OSUigboFlatHead:

Olodo
How many times have you Googled that word to know the meaning?

The question should be, ..... Hw many times have u gone to ur psychotherapy to treat Ur mental illness.

cerpvad:
Still surprised how 4 months after delivery some women are fit to start having sex again when some still no fit have sex for nearly a year after delivery. Na so so pain dem go dey complain

BTW, isn't it true that a woman cannot get pregnant while still breastfeeding?? If this is true, then the op may be lying

I thought as much oooo... I learnt that in school, from our Biology teacher

Why not use condom?

If I don't want pregnancy, I would use condom regardless of if she is my wife or not.

Na u dey suppose to abort.

Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

My dear, best advice to give you is this, don't you dare abort it, both of you might regret it later, leave the baby to have life biko, it happened to me, i was scared then cos i was too young, but my decision not to abort it then is the best for me now, not only imagining how both of them looks like twins now but super proud and blessed for not aborting her when her elder sis was just 5 months, pls dear take my advice, it might be rough now but bet me, you will see the glory later in life......don't kill that innocent blood forming up, ejor.

donstan18:
You are one of the luckiest husband in Nigeria for having a fertile wife.


They are.very few and you should be grateful.

how lucky ?with a population of 200m growing at 8 percent to reach 400m by 2050 .the average Nigeria woman is fertile

Hold on. let's check VAR.

JubrinElSudan:
Add 9 months to the 4 months and your first child will be 1year and 1 month by the time the 2nd one is born . E no too mean like that Congratulations

The guy problem I guess is money

Abortion laws in Nigeria are restrictive & your situation is not an indication. Indicated in conditions that can compromise a woman's life or if the foetus has gross anomalies not compatible with life.
Your wife should eat well, register for antenatal & continue to breast the baby. As the pregnancy advances breast milk will stop flowing & the baby should be weaned. After delivery, she should be on an appropriate contraceptive; preferably an intrauterine contraceptive device (IUCD) or an intradermal implant.

how old is the pregnancy ? ..you can email me let me tell you how you can go about it....Imehgabriel@yahoo.com

SirVintageCock:
This is a new mother for crying out loud. What is there to understand? Her cycle probably hasn't returned fully when you fvck her. How can she even calculate a damn thing when there are semen all over the damn vagina?. Why didn't you use a damn condom until you can choose another birth control. It takes some time for the hormones and cervical mucus to go back to normal.
Just barely 4 month after birth? You laid this accusations too thick here, I wonder how the wife will be feeling and the craps you will be shelling out on her. You messed up dude!!!!!!
Blame games doesn't work, it is for the fainthearted who cannot take responsibilities for their juvenile actions.. Learnt that from Buhari sha.....

See here, ask your wife what she wants, na she get the body.
Use condom in future, do not hand over your control remote to anybody by believing someone else in this case your wife will make the right choices for you. We all have different aims and goals, guard yours judiciously when others doesn't seem to bother.
If you had taken control by having a backup, you won't be asking this questions.

Can I like your respond multiple times?? People do not understand how child birth scatters the hormonal balance which is why it is recommended you give the woman time to heal. It's not a big deal, forget shame, you guys are married. Chin up& forget risking her life for abortion.

A305:
Nigerians are very backward people. (Spits on the thread.)

Someone who made a honest mistake posting to solicit advice, Next thing is bashing and castigating. SMH.

Op, Good thing y'all aware of the early pregnancy, take your wife to a reputable hospital and abort the pregnancy. There after, Use the the help of a professional doctor in the family planning field to get the safest and affordable family method done and continue sex with your lovely wife.

Pay NO attention to comments by h ypotocrites on this thread against abortion, many of them have done it or paid to get it done. See that Lexus down my sig.

People are bashing him because his original post heaped blame on the wife. Mishaps can happen but he only has one child, he didn't state if he intends to have only one child, otherwise, why stop a life?

imexg:
how old is the pregnancy ? ..you can email me let me tell you how you can go about it....Imehgabriel@yahoo.com

He's stated the information about the pregnancy. What advice do you have for him?

You're blaming it on family planning, What kind of family planning did you use?
Please don't tamper with that baby before you live to regret it.
Just find a help for your wife, to enable her cope better. Then after she delivers, you can do implants or IUD. That one can help prevent future occurrence till you're ready.

You welcome... Sorry if asking too much question. Where in Lagos are you maybe we could hang out of this days.

Lamanii22:


Awww thank you... Yeah, Lagos...

JubrinElSudan:
Add 9 months to the 4 months and your first child will be 1year and 1 month by the time the 2nd one is born . E no too mean like that Congratulations

Pity him.

Rajman45:

The question should be, ..... Hw many times have u gone to ur psychotherapy to treat Ur mental illness.

Lol
The person you need that answer is apparently your father.

Layooo8:
That is a great lie, I did it and it work for me, because I have plan for my life.
Am living happily and enjoy my life now

If you had plans, then you wouldn't go for family planning.

Abi Ohh, bruh, the op thought we didn't go to school

daddyfreeman1:
I thought as much oooo... I learnt that in school, from our Biology teacher

cerpvad:
Abi Ohh, bruh, the op thought we didn't go to school

en No know say there are intellectuals here... now he's the olodo here

OSUigboFlatHead:
Lol The person you need that answer is apparently your father.

Father...... Nd I thought you were mature... Lol. Like i said, u need serious help.

Have the Baby!!! alot of people did same just be careful to avoid further occurance .

madridguy:
You welcome... Sorry if asking too much question. Where in Lagos are you maybe we could hang out of this days.

Jakande Estate, Isolo area...

LadySarah:
The guy that opened a thread on why his uncles wife aborted without his knowledge should come and view this thread.

If the op could say this rubbish abt his wife on cyberspace,you would then imagine what he had told her at home.
Do you think that the wife wont silently abort the next time?

Xc:Olawalebammie,Blessedkingg.

Sarah see u?? did he say his wife went to abort it behind him without his own volition?? and neither did he say his wife vacated the their home after comitin the acrimonious act..

Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

See Bros....the deed has been done. Don't abort that baby...that's murder in the eyes of God.
Here's what has worked for me - I & my wife went to the family planning clinic. IUCD was administered & inserted in her, after which the doctor asked that a scan be done to confirm the device is secured in position. Scan is positive and okay.
Now we are told that most family planning methods are not 100% fail safe. So what I do in addition to the IUCD is that I go the extra mile in calculating my wife's safe and unsafe periods using 'ovulation date predictor calculator'...just search for the phrase on Google...you'll find so many websites that will do this for free for you. You just type in the date when the last menstruation began, assuming your wife's menstrual cycle is 28 days & the website will give you the next safe & unsafe (fertile) periods. Add 2 days to the unsafe/fertile before & after & practice abstinence during this period or better still, use a condom.
Family planning requires commitment & sacrifice from both parties & the rewards are great. These methods have helped us for over a year since we started it. My son (2nd & last child) is 2 years plus now & by God's grace, I & my wife have agreed that child bearing is over/ history for us. With all hands on deck & God's help, I believe these methods are fail safe.

All the best Bro....remember don't abort that child!

Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

If u kill that innocent soul, u have terminated a destiny and generation and is called Murder.
God hates Murder don't opt for it at all.

Good one

Charleys:
Family planning is for people who have no plans for their lives..... At all.

People who plan their lives won't go for family planning.

Expansiate pls

Seek your gynecologist.. don't go for abortion,u know u'r womb is still fresh

Princessajoye:
Seek your gynecologist.. don't go for abortion,u know u'r womb is still fresh

. Same thought.

Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

You better don't touch that pregnancy. Did the baby ask to come to life? You and your wife better respect yourselves and don't you ever tamper with the life you didn't create.

I have some women around me going through hell in their marriage because they haven't been able to give their husband a child since they got married. Some are more than 10 years in their marriage without even a single miscarriage, and here God has made your wife a fruitful vine and you dey yarn rust!

Touch that child and let God deal with you.

oyinda1599:
She can't breastfeed while pregnant with another child, it might affect the health of the four months old baby.

Where did you get that information from?
Is it scientifically proven or just a myth?