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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Kei144(m): 1:45pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
In a dream? How?

If you are in Christ, when you are alone, call his name and tell him that since he now belongs to the dead and you still belong to the living, he should no longer appear to you. "I stop you from appearing to me by the Holy Spirit of God, in the name of Jesus Christ!"

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 1:46pm On Jan 20
Penisinpenisout:



Your friend means you no harm, but he lingers around you, even as you type this. You can only see him in your dreams

Nope he does not linger. He is dead and gone. Obtaining spiritual institutions for either his next life. That soul has nothing to do with earth again for now. However, because of the bond he shares with his dead friend, he moves into the dream plane and continues to enjoy such moment.

The mind of a powerful tool. Understanding it makes you a better human. You don’t need a pastor for that. Infact the day you gain mastery of your mind, you will sack your pastor and chase him out for all the lies he and his church had told you
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by bluefilm: 1:47pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
I've done some things for him earlier especially immediately after his sudden death. He came in the dream some time ago and showed a document his mum was searching for weeks at their house. I went to their house that morning, got inside his room and brought out the documents from where he hid them exactly the place he showed me in the dream.

Recently, it's about a lady I don't even know and haven't met. In the dream, he had her as girlfriend and was about to propose. When the time came for that, I suddenly couldn't see him near me so I proposed to the girl on his behalf giving her a reason that my friend was shy.(I mean who does such) It was just real and he later showed up and started laughing sheepishly.

There are more stories and the thing is that I never thought about him before sleeping.

Hey people!

Believe this; you'll believe anything.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by obinnaoduduwa: 1:48pm On Jan 20
I have friends that are late most times I see them in my dreams,is notting.this most times happen when you too are close,or you thought of the person,this thing in in your mind ,is in your subconscious that why Notting else and dnt cage your self with nonsense believe

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 1:48pm On Jan 20
Kei144:


If you are in Christ, when you are alone, call his name and tell him that since he now belongs to the dead and you still belong to the living, he should no longer appear to you. "I stop you from appearing to me by the Holy Spirit of God, in the name of Jesus Christ!"

Imagine this nonsense. Do you understand dreams? You are a creator when you dream. Who are you rebuking in dreams - YOURSELF!!!!

Grow up please

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Penisinpenisout(m): 1:49pm On Jan 20
Boss13:


Nope he does not linger. He is dead and gone. Obtaining spiritual institutions for either his next life. That soul has nothing to do with earth again for now. However, because of the bond he shares with his dead friend, he moves into the dream plane and continues to enjoy such moment.

The mind of a powerful tool. Understanding it makes you a better human. You don’t need a pastor for that. Infact the day you gain mastery of your mind, you will sack your pastor and chase him out for all the lies he and his church had told you

I didn't even say shiit about pastor. Where the fvck are this assumption coming from?
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by samuelson06(m): 1:51pm On Jan 20
Ishilove:
It happens when a bond is so deep that even when death comes, that bond is not terminated. However, the living and the dead have nothing in common, and when the spirit of the dead keeps visiting you then it's time to put a stop to it. It's very dangerous.

You've touch it, but to add more to what you've said, his death maybe very close. @op You needs to separate yourself from this so-called friend. It's a familiar spirit that is taking advantage of the bond you had with your friend to lure you to death. Your friend isn't the one showing up in your dream but a demon and you need to stop that demon before he stops you. I'm just summarizing the whole thing.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Kendrick80(m): 1:51pm On Jan 20
Passionate888:
Ask him every night you see him to give you sure 6 odds.
This is funny cheesy.....naija grin

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 1:52pm On Jan 20
Angelawhite:


It’s bond. The bond was strong . I lost my mom 16 years ago and she still appears in my dreams. When a person has become part of your subconscious, it’s difficult to erase that memory . I lost my childhood friend 10 years ago - I see him occasionally in my dreams. It’s just that the bond formed part of your history and shaped most of your belief systems . It’s like it’s been ingrained in your blood. Can you forget the smell of fried plantains?

Well said - pastors have made people so scared of their dreams. By doing so, they miss the beauty of dreams, understanding dreams and utilizing it to your own benefits.

Dream is a very important tool to communicate with your creator. It’s even the easiest way your creator or yourself, via your subconscious, can communicate to YOU.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by larryking540: 1:52pm On Jan 20
Uyi168:
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We can't always control what happens in the dreams

Only the strong headed ask questions in dream, it's a gift, while some just day look inside dream, in my dream I ask questions die, somethings are not new to me mostly after dreaming...
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so close that we shared clothes and some people thought we were blood brothers.

I discussed this with his mum sometime ago and she told me she had a feeling her dead son was existing somewhere and that got me thinking. Could this be true?

.

what you think about subconsciously is what you dream about.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by PlanckTime: 1:53pm On Jan 20
tolugar:
Engage him in a discussion.


He maybe trying to pass a message.




HE SAID IN DREAM, HOW POSSIBLE FOR YOU TO PLAN IN REAL WORLD AND CARRY IT OUT IN DREAM?


THE THE GUY DIED A SUDDEN DEATH(ONWU-IKE) IN IGBO. HE MUST BE EXISTING SOMEWHERE AND ALWAYS SEE HIS LIVING FRIEND.

OP SEEK ADVICE FROM ELDERLY PEOPLE, NA KIDS FULL HERE

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by lekbel09: 1:54pm On Jan 20
Guy this is a serious situation and I will ask you some pertinent questions

1.Do you have a hand in his death
2.If your answer to question 1 is no ,you need to get close to God I like to believe vthat you a Christian and pray hard ,there should be nothing connecting you with the dead guy cos the dead has nothing to do with the living .
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by lekbel09: 1:55pm On Jan 20
samuelson06:


You've touch it, but to add more to what you've said, his death maybe very close. @op You needs to separate yourself from this so-called friend. It's a familiar spirit that is taking advantage of the bond you had with your friend to lure you to death. Your friend isn't the one showing up in your dream but a demon and you need to stop that demon before he stops you. I'm just summarizing the whole thing.
correct talk the OP needs to pray seriously cos it's bad omen
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by solite3(m): 1:56pm On Jan 20
You are dealing with a demon spirit masquerading as a dead friend. That spirit is not your friend.

Hebrews 9:27 And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment:

Your friend has gone to face judgement before God.


Ecclesiastes 12:7 Then shall the dust return to the earth as it was: and : the spirit shall return unto God who gave it.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Segedinho: 1:56pm On Jan 20
Boss13:


Nothing wrong with the length of time. In spiritual world time and space do not exist.

He misses his friend. The person he sees is not his friend but a recreation of his friend’s image by his subconscious mind. His subconscious mind wants to communicate with him. Who is a better image than a friend he loves and misses.
Seems u ignore the part he was sent 2 deliver a certain document wch he did found at exactly dsame place he was instructed 2 go. .d deceased mother has checked 4 same document 4 abt a week but couldn't find it.......so how does one subconscious mind interweave wt this

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Mariangeles: 1:59pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so close that we shared clothes and some people thought we were blood brothers.

I discussed this with his mum sometime ago and she told me she had a feeling her dead son was existing somewhere and that got me thinking. Could this be true?

.
Cc: Nnamdiosu
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by rayobaba(m): 2:00pm On Jan 20
Kenneth4u205:
he died before fulfuling his goals and passion. What's happening now is that he want to possese you and use your body to fulfil this pass ions. Passion for se.x, etc. But from your experience of seeing him always, it means he has already possessed you and living out his life through you. That's why your mood suddenly changes and you behave unlike yourself sometimes
omo see conclusion ooooo. Chai. Nairalanders!
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Dawinlove(m): 2:00pm On Jan 20
its simple,pray and tell God to separate you from the dead. What fellowship has the living with the dead or what bond. The dead is gone and has nothing among the living, seeing the dead means a yoke, spirit of death, hunting ones destiny and you need to fast and get out of it.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 2:01pm On Jan 20
woodrow:


A pastor/imam/religious leader is a human being just like anybody.your life should not depend on either one of them.
Obviously from your post u have something against pastors cos I made no mention of anything about pastors but real life talk
If u feel seeing ur mum is cool,no problem.keep communicating...is it my communication? Nothing in life happens by mistake.there would have been a plan from the onset.either u r religious or an atheist,what wld be wld be.
Live right,live your life..we all die one day.cheers.

Yes I do - they have destroyed the fabric of our spiritual existence. They have confused young souls and led them astray. They claim to be wise, but are foolish. They claim to have knowledge, but know nothing about the spiritual worlds. They are like magicians or tricksters that have no special skills.

If you read comments - it’s echos the teachings of false and ignorant pastors. It took me a while to break free from ignorant pastors and now I’m wiser. I am better. I understand myself more. I am a seeker. I now have a better understanding of death and why we are here on earth.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Malawian(m): 2:03pm On Jan 20
I see my Dad in my dream. Irony is I know he is gone even in the dream, but somehow, it seems he died and came back to life. I don't know what it means.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Jesse25(m): 2:04pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so close that we shared clothes and some people thought we were blood brothers.

I discussed this with his mum sometime ago and she told me she had a feeling her dead son was existing somewhere and that got me thinking. Could this be true?

.
You need to pray tell your pastor about it
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by engees001(m): 2:05pm On Jan 20
Is not normal,he might be trying 2 take u along.seek a spiritual help
MajorJeffery:
I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so close that we shared clothes and some people thought we were blood brothers.

I discussed this with his mum sometime ago and she told me she had a feeling her dead son was existing somewhere and that got me thinking. Could this be true?

.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by rayobaba(m): 2:05pm On Jan 20
RhemaDavids:
I keep seeing my self in my previous place of work, although I have stopped working there for over two years but I always see my self going back there to work, even when where I am now is far more better. the dream Is becoming constant and I can't place anything to it.
really! Things are happening
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by victorian(f): 2:06pm On Jan 20
Boss13:


That’s why you dream of them because you miss them. Your subconscious mind is recreating this beautiful scenes with them. Listen deep to what they tell you, your mind is communicating with you.

When you practice this with discipline- you will begin to gain mastery of your life.







Sighs I miss them so so much ! cry

I listen to them and I always remember when I wake up .

they've helped me in solving serious issues in real life when am stuck wit problems . Theyve been a great help to me in this world and they also advice me , which I use on my daily life . sometimes I feel their presence around me in real life . Have disciplined my mind and subconscious in such a way that I get to hear their voice especially if am in a very tight corner and looking for a way out. If not for my mum sharp voice, who told me to quickly stepped on my brakes when I was about to crash and somersault with my car , I would have been in ICU by now . Because there and then I was confused as my car was about to crash but she quickly said , step on the brakes now! And I did. Just few seconds I would have hit a bridge and somesaulted cos I was confused but she came quickly on time to diffuse my confused mind . People watching me from the road just placed their hands on their heads with screams thinking have already crashed but my car stop! With my leg firmly on the brakes. I was in shock! Until a man walked up to me with uncertain looks and calmly direct me to drive slowly to a nearby filling station to park and get my self back!

Honestly I thank God I can still connect with them.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 2:06pm On Jan 20
Segedinho:

Seems u ignore the part he was sent 2 deliver a certain document wch he did found at exactly dsame place he was instructed 2 go. .d deceased mother has checked 4 same document 4 abt a week but couldn't find it.......so how does one subconscious mind interweave wt this

Honestly, I don’t understand your comment. However, I know that if you have the discipline and mastery of your subconscious - you can get whatever you want.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by ekesoft(m): 2:07pm On Jan 20
Next time take your camera to the dream snap him.....maybe old pal want to still do 10yrs challenge... grin grin




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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by pacespot: 2:07pm On Jan 20
Ishilove:

He is actually saying the truth, although it's not your portion. Seeing a dead person constantly in the dream will eventually take your enemy to the corridor of premature death.

What are your religious beliefs?


I trust nairalanders to strike a hell of fear out of OP for creating a thread like this, using their African superstitious interpretation to explain their view on issue like this.

Seeing a dead person in your dream is mostly because you are dreaming about the past (place, things, school, etc.) both of you shared together. The only problem with OP is that he might currently be in a situation he is not happy with, which causes him to be dreaming about his past, like seeing yourself in secondary school while you have already completed your university education. Such a dream has much more to do with OP's current situation rather than any spiritual attack. If he could change his place to a location where he would be happier, or had a more financial success, I can assure OP his nightmare will disappear.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Mcy56: 2:08pm On Jan 20
sparta231:
u watch too much yoruba film
I tell you. His comment got me lol. So the Op should engage a spirit in a discussion, no be small thing grin

@Op, dont mind those telling you its normal, it is not. 10yrs is too long to be seeing a death person, you even see him like 3 or more times in a week. shocked
I hope you are not the architect of his untimely death. If their be any ties between the two of you, you need prayers to break it.
If you keep taking the dream for granted and think its normal, hhmmm, I pray he doesnt come and take you with him one day. Dont wait till then.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by pascal558(m): 2:10pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so close that we shared clothes and some people thought we were blood brothers.

I discussed this with his mum sometime ago and she told me she had a feeling her dead son was existing somewhere and that got me thinking. Could this be true?

.
first step engage him to know what he want, and you can do this by focusing your taughts on it before going to bed, do this for like a week!! If he does not respond well or say something meaningful, in your next dreams try to tell him that the dead and the living have no business together... It may be difficult to control what you do in dreams, but when you keep feeding your mind constantly with it, you will be able to do it in dreams.... It might be a sign of that something is coming, have u been to the hospital lately or have any health related stuff?? ... Secondly i dont really think its your friend, demons use faces to torment individuals too!

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