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Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by Habeyy(m): 2:39pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
J111333:That's is just the ish Many ladies out there want a side mumu that will be on a total lockdown fr them wihile they flirt around the town The bitter reality |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by bdchange(m): 2:44pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
Habeyy:The ones in this categories are the ones that believe beauty is all it takes to get a man. They want to fling their fingers and men should be crawling at their feet. I have seen some of them. |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by Habeyy(m): 2:46pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
bdchange:amen to ur prayers As I pray you find a good woman,I also pray for myself to find one But brother,do you know love shouldn't be one-sided I like the bible verse you quote buh I must say ,it can't only be "love" if all the bible requirement you mentioned are met by the two parties.. Thou nothing like perfection in love but partners shouldn't use that as excuse to break others by committing immoralities. How can I claim to love someone or vices versa if I don't care what the consequence of my actions and or inactions will be on the other party I am not shifting blames here I'm typing based on experience and realities of the modern age Broda,"eyes don see a lot" |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by Habeyy(m): 2:53pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
bdchange:bro it is not always like that Beauty, posture is not the determinant It is in the thought Good and ecil manners emanate from inside You just won't believe want satisfy people Bad is the new good in other people's case |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by bdchange(m): 3:00pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
Habeyy:The biggest challenge in that bible verse is if you are willing to sacrifice all that for love and yet your partner does little or nothing in returns. las las love go scatter. And that is my biggest fear in marriage |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by Habeyy(m): 4:00pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
bdchange: Now u getvmy point broda Marriage is a blind institution ,only God and i mean it "GOD" can help us through |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by Nobody: 4:09pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
Pattypatt: The post made reference to only three people, the girl and her boyfriend, and the office side nigger. So where did you get the fourth person from? |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by Greatzeus(m): 4:24pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
Jaqenhghar:Look at you,the girl's boyfriend was in PH thinking the same thing. Just because you call all the time and she picks and laughed doesn't mean it's working. Do you have any idea if she was lying close to another guy on the bed, rubbing her hair? Wake up bro,from self deception. You just assumed your LDR worked? Just like the guy in PH the Op talked about,I am sure he was somewhere then arguing about how ldr worked not knowing someone f u cks his girl to coma daily 2 Likes |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by Greatzeus(m): 4:33pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
emkz:You made no sense at all. How did you know it worked,? Unless you base your arguments on the fact that they came back together as couple after the LDR,which is very easy. The question is who told you the ladies or the men you mentioned didn't cheat? You see the guy the Op talked about will believe his LDR worked when he gets back together with the girl,no that's no the criteria. Did one of them cheat? Yes,so the LDR failed. Don't base your arguments on the fact that they came back together and everything was fine,what happened during the period. Can you swear with your life that none of those you mentioned above cheated? No, because you didn't follow them every where every time,so what gives you the impression that their LDR worked? |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by vicben27(m): 4:34pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
Pattypatt:not all girls are hoe, and not all guyz are Dogs, we both have our values, That's the most important thing, she knows me too well, and l know what shez capable of doing. let love lead, let it be founded on Trust |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
vicben27:Story. |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by emkz: 5:06pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
Greatzeus: Oga, learn to be civil when you are in the public domain. I will not be hollow to get into a rudderless argument with you. That you have not seen does not mean they don't exist. Change your circle and you'd be shocked that there are still decent girls out there. Nothing you'd tell them would make them bulge because they are matured and principled enough to know that relationship is hardwork and are ready to work hard for its success. I only cited a few examples, and my aim is not to make you believe but to make you aware and not generalize on the basis of statistical insufficiency which is the bane of our quasi-educated youth today. That the people you know engage in such erratic behaviour does not mean every one is like that. And bros, except you are neither intelligent nor observant, there is no way a man or woman would play games and you won't know or have an inkling. I have been in three long distance relationships by accident. I was loyal by choice and not by lack of opportunities. I have also been in a no distance relationship where I saw her almost everyday for two years (it was her sister whose husband had been away for four years). That one ended because I fell out of what I thought was love after pressing the porous elastic bobby of a tall elegant model in a cab. My point is that we should be true to ourselves and our partners. If you must cheat, take permission because no matter hos smart you are, you'd be caught except your partner is an oponu. |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by Jaqenhghar: 5:16pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
Greatzeus: Well done captain obvious where in my write up did I say I was sure she waas faithful. Nigger she gives me all I need and and makes me happy thats all I care about man. Until I get that 911 call saying my woman was fĂșcked to coma fĂșck what you think. 1 Like |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by Nobody: 5:20pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
emkz: So if you were the girl whose boyfriend work in an offshore (Oil or Marine company) or his outside the country trying to secure a better future for you both , you would let your sexual desires chase him away? Nna, your village people jazz dey very potent. Why not talk about the underemployed or unemployed young folks (25- 29) who are still trying to find their feet and tell us how many of their girlfriends or boyfriends sticked with them. 1 Like |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by vicben27(m): 6:04pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
Pattypatt:Lol Ok Ooh! you don't even trust Urself |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by Rossycee(f): 7:33pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
Long distance relationship works for some but it takes two serious and sincere individuals for it to work. 1 Like |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by jessysparkles(f): 9:33pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
bdchange: My dear that's why I said seeking God will help in that regards because I believe whatever is meant for you will surely be and whatever is not yours can never be yours.... May God guide and direct us |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by bdchange(m): 3:16am On Jul 27, 2019 |
jessysparkles:Amen ooo my sister |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by bdchange(m): 6:14am On Jul 27, 2019 |
Pattypatt:I liked this part where you said office romance is a no-no for you. Keep it up. I advised my colleague too to stay off it. It brings so many negativity and most times end with bitter taste than good. |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by bdchange(m): 6:28am On Jul 27, 2019 |
emkz:My guy I think you are missing the points. I for my self am faithful till even when I marry. But guys looking around and you see the rate people cheat and clean mouth as if nothing happens is alarming. That girl or guy you see everyday and smell decency in her might surprise you to know that her neighbors sleeps with her anytime she wants to. Meanwhile she will tell you she is only dating one guy. A guy told me she has a gf who is in Abia and still faithful yet a virgin. Yet this guy still sleeps with ladies here in Lagos before he moves back to Aba.then I asked him how can you have a lady of 26years and still a virgin and faithful, beautiful and yet still cheats on her. What else do you want.? He said he is a man and he can do what ever he wants. So cheating is too rampant today for you to now stay miles apart. The only exception I support is when both are already committed looking forward to getting married. Anything short of this is fallacy |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by emkz: 7:22am On Jul 27, 2019 |
bdchange: I think your bolded submission is summarily flawed. From my observation, marriage spurs certain people to bring out their worst (or best) traits. A good girl from a decent home would not become a bad girl during marriage assuming no other internal or external variables persist, e.g., bad friends, wrong conversations, absence of self-will, lack of self love, et al. However, a girl with a predisposition towards immorality during singlehood would amplify these attributes during marriage, also assuming no other extant variables are at play. The gulf of distance is not a variable that determines loyalty, rather it is a personal choise like the one you made. From all I have written here, this is the point I wish to emphasize. |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by emkz: 7:34am On Jul 27, 2019 |
muyiwaadekunle1: I won't talk about them. At 25-29, I would advise you devote your time building your life. That would be the time to learn a skill, do odd jobs to make money to attend coneferences, volunteer to serve at conferences and events where people are watching. What do you need a girlfriend for when you are unemployed? I did security work and carried concrete during my own journey. I served food to people during weddings and birthdays (I was recognized and got a real job by diligently doing that). If you expect a girl to stick with you when you are not making efforts to better your life, that girl is more foolish than you. 1 Like |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by bdchange(m): 9:46am On Jul 27, 2019 |
emkz:I think i understand your point, but I can't take some naive chances based on the information on LDR i have at hand. |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by Nobody: 10:27am On Jul 27, 2019 |
bdchange:Office romance breeds gossip. |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by bdchange(m): 2:23pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Pattypatt:I am not even talking about the gossip but putting emotions in place of professionalism is what might be at stake here. Especially when quarreling and both are asked to carry out a task. Human deficiency may come in which may affect the job because you were trying to avoid each other. |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by FEGEITOK: 11:28am On Jul 28, 2019 |
My girlfriend loved me. I loved my girlfriend. BUT My girlfriend loved to go to America more than she loved me. Today I am in Nigeria Today she is in America. Be sure you share similar goals with anyone you get involved with in a LDR. And she is no longer mine. |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by bdchange(m): 1:17am On Sep 13, 2019 |
FEGEITOK:The problem is you may not even have time to discuss some personal issues because of the distance and may later affect your relationship. I am regretting one currently. |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by bdchange(m): 1:19am On Sep 13, 2019 |
Rossycee:And I might have wasted some good years of my life before knowing she wasn't serious with me? Ba |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by TheApologist: 5:33am On Sep 13, 2019 |
bdchange:I understand your point but a cheat will always be a cheat. Honestly I want to believe the girl will still find excuses to cheat on the boyfriend even if they aren't separated by long distance. it is one thing to cheat but to do that with no sense of guilt is unacceptable. Long distance relationship work for some people it all depends on the two parties involved, the genuineness of their feelings (because like it's very easy to lose touch emotionally with someone who isn't available and making long calls won't make up for physical presence) and their sensitivity to sexual feelings and how to manage it |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by Rossycee(f): 11:56am On Sep 13, 2019 |
bdchange:Who knows. Well if you think you did atleast you have learnt from it. You just have to move on, pray and hope for the best. |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by bdchange(m): 9:32pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
TheApologist:Hope you know you are stylishly justifying cheat with the bolded in your statement. |
Re: Run From Long Distance Relationship With Your Two Hands On Your Head by TheApologist: 11:49pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
bdchange:don't read the content in isolation; I'll never approve of cheating no matter what, I only implied since it wasn't a one-off thing that she's definitely a pathological cheat. |
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