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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by paul5378(m): 11:53pm On Jan 07
missyblissy:
Never, ever depend on any guy, make your own money!!!!

Be that independent woman and no man will treat you like trash!!!! The ball willbe in your court!!!

Experienced it many years ago and vowed it will never happen again!


women are generally liers, she loved me because I was the CEO of my team. never trust a girl or give them reasonable .money

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Kneebow(m): 11:53pm On Jan 07
Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted.  Isaiah 53;4


But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5


All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the LORD hath laid on him the iniquity of us all.  Isaiah 53:6


For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him. 2 Corinthians 5;21

Come to Jesus, Don't delay

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by PrinceBBlack(m): 11:53pm On Jan 07
obembet:
It's very bad to cheat, that is my regret so far that make me lose the man of my dream.I wish he can give me second chance but God knows the best

Share yours guys

yes you have realized ur mistake but truth is u have realized ur errors so move on. The true man is waiting for you out there only if u happen to be true with urself. That ur not with him means he is not eveb the one but just a memoir for you to realize ur misdeeds and become a better person.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Donlexino: 11:56pm On Jan 07
mikaelangelov:
It's not yet an ex relationship but I believe by weekend it will be.

I've been too easy and simple for the bae aswear, and even she herself says that, I girl I've never shouted on before, never cheated on her, she will never say that I've failed getting her whatever she's requested for, a girl that I've fed comfortably since early 2018 till now, just name it, yet bae still got the guts to cheat me countless times, cheated on me with random guys that can't even match my shoes even though they're all older than I am, aborted babies for them and I still care for her, buying her life relief drugs during the recuperating stages thinking it's menstrual related issues, got her a job so she wouldn't be idle, best way she could make me proud is to become a cum-bag to her boss who offers her nothing, just because they all offer her marriage which I don't want to tell her first because I want her to learn a skill this 2019 first, before I'll think about tying the knot with her, my only crime was loving her too much, well next 60 days I'll be moving permanently to Copenhagen so I guess marrying a white chick is the next thing,

infact I know that I've reached my boiling point and enough is enough,
Guy you where really a scumbag and mugu number one to her that's why she never loved and valued you...as a man you think with your brain and not with ur dick...i believe u have learnt your lessons, that is if you won't fall mugu again for another olosho

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by elonize(m): 11:57pm On Jan 07
Adebowale89:
I learnt that, going extra mile to satisfy a partner doesn't worth it.

After my always meeting up. my ex biitch was never satisfy so I let go of her till she met her Waterloo that she's still nursing for years


Don't go extra mile to satisfy a lady and stop spending on a lady you don't see future with.
personal advice, dnt try it even if u c d girl as future wife,ntin is certain untill it is certain

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Yoighaman(m): 11:57pm On Jan 07
Lesson: You sometimes can't tell how much you love someone until that person is gone.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by JasonScoolari: 11:57pm On Jan 07
NessaBoo:
Ja..sonScoolari

Coman tell me something!! grin
Lol, I have been single from birth. grin

Tell me something Nessa.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by pryme(m): 12:04am On Jan 08
Just because a lady is sexy doesn't make her a good companion.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Omenka87(m): 12:04am On Jan 08
some females are after help not love so b careful , I have quickly learnt to differentiate between help and love

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by NessaBoo(f): 12:05am On Jan 08
JasonScoolari:
Lol, I have been single from birth. grin

Tell me something Nessa.

If I believe, then that means I also believe PDP never looted Nigeria.

I can only imagine the trail of broken hearts you might have left in your wake.

Please, Open up now so you can get good advice from well meaning Nlanders. cheesy
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 12:05am On Jan 08
Yoighaman:

Oya come, let us rub minds smiley
Me, I want to rub something else...
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 12:07am On Jan 08
mikaelangelov:
It's not yet an ex relationship but I believe by weekend it will be.

I've been too easy and simple for the bae aswear, and even she herself says that, I girl I've never shouted on before, never cheated on her, she will never say that I've failed getting her whatever she's requested for, a girl that I've fed comfortably since early 2018 till now, just name it, yet bae still got the guts to cheat me countless times, cheated on me with random guys that can't even match my shoes even though they're all older than I am, aborted babies for them and I still care for her, buying her life relief drugs during the recuperating stages thinking it's menstrual related issues, got her a job so she wouldn't be idle, best way she could make me proud is to become a cum-bag to her boss who offers her nothing, just because they all offer her marriage which I don't want to tell her first because I want her to learn a skill this 2019 first, before I'll think about tying the knot with her, my only crime was loving her too much, well next 60 days I'll be moving permanently to Copenhagen so I guess marrying a white chick is the next thing,

infact I know that I've reached my boiling point and enough is enough,

Hmmmmm. It is well with you
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Yoighaman(m): 12:07am On Jan 08
chiefqueen:

Me, I want to rub something else...

grin Ok o...rub it well o and make sure your body shakes like a fish thrown out of water cheesy

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by wisdompeters35(m): 12:08am On Jan 08
Never beg a Girl to Love you. Never Never Never. A good relationship is bound on money. Forget about what they say it is all theoretical. The practical aspect is that money or little of it makes good relationship. If you don't have it and feel like having sex paid for it. Don't disturb yourself on any girl until u r very ok financially. If she treat you bad I tell u, u will have the last laugh at this stage.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by PrinceBBlack(m): 12:09am On Jan 08
Well for me, i had a girl who i met in 2016. She is currently in her final year and i work with Nigerian Breweries in Enugu. I give this babe a monthly allowance of 50k while she doesnt even get 10k from being that her parents are in the village and he uncle gives her schoolfees.
First, i realized that i loved her so much with my heart that i forgot to use my head. I had a car accident in 2017. i was in the hospital for four months and then relocated to Ibadan where i was till september in 2018 where i was recouperating getting ready for a final surgery. I got her an Iphone X in that same september. In october, i told her that i was no longer getting salary that i wont be able to keep up with the 50k allowance but i could still manage 25k. Do u believe this girl said she cant come to Ibadan cos its far to visit and that i reduced the allowance i give her that what is 25k going to do for her. She finally said if i cant carry out my duty as a bf, that i should let her be. Well it was easy for me... i could part with the money but i personally sent someone to collect the Iphone X i bought for her and told her that the phone isnt my problem but she is an ungrateful piece of a person. Broke up with her and the phone is still in my wardrobe with full accessories since its not up to 1month i bought it waiting for the next person. I didnt love with my head but loved with my heart. If u dont take care of them, na war, if u do, na still wahala.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by N0favors: 12:09am On Jan 08
obembet:
It's very bad to cheat, that is my regret so far that make me lose the man of my dream.I wish he can give me second chance but God knows the best

Share yours guys

They said you’re fine. Can we see your picture?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Originalsly: 12:12am On Jan 08
obembet:


It's very bad to cheat, that is my regret so far that make me lose the man of my dream.I wish he can give me second chance but God knows the best

Share yours guys


Hmmm.... confessing your dream relationship ended because you cheated. I'm impressed.
@topic...... always give your woman enough attention.... not what you think is enough...but what she thinks will do.... if she is reasonable!

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by NUJABEZ: 12:12am On Jan 08
larryking540:
No matter how beautiful a lady is,her heart might not be beautiful, and no matter how ugly a lady is her heart might not be as ugly as she is,

Look b4 u leap, ,,,,some females are after help not love so b careful , I have quickly learnt to differentiate between help and love when asking a lady out


Please teach me. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. I don't wanna fall a victim.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 12:13am On Jan 08
josephogaga:
To invest on my girlfriend
invest Ke? You well so?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by JasonScoolari: 12:14am On Jan 08
NessaBoo:


If I believe, then that means I also believe PDP never looted Nigeria.

I can only imagine the trail of broken hearts you might have left in your wake.

Please, Open up now so you can get good advice from well meaning Nlanders. cheesy
Lmfao! Well, I can only open up to you privately. grin
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by udemzyudex(m): 12:16am On Jan 08
ValCon888:

No matter how many orgasms you give her, she'll still leave you if you don't have money.

This is deep.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 12:16am On Jan 08
yrex01:
Never trust girl with big forehead !! I repeat never trust girl with big forehead !!
expatiate on this pls

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Jummyju: 12:16am On Jan 08
Nobeluscabral:
Nairalanders you all should be careful when dealing with people.

This dude called Nobelus Cabral scammed me of 800 euros two weeks ago. He promised to pay back by 27th of December when he gets his Paycheck by December 27th but when it was time to pay he blocked me on Facebook, and blocked my 3 numbers on WhatsApp.


The dude reside in Georgia USA and he's feeling that there's nothing that can be done to get him down.
The Internet is a world of its own when I'm done tarnishing this fraudster image he will sure get deported.

My aunt tried sending the money to me to Nigeria through western union but it always get cancelled so i decided to use this dude in USA and agreed he was going to credit me directly to my Naija account after pick up which he agreed and i even told him to take 15% and send the rest. This greedy idiot took everything and blocked me, i still can't believe nobelus would do such to me, money meant for my parents i can't even sleeping with at home again without my dad using words to hurt me and call me demeaning names like" Hungry thief" ur mates are working and you are stealing money your sister is sending to us.

Nobelus you will never go Scott free, never!!!

You think you can scam me of my hard earned 800 euros and go Scott free? Brother I'll tarnish your image everywhere.

His phone number/WhatsApp +16786814379
Facebook name - Nobelus Cabral
and you bear his name....

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 12:20am On Jan 08
highdon:
Now dat I've tasted all girls including u, Yes!!!!! I've
tasted.........Suwaiba,Maryam,Aisha,Aminat,Fa
itimah,Hassanah,Zainab,Miriam,Chioma,Folashad
e,Temitope,Pease,Mercy,Chinwe,Stella,Okikiola
,Chidinma,Ngozi,Chiamka,Oluchi,Yemisi,Ewa,Eni
ola,Bolade,Seyi,Funke,Ronke,Tope,Tosin,Funmi, Faithia,Lola,Gift,Loveth,Gloria, Busola, Sayo, Nifemi,
Grace, Ashabi, Angel, Serah, Nike, Onome,
Charity,Romok Ruth,Taiwo,Toyin,Titilayo,Quee
n,Charity,Chinelo,Agnes,Ekther,EmmatEmamIMabong
and so on (basedom on populal request). thanks 2
Coca for makin me realize dose girls are the same!!!!!! Just 4 fun
I no see ekaette or any calabar girl for your list

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Yoshy: 12:20am On Jan 08
chiefqueen:
I've been in a relationship with only myself since I was born. I learnt that I need to start loving other people besides me. Single bell �, single all the way...


Hey queen, I like you. But I know your type is very dangerous, I like danger shia.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Admssnhelp: 12:20am On Jan 08
larryking540:
No matter how beautiful a lady is,her heart might not be beautiful, and no matter how ugly a lady is her heart might not be as ugly as she is,

Look b4 u leap, ,,,,some females are after help not love so b careful , I have quickly learnt to differentiate between help and love when asking a lady out
this is what I am passing through now. please brothers always look before you leap. there are dangerous girls out there who are ready to destroy any man for their own gain. I hate women I swear. they pretend alot and most of them are green snake under the green grass.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 12:20am On Jan 08
chiefqueen:

Hymen still intact. Clit not responsive. That bitch.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Eberechi24(f): 12:21am On Jan 08
mikaelangelov:
It's not yet an ex relationship but I believe by weekend it will be.

I've been too easy and simple for the bae aswear, and even she herself says that, I girl I've never shouted on before, never cheated on her, she will never say that I've failed getting her whatever she's requested for, a girl that I've fed comfortably since early 2018 till now, just name it, yet bae still got the guts to cheat me countless times, cheated on me with random guys that can't even match my shoes even though they're all older than I am, aborted babies for them and I still care for her, buying her life relief drugs during the recuperating stages thinking it's menstrual related issues, got her a job so she wouldn't be idle, best way she could make me proud is to become a cum-bag to her boss who offers her nothing, just because they all offer her marriage which I don't want to tell her first because I want her to learn a skill this 2019 first, before I'll think about tying the knot with her, my only crime was loving her too much, well next 60 days I'll be moving permanently to Copenhagen so I guess marrying a white chick is the next thing,

infact I know that I've reached my boiling point and enough is enough,
Chai, some babes dey misbehave o.

People wey get nyash no sabi sit. People wey sabi sit no come get nyash. Uwa nka self. Life is unfair

still on still, don't be what you are not because of your bad encounter with one. be smart while being good

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Legacy100: 12:24am On Jan 08
mikaelangelov:
It's not yet an ex relationship but I believe by weekend it will be.

I've been too easy and simple for the bae aswear, and even she herself says that, I girl I've never shouted on before, never cheated on her, she will never say that I've failed getting her whatever she's requested for, a girl that I've fed comfortably since early 2018 till now, just name it, yet bae still got the guts to cheat me countless times, cheated on me with random guys that can't even match my shoes even though they're all older than I am, aborted babies for them and I still care for her, buying her life relief drugs during the recuperating stages thinking it's menstrual related issues, got her a job so she wouldn't be idle, best way she could make me proud is to become a cum-bag to her boss who offers her nothing, just because they all offer her marriage which I don't want to tell her first because I want her to learn a skill this 2019 first, before I'll think about tying the knot with her, my only crime was loving her too much, well next 60 days I'll be moving permanently to Copenhagen so I guess marrying a white chick is the next thing,

infact I know that I've reached my boiling point and enough is enough,
you no wise sha
How babe go abort and you still de date am
Which weed you smoke

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 12:25am On Jan 08
elonize:
How do u view smbdy dp here ,n chat dem up
na wetin carry you come here be that?

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Just2endowed2(m): 12:26am On Jan 08
PrinceBBlack:
Well for me, i had a girl who i met in 2016. She is currently in her final year and i work with Nigerian Breweries in Enugu. I give this babe a monthly allowance of 50k while she doesnt even get 10k from being that her parents are in the village and he uncle gives her schoolfees.
First, i realized that i loved her so much with my heart that i forgot to use my head. I had a car accident in 2017. i was in the hospital for four months and then relocated to Ibadan where i was till september in 2018 where i was recouperating getting ready for a final surgery. I got her an Iphone X in that same september. In october, i told her that i was no longer getting salary that i wont be able to keep up with the 50k allowance but i could still manage 25k. Do u believe this girl said she cant come to Ibadan cos its far to visit and that i reduced the allowance i give her that what is 25k going to do for her. She finally said if i cant carry out my duty as a bf, that i should let her be. Well it was easy for me... i could part with the money but i personally sent someone to collect the Iphone X i bought for her and told her that the phone isnt my problem but she is an ungrateful piece of a person. Broke up with her and the phone is still in my wardrobe with full accessories since its not up to 1month i bought it waiting for the next person. I didnt love with my head but loved with my heart. If u dont take care of them, na war, if u do, na still wahala.

Wickedness at its peak. Sorry Bro. This one of the reason one will be scared to show one heart to a lady.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by paul5378(m): 12:26am On Jan 08
wisdompeters35:
Never beg a Girl to Love you. Never Never Never. A good relationship is bound on money. Forget about what they say it is all theoretical. The practical aspect is that money or little of it makes good relationship. If you don't have it and feel like having sex paid for it. Don't disturb yourself on any girl until u r very ok financially. If she treat you bad I tell u, u will have the last laugh at this stage.




sooooo true, wen money enter love is sweeter

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