Pussywar:

Oh, how much I enjoy insulting toxic men. Keep trying to act 'decent' or whatever, you can't hide your toxicity. Marriage is not a fucking boat that needs one captain. That's man can't say he doesn't want a house help when he doesn't do anything in the house. You're acting as though I'm trying to shame him for being jobless or something. You know how long my dad was jobless?? You know how long my mama was patient?? The difference is, he wasn't a prick like most of you are. He is in the house, his wife is going to work and doing every house chore and all you niggas gotta do here is try to defend the man. For drinking and being controlling and that shows how wicked and sick y'all really are. That shows how much you actually care about women. And you had the guts to say he decision is final? Women keep choosing y'all that's why shit keeps happening. And y'all can say whatever you want about my future, or my marriage or whatever...if I ever get married sef. But you know what? I'm not ever gonna be so desperate that I'll settle with someone who thinks like more than half of Nigerian men. Such pricks. Abegi.

pheonixdld2:
Becareful....the way you are venting and replying, remember that the reason she posted this here is to get solution and not feed anger and contempt into which will make things worse. You might not care if the marriage ends, because after all you are the feminist and everything has to be a war between male & female. Calm the Bleep down a bit. OK.

GeoAfrikana:


God knows that if I meet the husband I'll tell him too to mumu for his wife.

Until you one or both parties learn to overlook, there can't be a happy home.

And who has said that he should be allowed to go drunk and lazy? You insinuated that.

There are men who think like you. They advise people to get a concubine or seek divorce for any inconveniences they're experiencing from their wives.

Felicity001:


Even an oyinbo man will never satisfy our black women. You know when I read OP predicament I was thinking its my wife talking reading the first 2 paragraph, but reading further I became relaxed.
See, the truth is no matter how much a man does for you women you guys will never be satisfy.

I lost my job, I'd over 72 junior workers reporting to me, my salary monthly was above 1/2AM. All of a sudden things fell apart.

Now, I bath our baby, drop him in school Mon -Fri, clean, mob, wash baby cloths even most times wash my wife's, go out for my rat race hustle, pick him up in the evenings, still foot the bills. Wifi is a banker who comes back tired late and goes to work most weekend. With all of these I still get complains how I can't provide sufficiently for the family.
Women!!! Who can satisfy you people

Thinking seriously of having another woman outside after all, I'm just 37 while madam is making my blood cold like a 70yrs old man. I can't fit kill myself for anybody o

Pussywar:

Got none.. Why would someone want to date a begging nigga? Pfft. Pathetic

Felicity001:

Another feminist identify... Lol, see as she tie galey, wear bumpshort come put on fighting gloves untop another woman marriage matter ooo... She don even list all her family people join. Ha! Shall, it's well o

Pussywar:

Why would someone want to date a begging nigga? Pfft. Pathetic

LordKO:
He's suffering delusion of grandeur, which is a major hallmark of small-minded people (no apologies) - a typical egotist. A sane person shouldn't be forced to become conscientious - sane people do so consciously and voluntarily.

executive12:


It's typical of Nigerian women, probably because of the Nigerian culture that heaps all the family responsibilities on the man.

DrNueLpureHoney:


Am quite sure that lady you quoted up there is yet to be married... Cos the way she talks Eeeeh... Na the husband-to-be I dey pity

DrNueLpureHoney:


Lwkmd... Come off it young lady ..... Na married man you dey talk to....

My wife loves and respects me... So.... No shaking

Felicity001:

Honesty, I almost forgot that those who haven't even had a successful relationship or marriage are always the first to blow up in matters like this. Reason I don't encourage putting up relationships matters especially marriage on SM, NL most especially because most people here are children

Pussywar:

Pussywar:
My IQ

LoudlyMouthed:
strange girlfriend i must love to hear, dis tym directly from your mouth https://www.nairaland.com/5542008/how-understand-satisfy-husband/10#84252487

genq:



You sha want every woman to end up as miserable as you. Period-licking feminist lesbiaan!

Pussywar:

Felicity zero zero dot dot dot, the pain you feel when you see feminists taking stands for women, like we should, can kill you. Why not be useful or something, instead of begging for a feminist's attention? Huh?

Pussywar:
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uzohrome:
Whatever your husband said is final. Stop inviting external bodies to your home. If you don’t work on weekends then do the laundry yourself. Then, keep encouraging him and keep praying too. Always make him to be happy. That’s my advice. Forget pastor self.

LoudlyMouthed:
strange girlfriend fighting the if this were your real face, your new guy would be foreverly glad to have you + your attitude