J111333:
No relationship will be 100% smooth. Even a girlfriend you live in the same room with will still cheat if she wants to. I personally don't bother myself with certain things and the time I'll waste to monitor a girlfriend will be better used for something meaningful.
A lady I once hooked up with was the one asking me why I never accused her of cheating, I told her that the time she spends with another guy will reduce the amount of time she nags the hell out of me and she thought I wasn't serious with the relationship and called it a day.
I'm too relaxed to bother myself with trivialities. As my girl if you like cheat, if you like don't cheat, na your cup of tea after all, condom is cheaper than a bottle of water.

emkz:
A man worked offshore and stayed long periods of time without his wife. She stayed loyal.

I once had a girlfriend whose sister's husband had been away for four years. She was loyal.

A woman went to study for three years and stayed loyal to her man across the Atlantic.

Another woman came from Panama to do an internship in the UK, and she stayed loyal. How do I know?

A story was shared on instagram about a man who left his wife for 8 years to hustle abroad. She remained loyal. The man is now doing everything to compensate her for his long absence.

My point is that when people end up with the worng people, the relationship is bound to fail, distance or no distance.

In addition, circumstances can keep a couple apart, and if one or both of them decide to play away games, I think it should be peculiarized to them and not generalized to every instance of long-distance relationship. Like I said in another post, someone who has a tendency not to be loyal does not need the gulf of distance to manifest the traits embedded in his/her DNA. A person who has been disloyal before and got away with it would be disloyal again and assume he'd get away with it. Let us not use the foolishness of the senseless few to discourage people who are working hard to make their relationships succeed.

bdchange:

I hail you bro... Your heart na stone. Are you sure you will be able to love? Just asking ooo

bdchange:

When I marry, I don't care where ever my wife traveled to and how long. As long as I am aware of where she is headed to. By then I have made a vow and I will honor it. But during relationship where one partner might be having the thoughts that the other person might be cheating therefore he/she will also start cheating. Haba... No no no.. Its not for me

J111333:
It depends on what you define love to be. I love everything God created including animals.
Now, women want men to give up everything else just to "love" them unconditionally while they themselves don't. Isn't that stupidity?

theSpark:
Well thank God I had already made up my mind not to do initiate any relationship on a long distance basis. I can't rule out having to move away due to work or something. That one is manageable but I can't know someone is faraway and enter a relationship with them.

Majlaw:
It work well for me... Until I saw her wedding IV.

MariaLavina:
Long distance what?


lol... make I no talk

SmellySperm:
lol ....long distance relationship na scam na,am in it but my mind isn't there cos i cheat and i know she does as well,we are just there decieving ourselves and i kinda enjoy the game

MariaLavina:
Long distance what?



lol... make I no talk

Pattypatt:
First off, that girl is not smart, office romance is a no-no, secondly, i have tried long distance relationship and none have worked out, so I gave up, there must be cheating whether you like it or not, unless ofcourse the four people involved in the relationship are comfortable with it.

bdchange:

Imagining that! A lady traveled all the way from delta to Lagos to meet someone I know here in Lagos and they spent a week together. She happens to be a student. Are you telling me that girl may not probably has a bf?

AwkaetitiBabe:
Long distance relationships works for some. It takes genuine emotions, self control and value to stick to one person even though they are far...

carter009:
Will you stick to one person if is you.

vicben27:
it's not all true Sweedy, l've been in one for 3 years now! it's was difficult at first but it's all good now! marrying soon thou. when you both know what you want there is no room for bullshit

emkz:
A man worked offshore and stayed long periods of time without his wife. She stayed loyal.

I once had a girlfriend whose sister's husband had been away for four years. She was loyal.

A woman went to study for three years and stayed loyal to her man across the Atlantic.

Another woman came from Panama to do an internship in the UK, and she stayed loyal. How do I know?

A story was shared on instagram about a man who left his wife for 8 years to hustle abroad. She remained loyal. The man is now doing everything to compensate her for his long absence.

My point is that when people end up with the worng people, the relationship is bound to fail, distance or no distance.

In addition, circumstances can keep a couple apart, and if one or both of them decide to play away games, I think it should be peculiarized to them and not generalized to every instance of long-distance relationship. Like I said in another post, someone who has a tendency not to be loyal does not need the gulf of distance to manifest the traits embedded in his/her DNA. A person who has been disloyal before and got away with it would be disloyal again and assume he'd get away with it. Let us not use the foolishness of the senseless few to discourage people who are working hard to make their relationships succeed.

frankkydee:


I believe you totally cos i have seen and heard about same scenario. A cheat will still cheat even if you stay under the same roof

Jaqenhghar:

You cant speak for everyone. Just because it didnt work for you doesnt mea it wont work for others. My first LDR failed. The 2nd one worked perfectly. I know 5 others whom LDR worked for

emkz:


I feel your submission bros. A person who would cheat would cheat even under the same roof. It takes a lot of discipline, self-will and commitment to be loyal. One of the persons I used in my example is a close friend and we have known each other for 18 years now. I no go lie, I envied her husband and if I was ready when she wanted to be married, I'd have fought to have her as a wife. I observed how men drooled over her because she was fine as hell, with a shape that would make women envious. Her intelligence was inspiring and she was (and still is) very hardworking. Her voice is sonorous. 6 years and three children after, she gets better by the day. I used to call her for advise and she always spoke with feminine intelligence.

Even though her man was in the US studying while she was in the UK before they got married, she said no to all the men that asked her. She didn't tell them she had a man. She felt her being unfaithful is not betraying her man but betraying herself.

Pattypatt:
First off, that girl is not smart, office romance is a no-no, secondly, i have tried long distance relationship and none have worked out, so I gave up, there must be cheating whether you like it or not, unless ofcourse the four people involved in the relationship are comfortable with it.

Roon9:


Mine is 3 years now and intro is september