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Race hate in action. If some people here were born white they'd be the worst racists on earth. |
The speech made nothing worse . . . whites who were looking for an excuse not to vote for a black man now have a valid excuse. Were Obama to personally execute Rev Wright, it will still not be enough for those hiding their racism behind a mask of self righteousness. |
Aging gracefully. |
olabowale:Christ came to earth as both fully God and fully man. As God he forgave sins, healed the sick, raised the dead, brought salvation to our hearts and died on the cross for our ransom . . . As man he was hungry, he slept, he felt pain, he was tired, he pleaded that the cup of the cross would pass over Him BUT here is the clincher . . . while you sir are stuck mocking His tears at gethsemane, that same Jesus bore His cross, took His stripes and died on the cross for you and me. That same Jesus is risen and is seated on the throne of heaven. While you mock about Him wishing the cup to pass over Him, He has already partaken of the cup and paid the price. Dear sir, stop looking back to 2000yrs ago. |
Eziachi:this is the real issue, Palestinians deserve their freedom but from whom? Certainly not Israel. Who are the "palestinians"? the name palestine is greco-roman, was named after the philistines (who had nothing to do with arabs) and was attributed to a jew living in the area pre-1948. so who are these arabs now claiming to be palestinians? There was no such clamour for a palestinian state until 1988, when the "occupied territories" were in Jordanian and Egyptian hands where were these "palestinian" arabs? What land are they now claiming? Can Nigerian refugees show up in Canada demanding "independence"? |
stillwater:Allow him to fumble his way to his own downfall. Alhaji pls continue ur sermon. |
DRANOEL:To start with, there have always been Jews in Palestine . . . to continue to perpetuate the lie of Zionist immigration does not make it true. Yes thousands of jews started migrating back to Israel from all over the world from the 19th century but that shld not be reason to deny that there were thousands more who have ALWAYS lived there. It was Mark Twain who in the early 1800s declared in his newspaper column that Palestine was a wasteland . . . where were the arabs? Your question is pretty much a strawman's argument . . . the British opposed our independence too so what is the essence of ur question? That the Brits opposed Israeli immigration to Palestine because it no longer belonged to them? The most pertinent question you shld be asking is HOW Jordan suddenly became a nation on 85% of the former British mandate of Palestine. There never was a nation called Jordan before then and the first king of Jordan was a hashemite of the saudi royal family. . . . Rather proganda theorists like you and your ilk would rather cry about the less than 15% of the land that jews currently occupy. |
DRANOEL, start reading history from before the 2nd world war. I'll be back to debunk your lies . . . No one is surprised, when you repeat a lie often enough it begins to sound like the truth. |
DRANOEL:That is incredulously false. Have you ever bothered to read your history books? Did you know that there are documented census of Palestine in 1893 and 1902 clearly indicating that there were a sizeable population of jews in Israel? |
pahtahkee:bros enjoy. morenike09:My dear happy easter o . . . i get work so i cant be in church. I'll go on sunday . . . opps its super 4 sunday in the EPL. |
pahtahkee:O boy, you too old for all this immature stuff. |
2 girls |
stillwater:gbam! nothing i can add here. You're still having doubts then keep her as a girlfriend . . . save her the added heartache of having to decide what to do with ur ring. nwando:See, SU folks spoilt the true meaning of being engaged. They have used it as their own version of boyfriend and girlfriend that is why most of us dont understand what it means anymore. |
®~^Sly^~®:thanks A good woman isnt hard to find, the problem is that most of us dont know exactly what we want (me inclusive). Once we define it the right woman will show up. One other lesson i've learnt . . . there is no perfect woman out there . . . . be ready to take the good with some bad. |
Nwando, na there me and you go differ. Engagement should not be the 4yrs it takes to graduate from college. Christians have bastardised engagement . . . because we dont want to sound like the world, because we dont want to call it dating and the other partner a girlfriend, we pretend that we are "engaged". This is where it starts for me . . . - a relationship - can last till marriage or until either one or both of the parties realise that they are not meant for each other. At this stage there is no firm commitment. You are basically just testing the waters. - Engagement - At this stage i have finally decided to commit to you and you to me. There is no going back from here. I dont believe in all these engagement lasting as long as methuselah's age. Highest 6 months u shld be married. |
nwando:that is true, but we didnt wait until we had promised marriage to the woman to cut and run. ®~^Sly^~®:My brother, marriage is sweet with the right woman. I aint married yet but i'm looking forward to it with a healthy dose of optimism. There will be problems but with God no mountain is insurmountable. |
nwando:I think i have an idea what kind of "engagement" u're talking about. When we were in college we had all this SU brothers and sisters hiding under the canopy of "we are engaged" to hook each other. 99% of those "engagements" never lasted. That is not my idea of engagement . . . until i am 150% sure i will marry u i will not mention marriage to you AT ALL. At that stage we both are fair game, if i see another chic i like its bye bye. I believe an engagement is not something to be rushed, it needs prayers and extensive consultations from ur friends, family, her family, ur church . . . once that stage is passed nothing else can separate me from that woman. All this "we are engaged" . . . just so as to avoid using the "worldly boyfriend and girlfriend" tag is not it. |
nwando:this is the part that gets me . . . how do u fall out of love with someone you wilfully engaged? I suppose u both had spent a good deal of time in a relationship before making the decision to get married to each other . . . |
®~^Sly^~®:Bros, once engaged there is nothing like away match again. I guess where i might differ with some is that i wont be engaging a girl if i were not 150% sure that is the woman i want to spend the rest of my life with. Once she has that ring nothing can part us again o. Engagement no be small thing o. |
nwando:Of course we know they are free . . . but if you think u'd rather marry another man then step up to me and let me know asap. Dont go around my back cheating and then using the "afterall we arent married" excuse. I see engagement as the first step to marital commitment, if u cant be faithful to that woman who u're not even married to neither can she trust you to be faithful 10yrs after marriage. |
Chinda3 . . . stop decieving urself. What if you were engaged to your fiance? You'd be comfortable that he's spending time with another woman? |
pahtahkee:No be me and you. I don old pass all this irrelevant bunkum. Enjoy. |
Bros the thing weak me abeg. ![]() |
nwando:But do u mean to advocate that another woman is free to "tap" up the brother while he is engaged to someone else? |
pahtahkee: wetin be this? |
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all things are possible. . .thats 1 thing for sure!

