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Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Filmewell(f): 9:55am On Sep 14, 2019 |
She is an emotional woman that is why you're words affected her that much but she has truly forgiven you if she says so. No need to keep on pleading, time ,distance or distraction will remedy the situation. But truly these words are enough to genuinely end a marriage. Nobody wants to be second fiddle all their life. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 9:56am On Sep 14, 2019 |
healthserve:Lol Zielle is too perfect to want to take any chances with me. She would prefer not to find out if things will work than for her to risk getting hurt, thats the kind of person that she is. Which is not a bad thing, but old age has taught me that every good thing comes with its own risk. But like I said, it was old age that taught me that, so I pretty much understand why Zielle would not want to come close to me even with a 10 foot pole. It's the world we live in, very few people actually live their dreams, majority of us miss out out the good things of life due to fear. I am ignoring the question in bolded. I am too heart broken right now to answer that. Heart broken that Zielle and I would never be. And I am being haunted by the reverse reminiscence of what could have been... Assuming we were both brave enough to just let things be... I am copyrighting the above lines, if anyone reproduces it without authorization, you will be prosecuted to the full extent of the law, and you will realise the hurt of a man scorned, you have been warned... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by healthserve(m): 9:58am On Sep 14, 2019 |
calgaryFriend: Dude. Do me a favor first by erasing all you typed last please. I'm unbended knees right now. Don't lose it Never imagine a woman too high there and above errors until you've met them. You never may know. Life has its way of fashioning things. In the case of relations, I've learnt by experience to wait for people and not fill the gap with my own thoughts and assumptions which in itself points to mental inconsistencies and instability. If you desire a lady, just tell her, if she says no, suck it up. But that voice saying she won't accept you sucks and reeks of insecurity and poor self image. Everyone has an advantage or two. I'm sure any lady with you isn't as bad as you paint it. Try your shot. If she's taken, move on. As for me I imagine first all ladies are taken first before I make the approach ,this soothes the pain of rejection |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Vikkoh(m): 9:59am On Sep 14, 2019 |
OP, ...don't beg her again.. Just do this.. Go out tomorrow to a place where they sell Ice cream, buy one and take it home.. When you get home, go to her, tell her you've a surprise for her and that she should go and bath.. When she is out, Blindfold her, tie and strip her unclad. Take the Ice cream and put it round her nipples and then extend it to her stomach and other sensitive parts. NOW lick it in the most romantic way and make sure she gets hot.. While she is hot and maybe dripping, smooch her and still tell her you're very very sorry for what you said, OP turn to a mumu, if she doesn't agree, bleep her and leave, if she does, then congrats.. OR lf you stay in Abuja or Lagos, Google search where you can find a hill or a place you can get a nice view at night. Take her there, buy something for her and beg her again, make sure you use a perfume and if possible play a cool music, it always assist in keeping memories.. Just think outta the box Mhen! |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 10:02am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Vikkoh:Na wah o, blue film on Nairaland ? Oh my dayss healthserve allow a man pour out his mind fa... 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by healthserve(m): 10:03am On Sep 14, 2019 |
calgaryFriend: If you ask a lady out, wait for a response before you jump to conclusions my brother. You'll end up single o. . How about the chick who was also is it Canada too. Did you try your chances with her atall? |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 10:08am On Sep 14, 2019 |
healthserve: I am currently in my waiting time now, at Gods appointed time, he will make everything perfect. Even if he stays it is Zielle, I know he will find a way to touch her gentle heart and make her respond to my email chain. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Vikkoh(m): 10:11am On Sep 14, 2019 |
calgaryFriend:D; diff. strokes for diff. folks.. It might work. |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Richy4(m): 10:17am On Sep 14, 2019 |
calgaryFriend: We are all looking for a suitable solution for OP.. Just that the ice cream might melt before he gets home under Nigerian hot sun 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by kunleweb: 10:18am On Sep 14, 2019 |
calgaryFriend: Health handle got banned. I feel sorry you carried this apathetic mindset to Canada. Every time is God's time. Never sell yourself short nor present yourself less than your value cause of your desires If you fancy a lady, man it up and make the moment He's time.while you wait on the angels to blow the trumpet that its time, folks are making move daily. Make the moment the right time by simply asking her out. How about, Hi Zill, I've been an avid follower of your comments and I must say the brain and sense behind those words points to a decent person. If you'll oblige me, I like to get to know you better. Rather than wallow in self pity brought about by insecurities and poor self image,take action. And make the moment count as the right time. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 10:21am On Sep 14, 2019 |
kunleweb: Alright , I will copy and paste this and send to her, I will let you know how it goes. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by kunleweb: 10:40am On Sep 14, 2019 |
calgaryFriend: Good luck ahead bro |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 11:08am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Hurtful things we say while angry. @Op give her time, she may come around. How's 31 old sef 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 11:10am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Vikkoh:Sex? Please he should try something else. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Odenjiji: 11:19am On Sep 14, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: Good words. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Saintmary(f): 11:32am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Charles1888:Ohhhhhh there's something adorable and endearing about a man who apologizes over and again when he's wrong. Trust me, and I'm giving you a secret here apologize for a very long time, apologize effusively, tell her you almost made a mistake by almost choosing someone else, that God guided you to the right woman even though you didn't know better, Be romantic, in fact be very jovial, crack jokes and ask an older man how to make your woman happy without telling him your problem Believe me, your marriage will come out stronger if you can turn your sour words into praise with wisdom. Good luck to you man, a wise man builds his home. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by kingjomezy(m): 11:34am On Sep 14, 2019 |
usernamepass: what is this thing saying ? |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Vikkoh(m): 12:05pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Not just 'Sex' , a ''mind-blowing sex'' might be good enough to clear the 'smoky-hate' she has for OP .. Or he can try the other method tho. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Naijazure: 12:09pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
Charles1888: Errhm.... Uncle this ya matter is serious ohhhh Infact I'm sorry on ya behalf... Ask I can say for now is remain very diligent in undoing the wrong. All the best. |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 12:13pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
Vikkoh:He should buy her a very cute puppy. |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Vikkoh(m): 12:15pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: You love puppies bah? What if she doesn't love Puppies? What if she is from that tribe that loves eating grown-up puppies? I no call name oh! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 12:20pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
Vikkoh:Lol. He should stop apologizing and start showing her she's enough. His actions should speak volumes. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Vikkoh(m): 12:33pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: The plain truth is, OP is a weak 'peace beggar and teaser'.. But Babe, if you were told the same by your husby, what would you do? |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 12:57pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
Vikkoh:My dear, that talk will break my heart o. If na boyfriend, I go simply ghost am. But for husband, him go change my wardrobe and get me puppy for all to be well... I love peace 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Acidosis(m): 12:59pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Even if he shows her she's enough, we all know deep down that those actions are merely an attempt to sound romantically correct. There are way too many evidences of moral hypocrisy in the world today. Visit the BBNaija threads for instance, and see married men and women crushing on housemates. A lot of people are married to the Oshiomoles (no offence) of our time but secretly desire (in the guise of celebrity crush) hot models and Hollywood stars. How's that different from what OP said to his wife? Oh, because some are vocal while others decide to sink it in? Romance (love) may get us all into marriage and relationships but it is the ability to accept the tenets of realism that sustains marriages. I love you, I love you, yet we condone and secretely nurture other side attractions. Realism states facts whether you people decide to talk or not. Word is word, whether spoken or not. Majority of men only married people they can afford at a point in their lives. Well, it doesn't men don't love their wives but the power of affordability cannot be ruled out. I wish people will begin to embrace realism without, of course, negating the place of romance. If you've ever had an ex you love so much, please don't come and be giving me stories about being your alpha and omega. As much as the spoken words hurt, realism wouldn't make her get mad for so long. The wife should wake up from dreamland and fantasy. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by madridguy(m): 1:39pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
May God Almighty bless you for this comment. The OP went into the wedding for personal gain as he have said and only for him to murdered the innocent woman with his tongue. AleksAndria: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Nobody: 1:43pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
Acidosis:Supu! I am sure everything will work out fine. 2 Likes
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Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by ibkayee(f): 1:49pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
I genuinely don't think there's any coming back from this, unless you somehow get ahold of a memory eraser. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by generationz(f): 2:36pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
sisisioge: You dey mind them with their pot bellies 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by aminusodiq(m): 4:38pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
usernamepass:mad people full here o � |
Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by kunleweb: 4:54pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
usernamepass: Hahaha hahaha |
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