Raalsalghul:
Pheew. Just as I predicted @ the bolded

Daeylar:
Very true @bold

UyaiIncomparabl:
Victorian, I'd have loved to teach you a lesson outside of this forum, not because I hate you or stuff, but because you need to be taught that lesson with rigidity and no pity.

You don't mess with people and walk away scot-free.

Yigiyaga:
Sa.cx its good u are here.

Yigiyaga:
Sa.cx its good u are here.

Auladimeji:
Shut the fvck.Victorian is not an hypocrite but you, my mother, the Old Rusty Olosho na Grade 1 Hooker.Threaten her again and see how you, my mother the Shameless rusty hoe sleeps behind bar.Nonsense

victorian:







Really

Wow! Am scared already

Useless bitch!

Valerie47:
Another mistake spotted. Babe you need to pm me let me give you relationship coaching, you shouldn't have spent 10k on someone you have not met and not sure, you would have insisted on the WhatsApp
Seriously, he should ThankGod he didn't meet someone like me, he go humble by force. I dont take shite from nobody.

Valerie47:
At number 3) if e pain you too much, go hit your head for wall, I should spend big money to come and see a man I'm not sure of or have not seen before, what is he? Jesus?

nuattitude:


That's Ms Victoria T. Puegeren a.k.a victorian a.k.a amelian, a.k.a alexialin, and a.k.a trendsvivi for you. She's a multiple personality disorder patient and a recidivistic pathological liar rolled into one.

Lmao ! Now she says she has a born again BOYFRIEND who is on Nairaland. Some months ago, she was abusing someone as she was happily married to a rich husband who just bought her a Range Rover.

Wise counsel hasn't changed her. Please keep calling her out. You're helping her by so doing. As a 40 year-old mature single lady, she needs help.

Yigiyaga:
Obim as you fondly call me,babym we misunderstood each other yesterday and flew into rage over nothing. It was not about the money but the insult i percieved in the asking. You agreed you asked wrongly and apologised but my defence mechanism had been activated and the thoughts of my ex and all she put me through came flooding my mind. Run!! Run!! Please run now!! my mind kept telling me even as hard as i tried to resist it.
I Wasted 6 years of my youth dating the wrong person and 9years trying to make a marriage work,yet i had to abandon the marriage and everything i had laboured for just to save my life. All the fun you and your friends poked at my broken marriage never hurt me one bit because im probably supposed to be in a lonley graveyard unable to take those jabs. I need time to disable my aggressive defence mechanism but i dont need any time to know that i truly love you.


Nwanyiawkaetiti
sacx: Exactly y i want ur help.
Victorian thank you for your encouragement.

I apologise once again to NL.

pocohantas:


The guy is plain mischievous and it is good it's all over. She has learned her lessons. Lots of these guys here are snitches. Once they have a misunderstanding with you offline, the first thing that enters their head is to troll you online. Especially if you are a popular/active female.

UyaiIncomparabl:



You must be talking to your mother. Yes, I'm sure it's her this message is referred to.

Yigiyaga:
Obim as you fondly call me,babym we misunderstood each other yesterday and flew into rage over nothing. It was not about the money but the insult i percieved in the asking. You agreed you asked wrongly and apologised but my defence mechanism had been activated and the thoughts of my ex and all she put me through came flooding my mind. Run!! Run!! Please run now!! my mind kept telling me even as hard as i tried to resist it.
I Wasted 6 years of my youth dating the wrong person and 9years trying to make a marriage work,yet i had to abandon the marriage and everything i had laboured for just to save my life. All the fun you and your friends poked at my broken marriage never hurt me one bit because im probably supposed to be in a lonley graveyard unable to take those jabs. I need time to disable my aggressive defence mechanism but i dont need any time to know that i truly love you.


Nwanyiawkaetiti
sacx: Exactly y i want ur help.
Victorian thank you for your encouragement.

I apologise once again to NL.

Yigiyaga:
Obim as you fondly call me,babym we misunderstood each other yesterday and flew into rage over nothing. It was not about the money but the insult i percieved in the asking. You agreed you asked wrongly and apologised but my defence mechanism had been activated and the thoughts of my ex and all she put me through came flooding my mind. Run!! Run!! Please run now!! my mind kept telling me even as hard as i tried to resist it.
I Wasted 6 years of my youth dating the wrong person and 9years trying to make a marriage work,yet i had to abandon the marriage and everything i had laboured for just to save my life. All the fun you and your friends poked at my broken marriage never hurt me one bit because im probably supposed to be in a lonley graveyard unable to take those jabs. I need time to disable my aggressive defence mechanism but i dont need any time to know that i truly love you.


Nwanyiawkaetiti
sacx: Exactly y i want ur help.
Victorian thank you for your encouragement.

I apologise once again to NL.

faithfull18:

Wow, nice one. That's what life is about.
Accepting our imperfections and making efforts to work on them.

I wish you guys the very best.

Yigiyaga:
Obim as you fondly call me,babym we misunderstood each other yesterday and flew into rage over nothing. It was not about the money but the insult i percieved in the asking. You agreed you asked wrongly and apologised but my defence mechanism had been activated and the thoughts of my ex and all she put me through came flooding my mind. Run!! Run!! Please run now!! my mind kept telling me even as hard as i tried to resist it.
I Wasted 6 years of my youth dating the wrong person and 9years trying to make a marriage work,yet i had to abandon the marriage and everything i had laboured for just to save my life. All the fun you and your friends poked at my broken marriage never hurt me one bit because im probably supposed to be in a lonley graveyard unable to take those jabs. I need time to disable my aggressive defence mechanism but i dont need any time to know that i truly love you.


Nwanyiawkaetiti
sacx: Exactly y i want ur help.
Victorian thank you for your encouragement.

I apologise once again to NL.

mrphysics:

Lol, you are minding those things he wrote? lol, Ladies never cease to amaze me. It's on her best interest to let that guy be. Truth is, he isn't yet over with her last relationship.

I read the beginning part of this thread and nwanyiakwaetiti or what was just innocent. She didn't deserve what the guy did.

Both of them needs time off to renegotiate their stance on relationship, their emotional stability and the rest.


There is life outside nairaland. People meet on nairaland which leads to marriage, I seriously doubt such will happen here again. Even if it does, it will be very rare.

faithfull18:

Yes, I do not fault her in any of the drama. I admire her courage too.

Most single ladies that have never been married before and with no kids too won't even give a man of his status a chance at all.

Well, no body is perfect after all said and done.

Never say never.

ceeroh:


Pls don't. All those young married ladies in their 20s still wanna have fun.. That's the bitter truth, have a lot of them as friends.

mrphysics:

She's courageous. The guys didn't treat her well.


Why guys do this alot here I think is because of the way ladies act here. I personally know that what's happening here is just a shadow. After all, after all said and done, more is said than done.

BareFacedLies:

I hope you fùck them whenever the opportunity presents itself

Yigiyaga:
Obim as you fondly call me,babym we misunderstood each other yesterday and flew into rage over nothing. It was not about the money but the insult i percieved in the asking. You agreed you asked wrongly and apologised but my defence mechanism had been activated and the thoughts of my ex and all she put me through came flooding my mind. Run!! Run!! Please run now!! my mind kept telling me even as hard as i tried to resist it.
I Wasted 6 years of my youth dating the wrong person and 9years trying to make a marriage work,yet i had to abandon the marriage and everything i had laboured for just to save my life. All the fun you and your friends poked at my broken marriage never hurt me one bit because im probably supposed to be in a lonley graveyard unable to take those jabs. I need time to disable my aggressive defence mechanism but i dont need any time to know that i truly love you.


Nwanyiawkaetiti
sacx: Exactly y i want ur help.
Victorian thank you for your encouragement.

I apologise once again to NL.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This went straight to d heart. I've forgiven you But I fear I can't be that person. I'm not independent enough, matured enough. I know fate will give you the second chance you deserve at making things right. Be Strong, be very strong if not for anything but for your son. I know you'll find her soon. Thanks.

Daeylar:

Thank you

Exactly,
it's her choice at the end sha

That's all.
Fights offline should be kept offline.
Doesn't even have to be a romantic relationship. Even casual friendship between the same sex. If we have issues offline and you carry it online. That's the end. Forgive fire.

Lol
When it was insults, it was post after post after post of insults, Posts dedicated solely to insults, but apology is one line, not more than 5 words, in just one post.
And funny enough, it's "maturity"

True

Mystique20:
GBAM!!!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This went straight to d heart. I've forgiven you But I fear I can't be that person. I'm not independent enough, matured enough. I know fate will give you the second chance you deserve at making things right. Be Strong, be very strong if not for anything but for your son. I know you'll find her soon. Thanks.

Yigiyaga:
Obim as you fondly call me,babym we misunderstood each other yesterday and flew into rage over nothing. It was not about the money but the insult i percieved in the asking. You agreed you asked wrongly and apologised but my defence mechanism had been activated and the thoughts of my ex and all she put me through came flooding my mind. Run!! Run!! Please run now!! my mind kept telling me even as hard as i tried to resist it.
I Wasted 6 years of my youth dating the wrong person and 9years trying to make a marriage work,yet i had to abandon the marriage and everything i had laboured for just to save my life. All the fun you and your friends poked at my broken marriage never hurt me one bit because im probably supposed to be in a lonley graveyard unable to take those jabs. I need time to disable my aggressive defence mechanism but i dont need any time to know that i truly love you.
good one,dont rush tins,just allow urselves to cool off,work on urself and put the past behind u.

Nwanyiawkaetiti
sacx: Exactly y i want ur help.
Victorian thank you for your encouragement.

I apologise once again to NL.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This went straight to d heart. I've forgiven you But I fear I can't be that person. I'm not independent enough, matured enough. I know fate will give you the second chance you deserve at making things right. Be Strong, be very strong if not for anything but for your son. I know you'll find her soon. Thanks.