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Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by princeadams11: 9:58pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha:No reason to be angry as long as the house is running as it should afterall the upkeep is for her to manage the house. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
If you are saying so I can spend less in other stuff you will do with the money good but if you are saving for any other thing, I just reduce upkeep money if I found out 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by tolumizzy(m): 9:59pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
If its for us... No p |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Cutehector(m): 10:00pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
She doesn't yet understand her man, if he likes transparency then she should be transparent in financial dealings with him. If I give my woman 100k for shopping and she comes back and gives me 39,750naira as the change from the shopping, why wouldn't I not be happy and confident in her that she is trustworthy. That would even make me tell her to keep the change or give her more. Wives these days should learn from the story of Esther in the bible. It is that simple. 6 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by martineverest(m): 10:00pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
nope....I will commend her |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by vickydevoka(m): 10:01pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
I can say de man is right n wrong depending on ur partner. My papa no get wahala bcus him get excess. Buh my neighbour no go happy with him wife cus him de manage.. Please ladies try n understand ur husband or his condition buh doing dat 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by DEBJOCH1(m): 10:01pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
THE NAN NO FIT THROW FACE? HE MUST BE A STINGY MAN, ANY MONEY MY WIFE SAVED FROM THE FAMILY UPKEEP MONEY STILL COMES BACK TO THE FAMILY, AND THE GOOD THING IS THAT SHE BRINGS THIS MONEY AT THE TIME I AM BROKE AND WILL SAY USE THIS, I AM NOT GIVING IT TO YOU, BUT I AM BORROWING YOU OOOO.... SHE KNOWS THAT'S THE END OF THE MONEY, 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by OMOTOWO(m): 10:01pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
My wife is fond of this and anytime I lack money, she go inside the room and bring out money. So why will I be angry with her? E good bajebaje 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Cantonese: 10:04pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
For the very good women, such money is kept for the rainy day. There is always that day when oga has no money in his pocket for transportation to work. There is always that day when oga cannot afford to give money for soup in the house, etc. Great women quickly come to the rescue of the man and the house. Inexperienced or baby husbands never understand what it means. Baby or inexperienced wives take undue advantage to buy clothes and jewelries for themselves to the detriment of the house. That is for the wives who think their husbands are their money slaves. 4 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by unadeymadkwa: 10:04pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
From my understanding of this topic. Op's sister is a jobless house wife with no personal source of income.... in quater to 2020 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by sylve11: 10:05pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha: very childish reasoning...mtswww 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by seunmohmoh(f): 10:07pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
What would he do if he found out she spends it on unnecessary things instead? Only married people understands themselves sha, because there is nothing wrong with it. 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Nobody: 10:08pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
JasonScoolari:that if she had any left overs she should have told him so he'll add it to the next money he'll give and spend less. he said she's selfish and inconsiderate. Na watin make the man vex be this |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by sylve11: 10:09pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
jkendy: did the op tell you that her sister is rescuing the family in trying times from her savings?? from my observation, from they way the man is angry, goes to tell you that the woman is truly selfish. 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by seunmohmoh(f): 10:11pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
niaralandtopuser:See excuse |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by sylve11: 10:11pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
niaralandtopuser: and from the way the man is sounding, things aren't too okay for him. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by ipobarethieves: 10:11pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Every women do dat.No wonder u see sum men dey go market prize fish and las las got shortchange by iya kemi,mama Obinna,Malam yinusa |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Kennyfancy(m): 10:11pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
ednut1:u just said d truth |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Cantonese: 10:12pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Cutehector: So your wife should turn to mallam changing money inside the house or aboki with walking stick that begs money? How does giving you “change” make your wife a trustworthy woman? Hahahahaha. I laugh in French. One of those things that keep the house happy and going is the money madam keeps to herself. Bros na wah for you o. So it means that you will give your wife money and then the list of items like ugu, ponmo, etc to go to the market. When she gets back you execute a search warrant on her and the items. Why not kuku go to the market yourself so that madam will not “chop” your change illegally. Bros I hope you are not one eri eri? 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by sylve11: 10:13pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Cantonese: una go just dey talk. havent you seen women who'd rather go to the grave with her savings than salvage hungry stomachs? you don't just assume things. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
seunmohmoh:I just copy watin I see from her post. ABI you no read am? hope you are not among those that inflate money needed for upkeep |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by chaiks: 10:15pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
[left][/left]that's the problem with some women. She should utilize the full upkeep money for the benefit of everyone. Is not good to give your wife money and see she didn't buy things worth the money you gave her. Such women cannot even feed the husband well. If she needs money to hold, why not open up to the husband? I believe he will understand. Those who will bear the brunt of such women are outstanding dues living with them as boi boi or househelps |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by seunmohmoh(f): 10:15pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
niaralandtopuser:I was referring to the husband's excuse not you. I'm not married, I work and pay my bills |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Nobody: 10:15pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
sylve11:some inflate the amount needed for upkeep. women should always consider their husbands when demanding for money 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by 1x2x3: 10:16pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
nextstep: You aren't sensible for calling the husband mad. It's obvious the woman isn't working to support the family and the man is probably overworking and committing all for upkeep and others, sometimes men are left with no spare money of their own then all of a sudden you discover upkeep money is being splitted. I won't fault her if she's saving it for rainy days but there are chances it's for her selfish gains. She could end up borrowing the husband the money when the family is in need. I've seen women borrow their husband money from what they milked from him and he must pay back as they always claim they got it from a friend. That's selfishness laced with lies and deceit. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
seunmohmoh:okay. when you get married, don't inflate the cost of running a home. make una dea consider men |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by grandstar(m): 10:18pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
All depends on the motive of the woman. The motive is all that matters. If it's for the family in time of want, good. If it's to set up a business and use the proceeds for the family, good. Even, the husband will be praising her when they fall on lean times. No condition is permanent. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by macho44(m): 10:18pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha:Biko, no vex ooo. This ur Moniker, can you conveniently pronounce it without BITING ur tongue, cuz I just bit mines while trying to |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by toprealman: 10:18pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha:He has a point 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
she is MISAPPROPRIATING the money. She is diverting the money. She is stealing. this is the same way Nigerians in government put aside 10% for themselves. no difference. why will the husband not be angry, when that is money he could have probably used for better things. imagine if the husband was constantly giving one story or another as to why there was never enough housekeeping money while he was SECRETLY doing his own thing. 4 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by armyofone(m): 10:19pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Oga gave me 2000 naira for stew expecting me to spend everything on a well made ingredientize stew with hefty goat meat! I was able to apply my bargaining skills and spent over one hour walking about the market for good prices and brought home some change. I have been saving that small change for raining days. Now oga is mad because of that Okay, bring it on!! Op, hope your sister has a job. 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by famzynet: 10:24pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Nigerian females are selfish. The husband is angry because the wife broke his trust by keeping money meant for housekeeping. Your sister should get a job if she wants to have some change for her self. You don't expect a man to suffer ,or even borrow money just to keep the house running and to make you happy,then budget house expenses,pay rent ,school fees and you probably have your own budget then you go and buy 30cups of rice instead of 40,pocket the remaining ,then after few days you tell him that there is no rice at home . He will feel cheated if he gets to know you pocket some money. You can call it whatever you want but that is dishonesty and no man wants a dishonest woman. A financially stable man may overlook it but don't blame a struggling man who probably has debts to pay if he lets hell loose. 4 Likes |
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