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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by oyinda1599(f): 10:39am On Oct 12, 2019 |
JubrinElSudan:you very correct, baby like that will results to feeding on NAN milk. Which is also very good though nothing like breastmilk. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by ogododo: 10:41am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Adebowhales: Pls no comot the belle, every pikin na blessing. May look tough now, but future go sweet cule when de grow up. God go provide for you 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Nobody: 10:42am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Ebonygirl1:They both to blame sis... I pray any decision they take brings them joy. 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by OSUigboFlatHead(f): 10:42am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Rajman45:Stupid kids everywhere... You'll learn someday... |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Realdeals(m): 10:42am On Oct 12, 2019 |
People should learn to take responsibility for their actions, if people advice you to go for abortion and something bad happened, you will be shouting it was people advised you followed. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by lulufaj(m): 10:43am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Dear Op, Sorry your family has to go through such a period of uncertainty. Please disregard people saying you shouldnt be having sex with your wife, they know not what they are talking about. You can have sex with your wife. We usually advice sex after 6 weeks following a csection or 2 to 4 weeks of vaginal delivery or as soon as the woman feels ready and well in herself to engage in intercourse. What family planning method did you use if i may ask Sir? There are methods that ensure almost 99 percent success. please be informed lactational amenorrhoea(natural contraceptive every breastfeeding mother enjoy) is not as reliable as people make you think and its less reliable in women who are not breastfeeding well for whatever reason. While I will not advice abortion, if you get it done, id advice you see a family planning specialist to discuss your options and make an informed decision and actually do one. Failure to do so may make us have this same conversation in a few months time. From my experience, when Nigerians tell you they`ve done this and that, you can almost be certain they have not seen a qualified professional. Yes, qualified professionals abound everywhere in Southern Nigeria. Each General Hospital in Lagos State for example has a department dedicated to that. Make use of it if you are in Lagos. If you are not in lagos, you can get in touch and i`d find out about one close to you. 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by babajay109(m): 10:44am On Oct 12, 2019 |
oyinda1599:I will call it the law of bio-reproductive equilibrium, even our inside life have rules. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by juman(m): 10:45am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Despite family planning work well and effective, but no family planning method is one hundred percent waterproof. Pregnancy may come. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by OSUigboFlatHead(f): 10:47am On Oct 12, 2019 |
dondemex:You're just a very wicked person for trying to blame her... I pity that girl... |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by femi4: 10:47am On Oct 12, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:But they ve tried to abort without success. The available option is to allow the baby come to this planet |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by sparta191(m): 10:48am On Oct 12, 2019 |
you were busy humping that kitten without thinking you should pull out. when you would have known it would be catastrophic for you and her financially, and her health inclusive. the pregnancy should be........... I no tok anything biko |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by isaiah332: 10:51am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Adebowhales: You dey follow your baby dey drag your wife,, continue,, baby go suck, you go suck and knack |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by fowosh: 10:51am On Oct 12, 2019 |
your problem,....me coming here is my own problm |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by smasher1(m): 10:52am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Adebowhales: Keep the baby. He or she is an inheritance from God- Psalm 133. Many people are looking for one and don't have. Don't be ungrateful. You must not kill. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by dazzlingd(m): 10:53am On Oct 12, 2019 |
24kmagic: Craze people full this world. 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by oyinda1599(f): 10:54am On Oct 12, 2019 |
babajay109:Yeah, the activities not to be altered anyhow, any little deviance sometimes results to undesirable result. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by ChefM: 10:55am On Oct 12, 2019 |
So Who send You ? Ewu |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by dazzlingd(m): 10:56am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Lamanii22: This same stupid mentality is responsible for the menace in the society, over population, poverty and poor family planning ......gerrout of here 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by puretayo(m): 10:57am On Oct 12, 2019 |
I observed new couples make such mistake, a sis of mine was 3 months sef. I com dey wonder naso knackin dey sweet reach, mine after what my wife went through in the labour room, the pains, blood,etc I cldn't touch her for 6 months talk more of pregnanting her. Bad guy. I will advice u guys keep the pregnancy. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by frozen70g(f): 10:58am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Adebowhales: Don't ever try it pls What's your reason for thinking so ❓ Is it shame, it can't be because you are sure if the paternity Is it what people will say, nonsense, whatever they says is not your business, people must talk Is it about the economy, then reduce your expenses to cater for them What again is your reasons ❓ Next time, learn how to calculate her safe and unsafe period then you discipline yourself 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by thesmallgod(m): 10:58am On Oct 12, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:Maybe the husband na bricklayer . Dem no dey get patient |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by lordlugards: 10:58am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Adebowhales:Pls don't terminate the pregnancy, The same thing happened to me back to back. My fist born senior my third born with exactly 3yrs. They gave them selves 1yr and. But I have to take a break there. It's 3yrs after our last born. No family planning just taking cautions. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by dreamangel: 11:01am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Please do not, I repeat do not kill that innocent baby that you have called out to this world. You made a mistake but your unborn baby is not a mistake. You are not the first to experience this, man up and accept the responsibility, you will get through it no matter how difficult your condition is now. That child may turn out to be the joy of your life and your peace in old age. Some good advice has been given to you for the future, please take note of them. Ask God sincerely for help and strength, He will help you. All the best. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by LadySarah: 11:05am On Oct 12, 2019 |
babajay109: Yes and 100 percent normal |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Rajman45(m): 11:06am On Oct 12, 2019 |
OSUigboFlatHead:Thank u sir. Stupid mature man... U will learn the harder way someday, if u no use ur head well. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by chocboi78(m): 11:09am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Who impregnated her?? |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by GREATESTPIANIST: 11:11am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Adebowhales:please do not abort that child, that child is going to be the president of a country, so don't try it, or u will regret it....... |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Monday60655(m): 11:12am On Oct 12, 2019 |
This is one of the core reason for abortion, not illegal abortion carried out by our young ladies today. Go to any known hospital, government owned or private if is registered. Present your marriage certificate and possible the witness(es) who their signature appeared on the certificate as required by some hospitals. Though not all need to see the witness (es). Then the abortion can go ahead to be carried out legally. 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by ayando(m): 11:13am On Oct 12, 2019 |
I won't abuse you but you have 99% blame for this mistake. You wife is just recovering but you won't let her rest. Anyways, this is my advice: Your wife need to stop breastfeeding the your 4 month old baby if she is pregnant because it is no longer health with the hormones she will be producing at the same time. You also need to start practising withdrawal method. But wait, don't you understand the menstral cycle and how it works? This is it: the first 3 to 4 days after her period are safe; on the 5th day, bro, you are playing with fire. Am talking from experience on this. U can't never be wrong. If konji catch after that, use withdrawal or condom. You also need to take your wife to good hospital. If you can't afford very expensive private hospital, go to top grade general hospital and get advice on this. Lastly, bros ,give that woman a rest. She might break down with your knacking, baby sucking, house chores and work together , that is if she hasn't now. Enjoy your wife n appreciate her. Stay blessed |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by OSUigboFlatHead(f): 11:15am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Rajman45:I see why good things eludes you... Keep growing in frustration |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by khome(f): 11:19am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Rajman45:How many years is he to wait before they resume knacking? |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by crazycrypto710: 11:20am On Oct 12, 2019 |
You need to put that d!ck on a leash 1 Like |
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