JubrinElSudan:
Some babies weren't breastfed at all and they turned up fine, he has tasted breast milk for 4 months, it's unfortunate for the baby but then for his health, he has to "man up" and start taking milk

you very correct, baby like that will results to feeding on NAN milk. Which is also very good though nothing like breastmilk.

Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

Pls no comot the belle, every pikin na blessing. May look tough now, but future go sweet cule when de grow up. God go provide for you

Ebonygirl1:

Oh please. You absolved him when you stated that it was her SOLE RESPONSIBILITY to ensure she didn't get pregnant. They ought to have agreed on a good birth control method. How many times can a woman consume Andrew liver salt and all that nonsense?

They both to blame sis... I pray any decision they take brings them joy.

Rajman45:
U get wahala ọ, after just 4 months... U start de knack her

Stupid kids everywhere...

You'll learn someday...

People should learn to take responsibility for their actions, if people advice you to go for abortion and something bad happened, you will be shouting it was people advised you followed.

Dear Op,
Sorry your family has to go through such a period of uncertainty.
Please disregard people saying you shouldnt be having sex with your wife, they know not what they are talking about. You can have sex with your wife. We usually advice sex after 6 weeks following a csection or 2 to 4 weeks of vaginal delivery or as soon as the woman feels ready and well in herself to engage in intercourse.
What family planning method did you use if i may ask Sir? There are methods that ensure almost 99 percent success. please be informed lactational amenorrhoea(natural contraceptive every breastfeeding mother enjoy) is not as reliable as people make you think and its less reliable in women who are not breastfeeding well for whatever reason.
While I will not advice abortion, if you get it done, id advice you see a family planning specialist to discuss your options and make an informed decision and actually do one. Failure to do so may make us have this same conversation in a few months time.
From my experience, when Nigerians tell you they`ve done this and that, you can almost be certain they have not seen a qualified professional. Yes, qualified professionals abound everywhere in Southern Nigeria.
Each General Hospital in Lagos State for example has a department dedicated to that. Make use of it if you are in Lagos.
If you are not in lagos, you can get in touch and i`d find out about one close to you.

oyinda1599:
Well, there is NAN milk to feed the baby but seriously the situation can just alter the proper growth of the baby.

I will call it the law of bio-reproductive equilibrium, even our inside life have rules.

Despite family planning work well and effective, but no family planning method is one hundred percent waterproof.
Pregnancy may come.

dondemex:
I’m very sure he’d be raining insults on the innocent woman. You don’t want her to get pregnant yet you’re pouring and pouring inside now coming here to blame her, someone that’ll still suffer another 9 months after just getting relieved of one. Don’t let me call you a shameless man o

You're just a very wicked person for trying to blame her... I pity that girl...

AwkaetitiBabe:
All this people saying keep it, do they even know the financial capacity of the new family? Lets drop morality and sentiments aside and reason rationally... You caring for a baby and wanna be saddled with the ish of morning sickness and wahala that comes with pregnancy... Op you guys should safely abort biko.

But they ve tried to abort without success. The available option is to allow the baby come to this planet

you were busy humping that kitten without thinking you should pull out. when you would have known it would be catastrophic for you and her financially, and her health inclusive. the pregnancy should be........... I no tok anything biko

Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

You dey follow your baby dey drag your wife,, continue,, baby go suck, you go suck and knack

your problem,....me coming here is my own problm

Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

Keep the baby. He or she is an inheritance from God- Psalm 133. Many people are looking for one and don't have. Don't be ungrateful. You must not kill.

24kmagic:
I just cannot stop thanking God that I'm a man.

Why?

Because I know that I will never get blamed for any lapses in marriage.

I can't believe I can also blame my wife for getting pregnant even though I wont stop knacking.

God, this good thing that you have done for me, do it for my unborn children. Make all of them male

Craze people full this world.

babajay109:
I will call it the law of bio-reproductive equilibrium, even our inside life have rules.

Yeah, the activities not to be altered anyhow, any little deviance sometimes results to undesirable result.

So Who send You ? Ewu

Lamanii22:
Don't abort it oo... Give birth to the baby, and I will adopt it.. Children are gifts from God.... And you want to reject it? ... He gave the baby to you, he would surely take care of it...

This same stupid mentality is responsible for the menace in the society, over population, poverty and poor family planning ......gerrout of here

I observed new couples make such mistake, a sis of mine was 3 months sef. I com dey wonder naso knackin dey sweet reach, mine after what my wife went through in the labour room, the pains, blood,etc I cldn't touch her for 6 months talk more of pregnanting her.

Bad guy. I will advice u guys keep the pregnancy.

Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

Don't ever try it pls

What's your reason for thinking so ❓

Is it shame, it can't be because you are sure if the paternity

Is it what people will say, nonsense, whatever they says is not your business, people must talk

Is it about the economy, then reduce your expenses to cater for them

What again is your reasons ❓

Next time, learn how to calculate her safe and unsafe period then you discipline yourself

AwkaetitiBabe:
Not enough reason. Besides why can't they take precautionary steps to avoid pregnancy? I heard ordinary Andrew liver salt and some Lil things in the kitchen can render sperm useless. Abeg I blame the woman jor. It's her body and she has the sole right to maintain it properly.

Maybe the husband na bricklayer . Dem no dey get patient

Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

Pls don't terminate the pregnancy, The same thing happened to me back to back. My fist born senior my third born with exactly 3yrs. They gave them selves 1yr and. But I have to take a break there. It's 3yrs after our last born. No family planning just taking cautions.

Please do not, I repeat do not kill that innocent baby that you have called out to this world. You made a mistake but your unborn baby is not a mistake. You are not the first to experience this, man up and accept the responsibility, you will get through it no matter how difficult your condition is now. That child may turn out to be the joy of your life and your peace in old age. Some good advice has been given to you for the future, please take note of them. Ask God sincerely for help and strength, He will help you. All the best.

babajay109:
Can she be pregnant and the same time lactating.?

Yes and 100 percent normal

OSUigboFlatHead:
Stupid kids everywhere...
You'll learn someday...

Thank u sir.
Stupid mature man...
U will learn the harder way someday, if u no use ur head well.

Who impregnated her??

Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

please do not abort that child, that child is going to be the president of a country, so don't try it, or u will regret it.......

This is one of the core reason for abortion, not illegal abortion carried out by our young ladies today.
Go to any known hospital, government owned or private if is registered. Present your marriage certificate and possible the witness(es) who their signature appeared on the certificate as required by some hospitals. Though not all need to see the witness (es). Then the abortion can go ahead to be carried out legally.

I won't abuse you but you have 99% blame for this mistake. You wife is just recovering but you won't let her rest.

Anyways, this is my advice:
Your wife need to stop breastfeeding the your 4 month old baby if she is pregnant because it is no longer health with the hormones she will be producing at the same time.

You also need to start practising withdrawal method. But wait, don't you understand the menstral cycle and how it works? This is it: the first 3 to 4 days after her period are safe; on the 5th day, bro, you are playing with fire. Am talking from experience on this. U can't never be wrong. If konji catch after that, use withdrawal or condom.

You also need to take your wife to good hospital. If you can't afford very expensive private hospital, go to top grade general hospital and get advice on this.


Lastly, bros ,give that woman a rest. She might break down with your knacking, baby sucking, house chores and work together , that is if she hasn't now.

Enjoy your wife n appreciate her. Stay blessed

Rajman45:

Thank u sir.

Stupid mature man...

U will learn the harder way someday, if u no use ur head well.

I see why good things eludes you...
Keep growing in frustration

Rajman45:
U get wahala ọ, after just 4 months... U start de knack her

How many years is he to wait before they resume knacking?

You need to put that d!ck on a leash