aswani:

Thanks for the intervention but you are not necessarily correct. As I said in my response to him, I was posting per relevance to the topic.

ubunja:
No it doesnt. Check the title of the post. It has more to do with fatherhood than motherhood.

aswani:

I read every single word of the original post before I posted and did it again, the focus is on the woman, in my humble opinion.

aswani:

Thanks for the intervention but you are not necessarily correct. As I said in my response to him, I was posting per relevance to the topic.

ubunja:
your humble opinion is wrong. Even OP corrected you herself

funmisticqueen:
just leave him be

funmisticqueen:
A lot of ladies have fallen victim to truncating their life purpose for a few minutes of pleasure. He busts his nuts, depositing his seed. Higher chances, you didn't even achieve orgasm but you are left with the short end of the stick for 9 months then the rest of your life and you are left in the realm of singlemotherhood being a burden to yourself, parents and society while he has denied you and moved on.

What is the cause of this worldwide epidemic of single mum and babymama syndrome. It is simple evolutionary biology. A man is wired to want to sow his seed to ensure the continuity of his legacy so he looks for a womb that will do just that this is why men are seen to be polygamous. While women are the gatekeepers carefully selecting whose seed is worthy of nuturing into the world. Only the strong survive.

This is one of the sacred reasons the institution of marriage was created. It also creates a safe haven for the nuturing of the young to be useful in society. It also ensures the highest chances of their survival

You become a single mother when you ignore your instinct and get pregnant for an unworthy man who deceived you with flowery words and empty promises. He is effeminate and is not masculine enough to provide for you and his family. So you raise his children then he lays claims to finished products.
. Baby mamas take it a step further by eliminating the stress by letting the father or some other man provide, but that model can only last for so long before you go back to singlemotherhood.

My solution is simple, if you are not ready to shoulder the responsibility of single parenthood. Don't get pregnant by employing any suitable contraception method. if you do, abort that weak spawn from a weak man at the hands of a licensed professional. If that is not your cup of tea. Go through hormonal changes and increasing belly for 9 months, go into labor and experience the worst pain in your life and don't let that cuteness and helpless package decive you into cutting your options short and not pursuing your ambition for longer than 3 months. Wrap the child in a Christmas basket and kindly drop him off at his/her father's door and watch of he won't take care of his child. Men do what they do be cause they know u will pick up their slack while it is business as usual with the latest skirt in town. Responsibility. Ladies don't overburden our orphanges. Let the father raise up his child. Learn your lesson, pick up

pieces and move on with your life.

To the ladies out there don't allow a man to play bet9ja with your womb

Declaimer: This doesn't apply to widows or women who want and can afford to care for a child without the other package

ubunja:
I tasted that one already. I want yours.

sweetilicious:
Go away Mbok

ubunja:
not without my breast... give me

olaboy1:
Using a sociopathic solution to solve a psychopathic problem will not end well.
What happens if the irresponsible sperm punter forgets to take his sick baby to the hospital and the baby dies, would the outcome make you feel better and sleep well at night.

I know this piece is meant to provoke a debate, but keep in mind the repercussions are too enormous for the society. I wouldn’t advice a father to dump his baby with a savage mother either. It’s better you channel your campaign to legalizing abortion in Nigeria.

MariaLavina:
Funministicqueen is plain evil! She's the most insensitive, selfish, extreme, illogical, heartless and narrow minded lady I have ever seen on this forum.All started from fighting for woman's right online to this pathetic write up.

I can't imagine how a sane being will write all this epistle without ever pondering on a simple question : Will the man irresponsible enough to reject the pregnancy care about the child? What will be the fate of the child. Op doesn't simply care.
It is so pathetic to see this thread from a WOMAN!

Martinez19:
Worse is that she is a christian.

MariaLavina:
Funministicqueen is plain evil! She's the most insensitive, selfish, extreme, illogical, heartless and narrow minded lady I have ever seen on this forum.All started from fighting for woman's right online to this pathetic write up.

I can't imagine how a sane being will write all this epistle without ever pondering on a simple question : Will the man irresponsible enough to reject the pregnancy care about the child? What will be the fate of the child. Op doesn't simply care.
It is so pathetic to see this thread from a WOMAN!

funmisticqueen:
muhahahahahahahahahHaha!!!!!

I agree thAt I am the reincarnation of evil. In fact you can now call me Lilith, Adam's first wife. You and your womb is my next target. I will come for your corruption soon daughter of eve.

ubunja:
I love this new Funmistic. it's sexy when a girl ain't fighting men.
Funmistic call me and get your dick reward. Its waiting.

funmisticqueen:
hahahahahaaha. I cant just stop laughing

Martinez19:
Lol. While I agree with some of the things you say, as an atheist, I no longer find it surprising to see christians filled with hate and a bad attitude. Gone are the days when christians led by example. Today if they do evil and you tell them to be like christ and start quoting scriptures, they no send, "who be Jesus?" to them, Jesus is not for serious matters. Maybe I am assuming too much, are you a Christian or an atheist like me?

Happy NEW YEAR.

funmisticqueen:
I believe in God. I just dont suscribe to boxed up narrow minded religion.

funmisticqueen:
lol. Happy new year.

Martinez19:
Lol. While I agree with some of the things you say, as an atheist, I no longer find it surprising to see christians filled with hate and a bad attitude. Gone are the days when christians led by example. Today if they do evil and you tell them to be like christ and start quoting scriptures, they no send, "who be Jesus?" to them, Jesus is not for serious matters. Maybe I am assuming too much, are you a Christian or an atheist like me?

Happy NEW YEAR.

ubunja:
what do atheists say during sex since they don't believe in God?

Martinez19:
"Oh, no god! Fvck me harder"

Martinez19:
Hmmmmm, good for you. So do you believe in a deistic god or the christian god while not being "religious" about the whole christian thing?

Martinez19:
"Oh, no god! Fvck me harder"

funmisticqueen:
muhahahahahahahahahHaha!!!!!

I agree thAt I am the reincarnation of evil. In fact you can now call me Lilith, Adam's first wife. You and your womb is my next target. I will come for your corruption soon daughter of eve.

ubunja:
I love this new Funmistic. it's sexy when a girl ain't fighting men.
Funmistic call me and get your dick reward. Its waiting.

Kidaholic:


Oga face front abeg she's taken!

funmisticqueen:
what if he was the only one she slept with?

PrimadonnaO:
I like that...if he gets you pregnant and won't take full responsibility, wrap up the sweet little baby and drop in his house.

Then let the script play out.