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Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by Ishilove: 8:36pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Chubhie:Are character flaws spiritual? Can a nasty temperament be 'cured' by science? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by Ishilove: 8:38pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
eyinjuege:QED 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by Nobody: 10:32pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Am an only child 17 Likes |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by sacx: 10:52pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Ishilove: Um um, okay, we have a deal . OP, three days 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by Chubhie: 11:10pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Ishilove:How you fail to understand that billions are spent and careers dedicated to the study,understanding,treatment and management of character flaws is rather unsettling. 10 Likes |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by happney65: 11:28pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
poison her abi veekid wetin I talk? |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by Lexusgs430: 11:28pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
joystarts: Are you linking behaviour to education ? Just move out and leave her to her own devices........ |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by Nobody: 11:29pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Take your mother to Church. I mean a vision and prophecy kind of church. Your Mom's problem is spiritual. Believe it or leave it. 3 Likes |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by luminouz(m): 11:31pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Shibaraba:U and this ur stupid advice.....always saying 'talk to him,her,them' as if that works...did u even read where OP said the mom is violent and used a knife on her?? U want her to still stay and TALK after that?? OP,move thafuq out; 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by luminouz(m): 11:33pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Ginaz:Its been fvcking ages babe... Where u been? Happy Easter BTW |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:33pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Maybe she was a trouble when she was still an unmarried girl and her parents/old people as at then placed curse on her. 6 Likes |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by letitrainnow(m): 11:35pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Well, you can't stop praying for her. God will deliver her. 3 Likes |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by Deronkemusty: 11:35pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Shibaraba:You only think so, they are worse 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by Amhappy(f): 11:36pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
This is beyond me. You can't flog or fight her just move out. But you said she threatens you with knife. Are you sure she is not taking something? Also her mental health can be checked 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by mmadu5(m): 11:37pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
joystarts: / |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by menstrualpad: 11:37pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
op since you are single... kindly take victorian as wife 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by elyte89: 11:37pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Set ur mumcy up,or better still,carry am come mushin here,she will definitely meet her .match, dem go beat her to stupor,if u re dere,pretend as if nothing is going on, though it might b difficult to pretend If dem beat ur mama twice for mushin here,she go think say na trailer jam am,am sure after 2 concurrent beatings,she go humble 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by incogni2o: 11:40pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Arrest Her Yourself 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by fergie001: 11:40pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Bro....move out....lost a long relationship to that... I was still saying she will change she will change,until she change am for the babe consistently..... Listen to no one,move out....period 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by Mrkumareze(m): 11:40pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
You aren't alone dear, if you are matured enough pls relocate . Staying with her 'll dent your image, if u 're a woman u may end up bn disappointed by your guys d moment they findout how your mom behaves. 6 Likes |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by Yankee101: 11:41pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Build and live your life independent from her so you don't regret living for her 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by Angeldada55(m): 11:41pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
...I'm sorry ; but are you sure it's not depression ? However, I don't think you need help. Your mom does... Pesin ( my friend ) don tell me once ; say he don try kee hinsef like 4times because of hin mama. He even say she dey deny ham sometimes by saying in Yoruba " to ba ya e, wa wa iya e s'iwaju " meaning - " if time reach, you go find your mama go front " Some mothers and wahala be like 5 and 6 While some others na #okpopais The ones wey come worse pass ; na the ones wey dey reject their own pikin like say the pikin no go fi do better thing inside life. ...but na God get power pass. I pray that the heavenly mothers take over our earthly mothers for good ijn and anybody wen beat chest say WE no go make ham ; na chest pain go kee dem ijn #Like for FATHERS and #Share for MOTHERS 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by AndLeo(m): 11:44pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
It is incumbent that you love your mum. One day you will miss her and miss her troubles. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by grandstar(m): 11:44pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
joystarts: The worst mistake a child or young adult can make is to carry their parent luggage on their own heads. It's not your load! Walk out! Your mum is the architect of her own life. Shea unwilling to change and may head on you problems in future. My stepmom is a hot tempered straight talker, can be very unpolished when angry, embarrassing and does not care a hoot what anyone says. Her children have learnt to a good extent to accept her but also detach themselves from her bad side. Every man will carry his own load and your mum's no difference. It's her load not yours. Since you've grown up to be a well adjusted adult, be thankful and walk away. By the way, I love my stepmom dearly 16 Likes |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by tunize(m): 11:48pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Shibaraba:Na lie bros calm waitn the mom don advance nvr calm down at her age now na wen she reach 90? my guy simple advice jst move out if u nor get funds to rent hus find somewhere stay. but las las she's till ur mom u can't change that fact pray for her to change. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by mmadu5(m): 11:51pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
my sister i will advice you to slice her throat at night no one deserves a mother like that 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by Nobody: 11:52pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Ok.. sell him to Yahoo boys na... |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by BecaciaBarbie(f): 11:56pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
joystarts:It is a mental disorder called *Schizophrenia* I'm sorry you are going through this, as I can imagine the embarrassment you face everyday in your own neighborhood and the fact that she sees you as her enemy is devastating. This is a mental disorder ...you need to be careful and prayerful, unfortunately there is no cure for it medically but it could be managed. I believe she is very suspicious and believes everyone out there is trying to attack her? 5 Likes |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by Nobody: 11:59pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
joystarts: Sit her down and seek to know about her mentality, her belief system, her world view, why she does what she does Then u can proceed from there |
Re: My Mom Is A Troublemaker... I Need Help by oglalasioux(m): 12:00am On Apr 20, 2019 |
You are not alone. The best thing to do is to move as far away from her as possible. You can send her money if you are ok but stay away and rebuild your life. 4 Likes |
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