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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by davillian(m): 11:28am On Dec 07
Use withdraw method. grin
It will help kill what she fills for you gradually.
Reduce calls, reduce text, reduce availability, form busy, if she calls dont pick call when u like and reply her chat/text when u like.
She will keep asking if anything is wrong but tell her nothing you just handling a project that is taking your time.
This will leave her hearth open for someone to come in grin.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Krystalzkris(f): 11:29am On Dec 07
samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.
'Dump' and 'without hurting' shouldn't be used in the same sentence..
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by viktuur8(m): 11:30am On Dec 07
You just go ahead and tell her already, naturally it'd hurt but i guess it'll be a relief for her after when she realize she's been rid of a common dimwit
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by lexy2014: 11:31am On Dec 07
samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.

Package her&send 2 me or simply put on jumia. U will make ur gain
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Cypus01: 11:31am On Dec 07
This is not funny at all. Have you checked and asked yourself if you not the one seeing fault where was actually none. How many more women would you Have to sleep with before you know there is no PERFECT being out there even you yourself.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by justmykel(m): 11:34am On Dec 07
IamD18:
All of a sudden her antecedents became something to worry about after shifting her pant.

You just said my mind bro. Don't mind him
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Nasir123(m): 11:34am On Dec 07
Call her,seat down,and talk about it.
No big deal in braking up.

Just be mature about it.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Mekzy02(m): 11:36am On Dec 07
Amhappy:

But believe me it never the same. Sex introduces another level of intimacy and attachment in a relationship. For young people it's easier to throw away but for matured people like in OP's case,it's different. Many older people defined their relationship from day one. They don't just jump into euphoria of feelings like young people.
Bin following up on your comments... Its kinda shocking and rare to see a girl who thinks "sex" outside marriage ain't cool! They wouldn't understand tho.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by dreamworld: 11:36am On Dec 07
ImaIma1:


A rhetorical question I suppose
Yes dear
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by neonly: 11:37am On Dec 07
HazardAwka:
Cheat on her and make sure she finds out if she is an indecent woman she will do the same and both of you we break up happily

Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by mechanics(m): 11:41am On Dec 07
It would have been easier if you were not too fast in sleeping with her, you should talk to her about what you notice and give her a benefit of doubt if she will change, if she does not, then call it quit, ending it in such a way that she feels she has been used and dumped won't be funny.
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by AnalQueenluci(f): 11:41am On Dec 07
samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.
death is calling u, just dump her n see mtcheww
U dnt knw women ryt?
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by ladykolly(f): 11:42am On Dec 07
AntiWailer:
That is the problem and trap you people put yourself.

You cant eat your cake and have it.


It is either you hurt her or you stay.

If she is not good enough for you. Walk away now, dnt worry about the hurt. Last last she will be alright.
Last last she will be alright and plan evil for him, don't underestimate a lady when she is hurt badly.
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by mechanics(m): 11:43am On Dec 07
AnalQueenluci:
death is calling u, just dump her n see mtcheww
U dnt knw women ryt?
hahahaha, he shouldn't have slept with her in the first place, she will feel used and dump.
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by greatman247(m): 11:43am On Dec 07
How did you toast her in the first place? Did you come to us for advice on how to toast a lady? Why disturbing us with how to dump her now. Manage her, engage her, period.
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by dreamworld: 11:44am On Dec 07
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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Connecticut: 11:45am On Dec 07
samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.
. Used all your money play Baba ijebu lotto or naija bet and I know by the time you get broke na she go leave you without you hurting her.
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Haykinsofficial(m): 11:46am On Dec 07
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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by MrSly(m): 11:48am On Dec 07
samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.
The topic should have been " how do I change my attitude so as maintain a healthy and blissful relationship"
Your ex and your current bae can't always be silly while you keep being right. I think the silly thing here is your brain. Work on yourself first.

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Aurielfinizu: 11:50am On Dec 07
mumu

u for give her snipper to drink na...
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by alhassanyusuf29(m): 12:01pm On Dec 07
But Madam, is sex a two way thing, why are y'all females trying to portray that he took advantage of her if she engaged in the act willing for sexual satisfaction? undecided

if she was the one to have want to dump him, u guys wont be saying "after you had sex and took advantage of him" undecided
Born2Breed:


She is now a refuse that can be dumped after use?

The thunder that will fire your down below is doing rehearsal.


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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by alhassanyusuf29(m): 12:01pm On Dec 07
But Madam, is sex a two way thing, why are y'all females trying to portray that he took advantage of her if she engaged in the act willing for sexual satisfaction? undecided

if she was the one to have want to dump him, u guys wont be saying "after you had sex and took advantage of him"
ImaIma1:


Really?? I am not objective? If you lie, you know within yourself and it would have definitely caught up with you.

Why does every opposing stance from a lady have to termed as "feministic"?

You sought for advice? Or for someone to validate your position and tell you what you want to hear?
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by centboy123456(m): 12:04pm On Dec 07
ImaIma1:
Why did you sleep with her when you knew somewhere at the back if mind that it won't work?

Why didn't you think of all this incompatibilities and hindrances before you got into her panties?

You want to have your cake and eat it. Now you want to run and you are looking for an easy landing.

Deal with this yourself! Why didn't you come and ask us if you should sleep with her? You wanted to taste and see. Scammers everywhere parading as boyfriends/lovers.


I don't know what is wrong with all this Nigeria girls self what is the big deal about sex tell me u girls take sex as a big deal what wrong with u they both had sex nobody force them to have sex and u are here saying s&hit so d guy commit crime to have sex with her what wrong with all this foolish Nigeria girls self sex is noting u hear me

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Chelseafan1: 12:04pm On Dec 07
Saffi:
Stupid fools just to open pant and run away. You know how to open your big mouth for sex, but to be a man and tell her how you feel is a problem. I don’t understand this generation, bunch of loser men .



Not all of us jor.
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Lagosian29(m): 12:06pm On Dec 07
Saffi:
Stupid fools just to open pant and run away. You know how to open your big mouth for sex, but to be a man and tell her how you feel is a problem. I don’t understand this generation, bunch of loser men.

Feminist spotted

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Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by Dilish007(m): 12:07pm On Dec 07
Kindly listen to Faze - Perfect Woman.

There is no perfect woman anywhere. Mole her into your perfect woman.
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by ImaIma1(f): 12:08pm On Dec 07
alhassanyusuf29:
But Madam, isnt sex a two way thing, why are y'all females trying to portray that he took advantage of her if she engaged in the act willing for sexual satisfaction? undecided

if she was the one to have want to dump him, u guys wont be saying "after you had sex and took advantage of him"


It is a two way thing...you are probably right. But the lady probably gives herself with a mind that it is a serious affair not knowing that the guy has other motives.

Besides, not all ladies just have sex around for having sex sake. It is still guys that will say she has been used and imply that her value has depreciated with the number of men she has slept with.

But that same measure is not used for men. Instead, it is one more feather to his cap. So i
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by JuzzJoel(m): 12:09pm On Dec 07
Gofwane:
It's very simple nah. Tell her you are now gay.
But oboyyeh, if the girl is more than 30 years, then you are in deep shii because these categories of girls are soo patient that they can cook a stone till it becomes softer than a boiled egg cheesy

KUKU KILL ME
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by AnalQueenluci(f): 12:10pm On Dec 07
mechanics:
hahahaha, he shouldn't have slept with her in the first place, she will feel used and dump.
Everywomen has dat distinct power 2 cos pain n death on any grossly offender
But i wl advice him 2 feign is dead broke n about 2 be a street urchin
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by mechanics(m): 12:15pm On Dec 07
AnalQueenluci:
Everywomen has dat distinct power 2 cos pain n death on any grossly offender
But i wl advice him 2 feign is dead broke n about 2 be a street urchin
hahahahahah, that's on the extreme o.
Re: How Do I Dump My Girlfriend Without Hurting Her? by tintingz(m): 12:16pm On Dec 07
samguru:


Haaaa, this is is too much!
Can't someone truthfully seek for advice on issues concerning his/her life.
Madam, you are not matured at all.
I only sought for advice on the process of leaving her unhurt, please if you don't have any please move to another thread.
The word "dump" is not appropriate in this case, why not use "break up" or "leave"?

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