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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Andrewkinggg: 10:49pm On Mar 28, 2019
buhariski:
I don't like having porn movies on phone because I no like repeating one video scene many times.and I don't like passwording my phone. I watch all porn movies online and after that I delete d browser history. the problem now is how do I stop to subscribing for data to watch videos online cos there re many ways that I can use to subscribe for data tru my bank, network credit. as at now I'm even owning MTN 400naira I borrowed last one week just to use it tosub for data. I don stop ashawo parole cos I don't really fancy the one I see for here in Ibadan. last year December I fought with a prostitute in one of d brothel na serious fight blood flow everywhere and they have to call the security to intervene. since then I promised not visit a brothel. I just want to live a responsible life.

Bros I swear you be comedian.. I dey read your post and your comment I just dey burst laugh.. You funny I swear

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by ofakaga: 10:50pm On Mar 28, 2019
feed your mind with the word of God(bible).
think about what you have not achieved for many years .in doing this your urge for sex will reduce drastically.God help us.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Lifeless: 10:52pm On Mar 28, 2019
TourismMan:
You need Jesus
he doesn't need Jesus boy, he needs a close female friend or GF.
RELIGIOUS BIGOT!

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by dejolly(m): 10:53pm On Mar 28, 2019
buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.


This your story get as e Bi. Erection comes from the mind or while playing with your dick or normal morning erection . you have an interior motive for that akamu girl. Just pray and fast and keep yourself away from porn

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 10:54pm On Mar 28, 2019
buhariski:
bro I've checked myself very well and I used to ask myself some question like why am I getting rejections and what is it I,'m nt doing right. though I have some flaws I can lie u. I no b ugly guy oo even when I was still in my state then I've had many advances from d girls. some girls confessed they're tripin and some fall in loved with me. that year for school during one of the semester exam a girl once kissed and romance me in the presence of over 400 students and a lecturer. she did it on the platform when all eyes was on us dat day I was not conversant with the girl. I only knew her to be a course mate. A friend to my guy girlfriend kiss and romance me in presence of my girlfriend ask her why she was acting DAT way ,she said she can't resist my look .I had to make her apologize to my girlfriend dat day. today is not another story . na me come d hussle for woman I don't know if was because I change environment could it tribal differences, language barrier and some other factor I can't understand.
na so e dey be. Just dey patient and try Facebook, you can get as much babes as you want there. Normally, when you need a bae, it's always difficult to find one since you're anxious.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by LZAA: 10:56pm On Mar 28, 2019
You're embarrassed by nature?oh dear
All this doom saying in naija sha
Oh well u are an Animal(this is no insult) as u are a higher animal who has dominion over lower animals
Anything done in excess will disrupt bodily function
Take a break and stop ranting
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by judajix(m): 10:56pm On Mar 28, 2019
Quit porn and watch yourself become better

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by YungLasaint(m): 10:57pm On Mar 28, 2019
I have similar case too... I tried everything possible but it didn't work out.

Couldn't count the number of times I make solemn promises to God for a change of habit and I will still see ma self doing it. Sometimes I feel so bad over ma self...... It go on and on all effort to stop prove abortive.

So I made up ma mind to stop but it wasn't that easy, I always find ma self doing it again... Then I minimized staying alone, being idle, subscribing my phone, home alone etc... I saw progress in that, but it wont be easy so if you wish to stop don't force yourself too much just take it easy and mind what you allowed to roam in your mind cause it control everything... Goodluck

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Akabuking: 10:58pm On Mar 28, 2019
chenzen:
sell ur android phone and buy Nokia torch. u ll be fine


continue using the torchlight phone until u marry.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Hoodbilonia: 10:59pm On Mar 28, 2019
Ive not wanked like 5days
Why
Been looking for clients
Evwntually i got two
I ran after 24hrs
The othee stayed ane was reafu to pay,not until google search exposed it all.
Well that great day
Iz coming
Dah great day is coming
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Zzyy(m): 11:00pm On Mar 28, 2019
buhariski:
Salutes bro u dey game too. I don't have any favorite porn star but I luv crystal clear from d bbw world I don't know if she has retired now.I know Cherokee d ass,and messaratti. I luv home made ebony videos it real to me and fat ass bbw videos. don't forget black creamy pu**y get f **ked. mehn just watching those videos can make me cum six times a day.

Mehhhnnn baba u need help, ur own don pass normal...

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by martphreak(m): 11:03pm On Mar 28, 2019
.. you guys think of sex too Much...


at least we think of sex too much....but u ladies r sex objects... all you r made up off n know is sex..Rubbish
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Sluvist(m): 11:04pm On Mar 28, 2019
The Genesis of your problem starts with your addiction to pornography, it makes person to have more self-esteem, poor planning and inability to approach a girl with true love, Your Brain was wired towards only the sex, so you can not maintain a relationship with a girl for long, you only thinks about the sex all the time, but if you can abstain from watching porn for like 2 months, you will understand. I faced a situation like this before but after forcing myself to stop watching porn in visiting pornographic websites, things started working normal to me

Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by oilPUSSY(f): 11:06pm On Mar 28, 2019
Wonderful thread.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by princeso2020(m): 11:08pm On Mar 28, 2019
Only Jesus can save you, give your life to Jesus. Look for a living Church with prayer you will be delivered. the spirit of masturbation is a spirit that blocks every good thing that will come to you and it is a spirit that possesses the hands.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by sinola(m): 11:08pm On Mar 28, 2019
Nna eeeh! Konji na bastard

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Mac2016(m): 11:10pm On Mar 28, 2019
buhariski:
currently I live in Ibadan from Delta state.
Masturbation dealt with many young men. It's actually kinda addictive. Stop using it as a means of escaping the "rigours" of getting a girl. Launch out, get a babe you can use some good on-line dating sites. You shd be very comfortable there and get any babe that you want.
Stop the brothel thing it's too dangerous. Police can raid, you can contract diseases, csws mostly don't even give romantic sex unless you pay extra.
Get busy and reduce porn.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by SIRTee15: 11:10pm On Mar 28, 2019
Guy don't let anyone deceive u....
What u need is sex....
Regular sex for a very long time.....
This will deal with the urge, masturbation and helps with self control on the long run.....
I don't know much about ashawo but u can visit the ashawo thread for advise....
But the cost and risk involved doesn't make it a better alternative....

Get urself a girlfriend, even if it's below your class or a girl from a lower socioeconomic background....
I don't really your own status, but just enter any of those post secondary school ancillary institution and get urself a girl with decent taste.....
They will be happy to date u....
Apart from the sex of a thing, she will help improve your social skills, mannerisms, and possibly change your wardrobe if it's awkward....
All the above will boost your confidence which is wjat u actually need to get a girl of your desire.....
U can't really eradicate masturbation completely, but u can control it, which I think u struggling with presently....

Finally, if u an eligible bachelor...
Maybe it's time u seriously consider getting married....
Start attending a church and be regular....
There always a surplus of readily available single women in nigerian churches....
At all at all, na him bad pass....
U sha must get hooked up with one, even if u don't really like her....
U can always keep an open mind and take it up from there....

another advice I'll give u is regular exercise.....
register with a gym and get active daily....
exercise helps relax your body and balance those raging hormones running wild in your blood...
If u can engage in swimming, that will be a huge plus.....
swimming stabilize your mood and makes u less tense, thereby improving your ability to self control and keeping your mind focused....

The above are the practical solutions and the earlier u consider them the better....
Chronic masturbation is a cause of erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation....
So that it won't be like when u now really need to start shooting....
Gobe go start....

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Danielagbugba(m): 11:11pm On Mar 28, 2019
Broda all u need do is to be bornagain..u cant help yourself because you are in a serious spiritual bondage.u nid the spirit of Christ to deliver you.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by wilbur1379(m): 11:12pm On Mar 28, 2019
vaseline crew..... Lemme epp u out....





Try n make sure u stop watching porn... Dont be alone always... Try n get ah galfrend
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Lukgaf(m): 11:12pm On Mar 28, 2019
https://www.nairaland.com/5104902/ruling-masturbation-see-also-health#77076705

This is for your information, respected bro buhariski
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by wilbur1379(m): 11:12pm On Mar 28, 2019
vaseline crew..... Lemme epp u out....





Try n make sure u stop watching porn... Dont be alone always... Try n get ah galfrend
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Adewhunmiiii(f): 11:15pm On Mar 28, 2019
Pray for salvation. Beg God. You will be free as a bird.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Maxmill: 11:15pm On Mar 28, 2019
You guys are mouthed ,you guys have all given the best advice for this ,and I've learnt allot from it ..

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 11:17pm On Mar 28, 2019
Apostle Paul said that instead of burning, and writing endless epistle on Nairaland, kuku go and marry..


You are just a few poles away from sexually assaulting any female that strays into your den. Pls seek help.

Trust me, some families are ready to hand over their marriage-mature daughter to you if you are responsible regardless of your earning power.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Coolgent(m): 11:18pm On Mar 28, 2019
buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.
My advice...
1. Stop watching porn.
2. Stop living alone get a roomate.
3. Get yourself busy I mean very busy with something productive other than your current job.
4. Get yourself a decent Gal who u will marry at your convenient.
5. Never associate with whores they may ruin your life.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by tayooluwole: 11:18pm On Mar 28, 2019
Nnaabros:
Trust me, the advent of smart phones caused a lot of damages. It took away the innocence of many of us. Now we are hooked and can't just let go.

Nudity is promoted and advertised. Sex and Sexcapades are narrated in very graphic language, images and videos, physical beauty is measured by butt and boob sizes and flaunted for fame and attention, inflaming people's passions and desires.

This is the era of big boobs, massive butts, twerking, Sexcapades, nudity. All at the tip of your fingers, your smartphone. People now take pride in exposing their naked bodies and after-sex pics and videos online like some kind of fashion statement. Nothing is left to the imagination, not even to kids.

Passions and desires are inflamed. Now demand is high for intimacy gadgets, boob's and butt enhancement creams are hot cakes. Joysticks enlargement creams and solutions are being searched for and marketed everywhere to meet the growing demand of a passion aroused and sex crazed world.

People are desperatly looking for outlets for the sexual frenzy: frequenting brothels, boyfriend/girlfriend sex partner, rapes, cheating/adulteries, masturbation etc in a quest to cool off the heat.

Bro, there's is no cure to your problem. It's an epidemic that is sweeping across the world.

But an extreme measure if you can, throw away your smartphone and avoid the internet, relocate to a very remote area away from the big cities. It will not kill your attractiion and desire, but it will curb it to a level you can control.

You are giving solution that is practically impossible, how can you tell a full grown man, well educated and with inclinations to get up to date information to throw away his smart phone and shun internet...Alaye bring fort another solution...
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by felixsantos(m): 11:19pm On Mar 28, 2019
chenzen:
sell ur android phone and buy Nokia torch. u ll be fine


continue using the torchlight phone until u marry.

You're so on point aswear.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by BecaciaBarbie(f): 11:20pm On Mar 28, 2019
buhariski:
thank u bro I appreciate your kind gesture.
So you are looking for a girlfriend for what exactly? To satisfy your sexual urges? You've got to be kidding me! One girl will fall for you now, thinking she has found a man, only to be romped by him everyday You need Jesus!!! We all need Him.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Orangina(m): 11:20pm On Mar 28, 2019
you do not need to worry, all this nonsense gonna STOP immediately you get marrIED. masturbation beta than . A man rap.e a 6 months toddler. What! and you will come here and spew spits. My friend masturbate out stress and evil, never miss SUNDAY church. ok. Love GOD. GIVE ALMS.
PASTOR OYAKILOME CHRIS. MASTURBATION NOT A SIN AND U GUYS WOULD WANT HIM DEAD. now u see. GOD WILL SAVE US. HAVE MERCY ON US O'LORD.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by olas24u(f): 11:21pm On Mar 28, 2019
Did you attend a boys only school?

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