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When will they send one to Nigeria?

How do we know if this is true without image or video?

Good development �

All styles without homely characters is prostitution.

Maybe your destiny already wasted by different girls.

LagosInter:
Lol.
Destiny wey never buy me bicycle.

Wetin she wan use am do naa?

First who told you that until you are financially buoyant that's when to marry? You have business and she has business, this is enough for you both to get a start. She is old enough being a female... Your gender is different from her gender...no time to check time. Additional 4 years to her age is much... Free her if you are not ready for her yet.

victooman:
Good day nairalanders,,
l met a beautiful and excellent girl during my Nysc, honestly she is everything l need in a woman,
We finish our service last year and started life in Abuja, she live with her sister and doing her own business while l live alone in the same town,, The problem now is that this girl mother is already pressurizing her for marriage,, she is 27 yrs and the mother is already making her looks like she is too old for marriage,, yesterday she came to my house looking all moody and worried,, when l enquired she told me her mom is asking her when the man she is dating will come home for introduction,, l took my time to explain things to her,we can't go into any marriage without been financially stable,l have a business l am running and l am looking at stability of that business in 3-4yrs time,,l told her l wont give you any specific date on when to come see her people ,,but l assured her if she stick with me God knows l wont think of any other woman during marriage,,, she told me her plan is to get married at 25yrs and l told her things dont always work out the way we plan them,, honestly l dont want to lose this girl and l also dont want to rush anything,, what do l do nairalanders...

She doesn't have financial discipline. She is a waster ready to devour your financial freedom. Be wise.

Will your colleagues be sleeping for the said five years?

Red flag

This is what Nigeria government needs.

Who no love good food?

Imortal001:
See chauling!
I love good food!

Going through the list, they are mostly Muslim. The problem of Nigeria is Islam.

RIP... Over Speed, Over joyous, playfulness, lack of concentration, drunkenness, bad roads, Talkativeness, witchcraft etc causes road accidents in Nigeria...

BadNews:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/6/six-bride-escorts-perish-in-fatal-accident-in-jigawa.html

Because she want to be a teacher, she should dress like sister's in the Lord abi? When a child is corrupt, he is corrupt. If a church accepts that type of dressing, why won't a school accept?

Oduskid111:
Hi guys,
I came across this picture on social media and I decided to send to some of my friends for them to share their thoughts on the teacher’s outfit.

The picture has been generating different reaction on social media too and we’d like to know what you guys think about it too.

Why will you be in a relationship without knowing the family and home of the person?

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I know it sounds too good to be true,but this lady is saying am not man enough for marriage,I need to go get money for her?,all the money we have been spending is enough to start businesses,yet she collects money baselessly,If am asked to trace her I can't self,I met her in a bedsitter then we moved to Warri, right now people are seeing me as crazy and she as the good person

Have you married her legally? If yes, divorce her from your life. If you have not married her legally, report her to the police both state Cid and your area police tell them she is threatening your life and you want her out of your life. But you must give the police money that will make them work.

DOWN2HeartLoved:
She threatened me with Vigilante in the GRA area am living that am frustrating her,what do I do?,I left everything I worked so hard for in the house����

This is happening to you because when you met her and when in relationship with her you were not thinking with your head but only thinking with your d.i.c.k

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

Buhari said that because he doesn't have a choice again. During the primary, Buhari and his wife were not happy when Tinubu was winning... You can all read that from their body language whenever Tinubu’s name were called. quote author=Lanrelagboi post=114015908]

[https://leadership.ng/2023-tinubu-is-my-preferred-successor-says-buhari/[/quote]

Your girlfriend admire and value you as boyfriend. She want to let you know that you are the only person in her life. She is proud to be your girlfriend. If you don't love and proud of her why still keeping her. Girlfriend and boyfriend is a relationship that could lead to marriage. If you cannot marry her, stop keeping her as a girlfriend. At least free her. Any girlfriend that want you to be in uniform with her in the presence of her family is because she want your type of man as a husband. Stop wasting her time with you.

Born2winnx:
Hello all
My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.

Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.

I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.

relationship is 3months
I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.

Na juju

Onogiede:
What's actually special about this man of a babe?, I need an answer ooh

Home is Home... Even Joseph was buried in his home.

Mode4:
I have been thinking why the few peeps I know including some of my distant uncles who spent most of their years abroad came back to Nigeria to live when they became old. Is there something awkward about growing old overseas?

Even my sister in the US, has been telling me that once she gets old, she will come back to Nigeria to spend the remainder of her life. Folks abroad, what's really going on? Is there a harsh reality for the aged over there?

She used you to shine by dumping you first instead of you to listened to the Nairalanders advice by dumping her first. Story here is that always read and obey the handwritten on the wall.

Alaigbopress:
I came to this Forum to complain about how my Girlfriend always posts pictures of her ex on her Status and uses his pictures as her screensaver.

Here is the link to the thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7133811/girlfriend-keeps-posting-ex-pictures

After her explanations which looked like Truth. We moved on and I have to make a Counter post where I nearly insulted Nairalanders who came to my help with loads of advice to dump the Girl. Here is the link to the second thread I made which also made the front page.

https://www.nairaland.com/7138678/lost-girl-friend-followed-advice

Please Nairalanders forgive me for not heeding to your advice, and also the way I spoke to You guys. I am really sorry about that.

This morning I woke up again and went through her Status and saw another guy she posted on her Status. Jokingly I asked her if this is the Okechukwu (not my name) she is talking about and putting Love Emorji for because she has done that several times. So I was expecting her to tell me that the guy is her Cousin or a relation and to my chagrin she told me the guy is her ex and that she just loves the picture.

I now reprimanded and scolded her that I had warned her not to post anything ex both pictures or videos on her Status. That was when this same girl told me that it is over between us that I complain a lot bla bla bla.

WHY AM I WRITING THIS
I am writing this to advise my fellow guys.
Guys please You have to be careful with these girls, some of them are very heartless, wicked and very manipulative.

Today I am joining the Redpill Gang full time.

Do your finding well before telling your friend. Don't send him any evidence and don't tell him when he hasn't come back home. Try to ask questions about the said guy. If possible, try to know where he stay.

Snap more of their pictures together as evidence. Don't tell your friend but show him the man's house and the man, ask him if he knows the man... Then you can now show him those pictures evidence.

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

You have a problem with your relationship guy. If your woman follow another man for a date or lunch which you are aware of, it means you have failed in the relationship as a man. Your woman should not be confident to tell you that she is following her bestie or sex mate for a date. Best thing to do is to get a female bestie and let her see them. Gather more female friends around you and let her know them. If she complain, tell her they are just your bestie. r

LaSenior:
oga this is a girl I am planning to marry even her family knows me too well

Am fine with her keeping male friends if her male besties are happy seeing her with me or happy knowing that she has a boyfriend and they decide to be Just friend

Her male besties wants to see her pants they want something more than besties with her
Besties wishing that she was dating them

Am not stupid to bring things here you are not in my shoes and you won't understand this till it gets to your turn

Either with marriage or not, man wey go beat you go beat you

Blue86:
Listening to the wisdom of the elders ( the bible) will go a long way in adding to your life.

Couples life without marriage is wrong.

And being in a marriage without the go ahead of the Lord Jesus, the author and the finisher of our faith, is wrong.

From your writeups, I can see that you are an IPOB and a tribalistic man... Speaking from emotion not from the reality.

MadamVanessa:



You got it all wrong dear.

what make these people popular is:

Tinubu : This one is popular because of his mouth odour and brown teeth, he's known to be urinating on his agbada, he's known to be imposing governors to Lagosians, he's known to be suffering from essential tremor, he's popular for being a drug baron, he's an unapologetic looter. Tinubu is popular for wrong reasons.


Atiku: This one is a thief and a looter, he's not even a Nigerian, rumour once had it that he's a Cameroonian.

Osibanjo: This one is popular for being so weak and clueless and reducing himself to a position of a mere commissioner and also, he's known to be Buhari house boy despite his strides in educational world.


Amaechi: This one is known to have betrayed the whole south south and lick the asses of Fulanis so he will be given a ministerial appointment by clueless Buhari and he succeeded.

Peter Obi: This noble young man is popular because he's widely loved by majority of Nigerians. The love and passion exuded by Peter Obi to serve and work assiduously to put Nigeria back on track is what endeared him to alot of people. God bless him.

Your mum should call family meeting between you guys and solve everything amicably. Your mum has more work to do here, we call this home training.

How will you know?

MITCHELL96:
Damn!

I won't put my kids in a school full with frustrated and Wicked Teachers, Never!

Your come be like some people anus.

This guy called actor na real mumu self... When did Osibanjo became president of Nigeria?

Nemere2020:
''I thought you are a person of God. You are faceless to me'' - Actor Aremu Afolayan tackles VP Osinbajo after he changed 6,500 Dihram in Dubai to N1 million



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/5/i-thought-you-are-a-person-of-god-you-are-faceless-to-me-actor-aremu-afolayan-tackles-vp-osinbajo-after-he-changed-6500-dihram-in-dubai-to-n1-million.html

"Hello guys, Nigeria is dead, Sincerely dead. I will show you why it's dead because if an economy of a Country is not growing, it's a burial ground." (Afolayan)

Discipline yourself, determination you won't do that again, stop masturbation and get a girlfriend of your own.

For security reasons, go for steel.