nan1:
Guy let me be honest with you that girl is seeing another man forget that born again it's deception I'm speaking from experience I have many friends that claim born again if you see what they do you will be shocked if she really loves you she will be the one begging for sex haba even after trads? Forget the white for now and don't force her again do as if you don't care again stop showing how much you love her girls take men like you for granted

When there's counterfeit of something,it definitely means there exists the authentic.
Choose your friends wisely sir!

midnighter:


It hasn't, he should have voided it before the marriage

Will you sign for a car with the side mirrors missing and then come back and complain that you cannot see what is behind you?

There's nothing wrong with the girl, so your analogy is wrong.
Even if there was something wrong, the owner of the car can choose to drive it even with the fault(s).
There's no excuse for this kind of behaviour.
You're simply giving the man a go-ahead order to cheat.
I witnessed this first hand from a friend. The wife insisted they can only have sex on their wedding night and my friend had to agree, cos he did not want early problems in his marriage.
He simply slept with his old girlfriends till their wedding night.
He argued that since the wife doesn't recognise the trad wedding, then it cannot be seen as cheating in their marriage.
So tell me, is it better this way?

steppin:

There's nothing wrong with the girl, so your analogy is wrong.
Even if there was something wrong, the owner of the car can choose to drive it even with the fault(s).
There's no excuse for this kind of behaviour.
You're simply giving the man a go-ahead order to cheat.
I witnessed this first hand from a friend. The wife insisted they can only have sex on their wedding night and my friend had to agree, cos he did not want early problems in his marriage.
He simply slept with his old girlfriends till their wedding night.
He argued that since the wife doesn't recognise the trad wedding, then it cannot be seen as cheating in their marriage.
So tell me, is it better this way?

You are just making crazy excuses because he's your friend

Tell me, does sleeping with an ex when youre due to marry very soon making any particular sense to you?

Its your fault for keeping that kind of friend that will warp your reasoning into something unrecognisable.

She explained her stance on an issue which he agreed to, now he wants to change it after so many months and all you know how to say is that your friend ran back to his ex. Well done

midnighter:


You are just making crazy excuses because he's your friend

Tell me, does sleeping with an ex when youre due to marry very soon making any particular sense to you?

Its your fault for keeping that kind of friend that will warp your reasoning into something unrecognisable.

She explained her stance on an issue which he agreed to, now he wants to change it after so many months and all you know how to say is that your friend ran back to his ex. Well done

Okay, let's say I agree with you.
Some guys run into financial difficulties after their traditional wedding.
Igbo guys in some states are mostly affected by this.
Some eVen struggle to cater for their family after the trad marriage.
What happens when he's not capable enough to give the lady the kind of white wedding she wants?
We all know women fantasize about their wedding day and wouldn't take anything less, unless they have to.
Will this same lady be happy to go in front of a priest and tie the knot without the usual expenses attached to an elaborate wedding?
Or will she make the man wait until he's financially stable again?
I'd like some answers from you.
Remember some people are assimilating every thing as we write it.
What you say could make or mar someone depending on their level of understanding.

Acidosis:


Shut up please. What the fvk is the white garment supposed to do? Turn a prostitute to a saint or sanctify the marriage? Turn a nonvirgin to a virgin or turn a virgin to an incorruptible everlasting virgin?


Sometimes some Nigerian Christians can be very disgusting with their thoughts.

you certainly don't need advice. just man up to the situation.

kunleweb:



Hahaha ive noted this moniker. I'll never offend you for this life

My brother, let's not offend d Supreme Being.

BrokeFucker007:
I bet you you will regret marrying her...I'm so sure about it. who does that? do traditional marriage without having sex with the wife to be?! because she told you no until after she must have got you in a corner with all marriage stuff. seriously bro you acted like a freaking f00oL**here. If you know what's best for you don't go ahead until you fvck this dangerous liar/pretender.

You're sure Why are humans like this for heaven's sake?
Your evil wish for that marriage will not come to pass

mignone:

You're sure Why are humans like this for heaven's sake?
Your evil wish for that marriage will not come to pass

It's not an evil wish but logically ascertain observation. He better run a virginity test on her and if she fails then he realize what's up. Can't you smell the fish already....why deny him conjugation after trad? the guy is not streetwise if he were he won't tolerate such crap. She's also very selfish and inconsiderate and so many shades of wrongs here. You ladies are professionals at supporting each other so I understand your plight.

He better dont let anyone scam him into marriage.

Fuckgovt:
yes na I will call it off till she grows up

Life is not that hard

BrokeFucker007:
It's not an evil wish but logically ascertain observation. He better run a virginity test on her and if she fails then he realize what's up. Can't you smell the fish already....why deny him conjugation after trad? the guy is not streetwise if he were he won't tolerate such crap. She's also very selfish and inconsiderate and so many shades of wrongs here. You ladies are professionals at supporting each other so I understand your plight.

He better dont let anyone scam him into marriage.

It's your opinion & you're entitled to it.

mignone:


Can I ask pls, why then is the traditional rites irrelevant when one seeks to be wedded at a marriage registry?

The only marraige recognised by law is the one with a Nigerian Government government certificate. White wedding/Nikkai/church wedding are not. Whether you do either the Traditional wedding, Church wedding or the Nikkai, you still need the certificate to be recognised "legally" by the 1999 constitution (The laws are written by men like you and me). Some churches and mosques have however made life easy for people by applying for licence to issue this certificate. However, these religious institutions would still require you to do your traditional marraige first.

Martinez39:
Why are you disturbing Nairaland? The solution is simple. No sex, no white wedding. She is probably trying to perfect her bait and switch strategy. She probably thinks white wedding will secure her and trap you to herself so that you won't leave no matter what you find out on your wedding night.

Call a meeting with your in-laws and parents. She had better sit up or you end the marriage and collect your money.

Sense will not key you.

Wiseoldman:


The only marraige recognised by law is the one with a Nigerian Government government certificate. White wedding/Nikkai/church wedding are not. Whether you do either the Traditional wedding, Church wedding or the Nikkai, you still need the certificate to be recognised "legally" by the 1999 constitution (The laws are written by men like you and me). Some churches and mosques have however made life easy for people by applying for licence to issue this certificate. However, these religious institutions would still require you to do your traditional marraige first.

Merci beaucoup! I think you're indeed your username

Op, I’ve been in this shoe. Don’t rush anything. Take her for a virginity test. It might have been long she had sex that’s why or sth else but i doubt her so much. The only way you can do this is go for a test and be sure and talk to her . She can hide anything in this world without you knowing

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NLSavage:
how are you even sure she's a virgin?

see bro, I've dated a girl that told me she is a virgin but when i went down with her, she was as loose as a borehole. funny thing is that when we broke up, one of my guy approached her and she kept on insisting that she's a virgin. Its a funny world we live in bro.

My advice: Take her to a clinic for a virginity test.

Bro, I’m feeling it’s the same girl we met

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. Too many compliments for me! Thank you by the way.

One more compliment. Your pics is dope.

kunleweb:



Sorry about your vagina BTW and sorry about how cheaply people passed through in and out

Lmaooo
Es Stultior asino
Es Scortum Obscenus Villis
Pores Meos Suaviari Clunes

Don't mistake me for one of your family members.

And yes,
why don't you find a treatment for your pencil like,uncircumcised and infected dîck.
Maybe then,just maybe that señorita, local thot in that your village might allow you to shift her under panties.

And yes while getting the dick circumcision,try and inquirie if there is anything that can be done for your brain too.

If I don't reply your mention,just know I'm too busy with a LITERATE.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. Too many compliments for me! Thank you by the way.

See Who They Are Calling Angel

Shining Teeth Like Fowl



Sit Down There Make Them De Decieve You

Baldwretch:


One more compliment. Your pics is dope.

Better Be Careful, that Lady Breaks Heart For A Living

If she goes to deeper life she may be correct.

No sex before marriage means..

(1) No sex with my fiance but I can have sex with outsider. I want to preserve fiance, so I don't want him to sleep with me; but I can get it from ex or whoever.

(2) No sex with my fiance and no sex with outsider. I am not trying to impress my fiance, I am just again all forms of pre-marital sex. I may or may not be a virgin, but I can never bow to pre-marital sex again.

(3) No sex, I am a virgin.

This is almost always the case. �

You kill the whole thing if you say you're a virgin, I can't marry a virgin because you will easily get tired of them

teemy:


Quite a rude statement to speak about someone else's wife just because he brought up the subject here.

However, if you yet insist on the 'smelly' place, we all lived close to that place for 9 months and most passed out through there to come out. Live with it.

Don’t get me wrong, not all pussys smell bad. I don’t have an idea of how many women you have had access to their pussy. Personally I have had sex with more than 50 women (no exaggeration) and from over 15 countries. In my university days I had 2 course mates that dated for over a year before the lady allowed my male friend (because they were both my friends) to Bleep her. After sex, he was terrified that the girl wasn’t a Virgin as claimed, so the relationship ended almost there after.

TruthSpeaker:


Don’t get me wrong, not all pussy smells bad. I don’t have an idea of how many women you have had access to their pussy. Personally I have had access to more 50 (no exaggeration) and from like 15 countries. In my university days I had 2 course mates that dated for over a year before the lady allowed my male friend (because they were both my friends) to Bleep her. After sex, he was terrified that the girl wasn’t a Virgin as claimed, so the relationship ended almost there after.

Sorry about your male friend's experience but the lady should not have lied. Take me as I am is waaay better than take me as you think I am.