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Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by DrNueLpureHoney: 12:00am On Nov 22, 2019 |
midnighter: This is not what my dad told me.. My dad ain't that rich but still my mom respects and loves him.....she do provide for the family when my dad was down and no outsider got to hear about it till date. My dad do help out in chores but he did all those chores wholeheartedly.. So the man should not to forced to do anything nii. When he was well to do.. The lady was enjoying the money full-time shebi? Now that he is down... She don start to dey complain.... Women matter dey somehow. When the going is good and good.... Dem go dey loyal. When the going gets tough... Dem go dey talk anyhow |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by TheRedpillguy: 12:01am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Pussywar:Sorry you got it all wrong, women don't pick anything. You are not the prize. Men are. Somehow you keep waving this rejection card around like u are the only bitch on the planet. He can always do better even if he is 50yrs old. Get over urself nobody wants ur attention. |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by GeoAfrikana(m): 12:01am On Nov 22, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: Lol... Naive teenager. |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Austineva(m): 12:02am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Pussywar:I can't even dare come near u let alone of toasting u for play cos seeing u is not different from seeing devil. So, park well. I pity d man dat will marry u as a wife. Anyway, ur profile pix has said it all. Ooh sorry for some men |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Pussywar(f): 12:02am On Nov 22, 2019 |
hope4nigeria:You're really your moniker... Hope for Nigerian men 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by DrNueLpureHoney: 12:05am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Austineva: Nwanne m... Ike gwuru ooo Fear women of nowadays.... They are totally different from What our mothers are or were 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by midnighter(f): 12:08am On Nov 22, 2019 |
DrNueLpureHoney: Okpu uzu, didn't you see where the woman said the man keeps chasing all the househelps away The man wouldn't need to do any of the chores if he would stop venting his frustrations on the innocent maids. So all those things you have written are misdirected. Unless you're trying to say that your father acted like that? I hope not oh |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by LoudlyMouthed: 12:08am On Nov 22, 2019 |
See ignorance at its peak !! Love Machine freaked lezb despirado wants to giv advice to Straight People here:: Pussywar: If you everly get married to Straight, you'd need an angel to retest, sorry reset your memory severally if there was a mistake in the original transmission, I mean, condition..
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Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Austineva(m): 12:08am On Nov 22, 2019 |
; biafranbaby: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by xyz123456: 12:08am On Nov 22, 2019 |
thorpido:She only foot the bills for 2 months . Just 2 months |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by midnighter(f): 12:09am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Theboss100: Lol very funny people |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by midnighter(f): 12:10am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Austineva: Lol yes oh, don't worry..this Christmas you will get home and pick your own lol |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by xyz123456: 12:10am On Nov 22, 2019 |
24kmagic:Thats the route the OP might be going. She only foot the bill for 2months. And complain don plenty like this 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by midnighter(f): 12:11am On Nov 22, 2019 |
jaxxy: Exactly but how to tell if the person is normal is the problem. They keep calling you because they know it would be difficult to find another person like that |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by DrNueLpureHoney: 12:12am On Nov 22, 2019 |
midnighter: Funny enOugh... I wonder why you ladies that have commented on this particular topic... Why una dey take dx matter to another angle.. I pray that woman in question seek(s) better advice and visitation by the Holy Spirit... If not eeeh... What I foresee via dx particular matter ain't going to be something one can write home about. I pray God restores peace in her home not with all dx kinda advice you ladies have given to her here |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:13am On Nov 22, 2019 |
truthsayer009: LMAO, Nigerians and the "bring down their country" syndrome, do you expect google to explain what six figures means in every country's currency? Google that is owned by an American, this is funny, Even your screenshots explained six figures as six digits, as in the numbers in it, and further explains five figures as five digits, something that is right in your face you can't even comprehend it, very shocking, you should hide your face in shame. A six figure has nothing to do with the value, only the figures that are in it, and it is not only 100,000, it is between 100,000 to 999,999 in whatever currency, as the screenshot says. Next time enquire properly before you display lack of knowledge here. 2 Likes
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Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by TheRedpillguy: 12:13am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Pussywar:Like I said. Move along. |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Felicity001(m): 12:14am On Nov 22, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: You're a bad woman I must tell you. OP please don't listen to this woman and cronies like her, she wants to put sand sand I side your garri o. How on earth would you advice her to ask a man who is looking out means to blow up in anger and quarrel all these stupid questions? Or don't you know these are questions of quarrels and arguments? I believe this is how you fight your husband at home by challenging and talking rudely to him, same way your daughters will do. Selfish woman. OP you husband did the greatest mistake of his life resigning his position, the Oga that advices him to resign where is he now? Isn't he still with the company? Anyways, I've been there and still presently finding it hard to pin down a good offer but my ego is nothing compare to your husband. I know why. But listen, this is what I would suggest you do. At this time you need wisdom. At this time you need to be more caring and concern Ask him during romance, where is passion his, what he wish to do. What kind of business bcoz people of calibre can hardly get a job/position that will be better than the former. Note my word in color, so the best thing they can do is engage in something that will give them fulfilment and once they start it trust me no matter how little the income is they'll be content. If he says his current business or something else, then you two should work towards getting capital to start it. It's so unfortunate he can't do chores, and its not your fault you didn't see that attribute before you decided to marry him. Human are so incomplete despite God creating us perfectly in His likeness and image. But believe this there are better part of everyone. Do the chores you can do, let the present maid you have do the one h/s can do that's if you still any. Or better still, but hold on oh! Why do you have to even be the one employing house help when he's the one you're employing them for? Since all the maid you've employ he doesn't like them then let him get somebody by himself.sabi you guys had maid when he was working? If so, then tell him to get somebody him self by so he won't complain since he's the one that brought him/her. Or better still get one/two of his relatives to come stay with you guys since he doesn't like strangers, don't bring your own people o else the house will go on fire. Lastly, do the little you can do after returning from work and always present tired with time he'll learn to assist. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by DrNueLpureHoney: 12:15am On Nov 22, 2019 |
24kmagic: Oil dey your head bro.... Nice tips... If only she will hear |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by datadanes1: 12:16am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Serious Issue |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Lukina4real: 12:16am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Hmm |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by DrNueLpureHoney: 12:16am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Felicity001: Am quite sure that lady you quoted up there is yet to be married... Cos the way she talks Eeeeh... Na the husband-to-be I dey pity |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Austineva(m): 12:18am On Nov 22, 2019 |
DrNueLpureHoney:I swear! Ihe mmadu n'ahu dis time around enh. Hmm sometimes I begin to wonder how we can survive de ugly days. It is very rampant now. For me, I have vowed to always go for DNA test to every single child born for me by my wife. No amount of trust can stop me from that. Women of these days enh hmm |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by saajus: 12:19am On Nov 22, 2019 |
You husband is going through a lot in his head. He needs your support; 1. Your husband is an extreme introvert, try to keep family family. Telling mother-in-law about your husband may not help the situation. 2. Keep encouraging him cos he might be going through mild depression. Force him to go out with you once in a while. Transfer some cash to his account so that, he will always pay when you go out to enjoy yaself. 3. It is a phase and it will be over. Remember introverts keep a lot in their minds, it takes tricks and plays to force them out fo their shells. 4. Please, be very humble at this moment. 5. Try to do whatever house shores you can and leave the rest. Don't kill yourself. 6. God will provide a good job for him very soon. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by midnighter(f): 12:20am On Nov 22, 2019 |
DrNueLpureHoney: Even me, with that title I called you I pity the person who will call you for any kind of serious meeting because anything they ask you you too go dey just reason one kind strange thing without even bothering to listen to the story . The man chased the househelps away i na-ekwu okwu Holy Spirit. You are just rushing to side with the man even when the man is wrong and using your father as an example when your father didn't do what the man is doing |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Pussywar(f): 12:20am On Nov 22, 2019 |
DrNueLpureHoney:Y'all still chose to be like your fathers, now you're intimidated. Pathetic 2 Likes
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Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by DrNueLpureHoney: 12:21am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Austineva: Nwanne m.... Even if money no dey at hand that time... Kindly borrow and do it. Most women are just bearing men's name as their surname... But they are busy sleeping around with other men outside their marriage. I will do same.... From my first born to my last born... If the DNA test shows negative... Trust me..... The marriage Don end be that. Women of nowadays are smart so... The hospital and doctor we will go to for the DNA test will always differ... So she can't even try anything stupid 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by uzohrome(m): 12:21am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Pussywar: This will never result to an insult. I will never reciprocate but the thing you have to know is this , the lady also mentioned that the hubby character has changed since things are not up and doing for him. Basically he should be help to do domestic things at home but if eventually he is not doing just like what the lady envisaged then this is not a pastor issues or calling family members. The husband is not insane and she has to respect her husbands decisions. No one is talking about control here, the lady should be thanking God that she still works and able to provide for the family. Now look at your attitude that the man is lazing at home just because he lost his job and you have automatically caped him as a lazy man. Most time is necessary you air your views without attacking or insulting anyone. I still wish you all the best. What the lady needs now is to create more time for the husband and shower him with greater love and pray also regularly, things will change for good with time. |
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