otherway:


Any lady is also free to cheat o.

Ryan03:
but it makes sense to send your wife packing if she cheats on you? Why didn't you consider the children and the nonsense broken home ish?

Blackmiserable:


Not so fast, no, it goes both ways too.

Amanda4life:


I pray God blesses you with my kind.

I will quietly treat your case.

In your next life when you see a woman you will take to your heels

IsI agboncha

Magnoliaa:


People can change their orientation and can conform to a certain way of living. "It's a mind thing" - like the OP is fond of saying.

It's beliefs like the OP's, yours and more that aid the behaviors of unfaithful men. They don't respect anybody.

Why is it okay to preach to a woman to stay with a cheating partner? Is it okay for her to cheat,
too? Anyone can cheat. People are naturally polygamous. So if you can expect of the woman faithfulness (which is contrary to her nature),
why can't you expect the same of a man?

CaptainMitch:
Kai you are beautiful

Magnoliaa:


So, you'll rather spread the mantra of accepting the status quo than imploring people to change their conditioning? Attitudes?

otherway:


Any lady is also free to cheat o.

Magnoliaa:


sir, Jesus said Moses - not Him or his Papa. Permission doesn't make doing something the best God's will or desire. Because so many things were recorded in the Bible. So many things. Rape, incest. God gave people over. So, where are the verses on GOD DIRECTLY allowing divorce or polygamy.



So, right... Jesus said divorce should happen when infidelity set in. This is clear.

My questions to you:
1.Do you believe that verse and think couples should follow it?
2.Do you think that verse bounds only a woman to be faithful to her husband?



3. As a Christian, what do you think of:

Proverbs 5:15-23?
Hebrews 13:4?
1 Corinthians 7:1-4; 13:4-7?
1 Timothy 3:2-4?
Malachi 2:14-16?
1 Peter 3:7?

Guest007:


I'd go as far as to say, people are A sexual and everything else is learnt behaviour

wrongnumber:


You call it a Mantra but i call it nature, no one can fight nature. Deal with it or continue to fight a lost course.

Toks2008:


But Permission means it is not a sin. That is good enough.

Regarding your other questions, these threads of mine have answers to them.

https://www.nairaland.com/4303658/does-god-permit-polygamy
https://www.nairaland.com/3384570/does-god-permit-woman-divorce

Magnoliaa:


Really? Permission means something is not a sin? Wow. So, please, tell why God wants to judge sinners for their wrongdoings and rejection of Christ then. After all, they are expressing their free will. God gave all the liberty to do whatever they please and choose whom to serve. Why will God not be letting everything all go then?

Romans 1:28 means God approve the bad acts of people right? All the times God was ALLOWING the Israelites go astray, to turn to other gods, and then entrapping by causing other nations to conquer and rule them - none of their actions were sin?

Toks2008:


Can't believe you just argued the fact that PERMISSION IS NOT A SIN!

Are you for real? There are somethings you don't argue about.

What just happened here?? ?? Are you trying to spin this on me now?

Who said, '

Toks2008:


But Permission means it is not a sin. That is good enough.

' ?

And I said: God ALLOWING something doesn't mean that thing is right. It can be a sin, and yes, God can permit it. Remember we are/were talking about divorce. And whether it is right or not. And you quoted a verse from Matthew, where Jesus said Moses allowed people to divorce. Jesus said it wasn't so from the beginning. And neither was it God's intention.

I repeated the same thing.

God allowed it.

Doesn't mean it's good.

You should be giving yourself that piece of advice your wrote last — don't argue everything.

Guest007:


So you are broke, uneducated and you can't live without your husband. You are definitely op's audience, I'm glad his bs reached one person.

Maybe advocate for family planning and education before marriage instead of the crap you are selling here

Amanda4life:



Onye ala

Magnoliaa:





What just happened here?? ?? Are you trying to spin this on me now?

Who said, '' ?

And I said: God ALLOWING something doesn't mean that thing is right. It can be a sin, and yes, God can permit it. Remember we are/were talking about divorce. And whether it is right or not. And you quoted a verse from Matthew, where Jesus said Moses allowed people to divorce. Jesus said it wasn't so from the beginning. And neither was it God's intention.

I repeated the same thing.

God allowed it.

Doesn't mean it's good.

You should be giving yourself that piece of advice your wrote last — don't argue everything.

Toks2008:


No mind many ladies claiming levels on this thread...many of them are actually dating married men who they rely on for financial succour.

Even Linda ikeji and Toke wey dey form alpha females calm down laslas.

Guest007:


Dignity is levels for you now... Like I said, I dey your back... I underestimated you, I believe you're not the enemy. I finally buy... More ink to your printer

Toks2008:


Omoyi jo ma yo ile aye mi lenu.

Believe what you want dearie. It's a free world.

Wey lalasticlala sef? thread wey don gather 8 pages without entering front page surely deserves more contributions.

wrongnumber:


If a lady has the number of kids she can take care of why not?

Are single mothers committing suicide cos they have no husbands? Abeg talk another story. Many women are even breadwinners today taking care of the children and even the husband.

Toks made perfect sense with this piece. My mum told me If she looked at my father's behaviour she will not even give birth to me but she did and took care of us successfully and yes she is happy.

Is Linda ikeji, Genevive,iyvone jekede and their likes unhappy? I think ladies arguing this write up are dumb.

PHOTSEE:
IN AS MUCH AS I AM A GUY,I AM NOT IN SUPPORT OF YOUR MOTIONS BRO. REMEMEBER THE SAYING, WHAT A MEN CAN DO A WOMEN CAN DO BETTER, EVEN UNDER YOUR NOSE. SO THEREFORE DON'T GO THERE, IF YOU THINK OTHERWISE,YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Menopause is catching up. I need a sperm donor.

He has to be fair, tall and Ibo and more importantly, free from any disease. Apply within, no time to waste

Obilomatic:
I want to apply, let's sit and talk ASAP.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Lol. Was only trolling.

Obilomatic:
I won't agree o, you must do or we will kill each other, lol, I'm dead serious o

AwkaetitiBabe:
Lol. Pm me first.

Obilomatic:
I don't know how to work this Nairaland, maybe you should send me your email if you can't sent your number, Instagram handle or something

AwkaetitiBabe:
You can send your number and I'll call u.