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Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Andrez123:no u dont necessarily need to be attracted to a lady cos she cooks but then a lady who has no knowledge in cooking how will such a lady be able to look after the kids wen u both marry. Abi na indomie and sharwama una go dey take feed una children? |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Babyforever(f): 12:42pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
lefulefu:chimooooo lefu you don finish me |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 12:43pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Mariangeles:some ladies dat dont know how to cook and refuses to learn will hire underage girls to do the cooking . The husband go codedly get a sidechic wey dey give am better food but d children na d porty wey d underage dey prepare dem go dey eat.no fish no vegetables. Go to homes dat claim they have professional cooks and u will see its one underage dat is d so called professional cook. |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Babyforever: Babyforever: |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 1:03pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
asuustrike1:omosede igbenedion the pdp lady that just lost her constituency vote it was rumoured wen she was married to her ex husband she would go to fast food joints to buy food for the man cos she did not have any knowledge of cooking. The man got fed up with eating junk and d marriage just collapse. |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Andrez123(m): 1:23pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
lefulefu:if she has a good character, she will learn and become better in cooking after some time. Cooking is not rocket science, it's actually an easy skill to acquire compared to honesty and kindness which is becoming a rarity these days |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by OgaBuhari: 1:35pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
MannieA:how did u know? You're in uniben? |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 1:48pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
iamSinclair:Can't I smile again? |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Andrez123:dat is if she is humble enuf to learn. A lady dat loves u and cant cook will learn just too make u happy but if ur girl tells u to ur face dat she cant enter into d kitchen cos she sees it as slavery then bros she no love u and such cant have good character. There are foreign ladies who are married to nigerian men and they go as far as learning a nigerian delicacy just to make dhier man happy. Na love and humility be dat. |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by triplechoice(m): 1:54pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: I broke up with a lady in the past because of not only her cooking skills but her other attitude too At the initial stage of the relationship she was willing to learn because she wanted to do well. Sometimes I have to insist on cooking a particular meal myself when I know she would not be able to do it well. She agrees sometimes at other times she doesn't. She says if visitors or neighbors gets to know I cook instead of her, then it would lead to embarrassment because everyone would know she is not a good cook. So I allow her and just force myself to eat it. My patience ran out when I observed that whenever she was agitated, especially if I was the cause of the agitation, she relapsed to preparing something very awful. If I dare complain at this time all hell will let loose. I remembered eating stew and rice with the stew almost tasting like unripe grape juice. I started to think and concluded that if I get married to her I may experience worse. I know of a friend who is suffering this and when he complains the reply he usually gett is___you know she cannot cook why did you marry her?. I was not willing to be told this so I gradually ended the relationship So for me I am willing to be patient only if she will not let her emotions get in the way of her cooking. She should not use it to spite me at anytime. I want to marry her because I love her and not just to cook for me. I think cooking is a necessary skill everyone woman should strive to acquire not only as a aid to personal growth but also as a means to express love. As they say, the fastest means to a man's heart is through the stomach 1 Like |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 1:58pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
triplechoice:Were you guys living together for her to be bothered about neighbors? Great submission. Cooking shouldn't be difficult. |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 1:58pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
lefulefu:Lefu can u prepare banga stew? |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:01pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Andrez123:It isn't rocket science but you need to master the art of salting, timing and all. |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:01pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Andrez123:It isn't rocket science but you need to master the art of salting, timing and all. Kindness is even better sef, very scarce to see an honest human being... Me inclusive sef |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Mariangeles(f): 2:02pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
lefulefu:You know the reality |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by triplechoice(m): 2:05pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Yes.but not all the time |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:05pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:banga soup u mean? I sabi do am. I dey prepare am together with bitter leaf. E dey make sense. Okro soup or ogbonor nko? Dose ones overeasy. I am always surprised wen some young ladies go dey complain say cooking na hard chorus for dem? Na wetin hard in it? After u now have machines u use in d kitchen. Some babes lazy die sha. |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:11pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
If she can't and/or not willing to learn how to prepare banga soup and starch...she isn't worth dating |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:11pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Mariangeles:i sabi d code na.my neighbour upstairs she no sabi cook. Na one 12 yr old boy dey cook for dem. Sometimes wen their gas finish in d evening and i dey around dem go beg me make i open door for d 12 yr old house help to cook d remainin food. Omo if u see the porty wey d small boy dey cook for dem. Tin tomatoes with no fish,no onions no crayfish ..nothing. The small boy go jus fry d tin tomatoes den do the half done rice and food don do. Na dat porty d family go eat but then most times na indomie dem dey prepare. Her husband is a nice quiet guy sha. |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Mariangeles(f): 2:16pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
lefulefu:I swear you too get sense 1 Like |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Mariangeles(f): 2:17pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
lefulefu: |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:27pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
sukhothai:bro take it easy |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
lefulefu:Okro simple na. What of white soup? |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:30pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
lefulefu:He's just bitter |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
triplechoice:Okay. |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:u sabi do okro?.. Ehn na wich one be white soup? |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Oyindidi:now u talking, i know say u go sabi cook wella |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
finalboss:3yrs old kwa?. U must be a legend in the kitchen |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
triplechoice:she was just ur girlfriend and she was already bothered dat the neigbours would know she cant cook?. So wat can u say about wives who dont even bother entering and wen its time for dinner they would walk to the balcony and yell at their husband to come prepare dinner as he's downstairs discussing with friends. Dat would even be more embarrasing for d husband. |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Andrez123(m): 2:54pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
lefulefu:You are still going round in circles and talking about a different version of a woman that I'm not referring to. Why would a woman see entering kitchen as a slavery? Unless she's either lazy, has a very busy schedule or playing emotional games for whatever reason. |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Andrez123:to each its own |
Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by Andrez123(m): 3:03pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:There might be very good reasons why a lady isn't a good cook, I believe she will improve with time but if in the end she's still not an excellent cook, I will always look past that if the other qualities that I'm interested in are in place. When I really love a woman that's not even a problem, I don't consider it as a flaw. |
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