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Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:42am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Invest first, give your self an expiry date to leave your parents house and let that motivate you to grow your biz. Left my parents before 20 and I haven't done badly myself since. |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:52am On Jul 12, 2019 |
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Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by RealityShot: 6:18am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Hullabaloon:my man, Go and look for N200-300k land and buy this month... That will make the "money" disappear and stop making you feel "rich enough to go on your own" Next, continue saving for blocks to Build a 2 bedroom bungalow on the land by next year. Then you can move into the house and never pay rent again. 400K is too small. I have tried it and FAILED. If you want me to narrate the full story from 2015 - 2018, I will. DO NOT DO IT. GO To the thread below and learn a safe investment with govt insurance That is "IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO BUY LAND NOW" https://www.nairaland.com/878880/treasury-bills-nigeria/ |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by kennypedia(m): 6:27am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Hullabaloon:Get a nice apartment rented close to an higher institution and furnish it with bunks and bed with a central kitchen. Rent this apartment out to students. You'll be making more than half the money you injected in the first year and more subsequently. Good luck |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Burgerlomo: 6:34am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Hullabaloon: I will advise you to stay with your parents and start a profitable business to generate a side income, also you can even build the business to become your full time income. Good luck nigga 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 6:41am On Jul 12, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:O ur welcome baby... I'm staying alone |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 7:04am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Bbbwings: Lol, that's the spirit, why don't you tell us how you improved after that? |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by ifyemma123: 7:06am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Hullabaloon:. Brother you are very much old enough be be on your own...I will advice you to move out but go for rented house not to expensive like 60k and look at the possibility of how capable you can go for higher rented house.. Your mate don marry baba....so move out and learn how to be on your own..it good to have more experience of life before your 30s. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by nairaland0753: 7:12am On Jul 12, 2019 |
shege45: Best advice #myownopinion 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Pavarottii(m): 7:21am On Jul 12, 2019 |
My own contribution don't ever invest in anything transport under this buhari administration... Dony but car, bus, keke, okada or else u will drive it urself... To before warn u know d rest.... U will thank me later. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by justmi1: 7:23am On Jul 12, 2019 |
I was once in your shoes 3 yrs ago, earning 55k and living with my aunt in Abuja, I was 27yrs. I had only saved 180k. It was a tough decision but I moved out, rented an apartment of 150k and bought fan and mattress. That was all I had. Today,well, I still don't have most things but I have a few more things. My advice, move out. There is never a perfect time, you are 28yrs, you need privacy to start thinking like a real man. You need to start getting used to paying Bills and managing your finances. Its difficult to gather basic things if you are still living with parents, you would constantly feel no need for it. From your write up, you are trying to play it safe and scared of the unknown like getting sacked. So would it be nice if you are still in your parents house and get sacked? That would only make you more dependent. If you are on your own and God forbid get sacked, you would hustle more because you wouldn't like to go back to your parents house. And even if you have to go back, what's the big deal, your parents can't reject you. You should be thinking of leaving so you can develop your self and be positioned for a better job not fear of being sacked. No sensible management would lay off a productive staff, except they are shutting down. Leave and be a man, live is full of uncertainties, how we handle them or how we let them define us makes us real men. Cheers 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by nairaland0753: 7:23am On Jul 12, 2019 |
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Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by iamwalexab(m): 7:27am On Jul 12, 2019 |
AkataYeriYeri:Tell me more about this please |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by GRACEGLORY: 7:29am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Hullabaloon: It's natural and scriptural to want to set out of your parents house, (Matthew 19:5 ... For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh) but there's a time frame, and that has been stated by the scripture above. Why not stay and put yourself together properly before you set out. |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by AkataYeriYeri: 7:44am On Jul 12, 2019 |
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Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Adinije(f): 7:54am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Hullabaloon:Op, don't move out until you save up to 1.5-2million naira. Make it your goal for now, and you will be amaze at how soon you will raise it. Invest the 2million in Teasury bills (with any bank of your choice) You will be getting at least 100k interest yearly. You will then use the yearly interest for rent while your capital remains untouched. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Rexology: 7:57am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Contrary to popular opinion here, it is actually time for you to move away from your parents house. The reasons are as follows: 1.If you continue living with your parents,you may not know that you need to buy your own,plates,spoons ,pots etc. 2. You may not have a good financial planning because you live with your parents,free rent and free food(you may not actually get this point) 3.Staying with your parents at that age can make you slow down your hustle. 4. You seemed afraid to face the challenges out there. The Choice is all yours. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Mrjuice: 8:03am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Katier00: Secrete is self discipline & been frugal just like me.. As a corper who will be passing out on the 27th of this month, I have been able to save over 180k, add that to this month's final allawee & it will be over 200k.. Mind u, I have already bought a laptop(70k) to replaced my stolen one, occasionally send money to mama & even lent a friend 40k.. I serve in govt school with no stipend, but state allawee is 5k, I don't drink, i don't womanize , I don't v a gf coz that's not my priority now 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Hullabaloon: 8:13am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Galaticos444: Lolz, one man's meat.. Another man's poison What makes life exciting for you could be very different from what I find enthralling. Each to his own 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by JennyOfOldstones(f): 8:19am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Hullabaloon. Please Ignore all those saying you have to move out to know what it feels like to be a man by paying bills and other nonsense. The kind of job you have right now is not secure enough to support that kind of lifestyle. But to be honest, you do need a side hustle. Salary earning is not enough to sustain anyone these days. You don't even need to engage actively in a business. Make investments. Since you have a knack for saving, save for at least one more year and then really consider buying shares or bonds(Treasury bills) or even low cost land. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by ediko5(m): 8:29am On Jul 12, 2019 |
bluebay: You had a steady and reliable source of income. You may not compare yourself to the OP. Nigeria is too terrible at the moment to take some certain risks. (I'm not saying one shouldn't take risk, but be careful). Work financial background when you moved out mayn't be the same with him. Besides he has the fear of losing his job anytime. This is Nigeria 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by emonis88: 8:29am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Hullabaloon:U were able to do that cus u stay with ur parents, and were able to save up. Stay with them and keep saving, up grade urself, after some time, get a better paying job. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by ediko5(m): 8:33am On Jul 12, 2019 |
JennyOfOldstones: Very intelligent my dear. Don't mind those who feel they've experience life by renting a dungeon with a bed, 32" flat screen with GOTV, gas cooker 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:35am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Some of you guys put so much pressure on yourselves to be men... Take it easy. You should move out, but don't be erratic about it. I don't think you must live away from he to know how to manage funds. I have tasted both sides and I know there are so many home expenses you can't ignore. Expenses that may never arise when you are on your own. Stay with them a little longer, save more and see how you can get another source of income. Even if it means investing in someone and collecting some "dividend". 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by liverpudian9(m): 8:42am On Jul 12, 2019 |
your case is similar to mine i wanted to move out of home as well but i changed my mind i decided to move to our second flat in the compound and am using my mum's car to work and i pick students going to school in d morning which helps to ease fueling cost 4 d vehicle,nd i collect t.fare from d students, if u are at home you will save cost but u just have to start your life house rent,feeding and d likes. is not a small thing. you need to careful in making this decision 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:48am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Noel1:OH you want it transfered to your abode? |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Moventist: 8:56am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Since you're dicipline to have saved up to 400k out of the salary range of 60-80k . You can survive anywhere Base on your testament , you can take care of a family and your parents. Therefore, I advise you to move out of your family house to learn how to live alone, that would help you handle more challanges I am 31 Years old , I left my family house when I was 20yrs but still leaving in another house of ours but alone. I am into media productions, from the small incomes , I was contributing to my family and paying my studio and School fees of more than 100k I was lucky after my graduation, I served in Rivers . Do you know that I did touch my allowee because I was getting more than allowee in my PPA After my service , though I am from Jos, I secure a job of 50k but allowances that fluctuates between 100- 250k in Port Harcourt . Within one year I bought 5 plots of land in Jos and still contributing to my family Currently , i am studying Masters programme in Uyo and still paying my bills which include house rent of 200k in PH I am 31 yrs now , after my masters next yrs I should plan of getting married Your qualities of not; drinking, smoking and womanizing, I exhibited those characters that afforded me this achievement so-far I advise you to look for accommodation of about 100-120k that you have put in mind , it will help you to tackle more challanges than remaining under the wings of your parents which they have been solving some unseen challenges that you're yet to understand You're lucky to have a Job and be dicipline , take a step though is not easy and move out , you will be greater if maintain the padestrain you have set Your moving out should not be about being mocked by friends or colleagues but striving to be independent and prepare for your new home 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by AntiMCU: 9:00am On Jul 12, 2019 |
MasterRahl:Don't use your life as a yardstick please. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:01am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Duggedised12: Oh sorry about that, I just remembered you now. When are you moving to Lagos from Benin city though? you'll have more opportunities here oh |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by jobhunter11: 9:02am On Jul 12, 2019 |
moving out now might seem like a nice idea now but it is too risky....my idea would be to investments....but this time, not on a business but on yourself, try to get certifications onbased on whatever you are doing currently and use that experience+certification to make yourself attractive to other employers |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by AntiMCU: 9:15am On Jul 12, 2019 |
SmellingAnus:Thank you. I don't why folks like using their life as a standard for others. The Op should stay. 1 Like 1 Share |
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