging you.

I like as she no even send you.

please send her stuffs to her, relationship is not by force. I see no much sense in your writeup apart from the fact that you guys re tired of each other.

At least she no send you or even try to beg, that's a plus.

I don't know why you guys get worked up when your gfs receive calls from other guys.
she is still a single and not married so isn't indebted to you so imagine after she has shunned other guys for 5 yrs and you both break up, whose lose?
am not advocating for cheating... there is a big difference between cheating and been friendly with other guys..... Her future hubby might not be u so don't block her chances with your jealousy.

You kidding me??

homirefacuny:


You kidding me??

fvcking serious!

I have a friend who dated a guy for 10yrs! 10 freaking years! she is 30yrs now.
but guess what? she is getting married next month to someone who was just a close friend all this years!
while her so called bf was just wasting her time.

wait let me finish smoking my ganja and i will come back and read this long Rubbish Fairytale.