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Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Martinez39(m): 11:02pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
1x2x3:Oga, the issue is just common sense. The females are defending the woman and making excuses for her because they are the types that would selfishly and wickedly milk their husbands. They are just soothing their conscience and protecting their manipulative game by using stupid excuses to favour the narrative that it's right to milk their husbands. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by jaxxy(m): 11:03pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
I don’t have time or energy to argue about such things. Petty arguements. What nonsense 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by victorian(f): 11:04pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Martinez39: Well it's true, looking at it from that angle. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Martinez39(m): 11:06pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
victorian:How is work? I hope UyaiIncomparable is no longer giving you problems? |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by victorian(f): 11:07pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
1x2x3: Maybe the husband does not want her to work. I know of igbo traders along the lane my office building is, the very beautiful wives they bring from the village don't work, they prefer she stays at home. While they work and bring in the money. You wil hear the traders whisper to themselves, they don't want Lagos girls to spoil their wives nor Lagos guys to deceive their wives. So she's better off staying at home. All the igbo traders have seen, they are all the same. Their wives don't work. What do you say about that? |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Martinez39(m): 11:10pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
fowlyansh181:Exactly. Had it been the wife had told him, he wouldn't be angry. For her to keep what's left and still collect more upkeep money shows she has been lying to the husband. For the husband not to have known shows that she must have told lies. She is milking her husband and the igwe must hear this. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by victorian(f): 11:12pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Martinez39: Nah, at all Uyailncomparable is a sweet girl, very nice lady. I misconstrue her intentions. We later met and she's a cool babe. work is great I can't thank God enough for everything . |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Martinez39(m): 11:13pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
victorian:Oh great that both of you found peace with each other. Peace is better than dispute. Have a nice day. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Cutehector(m): 11:14pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
Cantonese:you comment with emotions rather than making sense 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Cutehector(m): 11:16pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
victorian: |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by bleskid: 11:23pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
some men get wahala like women ishhhhh mtewww |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Oyerinde16(m): 11:26pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
I will be very angry.. Experience something similar, my babe be complaining foodstuffs is expensive, Me- babe estimate how much you need without asking or complaining. Babe- 35k. Me- not wanting issues, okay monthly I struggle to pay 35k for foodsftufs. I Carter for electricity bills, water, house rent, TV sub's, data etc by month end I'm dry, yet she keeps saving as much as 15-20k from the monthly house keeps. I was once very broke I asked her if she had money she could lend, she said no. I took inventory of what she bought month end it wasn't up to 10k I later discovered she gives out the remaining foodstuffs once month is ending... Me will end the relationship end of this year, make she save well... 4 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by OgogoroFreak(m): 11:27pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
[quote author=Deola2020 post=82211875][/quote]Hehehe... See your nose |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by armyofone(m): 11:31pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
ha! Opari!! ornicus: |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Neyoohpompy(m): 11:36pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
You'd better end it now before she milk you dry before year end. Oyerinde16: 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by pocohantas(f): 11:38pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha: Is it under this few weeks that they are already fighting over "change"? I doubt that, the issue has been there. Your sister should return all his change to him whenever she comes back from the market, to the last kobo. If he feels like giving her back, fine. After that she should face her business very well. If she were working a 9-5, salary for sure, but as a business woman- she has to find a way around it. E get as you go ignore man money, not maliciously but because you are pulling your own weight- he would be the one trying to make impact. Allow his ego do the job. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Bbbwings: 11:51pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
LordKO:Kindly join the queue. We are many on her case |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Bbbwings: 11:59pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
1x2x3:So you never heard? Different rules apply to males. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Nobody: 12:22am On Sep 14, 2019 |
If she's saving for emergencies why on earth would I be angry with her? It gladdens a man's heart to hear of such woman. When I give my girlfriend money she saves some without telling me, but when problem comes this girl will magically bring out money from no where, if you see the smile in my face. Nothing sweet me pass, I don't have time to ask nonsense questions about where and how she got the money even if I noticed the meat in the stew was smaller than the previous one! Which kind yeye investigation be that one. Your sister deserves an accolade not bashing! And those of you saying she broke his trust and she would have told him, really? As if you won't ask for the change to fuel the generator or reduce next month money and ask her to add it up with the change. She's doing you a favor by saving it, cause one day it will be red and you won't see a dime from anywhere then she'll magically provide money. Ave read of a case where a man was in tears because the landlord came disturbing for rent and he had nothing and the wife went into her room and opened her savings box, parked all the money and give to him. It was more than enough to pay the rent! There are boys and there are men, it's only a grown boy husband that would get mad at his wife for saving money! That's pure stupidity. 4 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Enyimbamercedes: 12:25am On Sep 14, 2019 |
It even annoys me when she is spending the money for upkeep excessively on upkeep. I ask if she won’t save anything... 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by kazyhm(m): 12:25am On Sep 14, 2019 |
ednut1: This is the problem. She won't even borrow you your own money in time of shortage of fund 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Nobody: 12:33am On Sep 14, 2019 |
OgogoroFreak: My sexy nose ba 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by kazyhm(m): 12:45am On Sep 14, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha: Closed for some weeks ? Where is her saving from her business ? You don't have the full gist 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Nobody: 12:54am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Oyerinde16:Your babe is very wicked! There's a very big difference with what she's doing and being prudent. A good woman will never hype price or lie about cost of food stuff in the market. She will only price harder in the market, or omit some items that are excess at home. And she's saving the money for when you will need it not for her selfish gain. Asking for 30k monthly for food stuff just for the both of you is fraudulent and she should be reported to EFCC |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Godtschild: 1:18am On Sep 14, 2019 |
lol olodo that's NOT gender equality though. Gender equality means access to equal opportunities regardless of gender. E.g a woman shouldn't be barred from being a pilot and a man shouldn't be barred from being a hairdresser. Datazone: |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Godtschild: 1:36am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Shut the f^ck up!!!! Are you married? The sister already said the wife has a business. Do you know if that was the arrangement between the woman and her husband?! ”I doubt that” see your yeye mouth what do you know about a dispute between husband and wife?? pocohantas: 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by diehard1: 2:04am On Sep 14, 2019 |
The man should be happy that the wife can save something from what she's given. Some women will spend everything and still request more. The money should be seen as spent for the month. The man is still behaving like a boy. This shouldn't be reason to quarrel. It's this kind of person that will one day call the wife for audit of spendings and subsequently request to be the one buying things for soup too. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by tunjilana: 2:11am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Oyerinde16: As a man u need to marry a woman u can trust...infidelity is not only in body...there is financial infidelity too....I mean if u can't trust her with upkeep money...how do u trust her to execute and supervise projects if u need to travel and work from abroad....If only women know the doubts they cast in the heart of men with behaviours like this...A man begins to question loyalty sef...transparency and openness is all that is required 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by KunAviero(m): 2:26am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Some people will be lucky enough to find that good wife as described in the holy book but will now use their stupid behaviour to reject the favours and blessings they are supposed to get from God. Mad people everywhere. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by fyneboi79(m): 2:31am On Sep 14, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha:No big deal, women have that tendency to always want to save for the rainy day. Infact I will be happy because she will save me expenses elsewhere. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Obason22(m): 3:06am On Sep 14, 2019 |
[quote author=princeadams11 post=82210697][/quote] I disagree with u, ur sister is pushing this young man to spend higher so that she can save for different purpose, u and ur mummy came for Omugo for this hardships and u are telling the young man not to complain, he most complain oo, body no be firewood. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by victorian(f): 3:34am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Martinez39: Yes we did. Thanks dear |
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