vincentjk:
Chimamanda Ngozi adichie tricked them only to get married and take care of her man properly including doing all the choirs secretly.

Make una node follow these people mouth o esp all these nairaland feminists

1Sharon:


Stop spewing ignorance pls. It's obvious you've never watched her on youtube. She never called called men names and she never lied about having a man either.

She only wants women to be able to identify men that aren't good for them and improve their standards.

It's mainly you ppl in Nigeria spewing this ignorance about grace.

I'm only surprised cos I would have expected her man to put a ring on it 1st.

Pavore9:
What if she had paid and made a withdrawal from the sperm bank?

sweetilicious:
Exactly. Advocating for a better life for girls shouldn't be seen as bad.

slyfoxxjoe:
Mumu. the title of the thread specifically said she refers to men as scum and trash so I was responding to that. What kind of feminism involves calling men such names?

I don’t even know the woman but I sure as hell know are type. If she has ever referred to any man by this names then yes she deserves everything I just said. Plus if her unborn Chid turns out to be a boy then he is the number one scum and trash of the world.

queenitee:

Because their husband or whoever allowed them! Are women generally not expected to be submissive? If a woman goes against her husband wish because she wanted to be active and follow her dreams, won’t the society term her disrespectful and not submissive? Especially back then.

The thing is, I’m not against women working, I’m all for women following their dreams, in fact, it’s fulfilling to achieve one’s dream, it doesn’t matter if you are a man or a woman. All I’m saying is that the society place certain limitations on women back then and even now. Although that has changed in some society and families but not in all and even you would agree men are cut some slacks and allowed more freedom. Even in some families where there’s only the capability to send a child to school, they would prefer to send the male child, does that makes it more intelligent? No, it simply doesn’t matter if he’s less intelligent or younger, all that matters is that he’s a male child.

Let’s face the truth, most women might be Lazy but the society isn’t exactly helping.

queenitee:

Actually, many people get the wrong idea about the whole concept of feminism. Many people just want a cover to hide under and go about hating men and most of them are simply hurting which is why they go back to doing what they are preaching against because it’s not like they really hate it in the first place, it was just their hurt and anger speaking

TheRedpillguy:

Hehe very true, you are not wrong, everything you said is so true, if you are worth respecting you are respected. Well thank God for me cus my parents made a living and left me with lots of proparties plus they sent me to the best schools money can pay, I drive and arrive and pull up in a pricy car and girls go beserk, I presently have four birthdays invite and some girls in my inbox telling me how much they love me but I don't give them time. So I guess all you need is some money to be respected. Nobody cares that I am a developer or what hurts me or what makes me happy. Girls are usually abt me, me, me and when I have sex with them and don't care thy call me names cus thy can't get what they want. Women are only upset when they can't get what they want. They will respect you as long as they r benefiting from you. That's differnts with a man. men respect results. now feminist give men roles to live by so that it will make it convenient for them to extract resorces from men and slave them in the process. If you want something. Less do it equally no privileges. You want to work, go to work, u don't want to cook fine, less eat all our food wea its convininet for us, if u leave marriages, I will leave a marriage, protect urself and I ll protect my self, pay ur bills and I will pay mine. No entitlement. You are not entitled to me and me not in u. We will both satisfy our sexual lives. Am down with that. Am down with that equality.

philip0906:

What exactly do you want "society" to do for you? Probably force men to relinquish their properties, hard fought wealth and status for women?

There is a level playing ground for women and men to fight it out in the struggle for power, position, wealth etc...Any woman who thinks otherwise, that's her plate of hot beans...you will only wail and wail, and still end up in a man's house.

While some Nigerian women are lamenting on social media, a married white American woman, is running a multi million dollar FinTech startup in Nigeria. Go to marina and check out those big corporations and see women heading senior management roles...while small small girls continue to wail and lament, expecting equality on a platter

Life is tough for everyone...Men are failing too but don't blame other men or women for their failures (they keep grinding) but what you have is small small girls still feeding off men, making useless noise all about...Nonsense

queenitee:

I never said men should relinquish their properties or wealth or many thing and not many men think the way you do. If all men think the way you do that their wife could also be something or somebody and actually give them the chance to, we wouldn’t have a reason to have this kind of discussion in the first place

No one is asking for equality on a platter of gold or asking for wealth without working for it, rather a chance to actually choose for themselves.

People are not wailing on social media, they are not asking for equality on a platter of gold rather they want to be left alone to make their choices, they don’t want to be sent off to marriage after school because, “a woman’s time is limited” or whatever it is people say.

So no, we or rather I don’t want a man to relinquish his property for me, I only want to be able to fight for me without a constant reminder of how I’m a woman and I don’t have much time, I only want to be able to make my own choice.


And besides, we were talking about back then during the times of our grandfathers and not now. We were talking about what feminism is and what’s it not, trying to separate feminism from men hating.

I know things are changing and women are being allowed to make their choices nowadays but that doesn’t happen in every family yet.

So uncle, you got me wrong. Hold your properties and wealth and let me fight for mine

philip0906:

No one is stopping women from choosing for themselves...It is a farce. Everyone gets pressured here and there (Men & women)...I'm single my parents every now and then drum about getting married. That is the case of millions of men (& women). Difference is, men do not bring out a useless cause out of that. We totally understand the intentions of family & society is genuine but women blow these things out of proportion like they are the only ones facing pressures...

If you're successful as a woman, you are in control of your own destiny.

It's a level playing ground out there...Go out there, grind with men, succeed and no one will stop you from making your choice.

MrHistorian:
Are Nigerians deliberately dumb or is it just the twitter users?

Being a feminist basically means being an advocate for the belief that women should have the same rights and opportunities as men.

How does the above stop the woman in question from engaging in sexual relationship with men?

The trolling is justified if she's a proven man-hater (misandrist). Even at that, you can't be too sure if the pregnancy wasn't a product of

artificial insemination.
Artificial insemination keee u dia.
Alabosi ara sambisa

But then. . .what do I know!?

1Sharon:


Stop spewing ignorance pls. It's obvious you've never watched her on youtube. She never called called men names and she never lied about having a man either.

She only wants women to be able to identify men that aren't good for them and improve their standards.

It's mainly you ppl in Nigeria spewing this ignorance about grace.

I'm only surprised cos I would have expected her man to put a ring on it 1st.

philip0906:

No one is stopping women from choosing for themselves...It is a farce. Everyone gets pressured here and there (Men & women)...I'm single my parents every now and then drum about getting married. That is the case of millions of men (& women). Difference is, men do not bring out a useless cause out of that. We totally understand the intentions of family & society is genuine but women blow these things out of proportion like they are the only ones facing pressures...

If you're successful as a woman, you are in control of your own destiny.

It's a level playing ground out there...Go out there, grind with men, succeed and no one will stop you from making your choice.

Kyllahmc:
Feminism is a scam... where were women when early men were hunting buffalos, bulls and encountering Lions in the wilderness...? women optioned to stay home and pick fruits and vegetables!

even in more recent Case... where were women when men were fighting Nazi Germany in WWII and returning home dead, without limbs...and sometimes without half of their faces? women optioned to sit home clean riffles and make combat uniforms!

Now it's computer age and every Jennifer, Hailey is claiming equal to men on social media?

BluntBoy:
Never take a feminist seriously.

I have said it countless times. I am doing my bit to warn our young girls. Be yourselves. Men are not in any sort of a competition with you. And we will never be. We are too confident, and we know too well our place in nature to be struggling positions with you.

See now, one feminist saying trash about men has finally be put in her place by a man.

Stillthebest:


Which woman no like men or preek?

They only Hide under the feminism standards once they don't see a man that can foot their bills or the one that will take their shits.

All feminists still use men's money to run their campaigns.

And they are always standard 'oloshos'. It doesn't take much to get them(women) pregnant no matter how smart they might think they are.

Just some money and a lil more of lies that look like truths.

Afterall, maturity is when you don't tell lies and still won't say the truth.

Feminists are women so I am not surprised if they get pregnant out of wedlock. Preeq sweet die.

Their champion, Linda Ikeji(she earns my respect) also found herself tangled in the scenario!

maynattion:
I'm a lady but fukk feminists.

Feminists be like Naija atheists, they are all scams and lazy frustrated imps.

monerozi5590:




I wonder my brother. God in his infinite wisdom said women should be submissive to men. I wonder where this equal stuff is coming from.

TheRedpillguy:

I love feminists if everybody will just have rights and if everything is rights. You know like that right to leave marriages anytime. I like that the most becouse I don't have to stick it out when the woman starts getting old or fat. I will just bail. Women can continue doing what they love as long as they dont give up on it as they age. Don't go like now I jus want to be a home mum now take care of me. Feminist come on and say respect me yet act like men. We men demand respect, if u can't respect us we will go to war with each other and they winner is respected. But women will be in ur face like respect me. If you do something worth respecting trust me you will be respected stop forcing people to respect you for petty things you do.

hopefulLandlord:


Your last statement betrays your lack of intelligence

explicitee:
Pregnant feminist. Very funny

bluefilm:
I don't even understand all these our _dumb nairaland men.

Does being a feminist mean you don't have to _fuck a _dick?

Why are they celebrating that a lady became a baby mama?

Did the girl tell them that she's a lesbian or what?

What exactly am I missing here?

Nonsensical fools everywhere!!!

Nonsense.

hopefulLandlord:


Your last statement betrays your lack of intelligence

Pussywar:

So its okay for men to DEMAND respect but women have to earn it? Does the clown gene run in your family?

imiski:
I stopped taking feminist seriously when I met my landlords wife. Outside she is a feminist and women advocate fighting for women world wide, but inside house she be like foreign furniture them they couple her every day.
Updated: nor be say landlord dey beat am oh. But she submissive dieeeee!