lefulefu:
love and companionship is what is offered in a relationship

i am single and still have love and companionship.

Xaos:
Sex

Money

Affection

Friendship

Protection

Companionship

Emotional support

And most importantly, SENSE.

Disclaimer : Both sexes are capable for all things listed above. In the long run, we need each other because our desires are mutual while obligations can be reciprocal.

the babe fit easily get sex frm a sugarboy nau.u dont really need to be in a relationship for u to nack:-).but d other points legit;-).

funmisticqueen:
i have 3 dogs at home who give me attention by running to the front gate and barking once i enter my street. they show me love also. they protect me from robbers 24/7. then know when i feel down and their presence gives. me emotional support. apart from sex, i receive the remaining three from my family members. i can get sex from dildos also with all the benefits i dont with a man. so again i have to ask what exactly can you offer in a relationship.

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You Need To Give Me Your Number You Need Help...


So You Get Your Attention From Dogs... You Get Sex From Love Machine... Inferiority Complex is Eating You... Do Men Avoid You or What? You Dont Get attention From Men So You Resort To Dogs... You Dont Have A Boyfriend So You Retire To Love Machine... I Can Help You... I Can Be Your Friend, I'm serious

funmisticqueen:
i am single and still have love and companionship.

frm ur boyfriend? then u not single nau.

many psycho and depressed lady on this section, I wonder which house they came from

lefulefu:
love and companionship is what is offered in a relationship

They would still counter you...

funmisticqueen:
i have a question that has been bugging me and it is frequently asked to ladies and never asked to you. WHAT DO GUYs HAVE TO OFFER IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS OF VALUE TO THE OTHER PARTY?

Your answers will be highly appreciated. arguments are welcome. insults are not.

Cc
highqueen
missraine69
saff
iamD18
iamPlato
lefulefu
resurgent4oodua

I hope you won't get married

funmisticqueen:
if you are not the typical woman, then i think that explains it. But i will not apologise for having that impression of you.

If it was actually going to change something in my life I would cry a river but it won’t so please carry on.

lefulefu:
frm ur boyfriend? then u not single nau.

i am a sugarbaby for now,boyfriends are not good investors

cooluzi:
I hope you won't get married

Oh i will, but not to someone of ur calibre

funmisticqueen:
i have 3 dogs at home who give me attention by running to the front gate and barking once i enter my street. they show me love also. they protect me from robbers 24/7. then know when i feel down and their presence gives. me emotional support. apart from sex, i receive the remaining three from my family members. i can get sex from dildos also with all the benefits i dont with a man. so again i have to ask what exactly can you offer in a relationship.

masturbation is much different frm having sex with a man u really love.sex with a man u love makes u glow and ur heart at peace:-) but masturbation just leaves u cold and empty.

MissRaine69:

I can’t speak for all women
Be assertive not forceful or egotistical I cannot deal with egos especially when they are routinely bruised and need massaging
His loyalty - undivided
His support life can be overwhelming sometimes
Ambitious
Be my calm
Be able to be his own person therefore confidence is impretative
Am open minded individual someone who is able look at things in 3/4D
A freak

this woman has always proven she's very wise................much respect miss


The question should be: what do you expect a man to offer you in a relationship?


What did your father offer your mother?


You are the ones who always fight to get married before 30, so tell us, why do you all desperately want to get married and what do you expect from the man?


Las las sef all these dumb stupid questions y'all (men and women) ask here all the time are not even feasible in the real world


people go into relationships everyday and eventually get married and this imaginary war between men and women y'all fight here non-existence in the real world


only stupid unintelligent people ask such dumb questions!

lefulefu:
masturbation is much different frm having sex with a man u really love.sex with a man u love makes u glow and ur heart at peace:-) but masturbation just leaves u cold and empty.

hahahahahahaha!!! you are funny. trust me i cant glow nor is my heart at peace when i have things to worry about.

IamPlato:
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You Need To Give Me Your Number You Need Help...


So You Get Your Attention From Dogs... You Get Sex From Love Machine... Inferiority Complex is Eating You... Do Men Avoid You or What? You Dont Get attention From Men So You Resort To Dogs... You Dont Have A Boyfriend So You Retire To Love Machine... I Can Help You... I Can Be Your Friend, I'm serious

you wan become friend of babe wey dey craze.....literally!!

samysmoothfresh:



this woman has always proven she's very wise................much respect miss


The question should be: what do you expect a man to offer you in a relationship?


What did your father offer your mother?


You are the ones who always fight to get married before 30, so tell us, why do you all desperately want to get married and what do you expect from the man?


Las las sef all these dumb stupid questions y'all (men and women) ask here all the time are not even feasible in the real world


people go into relationships everyday and eventually get married and this imaginary war between men and women y'all fight here non-existence in the real world


only stupid unintelligent people ask such dumb questions!

since u cant answer the question, you have resorted to insults. typical broke nigga response. no such thing as a dumb question so either answer it or watch from the sidelines

DanDeeBoss:
They would still counter you...

haha wetin dem wan counter on this one? the main reason for relationship na love and companionship.which normal person no want dat..lol

lefulefu:
haha wetin dem wan counter on this one? the main reason for relationship na love and companionship.which normal person no want dat..lol

The sole truth... most of them no just want date... They feel men have nothing to offer...

funmisticqueen:
Oh i will, but not to someone of ur calibre

actually I already have a gorgeous lady moreover I don't do prostitute..

cooluzi:
actually I already have a gorgeous lady moreover I don't do prostitute..

it seems she decided to settle for less. i wish her all the best

funmisticqueen:
if you are not the typical woman, then i think that explains it. But i will not apologise for having that impression of you.

so now you agree "a typical woman" shares the same myopic dumb stupid unitelligent dead reasoning as you do



only a minutescule few are exempted..........so sad!!!


Honestly i used to think you had sense............going through your first few comments on this forum, one would think you have sense


anyhow sha i know its frustration, bitterness, bad experience with men and a bit of abnormal reasoning thats affecting you


it's the same thing that affected that lillyann lady which she personally came out to confess as true


now she has repented and now i know the reason why most of you here (including that saff) act like you do


my only prayer for you and your kind (every night) will be God should help y'all come out of this immense frustration, bitterness, senselessness and overall abnormal reasoning that have enslaved and ensnared you....


I pray you meet a nice man that will help wipe away the bad expeiences you've had with me

AMEN!!!

funmisticqueen:
it seems she decided to settle for less. i wish her all the best

well that's non of your business since we are happy with what we have.. i pray you find wisdom and happiness soon

samysmoothfresh:



so now you agree "a typical woman" shares the same myopic dumb stupid unitelligent dead reasoning as you do



only a minutescule few are exempted..........so sad!!!


Honestly i used to think you had sense............going through your first few comments on this forum, one would think you have sense


anyhow sha i know its frustration, bitterness, bad experience with men and a bit of abnormal reasoning thats affecting you


it's the same thing that affected that lillyann lady which she personally came out to confess as true


now she has repented and now i know the reason why most of you here (including that saff) act like you do


my only prayer for you and your kind (every night) will be God should help y'all come out of this immense frustration, bitterness, senselessness and overall abnormal reasoning that have enslaved and ensnared you....


I pray you meet a nice man that will help wipe away the bad expeiences you've had with me

AMEN!!!

yawn, boring.go fvck a ho or do whatever it is that broke men do

funmisticqueen:
i have a question that has been bugging me and it is frequently asked to ladies and never asked to you. WHAT DO GUYs HAVE TO OFFER IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS OF VALUE TO THE OTHER PARTY?

Your answers will be highly appreciated. arguments are welcome. insults are not.

Cc
highqueen
missraine69
saff
iamD18
iamPlato
lefulefu
resurgent4oodua

Nothing.

However if you are lucky to find the few good ones, you will understand the true meaning of companionship, friendship.

Most parents don't give their daughters to men who "have something to offer" they give their daughters to men that have the whole package. To put it more elaborately - man that can take of their daughter financially, emotionally, physically and psychologically.

I don't remember women being charged with these responsibilities while growing up, all they are told is to be submissive, tolerant, and supportive.

However the tables have turn, most men can no longer pass the integrity test in taking care of a woman as stated in the 2nd paragraph.

cooluzi:
well that's non of your business since we are happy with what we have.. i pray you find wisdom and happiness soon

that prayer has been answered a long time ago baby.

pryme:


Nothing.

However if you are lucky to find the few good ones, you will understand the true meaning of companionship, friendship.

Most parents don't give their daughters to men who "have something to offer" they give their daughters to men that have to whole package. To put it more elaborately - man that can take of their daughter financially, emotionally, physically and psychologically.

I don't remember women being charged with these responsibilities while growing up, all they are told is to be submissive, tolerant, and supportive.

However the tables have turn, most men can no longer pass the integrity test in taking care of a woman as stated in the 2nd paragraph.

Thank you.

samysmoothfresh:


you wan become friend of babe wey dey craze.....literally!!

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She Is Not Crazy

funmisticqueen:
that prayer has been answered a long time ago baby.

but you still seems pained and depressed I wonder where that's coming from

Saff:
Do men get shamed for being over a certain age and not having a wife?

Do men get called ‘ evening newspaper’? like how you brats litter this forum with that phrase up and down

Do men have a time limit when it comes to having kids?

If men decide to have kids outside marriage, will they be
called derogatory names and black balled in society?

Do men face the severe scrutiny, the stigma, and constant questioning when they decide to stay single?

Trust me if we had a choice, and if society stopped pressuring us to get married, we wouldnt give a damn. After all, all you offer us is a life of slavery, kids, trauma and debts. Most of you can’t even provide financially, without your wife helping you significantly, yet you’ll be forming man of the house. Women suffer more when it comes to marriage, but because idiots like you will not give us peace of mind, someday somehow we succumb to the pressure. So have a tall glass of shut the fuckkk up pleeaseee

I've been trying so hard not to respond to you, but your Ignorance is just over board. All of you inclusive, funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz and I can see why It surprises you that MissRaine69: responds in a particular way.

I hope you know that as a Man at the Age of 40, You are expected to be married, Financially Stable, at least have a child or one in the way.

I hope you know that Men are getting married as early as 25 - 29 now. The societal pressure for Men comes at the later age of 40 - 45. You need to have all your chips settled & nothing on your table.

The shame on a man who is 40 & does not even have his Life put together is even enough to hide from his friends & family when he sees them because everyone else is prosperous except him. Haven't you seen Men who hide from their class mates, the shame is too much to bear.

There are so many issues tied to gender & it did not start today, There are so many advantages of being a woman/man. If you choose to ignore them, that is up to you.
Men do not have time limits to have kids, Yes.

Finally, The issue is you are trying to compare your life & that of your parents to everyone on here. You seem to assume everything around you is how everyone is, some Fathers are doing fine providing for their Families & it doesn’t take away what the mothers are doing.

I’m not worried about funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz when ever they talk about money this, money that because very soon, they will start earning a living & understand how it's hard to make money. They are still students. So they have a PASS. Oyindidi who lost 250k knows how hard she sweats before she made that money & now someone else can entrust 1M to her because I'm sure she will utilise it properly.

But you are always speaking from a place of Pain & travail when it comes to marriage, obviously because you are either judging from your experience & your mothers experience.

I hope lefulefu, IamD18 is reading, I rest my case. Drops pen.

truthsayer009:


I've been trying so hard not to respond to you, but your Ignorance is just over board. All of you inclusive, funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz and I can see why It surprises you that MissRaine69: responds in a particular way.

I hope you know that as a Man at the Age of 40, You are expected to be married, Financially Stable, at least have a child or one in the way.

I hope you know that Men are getting married as early as 25 - 29 now. The societal pressure for Men comes at the later age of 40 - 45. You need to have all your chips settled & nothing on your table.

The shame on a man who is 40 & does not even have his Life put together is even enough to hide from his friends & family when he sees them because everyone else is prosperous except him. Haven't you seen Men who hide from their class mates, the shame is too much to bear.

There are so many issues tied to gender & it did not start today, There are so many advantages of being a woman/man. If you choose to ignore them, that is up to you.
Men do not have time limits to have kids, Yes.

Finally, The issue is you are trying to compare your life & that of your parents to everyone on here. You seem to assume everything around you is how everyone is, some Fathers are doing fine providing for their Families & it doesn’t take away what the mothers are doing.

I’m not worried about funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz when ever they talk about money this, money that because very soon, they will start earning a living & understand how it's hard to make money. They are still students. So they have a PASS. Oyindidi who lost 250k knows how hard she sweats before she made that money & now someone else can entrust 1M to her because I'm sure she will utilise it properly.

But you are always speaking from a place of Pain & travail when it comes to marriage, obviously because you are either judging from your experience & your mothers experience.

I hope lefulefu is reading, I rest my case. Drops pen.

correction. i am so not a student. i believe men should be men and women should be women.

you just sound fustrated. is it so hard for you to make a living? i think u need prayers.

IamPlato:
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She Is Not Crazy

ok o
if you say so

funmisticqueen:
correction. i am a doctor

No you are not. You are either a Student of Medicine who hasn't finished or still in progress.

I'm 100% certain that you have never earned a living.

truthsayer009:


No you are not. You are either a Student of Medicine who hasn't finished & still in progress.

I'm 100% certain that you have never earned a living.

fine, believe what u want then.