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Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Angelfrost(m): 7:05am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Sigh... Some men just don't want their wives to be financially independent or progressive. An act that should receive high commendation and encouragement, is being misconstrued and criticized... Too many married men with self esteem and ego issues. Smh. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by 2019Danny: 7:13am On Sep 14, 2019 |
I won't be angry she is saving from upkeep money but might be angry if not used used wisely... |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by traffwire: 7:15am On Sep 14, 2019 |
It's well
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Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by princeadams11: 7:15am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Obason22:We are both entitle to our different opinions however, the arguement here never mentioned about a lady pushing her husband to spend higher than he is suppose to spend. The topic here is about a lady saving from her monthly upkeep provided by the husband. In my opinion she can go ahead and do whatever savings she has to do as long as the house is running as it should. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Duggedised12(f): 7:19am On Sep 14, 2019 |
A prudent woman who can find?. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Cantonese: 7:22am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Cutehector: Then you did not read the sense in the comment! Are you married? Only married people with understanding of how homes are run can get the sense in my comment. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Cutehector(m): 7:23am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Cantonese:still typing with emotions darling. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Fxwarrior: 7:26am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Acidosis: Hmm. People don't see the bigger picture. They choose to see a stingy man. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by mu2sa2: 7:37am On Sep 14, 2019 |
When you give your wife a certain amount of money monthly as upkeep allowance, that doesn't mean all the money should be exhausted every month. Every prudent woman always keeps something in reserve in case of emergency. Any wife who doesn't do that is thoughtless. A man related how his wife would collect money from him even to buy N20 salt. This continued for years. Then he fell ill and had to undergo surgery, but he couldn't foot the bill. He was literally dying. He said he couldn't believe it when his wife brought out the money and paid the bill. Since that date he said he appreciated his wife's uncompromising prudence on housekeeping expenses. 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by MisterKings(m): 7:41am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Either he is drunk or stupid or both. Why is he angry, is it worth getting angry at? Shouting at a woman who just came from labour. He is the one who is inconsiderate and selfish. He is a coconut head, tell him I said so 4 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by franklingud(m): 7:47am On Sep 14, 2019 |
I don't understand some guys nowadays. That woman is a great wife indeed. Infact OP, that man should divorce your sister let me marry her. He's not mature enough to settle down with a woman. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by NoToPile: 7:49am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Lots of boys on this thread sha. You will know those that are men from the comments. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by princetg: 7:55am On Sep 14, 2019 |
I will not be angry base she is full house wife . |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Nobody: 7:57am On Sep 14, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga: I do not recall advocating that women be housewives. The man's earnings are for the upkeep of the house, school fees etal, while the woman's earnings are for her own use. That's how naija women roll, no be so? |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Pearl05(f): 8:09am On Sep 14, 2019 |
The man hasn't said what's eating him up. As long as the woman doesn't starve the house because of her savings, I don't see anything bad there. At the end she will still use her savings for the family as whole or herself ( which the man will be given credit for) or send some to her parents which they will Think that it's from their in law. It's time una pack una and go. Maybe the man is now tired of una presence. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by baratech: 8:21am On Sep 14, 2019 |
eTECTIV: On point |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by AfroKnight: 8:27am On Sep 14, 2019 |
lilmax: Well said. She could not hide her bias when narrating the story. That wife had private plans for the money and that is dishonest, somewhat. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by babyfaceafrica: 8:29am On Sep 14, 2019 |
depends,we have two types of wife: 1.a wife that saves upkeeps and use for herself and refuses to lend the husband money when he is broke 2.the one that saves upkeeps for rainy days...and freely gives to the man when he is in need which one is your sister? addendum:.I perceive that the wife has not been honest to the man all binitio..if she had the man won't be upset...people trivialise Lita of things,but if you are not plain with your spouse, he/she will not trust you |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by babyfaceafrica: 8:33am On Sep 14, 2019 |
AfroKnight:it is dishonest. abeg leave that somewhat!! |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by pocohantas(f): 8:34am On Sep 14, 2019 |
[s] Godtschild:[/s] You are the one that should do the shutting up. So it was an agreement between them and he is angry over her saving "change"?He wants his wife to be penniless at every point? That further burtresses my point, she should face her business, make her own money, contribute her quota to the home and save as she likes. Is this the kind of dispute people have with their husbands? Change? I bind it!! 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Nobody: 9:04am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Godtschild:Then you can be referred to someone who has the tool but don't know how to use it. You simply follow dictionary definition but don't think out of the box. Okay, gender equality "access to equal rights and opportunities". In this case "right to work - engage in productive activity to earn money". I'm asking her if she lacks such right. Mumu |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Tallesty1(m): 9:13am On Sep 14, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha:So she deserves to be given money because she is a woman? This is insane. See, any lady who doesn't have a source of income which she can use to settle her own petty needs has no business in marriage. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by AfroKnight: 9:16am On Sep 14, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica: I wanted to soften the “dishonest” for sensitive folks. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by fortune1968: 9:17am On Sep 14, 2019 |
capitalzero:You should be less contradictory .How is it possible for for a wife to be cutting from money meant for the family upkeep and for instance sending it to her family AND AT THE SAME TIME ,use it for the intended purpose ? what exactly are you saying ? |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by owila4luv(m): 9:57am On Sep 14, 2019 |
i will be very happy o! |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by ogawisdom(m): 10:39am On Sep 14, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha: She should be returning all left over to him at the end of every month so he can spend less otherwise I see it as stealing from the upkeep money simple |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by yeyeosoronga: 10:40am On Sep 14, 2019 |
ornicus: No, that's not how Naija women roll. Working Naija women contribute to the household |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Nobody: 10:41am On Sep 14, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga: when they do, it is at their discretion. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by babyfaceafrica: 11:13am On Sep 14, 2019 |
ornicus:giving women upkeep should be at the husband discretion too! |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by tojahh(m): 11:25am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Your sister is telling the husband to go steal more so she can save and tagged prudent and osusu wife. If I provide pocket money for you as a wife aside the upkeep money then your short changing the upkeep money just for saving is greed and unappealing. But if otherwise then save whatever is left of the upkeep money for your use. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by Obason22(m): 12:40pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
princeadams11:she have right based on conditions of her husband, from example my friend is a business man and one day he told me that he keeps 2,000 everyday except on Sunday for his wife aside of money for food so if such woman refuse to save it means bad for her. |
Re: Will You Be Angry With Your Wife If You Discover She's Saving From Upkeep Money? by isaiahethan: 12:53pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha:As for me I do advise my wife to save from the money I give to her 1 Like |
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