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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by wisebrains: 10:39am On Dec 07
Aye ma le oooooo grin
It is well
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by flexxyworld(m): 10:40am On Dec 07
IamD18:
All of a sudden her antecedents became something to worry about after shifting her pant.

mama.. The fact that a guy has shifted the pant like you said, shouldn't be a basis why you wife a woman. marriage and sex are different things, let's stop linking it else we will keep having marriages of misfit.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Twoclans(f): 10:40am On Dec 07
Snow87:
Deep heart shallow brain, is God not wonderful??


God is indeed wonderful.

Have a lovely day Snow87.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by bizhop01(m): 10:41am On Dec 07
Simple just buy her new car & tell her to keep off that you need time for yourself, she will understand.
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by highqueen(f): 10:41am On Dec 07
Triangles1:
That's why I liked we men folk, if it's a woman that want to dump you, they care less about your feeling.
True.
I agree to this to some extent.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by alexistaiwo: 10:41am On Dec 07
This is one of the consequences of adulthood, if you can't navigate this waters without getting burnt, you shouldn't be dating at all.



And to think that you used to be married, I am tempted to think that your immaturity led to the crash of your former marriage.



These are the guys giving manhood a negative image.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Deltatoto: 10:41am On Dec 07
samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.
tell her u have hiv she should go for test if she does and sees she’s negative she will run for her life and call you a good man

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by RexTramadol1(m): 10:42am On Dec 07
No leave am o
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Jabioro: 10:43am On Dec 07
samguru:


Haaaa, this is is too much!
Can't someone truthfully seek for advice on issues concerning his/her life.
Madam, you are not matured at all.
I only sought for advice on the process of leaving her unhurt, please if you don't have any please move to another thread.
Take the meat and leave the bone..She has gave her candid advise,truth to be told you are not enough man with a great matured mind...

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Popularity(m): 10:43am On Dec 07
AntiWailer:
That is the problem and trap you people put yourself.

You cant eat your cake and have it.


It is either you hurt her or you stay.

If she is not good enough for you. Walk away now, dnt worry about the hurt. Last last she will be alright.
it depends on how many cakes u have
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by maxiuc(m): 10:43am On Dec 07
Stupid boy

She is now a dust bin abi

Give me her contact let me continue from where you stopped

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Elynxx08: 10:44am On Dec 07
I feel your pain bro. the sooner the better. forget the pain she will feel because if nah you,she no go even ask for advice

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Snow87(m): 10:45am On Dec 07
women do not consider whether you will be hurt or not when them want to break up, is only men that always makes it look like they are going to hurt Ladies. bro sit her down, tell her the same thing u told us watch her reactions, give her sometime if she doesn't change for good, move on without consideration. life is to short to please someone and displeases urself cos she be fine las las.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Born2Breed(f): 10:45am On Dec 07
samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.

She is now a refuse that can be dumped after use?

The thunder that will fire your down below is doing rehearsal.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Popularity(m): 10:46am On Dec 07
Buy a big dust bin, tie her with rope and then dump her inside. then later dispose
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Ranchhoddas(m): 10:46am On Dec 07
ImaIma1:
Why did you sleep with her when you knew somewhere at the back if mind that it won't work?

Why didn't you think of all this incompatibilities and hindrances before you got into her panties?

You want to have your cake and eat it. Now you want to run and you are looking for an easy landing.

Deal with this yourself! Why didn't you come and ask us if you should sleep with her? You wanted to taste and see. Scammers everywhere parading as boyfriends/lovers.
No be two of them enjoy am?
They both ate each other's cake.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by jiorhemen(m): 10:46am On Dec 07
samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.

The language you used is self-indicting. You are using the word 'dump'. You and I know that the word dump carries a negative connotation. From your story, you are not dumping her, you are just quitting a relationship with the wrong person, and that's very okay.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by tunize(m): 10:48am On Dec 07
How can u dump someone without hurting her bro? How u go fit use blade cut ur self make u nor bleed?
Bro sit down with her and tell her that one go deh more respectful.
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by wisebrains: 10:48am On Dec 07
I feared for the unmarried men angry

By dumping this and that, op don't you think you are creating more problem for men out there. How would be more hurt than before and how do you want her to trust other guys after you. Don't get me wrong am not saying you should marry someone you are not at peace with character-wise, but don't you think we all are not perfect and there can never be a perfect marriage or relationship unless we want to be deceiving ourselves, you can only work towards perfect marriage or relationship. All these dumping and picking won't help everyone at the long run, that's why there are many broken homes and relationship.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by maxiuc(m): 10:49am On Dec 07
OladimejiRufai:
Very simple

Firstly, lay some foam first inside the bin or any soft material

Then dump her inside the dustbin

Lobatan! That way she wont feel hurt at all if she lands safely on the foam grin

Or u can dump her inside a lagoon. if she can swim, she will find her way

No, u dont av to thank me

What are Nairalanders for??
you guys won't kill person here
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by oloworulz(m): 10:49am On Dec 07
Very simple, tell her you have hiv aids
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by IkpuMmadu: 10:50am On Dec 07
Just call her and tell her that it isn't working period....why do we attach sentiments

Not all relationship would lead to marriage

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by ponti93(m): 10:50am On Dec 07
No matter how much it hurts.. . A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage... As for those talking about sex... Sex in a relationship is nt meant to be a bargain... Its smetin enjoyed by both... Nobody used each other... You don't expect him to not have sex until he has learned everything about her then decide that she is the one for marriage... Relationships are meant to be a journey from day one you learn... As it goes you get to know if you are staying forever or not.
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Amhappy(f): 10:50am On Dec 07
Thou shall not commit adultery. Take this commandment serious in the future. You are adults, leave sex out of it till commitment.That said, there's no way she won't feel hurt. So just tell her. Have a heart to heart discussion. Bring up your past failed marriages. The high rate of broken marriages,killer spouses etc and why one should not make a mistake again. Life is too short and you don't want to waste her time. Blablabla. The earlier, the better.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by pepigeorge(m): 10:50am On Dec 07
ImaIma1:
Why did you sleep with her when you knew somewhere at the back if mind that it won't work?

Why didn't you think of all this incompatibilities and hindrances before you got into her panties?

You want to have your cake and eat it. Now you want to run and you are looking for an easy landing.

Deal with this yourself! Why didn't you come and ask us if you should sleep with her? You wanted to taste and see. Scammers everywhere parading as boyfriends/lovers.

Who said when u sleep with a woman.. U must stick to her...
Grow up, this 21st century.. Women dish out sex like biscuits these days... There's is nothing sacred about it

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by melanch(m): 10:52am On Dec 07
If he's honest with himself, he will tell you he didn't enjoy the sex.
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Mankosi: 10:53am On Dec 07
IamD18:
All of a sudden her antecedents became something to worry about after shifting her pant.
lol. If u know u know.
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by dreamworld: 10:54am On Dec 07
ImaIma1:
Why did you sleep with her when you knew somewhere at the back if mind that it won't work?

Why didn't you think of all this incompatibilities and hindrances before you got into her panties?

You want to have your cake and eat it. Now you want to run and you are looking for an easy landing.

Deal with this yourself! Why didn't you come and ask us if you should sleep with her? You wanted to taste and see. Scammers everywhere parading as boyfriends/lovers.
So all the guys that slept with you go married to u
?

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Cfabregas(m): 10:54am On Dec 07
My broda u r already married
Plz kindly go back to ur wife
U have a Son! Common what else r u looking 4!
God has blessed u already!
Go n reconcile with ur wife
Outside dat u r living in sin.
Thanks n God bless u

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by obentenyson(m): 10:55am On Dec 07
simple. just buy her an Iphone7
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by pocohantas(f): 10:58am On Dec 07
Simply break up with her.
No breakup isn't hurtful, except both parties never loved each other. Having sex with her doesn't mean you must marry her, except you were a hit and run dude, which I do not think you are, judging by your opening post.

Relationships mustn't lead to marriage.

I will suggest a tactical retreat, reduced calls, appear busier, professional...the detachment will be a gradual process.

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