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Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Fountainofyouth(f): 7:36pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
Apeshy101: I prefer you go to blazes with your stinking feelings, you do not deserve any of them. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Apeshy101(m): 7:38pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:It's your kind that pushed me to the extreme. Once a nice guy any girl would wish for, but I'm in this because of your kind |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Donlexybaze(m): 7:39pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
it's better to cry now than later |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:20pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
Apeshy101: My kind? My kind can never date the kind of you because we dey smell "cry babies because of first heartbreak" from a mile away, a girl pushed you and you have no shame to say it? Which adult hasn't experienced heartbreak before? Are you a kid? Must your first heartbreak control your life relationship wise? If you reserve your diick for just one faithful girl like you, will you die? 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Youngsenate1993(m): 9:06pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:Bab u get mind oh, so u mean say him go call dy 3 gals with him making 4 then them go get family meeting? If u been join, hw u go react? |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Youngsenate1993(m): 9:17pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:Like seriously? Wat will u have him do at this point? Continu sexing them or keep them as sexmate till his tired nd still get rid of them? |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Apeshy101(m): 9:19pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
Youngsenate1993:Abeg help me tell her |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:22pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
Youngsenate1993: He should leave the three of them alone, he doesn't deserve any of them, he only wants the third lady cos she is the best sexually, that is my point. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Kezim: 9:27pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
Apeshy101: Baba which kind front be dis U no get joy oo,pity people with glasses 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by vibbb: 9:43pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
How sure are you that u ar not even a substitute / spear tyre to d said 1st and 2nd. You will be surprised, when they just smile at u and say goodbye alakorii. |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Youngsenate1993(m): 9:53pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:The best sexually? 4rm his post, he did'nt talk abt sexual performaces. Then secondly, nw that he has decided 2 focus on one na has it become a crime? Or u prefer him fucking them 4 free then after him go stil leave them.? |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:who told you men are scarce? Men can never be scarce it is money that is scarce. |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Atticusxsz(m): 12:59am On Jun 24, 2019 |
Apeshy101: Chai!!! You too? I thought i was the only one experiencing these poo! And i wish mine even triangulated amongst even 3 but it's even worst than that. I share the same fears as you are due to the closure now and due to some girls' sentimental state couple with the present suicide mission with sniper taking going rampant in the country. I've emaciated from thinking. It's as if na now the love dae shark them pass sef! Even if you are at fault in anything... Na them go even wan apologize just to settle the dust. You aren't the only one in need of solution bro. Make i follow you for back sef dae seek help from our fellow nairalanders on NL. It's not been easy! |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Gkemz: 2:33am On Jun 24, 2019 |
I'm in a similar situation though yours is a bit complex because you involved sex. And when sex is involved in a relationship, a woman's brain is wired to love more when she's being satisfied sexually. A man can have sex without having emotional affection just to achieve sexual gratification but when a woman receive a mind blowing sex, her love increases and her perception about you changes. Anyway that's not my point. As for your question you asked, you've got to open up to the first two girls why it can't work but don't tell them it's because you love the third girl most. Don't even involve her. Though it's gonna hurt but you've got to subtly make them understand that a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Even if you marry any of the two, the union won't last because there's no love to sustain it. Alternatively there's another option though i wouldn't suggest this option to you because it may lead to emotional trauma, torture or even suicide. Well, forget i won't mention such to you for the sake of someone else in a similar situation who may want to try it since it's very risky. |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Apeshy101(m): 5:13am On Jun 24, 2019 |
Atticusxsz:Bro the thing done tire me, I just want to move on with my life now |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Apeshy101(m): 5:17am On Jun 24, 2019 |
Gkemz: Thanks Bros, I will consider this,. I cant imagine how they will feel, Telling them you don't love them anymore or never loved after several months of sweet talking them about how you loved them. I know they will see me as a monster but that we will be okay only if it will end like that |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by wristbangle: 7:11am On Jun 24, 2019 |
Apeshy101, please increase your font size to make it easier for people with four eyes to see clearly. Your words are tiny. Back to your story, maintain the withdrawal scope with the two ladies you don't love but in a slow manner. Don't pull out at once, it may devastate them. With time, they will understand you no longer cares. Telling them a broken relationship is better than divorce will not amount to anything in their ears as they will attach the sex part involved. You know how ladies can be emotional, claiming you use and dump them. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by dingbang(m): 7:32am On Jun 24, 2019 |
Let me teach you how to break up |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Apeshy101(m): 7:46am On Jun 24, 2019 |
Gkemz:Thanks, the three girls don't know each other |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Apeshy101(m): 7:48am On Jun 24, 2019 |
wristbangle:I've been doing that since over a month now but it's not yielding. Maybe I will have to give myself sometime |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by seanwilliam(m): 8:31am On Jun 24, 2019 |
wasting their time is dangerous. it's high time you told them the truth. dem go dey alright las las |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jun 24, 2019 |
1. stop having sex with the two of them. 2. if 1 does not work, invite the two of them to a date and watch as they do the job for u. � NB. don't involve/inform d 3rd girl about this until d coast is clear |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by fcdgrand(m): 4:55pm On Jun 24, 2019 |
2cato:true talk! 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jun 24, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:Why are you so bitter? |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Apeshy101(m): 10:53am On Jun 26, 2019 |
Thank you guys for all your candid advice Here is what I did, "Yesterday night, i decided the take the bull by the horn, in posted a photo of a random girl in my whatsapp status update and restricted views to the first and second girl. i addressed her as my fiancee and i can't wait for the day to come" i switch off my and and slept off, this morning a woke and switched on my phone to bombed by multiple sms by the too. went to whatsapp and posted a new update "hope you will understand, but i know it will be difficult, the bride has been chosen" i also ignored their whatsapp messages, when the calls became unbearable, i sent them a text, "i know it will hurt, but it will hurt only for a while, don't get hurt for me cuz i never deserved you" right now, their numbers are in blacklist and I'm not taking calls from unknown numbers I'm hurting for them too but I just have to do this now |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Youngsenate1993(m): 2:52pm On Jun 26, 2019 |
God dy look u |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:40pm On Jun 26, 2019 |
Apeshy101: Sweet Yeesus you deserve so many things I do not want to type, I feel so sorry for those girls, I really want to type things........ 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:41pm On Jun 26, 2019 |
Apeshy101, where do you stay? What state exactly? 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Skmoda360(m): 4:53pm On Jun 26, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:you seem pained why? |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:55pm On Jun 26, 2019 |
Skmoda360: I don't like cheats, do you like cheats? How will you feel if a lady do to you what Op did to those two ladies? 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Skmoda360(m): 4:58pm On Jun 26, 2019 |
Apeshy101:way to go bro.....but watch your back ooo so that we will not see news headline tomorrow of a dead nigga. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! What Do I Do In This Situation? [update] by Skmoda360(m): 5:05pm On Jun 26, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:you have a point but he is only gloating over his past relationship and the deed has been done ..he is only looking for solition here... To your question..,.......... I detest cheat though... and to your last question, girls don cheat on me well well even the one wey I dey give allawee and gifts every month but I just decided not to take revenge on the anyone..... so he did what's best for him though which is not right |
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