uzohrome:
Oga, go pay her bride price. No dull yourself. So you dey wait until you finish your house before you marry but never waited to finish your house before you go raw with her. The pregnancy is her weapon and she will use that to hold you down. So accept it with joy and see her parent asap. You want her to tell you early so you will confuse her to abort it. Nmbanu she will tell you the gospel truth after 8 months then your eyes will clear. Kindly go and see her parents with joy. My advise.

The last time a lady hooked a man into marriage because of pregnancy was in 1959.

Only kids can be blackmailed into marriage against their choice with pregnancy

midnighter:
Why not just come out with it...you wanted her to abort it right?


Why don't you see her as your life partner? Any particular reason?

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midnighter:
Why not just come out with it...you wanted her to abort it right?


Why don't you see her as your life partner? Any particular reason?

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Baldwretch:


You said it is not right o, and then he doesn't have to. Are you saying he doesn't have to do what is right?

Yeah, he doesn't. What is your definition of "right"?

Marrying somebody you dislike because she is pregnant? Then when he comes back here for advice, we will still castigate him for bowing to pressure when his heart wasn't in the marriage from the beginning.

It's more important for him to take care of the baby and for them to be functioning parents than for him to marry her.

If we had more details we could urge him to marry her, make the child legitimate and make it a traditional African Christian/Muslim family, but from the way he's sounding, that wouldn't be fruitful. He doesn't like her and she has already cheated on him before

It's not an ideal situation and I don't advocate for giving birth to kids out of wedlock, but I am more concerned for the welfare of that baby.

Ojizy1:
I am 27 years old and I have been dating this lady for 2 years now, I'm doing well with forex trading and make money without hitches.

I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing is I don't see her as my life partner but now she's 4 months pregnant and she concealed the information from me.

I'm not ready to father anything child now because I'm still yet to complete my house.

Guys please suggest what should I do .

That is what happens when you think with your penis if at all you're saying the truth cos I smell lies in this your story..

Leave with it and stop disturbing the community abeg.

Ojizy1:
I am 27 years old and I have been dating this lady for 2 years now, I'm doing well with forex trading and make money without hitches.

I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing is I don't see her as my life partner but now she's 4 months pregnant and she concealed the information from me.

I'm not ready to father anything child now because I'm still yet to complete my house.

Guys please suggest what should I do .

U dey funny ....u are not yet ready to father a child cos yu are yet to complete yur house.....but u can complete the tidying up of a pus-ssy

Guys pls suggest he ask google

midnighter:


Yeah, he doesn't. What is your definition of "right"?

Marrying somebody you dislike because she is pregnant? Then when he comes back here for advice, we will still castigate him for bowing to pressure when his heart wasn't in the marriage from the beginning.

It's more important for him to take care of the baby and for them to be functioning parents than for him to marry her.

If we had more details we could urge him to marry her, make child legitimate and make it a traditional African Christian/Muslim family, but from the way he's sounding, that wouldn't be fruitful. He doesn't like her and she has already cheated on him before

It's not an ideal situation and I don't advocate for giving birth to kids out of wedlock, but I am more concerned for the welfare of that baby.

Okay, I understand your pov.

Fizzymike1:
Shut up there Mr liar. He is actually doing advert for forex trading

Seems you are damn right bro.

See a thread he started in November 2017 here

https://www.nairaland.com/4187107/she-did-abortion-lied-after

2 years down the line, is this the same girl 2years ago?

Ojizy1:
I am 27 years old and I have been dating this lady for 2 years now, I'm doing well with forex trading and make money without hitches.

I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing is I don't see her as my life partner but now she's 4 months pregnant and she concealed the information from me.

I'm not ready to father anything child now because I'm still yet to complete my house.

Guys please suggest what should I do .

Wicked goat
U dey fùck for 2 years, what do you expect?
Thunder strike your blokos der. If na your sister nkọ?

Brosi eh! Welcome to fatherhood...

hadduni:
Well op, you are really silly. You knew quite well for the past 2 years that you don't want her has a life partner yet you kept on digging her... Her pregnancy is your cross. You can't eat your cake and have it.
You are more concerned that you discovered that she has gone past are first trimester... She probably hid the pregnancy because she tot you will ask her to abort it.

duh its called being a playa

Bro, are you okay

Baldwretch:


Okay, I understand your pov.

Thanks

Abeg leave pregnancy I wan learn forex

midnighter:
Thanks

You too thanks.

>I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing

smart babe. she go hide for as long as possible until op confronts and dumps her, then the biological father will have to step up. that is if she knows who it belongs to and he's not jobless.
fear women wins again.

hadduni:
Well op, you are really silly. You knew quite well for the past 2 years that you don't want her has a life partner yet you kept on digging her... Her pregnancy is your cross. You can't eat your cake and have it.
You are more concerned that you discovered that she has gone past are first trimester... She probably hid the pregnancy because she tot you will ask her to abort it.

You have spoken well but what about the girl? As far as I am concerned, she is a stupid girl for allowing herself to be dug for 2 solid years without any plans for her in the guy's future. Is she that daft not to see it or her gold digging claws don't just care. After shopping, what else? Something you can afford on your own! Me, before you use me do handkerchief, I go don use you do footmat, Nonsense and Concobility!

Fizzymike1:
Shut up there Mr liar. He is actually doing advert for forex trading

Nairaland scammers just dey invent new strategies to scam Nairalanders

Ojizy1:
I am 27 years old and I have been dating this lady for 2 years now, I'm doing well with forex trading and make money without hitches.

I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing is I don't see her as my life partner but now she's 4 months pregnant and she concealed the information from me.

I'm not ready to father anything child now because I'm still yet to complete my house.

Guys please suggest what should I do .

You thought the lady pregnant for you but in reality the pregnancy is not for you. The pregnancy is for the other guy.....get brain man

Ojizy1:
I am 27 years old and I have been dating this lady for 2 years now, I'm doing well with forex trading and make money without hitches.

I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing is I don't see her as my life partner but now she's 4 months pregnant and she concealed the information from me.

I'm not ready to father anything child now because I'm still yet to complete my house.

Guys please suggest what should I do .

Pregnancy is a little late now.Unless you want to harm child/children and mom.27yrs and you still sleeping with someone you don't consider as life partner?
Grow up man.

Was beginning to wonder if only I got the message.

Fizzymike1:
Shut up there Mr liar. He is actually doing advert for forex trading

If u are really comfortable the way u said I don’t see any reason why she wud hide from you. Meanwhile I will like you to put me through forest cos I have some spare cash am looking for where to invest

please send me your number, i want to ask you something on forex

Ojizy1:
I am 27 years old and I have been dating this lady for 2 years now, I'm doing well with forex trading and make money without hitches.

I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing is I don't see her as my life partner but now she's 4 months pregnant and she concealed the information from me.

I'm not ready to father anything child now because I'm still yet to complete my house.

Guys please suggest what should I do .

My advice is, how can I learn forex trading from you. Please send me your number. Thanks

nifemi25:
This is wickedness from the highest order... You mean for the whole 2 years you dey Bleep her still yet you didn't see your future wife in her..... Now that she is pregnant you said you haven't completed your house so automatically you are not ready for any pregnancy now..... I swear you need to be flogged 400 strokes of cane in a market square....... The elders have spoken

This is beyond elders.
It's the Oracle that has spoken!
Gbam!!!

Ojizy1:
I am 27 years old and I have been dating this lady for 2 years now, I'm doing well with forex trading and make money without hitches.

I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing is I don't see her as my life partner but now she's 4 months pregnant and she concealed the information from me.

I'm not ready to father anything child now because I'm still yet to complete my house.

Guys please suggest what should I do .

You have been cleverly roped in for child support and even marriage.

Ken4agent:



U dey funny ....u are not yet ready to father a child cos yu are yet to complete yur house.....but u can complete the tidying up of a pus-ssy

Guys pls suggest he ask google

He is not ready to father a child but he dey chop the obloblo raw as e dey hot.

funmisticqueen:
what if op is not a responsible person. The only thing that will make a woman not tell a man about pregnancy is if the father is an irresponsible man who will only be a source of sorrow to her and the child

You just lack manner in all ramifications

Accepting responsibility make responsible, until then you are irresponsible.

Why are u dating and having raw sex with her since u don't want to marry her? Instead of u to discuss things over with her u are asking us her online.

Smh

Martinez39:
You have been cleverly roped in for child support and even marriage.

Sis... Our residential feminist... Are we playing victim

Pots and kettles everywhere but not a mallam insight