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When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by Hot18(f): 6:46pm On Aug 12
Pls advise everyone.

When you are dating a guy and his mother hates you and asks him to end the relationship but he is still with you and insists on continuing with the relationship.

What do u do pls. I need ur contributions.

Thank u
Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by AkeNathan: 6:52pm On Aug 12
If it is one intended to lead to marriage, then i advice you to call the relationship off due to lack of family consent.

Nigerian marriages are largely traditional in nature and in-laws have huge role to play in your happiness or sadness in said marriage.

But if na f..uck_me_i_f...uck_you relationship you're talking of and no destination at sight.

Abeg continue deh Bleep dey go, wetting concern you concern family consent. undecided

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by baba6ix(m): 6:53pm On Aug 12
theres some thing you are not telling us.tell us that thing and we will tell you what to do

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by AkeNathan: 6:54pm On Aug 12
But if you want to be committed and really are in love, try discover why this woman DISLIKES you ( hate is a strong word i don't like to think she does ), after finding out why she dislikes you, you can learn from your man how you can be able to change the mindset of his mother toward you, either by convincing her you're not the kind of bad person she thinks you are, or by being the kinda good person that she will like. Your man also has roles to play in convincing his mother to accept you, after all, na only him sabi him momsi pass.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by AkeNathan: 6:55pm On Aug 12
baba6ix:
theres some thing you are not telling us.tell us that thing and we will tell you what to do

Abi oo. Painting a woman black. She doesnt want to tell us what warrants such elderly woman to despise her.

Whenever a story is one-sided then the reporter is hiding something evil and shameful.

Shame on you original poster.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:00pm On Aug 12
Keep your distance, but be cordial when you do meet in person. Basically, kill them with kindness. If they're quarrelsome & crazy, best that you avoid them as much as you can. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by donbachi(m): 7:03pm On Aug 12
Why wont she...when only ur eyelash is 2inches long,nails long like rat intestines...u sleep and wake up by 9am...jokes though...for the fact she dislikes u 2day.pls,bear it in mind she will never see any gud in u.even if u born twins for her son...she will always look at their ears,eyes,nose and mouth if they look like dat of her son whenever she's bathing them.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by vingeophysicist(m): 7:06pm On Aug 12
Babe change your attitude

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by latecsart(m): 7:30pm On Aug 12
u better change your attitude or the way you dress

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by Hot18(f): 7:38pm On Aug 12
XhosaNostra:
Keep your distance, but be cordial when you do meet in person. Basically, kill them with kindness. If they're quarrelsome & crazy, best that you avoid them as much as you can. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.

Thanks

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by Hot18(f): 7:38pm On Aug 12
vingeophysicist:
Babe change your attitude

Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by Hot18(f): 7:39pm On Aug 12
AkeNathan:


Abi oo. Painting a woman black. She doesnt want to tell us what warrants such elderly woman to despise her.

Whenever a story is one-sided then the reporter is hiding something evil and shameful.

Shame on you original poster.

Shame on u too. Did I paint her black? You can't read it properly?

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by 24kmagic(m): 7:41pm On Aug 12
Ok
Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by Hot18(f): 7:41pm On Aug 12
AkeNathan:
If it is one intended to lead to marriage, then i advice you to call the relationship off due to lack of family consent.

Nigerian marriages are largely traditional in nature and in-laws have huge role to play in your happiness or sadness in said marriage.

But if na f..uck_me_i_f...uck_you relationship you're talking of and no destination at sight.

Abeg continue deh Bleep dey go, wetting concern you concern family consent. undecided

So how will u know if a relationship will lead to marriage? Can u see the future?

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:44pm On Aug 12
I back down, no long story

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 7:46pm On Aug 12
If it's a guy that is attached to his mum, you should start stepping back because the mum will eventually win.

All you guys concluding that she must be at fault. Are you guys saying the guys mum is so perfect that she cannot be getting involved because of her own selfish interests...tribe, etc.

I just love my friend's case. He gave in to his tough mum's constant wahala about his choice of a wife. Now she and the babe no dey see eye to eye. Who does she now want to blame?

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by PUSSYHOE(m): 7:46pm On Aug 12
Hot18:


Thanks
Men don't understand women, women know women, she hates you means you aren't a good lady. back off!

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by rosy1992(f): 7:47pm On Aug 12
Please it's better to have a failed relationship than a failed marriage.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by Hot18(f): 7:49pm On Aug 12
rosy1992:
Please it's better to have a failed relationship than a failed marriage.

Hmm

He still wants me & says he loves me & I want him too.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by PUSSYHOE(m): 7:51pm On Aug 12
ImaIma1:
If it's a guy that is attached to his mum, you should start stepping back because the mum will eventually win.

All you guys concluding that she must be at fault. Are you guys saying the guys mum is so perfect that she cannot be getting involved because of her own selfish interests...tribe, etc.

I just love my friend's case. He gave in to his tough mum's constant wahala about his choice of a wife. Now she and the babe no dey see eye to eye. Who does she now want to blame?
Only a woman can psychoanalyze another woman and come close to a perfect conclusion. If i take a girl home i am eager to hear my mum's view than dad's, afterall a woman can easily manipulate a man into doing her bidding, but can't in most cases her fellow woman.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by Merit123(m): 7:52pm On Aug 12
If there's no any other things between you and her just hatred, I advise you to show her more love, be close to her all the time, she will definitely change. Because if you ran away because of her you will miss your right man. I wish you good luck God will be with you.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by Hot18(f): 7:59pm On Aug 12
Merit123:
If there's no any other things between you and her just hatred, I advise you to show her more love, be close to her all the time, she will definitely change. Because if you ran away because of her you will miss your right man. I wish you good luck God will be with you.

Thanks so much.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by Goalnaldo(m): 8:24pm On Aug 12
rosy1992:
Please it's better to have a failed relationship than a failed marriage.
i was just looking at your profile. You are quite beautiful.
I promise to kiss you before you wake up
Love you without the make up

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by Hot18(f): 9:14pm On Aug 12
Relationship issues is quite more than all this, sometimes complicated
Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 9:16pm On Aug 12
PUSSYHOE:
Only a woman can psychoanalyze another woman and come close to a perfect conclusion. If i take a girl home i am eager to hear my mum's view than dad's, afterall a woman can easily manipulate a man into doing her bidding, but can't in most cases her fellow woman.


You are quite right. It's just that some mothers interfere too much in their children's lives and try to make choices for them out of their own selfishness or limited knowledge or exposure.

A child should know how to balance the mum's advice and his personal choice. Afterall, he's a man and should be able to take decisions that affect his future

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by cooooooks(m): 9:34pm On Aug 12
It depends.

If you guys have a good relationship then carry on. It is not her cross to bear.

If you guys are together ONLY because of her dislike for you, break up immediately.


Above all, don't demean yourself because of her. No need to be pre-emptively rude but stand up for yourself and your bf. Leave him if he doesn't stand up for you.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by PUSSYHOE(m): 9:41pm On Aug 12
ImaIma1:


You are quite right. It's just that some mothers interfere too much in their children's lives and try to make choices for them out of their own selfishness or limited knowledge or exposure.

A child should know how to balance the mum's advice and his personal choice. Afterall, he's a man and should be able to take decisions that affect his future
In his mum's eyes he is still her child.

Now this is what you don't understand, there is difference between complaint and rejection, if the mother complain there is always room for attitude adjustment but when she rejects especially on first meeting even if the girl is my soul mate, missing rib i aint gonna marry her.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by sparkle7: 9:43pm On Aug 12
Hot18:


Are you dating from a different tribe? An inter tribal relationship?

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by Oluwadamilare118(m): 9:49pm On Aug 12
Just quit!
Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by AwkaetitiBabe(f): 9:58pm On Aug 12
There's nothing prayers cannot fix. Our God is Great.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by BIGGIE121(m): 10:00pm On Aug 12
AkeNathan:
If it is one intended to lead to marriage, then i advice you to call the relationship off due to lack of family consent.

Nigerian marriages are largely traditional in nature and in-laws have huge role to play in your happiness or sadness in said marriage.

But if na f..uck_me_i_f...uck_you relationship you're talking of and no destination at sight.

Abeg continue deh Bleep dey go, wetting concern you concern family consent. undecided

follow this advice

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Re: When Your Boyfriend's Mother Hates You, What Do You Do? by carter009(m): 10:09pm On Aug 12
But the guy is not treating her bad and she loves him,, why telling her to quit the relationship...
rosy1992:
Please it's better to have a failed relationship than a failed marriage.

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