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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Nobody: 2:19pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
ikhileomotayo: looool. Your dullness stinks to the high heavens. You clearly are an ideal representation of a dumb negro because even a primary school drop out knows that 1% of the Nigeria's entire population is not equal to 1. Do yourself and this country a huge favour and cut off your d1ck so you don't father unproductive dullards like your miserable self. We have had enough of you already. tueh!!! All these touts with crayfish brains. |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by alhassanyusuf29(m): 2:20pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
ur argument has no basis, ur just being sentimental and emotional... if not, state out where it gave him out, i just see ur desperation in trying to force him into a marriage his not certain about koyyes: |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by SexExpert(m): 2:24pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
You didn't have to talk about the sex. Totally unnecessary. Meanwhile, speak to her specifically about any aspects of her attitude that you are not comfortable with. Listen to her response. Then give her some time to improve. If she doesn't, you can speak to her one more time. This way, you are already making it clear what you can or cannot live with. And if you eventually leave her, it would be her who failed to work on certain aspects of her attitude which you clearly explained you can't cope with. To be fair during such discussions, ask her to also tell you aspects of your attitude that she doesn't feel comfortable with as well. Then make sure you also work on those. This is what will happen: Mostly, change is difficult. Its hard to learn how to use the left hand in old age. So human beings don't change much. But yes, they can if they really work on it. So she might still be unable to change. Then you can leave after speaking with her at least twice, each with a space of 2-3 months. And if she actually improves in those areas you talked about, then you have no reason to leave. This means you must be clear and honest about what it is she does you don't like. I have written this much detail with the hope that others can apply this idea to improve their relationships as well. Feel free to contact me if you need any relationship advice. You would be in good hands. Please ignore typos, as this was typed on the phone while in transit. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by samguru(m): 2:26pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Ayanfeoluxyz: Watch your word! |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by juniorstar(m): 2:29pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Dump wetin, u knew she was not ur taste, yet when she open leg u antenna catch signal. Know u don see wetin u dey find na now u know sey she no be ur kind gal. U even get mind dey compare am with ur ex. My guy u get serious problem and you dey add more to am like play like play. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
alhassanyusuf29: On the contrary, I am a realist. It is you who is sentimental otherwise you should have understood my points clearly. I am not against him ending the relationship. In fact, ending that fake relationship will be one of the few good decisions he will be making as far as 'relationships' are concerned. My main advice to him is to work on himself and deal with his own baggage before seeking for another relationship OR remain single. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Tell her you have AIDS and you don't want to spoil her life. She will joyously leave you and even run far away from you. |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by stchinedu: 2:41pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
IamD18:As in ehn....I weak too. Haba, after shifting and downsizing her pant o.
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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Wuraola01(f): 2:42pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
IamD18: This really got me. Guys ehn |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by ksbusari(m): 2:42pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
you can tell her your position an about the relationship. she might control herself. try and do some communication. u be thief sha. |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Wuraola01(f): 2:44pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
tamethem: Guy ! So, you'll go to that extent if you're in his shoes? |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by ImaIma1(f): 3:02pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
centboy123456: I am sorry if you have been dumped countless times which has formed your opinion. However, this post is exclusive of all our own experiences and we should look at it based on the two people involved and the information available. When you point fingers at Nigerian girls, you should also castigate Nigerian men. You guys are not perfect |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by domwas2(m): 3:03pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free. It happens, just be honest about it, either call her on phone that you have something to talk about and if she insisted you say it then tell her how you feel about her, your expectations and your disappointment about the whole thing. Be honest to tell her what you don't like about her and you need a break. In that case she had learnt something from the relationship about her shortcomings, she can adjust and be a better person in future You both are in love, it's not your fault or hers you both fall in love but it's your fault you don't know how to handle love and you know what? There is no perfect someone out there. Think about it. |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by CAPSLOCKED: 3:27pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
ikhileomotayo:THAT PERSON IS A TEENAGE GIRL. |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by mechanics(m): 3:35pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
AnalQueenluci:hahahaha, I don't know o queen, belongs to where, you are making me scared o? |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by faithfull18(f): 3:43pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Funny thread. You don't like her but you didn't mind having sex with her. Ladies!!! close your legs!!! 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Rozaytee: 3:52pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
samguru:u just a dumb fvck boy 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Rozaytee: 3:55pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
BafanaBafana:i know say u Don tire for her pussy na y u dump am... To taste fresh toto dey hungry u na |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by thunderbabs: 4:08pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
IamD18: Lol.. Stop overrating shifting of pants jare, someone has gotta do it. Do not forget that some girls initiate shifting of boxer shorts too |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Kekekenny(m): 4:11pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Ayanfeoluxyz: Mumu girl, The guy is asking for a peaceful way to end up a relationship without shielding any blood u re here talking nonsense. Most of u ladies with chicken brain have same evil mentality. is that how they forced your papa to marry your mama? It is not by force to marry her if he is not OK with her character. Same way some ladies does to some guys and ended peacefully. Afterall,they both enjoyed the sex they had in the course of the relationship.craze dey worry u. |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by jibrilELsudan: 4:27pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Bring her let me fvck her and cum in her mouth. She will never think about you.
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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by AnalQueenluci: 4:33pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
mechanics:stop joking around joor! U Men dnt fear, u guys wl rather sleep wt a female demon wt wings ! get wisdom here o |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Toseenlove: 4:34pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Amhappy: Sex Introduces another level of Intimacy and attachment In a relationship. This is absolutely true. Nice one. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Toseenlove: 4:37pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Rozaytee: Rozaytee... |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by AnalQueenluci: 4:38pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
stchinedu:dis guy is so ugly |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by stchinedu: 4:58pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
AnalQueenluci: |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Johilo(m): 5:06pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Sup bro.. I undastnd wat u're goin tru rite nw and hw u depended on our advice.. U're truly a good man to have brought up dis thread.. It shows dat u human and u don't want to hurt her even though u want to opt out... I don't have anytin to contribute but all i have to say is dat u shuld let her knw of ur intension of time.. U're a man, just tell her dat de way tins are goin btween u two u don't tink u can continue wit d relationshp... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Cas1741: 5:30pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Maybe you are the problem or simply going through what I call, transfer of aggression. This happens when you experience a terrible relationship, not completely healed, get into another one, by perception or paranoia, see the past in the future and microscopically analyze the behavior of your present girl looking for the signs in your past relationship. Or you are doing the same very things that caused your first marriage to crash and she is naturally reacting the same way your past wife reacted. look inwards first. it is always good to learn from the past. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Nobody: 5:32pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Saffi:
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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by mechanics(m): 5:43pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
AnalQueenluci:Lolz, am not joking queen, I don't sleep around o, am against him having sex with her na. |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Youngzubi: Such Statement are easy to say Young man. Do you think people facing divorce currently ever planned for it,or see it coming. |
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Ayanfeoluxyz(f): 7:02pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Kekekenny:See another dumbhead e tiya were sir! |
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