lagerwhenindoubt:

,  after so many runs across various age ranges, i have come to realise that womanizing is just a fruitless exercise in se.xual adventure. whether you admit to it or not, the heavenly feeling (Darn this nairaland bot. it is pour-pour or come) will always remain for a few fleetin seconds and you will hate the reason why you did  it and worse, how much it cost you in cash and emotional baggage. The bush is always the same in the end, with your eyes clothes you cannot tell the difference between a boxum-yanshed babe and king-kong in a skirt 

Right on the money with this point.

But if one's wife is a shyt head, then it is a whole different ball game when the person meets a woman who is well developed. It is not just a hole, it is a package.

why is that bugging you,   you seems materialistic

ahn ahn

Sagamite:

So when a woman cheats, will the courts also pass her wealth to the guy?

Kabukabu, all the women you showed, if they have a shyt attitude, I would not want to be with them. I don't care how HOT they are.

[size=5pt]I will bang before I go sha.  [/size]

I don't think Sanaa Lathan is incredible beautiful (she is, but not incredible like Hoopz) but in all the roles I have seen her act, she has been my type of chic, so anytime I see her image my heart skips a bit.

*Hauwa*:

why is that bugging you,   you seems materialistic

ahn ahn

The correct grammar is "you seem egalitarian".

Answer the question.

@OP
My advice is that the guy must try not to be alone with any woman at any time even in a public place. Some how let there be a third party within hearing range.

Flirtation leads to womanizing. It has a self-perpetuating spirit esp when the eyes lock on to one you find attractive even in an ordinary conversation and then one thing leads to another and b4 u know it de ja vu like the french like to say.

It is indeed an addiction that needs to be kicked. You dont always succeed each time you try like any cigarrette addict will tell you. If the guy is serious about stopping it then the struggle has to be a relentless one. Each time you fall, its ooops! Get up. Remember what doesnt kill you makes you stronger. Promise your self you will do better next time.

Sagamite, go back to my first response

*Hauwa*:

Sagamite, go back to my first response

This one?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-533638.64.html#msg6965876

It does not answer the question I asked you o.

whoever cheats, pays the price.

i hope you are feeling better now

*Hauwa*:

whoever cheats, pays the price.

i hope you are feeling better now 

Thank you, now you have answered. 

OK let me give you a very possible real life scenario:

If a man that is a millionaire, and had to work real hard to make those millions (lets say worth £20m) which meant alot of travel and nights in the office doing deals, who's wife feels she is not getting a enough attention because he is hardly at home and then gets attention from a man down the road and starts cheating.

The wife is a housewife, so is not a millionaire, lets say her total asset £50K. Are you telling me that the courts will give half her assets to her husband when they divorce due to her cheating?

Every simple.

1.   Be born again {Give your Life to Christ} If that is too difficult or you do not have faith in that then the second method will help
2.   Assume every lady/woman/girl is your sister/mother{ If you can sleep with your sister or mother the go ahead with any person}
Sex /womanizing is a thing of the mind.So control your mind and you will control it.
If these solutions can not help you then you dont have any thing to live for.

It is a lie (self-deceit) when we say men have the in-built urge to be polygamous or to womanise. It is an excuse we give to answer our guilt.
From my observations, women enjoy sex more than men and most women don't get satisfaction from sex (depending on how their partners can perform) yet they don't see this as enough reason to see other men; they remain faithful to their partners inspite of this. If men are born womanisers then women should be born worse "manisers".
I think most women are able to deny themselves by sticking to a partner (despite not getting satisfying sex) because our society correctly makes them believe it is wrong to have multiple partners while most men find it difficult because our society WRONGLY makes us believe it is ok.
Anybody that truly wants to stop womanising should first accept that it is wrong; that it is a lie that men are polygamous. Then love your partner and be faithful to her. Prayer works too.
Life is beyond sex and man can do without sex.

with all this beautiful ladies way God create u say make i stay with one habaaaaa,

pingu2k5:

It is a lie (self-deceit) when we say men have the in-built urge to be polygamous or to womanise. It is an excuse we give to answer our guilt.
From my observations, women enjoy sex more than men and most women don't get satisfaction from sex (depending on how their partners can perform) yet they don't see this as enough reason to see other men; they remain faithful to their partners inspite of this. If men are born womanisers then women should be born worse "manisers".
I think most women are able to deny themselves by sticking to a partner (despite not getting satisfying sex) because our society correctly makes them believe it is wrong to have multiple partners while most men find it difficult because our society WRONGLY makes us believe it is ok.
Anybody that truly wants to stop womanising should first accept that it is wrong; that it is a lie that men are polygamous. Then love your partner and be faithful to her. Prayer works too.
Life is beyond sex and man can do without sex.

I would really love to know which university you went to learn your own biology. You surely are the next Darwin. You are re-writing the theories of Biology.  

As far as I am concerned Darwin is not an authority. He was as human as I am.

pingu2k5:

As far as I am concerned Darwin is not an authority. He was as human as I am.

I laugh but at the same time pity. 

I 8 2 b d 1 2 s*h*i*t on ur lawn,bt i ain't got my dog license,i ain't nothin nice,n i ain't never met a piece of p*u*s*s*y i ain't liking sugar n spicin,kickd up wit ice n,u can do anythin wit these **** xcept housewife em,lik snoop said "it ain't NUTIN BUT A G THING"

Fiscabally:

I 8 2 b d 1 2 s*h*i*t on your lawn,bt i ain't got my dog license,i ain't nothin nice,n i ain't never met a piece of p*u*s*s*y i ain't liking sugar n spicin,kickd up wit ice n,u can do anythin wit these **** xcept housewife em,lik snoop said "it ain't NUTIN BUT A G THING"

Ehn!!! Awon gangster wannabees.

The worst thing be say most of dem never live Naija before but they are feeling "Hoodu" (My Yoruba accent pronunciation).

I shake my head even more in pity.

Fiscabally:

I 8 2 b d 1 2 s*h*i*t on your lawn,bt i ain't got my dog license,i ain't nothin nice,n i ain't never met a piece of p*u*s*s*y i ain't liking sugar n spicin,kickd up wit ice n,u can do anythin wit these **** xcept housewife em,lik snoop said "it ain't NUTIN BUT A G THING"

ayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

nah where you from come, my dear i just wanna let you know as a frd if you are thinking about rapping

bros abeg just go find work

Saga, you are something o

the man is worth 20m and the woman 50k
the man travels all the time
the woman does nothing but housewife

the woman sure takes care of the home and the children, right?

and if the man cheats, what happens? nothing??
i will definitely take everything even his slipper!
hell has no fury like a woman scorn.

no play with me o , now go get that prenup up. but i will still take everything you are worth.

it's simple, keep your third legs tied.

got to do my assignment now jare, i no fit dance kurubete with you

By practicing self control and zip em pant.

y me:

ayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

nah where you from come, my dear i just wanna let you know as a frd if you are thinking about rapping

bros abeg just go find work

Abi o.

Some of these pikins need a bloody flogging.

If I find out he is one of my junior cousins that is talking such crap and being a wannabee, you will see racing to the car with air condition cables and driving to his house.

Ma naa ni inakuna!  (I will beat nonsense out of him)

Make im no go pick in book, later you will hear he don fail NECO exams.

Yeye pikin, gangster wannabee.

Hauwa, yeye person.

You no answer my question.

Answer.

Theblessed:

[size=18pt]Did I hear, 'How'  And who is asking this question?

Two options are open to women who are married to philanderers here:

a)  Kick him out! And failing that;

b) Cut off his D i c k and let him suffer pain just as you're suffering emotionally and psychologically - he will then understand how not to cause pain on another human being.

In his next life, he will learn and understand the word 'Faithful' and swear never to be selfish and never again, hurt a woman. That's what women need to do to make those philanderers among men, overcome womanising.

Cut it off! After all, it's yours and yours only so, do as you please with it.  

Right, for those I have rattled now, bring it on! [/size]

How dazed

una no go kill me wt laff!

@ OP: i dunno. still waiting for the poster who's got an 'aha!' response

OMG! How i wish 2baba is on NL, he would have been d best person to answer this.
We guys cant jst help; thats d basic truth. Imagin sm1 like me who find no interest in dark ladies but always went after fair girls, d day i saw a sparkln dark damsel wt glittery eyes, i denounce my interest in fair girls alone but went after all species. It only require God intervention to remove that insect in our eyes called greediness. But belief me d day i will be opportuned with an Indian lady, aahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhcant say yet.

If women can stop being an accomplice.

Most women who cheat with married folks do it knowingly

Those who are talking about men marrying who they really love are just talking rubbish. How many men understands what true love is? For most men, the definition of love is  when you find a woman sexually hot and you are able to sleep with her. As long as her body is still appealing to them that means they are in love and as soon as they ve had enough of the woman's body, the love is no more there.
Ladies on their own part should stop complaining of a burning fire that is being fuel by them. Yeah, naturally men have the nature of being attracted by a woman's appearance. But let me say this, satan drops this womanizing thing like a seed in men and uses the ladies to nuture it through the useless and indecent way they dress. The more indecent exposures continues to flourish amongs our women folk, the more womanizng will continue to flourish in men so women should stop complaining about the growth of a seed which they are helping to nuture. Back in those days when majority of our ladies use to dress quite decently, womanizing was so minimal because, though the devil droped the seed then, he wasnt getting much avenues of nuturing the seed as he is doing now. Today so many ways, home videos, music videos, porn films, half nudity by ladies in churches, schools, offices etc.  ladies pls stop complaining. Not when you finish attracting a man wiith your unholy appearance you expect him to come and be faithful to you. He wont be because that thing that got him attracted to you is still being paraded out there by some othdr girls amd of course he will still want  to taste. When the foundation of your relationship with a man is based on appearing se.xually hot, then be sure that he will continue to get attracted to anything sexually hot. The painful thing about this whole thing is that satan is having a field day having deceived some pastors into convincing these ladies that God doesnt care about their appearance. May God savwe the world.

kabukabu50:

Who would want any other woman if he has this to come home to

I tell you, all these babes you are showing us here are not fine on the inside, a one nite with them will make you wish you guys never met, Their epicenter is so deep and wide, why? so much traffic, you better look for good looking lady instead of the most beautiful.

Yorisb:

@OP

Men are, by virtue of nature, polygamous. Not saying all but most are, so u can't actually persuade them of any fault/blame IMO.

BINGO. thats my point exactly.

samoks:


I tell you, all these babes you are showing us here are not fine on the inside,  a one nite with them will make you wish you guys never met,  Their epicenter is so deep and wide,   why? so much traffic,  you better look for good looking lady instead of the most beautiful.

I couldn't agree more.

I would rather have a good looking woman with superior personality than the most beautiful woman with inferior personality.

I also like the part you said "one nite with them" [i.e. the most beautiful].  I wouldn't deny myself such just because of personality. After that I wouldn't "wish" we never met, we just will never again [after a few months sha, I need to milk as much as I desire]. 

Most men CHOOSE BEAUTY over brawns,