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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by passionberry(f): 9:44pm On Apr 16, 2019
emmaodet:


Yep, to be frank and honest, she is a good woman because i can say part of what happended was caused by me.

That was then sha.

You are a lady so you won't understand what guys do pass through in relationships. You may not believe me but i can tell you that we have more responsible and ready to date/serious guys than ladies because for a guy, it takes atleast little/small money to run and maintain a good relationship why a lady can go into relationship without anything (very very easy for them to kick-start any relationship).
In my extended family, i have a gpod number of boys who haven't dated before including my 2 brothers with age range 18-28 just simply because they are still students and don't have much but the average lady in that age bracket would have had probably not less than 5 guys experience, imagining my brothers still been virgins and naive about women and relationships at that age, to me that is bad
sorry i mistakenly drop the same message twice..Good men don't meet good ladies ,and good ladies don't meet good / nice guys ..I say me too i was walking dead then just like what your friend is passing thru ..but he will be fine soon ,things will be fine with him and he will get over it ...yes you are right about the age thng about ladies imagine Regina daniels she s not up to 20 according to her imagine ur brothrs at that age.most girls at that age or evn before they get to that age have experience a lots with men .
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by passionberry(f): 9:47pm On Apr 16, 2019
emmaodet:


Thanks, it means - there is little or none i can do in such situation than to count my loss and move ahead
ok thanks for the interpretation ..yes there is nothng you can do than to move on ..life goes on ..no one is perfect
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by samlake(m): 12:07am On Apr 17, 2019
[quote author=victorian post=77537764]






My dear, u can't expect ladies in our 30s to feel and behave like its the end of world for us
Infact life is just beginning for us. At our age we are very sure of what we want out of life. We are strong mentally and otherwise, we are good managers and we have gotten to a certain level in our career or business. So any man coming to us, has to see and treat us with respect, and not behave as if we are at their mercy cos we are single and kind of older. And he has to be intelligent too

If u feel the attitude means she's not allowing u walk all over her? Then my dear, thats one thing about us. We don't allow men walk all Over us, especially ladies like me who was once weak and indecisive but grew to be strong , self reliant, and emotionally balanced. I won't allow such anymore.

You seem to agree with me throughout...Can you hi me?
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by drmikeadams(m): 12:32am On Apr 17, 2019
passionberry:
sorry i mistakenly drop the same message twice..Good men don't meet good ladies ,and good ladies don't meet good / nice guys ..I say me too i was walking dead then just like what your friend is passing thru ..but he will be fine soon ,things will be fine with him and he will get over it ...yes you are right about the age thng about ladies imagine Regina daniels she s not up to 20 according to her imagine ur brothrs at that age.most girls at that age or evn before they get to that age have experience a lots with men .some of them has started using iPhone,using private jet and all that.but boys of the same age still struggling to survive won't have gf cos no money to support her .. just mssg me let's talk betttr .07068450692
grin grin this ur female moniker plus number wey u drop I trust my nairaland brothers go bombard ur phone angry grin grin
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by passionberry(f): 7:57am On Apr 17, 2019
drmikeadams:
grin grin this ur female moniker plus number wey u drop I trust my nairaland brothers go bombard ur phone angry grin grin
and why shuld they bombard my phone ? I drop my number specifically for one person and I have my reason for doing that .
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by passionberry(f): 9:32pm On Apr 19, 2019
drmikeadams:
grin grin this ur female moniker plus number wey u drop I trust my nairaland brothers go bombard ur phone angry grin grin
[quote author=passionberry post=77602474] sorry i mistakenly drop the same message twice..Good men don't meet good ladies ,and good ladies don't meet good / nice guys ..I say me too i was walking dead then just like what your friend is passing thru ..but he will be fine soon ,things will be fine with him and he will get over it ...yes you are right about the age thng about ladies imagine Regina daniels she s not up to 20 according to her imagine ur brothrs at that age.most girls at that age or evn before they get to that age have experience a lots with men .some of them has started using iPhone,using private jet and all that.but boys of the same age still struggling to survive won't have gf cos no money to support her ..
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by chris31(m): 11:51pm On Apr 21, 2019
Women are more wiser with age
They now see the world differently & tends to be more respectful towards guys
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by Smile4mee01: 10:54pm On May 01, 2019
Interesting read.

But I am curious to know if most ladies above 30 are damaged ?

Many men in the west are going MGTOW, women are gradually losing their power over men.
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by Ohidata: 2:10pm On May 05, 2019
I really agree with you on all your points. Can we chat privately? I'd like to get to know you.

SBL28:
Have you guys considered the fact that maybe the woman is truly after God's heart.

I have only been in one relationship and with a body count of one, so its not about tasting all sorts and then pretending just to trap a guy. I'm still in my 20s and I have been celibate since my marriage ended for few reasons;

1) I'm not a Bible-clutching Christian but I'm closer to my God now and I like how I can go to church and raise my hands in praises without feeling like a fraud. I'm not messing with my peace of mind biko. I used to feel guilty about fornication before I got married.

2) I have not tried it before but I am not sure I can have sex with someone I'm not in love with. I personally don't think it's something to be casual about.

3) Ladies in their 30s and single mothers are easy targets for lecherous men who think they are desperate. They are only interested in 'hit and run', so don't blame the women for not 'putting out', they have learnt the hard way. My yeye married neighbor wanted to try it with me, I shut the shit down and blocked the he-goat on every platform. angry

In conclusion, ladies say 'no sex' for so many reasons. It is not a do or die affair, if you are not comfortable with it, simply move on!!!


Lastly, I don't intend to end up with anyone eventually without testing the engine (Lord forgive me cry ) even if na only once before marriage, I should know exactly the type of instrument I'm 'acquiring'. Man pikin cannot go and enter one chance. grin
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by drmikeadams(m): 2:35pm On May 05, 2019
Smile4mee01:
Interesting read.

But I am curious to know if most ladies above 30 are damaged ?

Many men in the west are going MGTOW, women are gradually losing their power over men.
grin grin try watching this Nigerian movie "KEMI"....u will see if they are damaged or not bro grin grin grin

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by Ohidata: 7:37pm On May 05, 2019
How about we talk outside this platform. I believe you being shy is irrelevant since I've made the first contact.


havilla:


Learnt from your advice, but that your number 2 what happens to us that are shy and introverted how do we look more approachable sad
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by Nobody: 9:37pm On May 05, 2019
drmikeadams:
grin grin try watching this Nigerian movie "KEMI"....u will see if they are damaged or not bro grin grin grin
the title of the movie sounds like Yoruba but it is actually English movie
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by drmikeadams(m): 9:42pm On May 05, 2019
Oma307:

the title of the movie sounds like Yoruba but it is actually English movie
yeah it is....I didn't finish the part 2, but it was quite interesting
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by RedPhoenix: 8:50pm On Dec 05, 2020
Missy89:
Because guys have fvcked the living day out of them without proposing. Now they have to starve the unfortunate guy that is willing to marry them so they can have some leverage.


Lol
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by Sirconnect: 11:01pm On Dec 05, 2020
Y go for a 30+ a milk is sweet when it is fresh.

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