pocohantas:


Peak of which career? All these small boys sef. You think life and love is dy/dx.

Did you study mathematics related course?

you want to debate with a rich man.better hide your face for nowoo

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

if you're at the peak of your career you should have money na...unless you're just a confused kid

focus on that your career and let her go so that the guy can change her destiny. because if you no come hammer like the guy (or even if your money no quick come) she will make life hell for you oooo

YungMillionaire:
I don't understand. Your girlfriend asked you if she could go out with her crush and you said yes? Did I read that correctly OR did you type it wrong?

As a girl.. I'm bothered about that part too... How can you allow her to go out with another guy.. That's absurd.. She already fell for that guy that's the basic truth.. The tears that came out from her eyes means they kissed or almost had sex gaan...

YungMillionaire:
I don't understand. Your girlfriend asked you if she could go out with her crush and you said yes? Did I read that correctly OR did you type it wrong?

I thought I was the only one that saw that..just sold her out like 02 arena

cassyrooy:
Did you study mathematics related course?

I no for graduate na

pocohantas:


I no for graduate na

Lol! Ishi kuru gi as well.

Sorry about that.. I understand u love her but u need to build your career and live a good life too.. Just slow down on your decision to marry her.. Just imagine how her reaction might be if u are more financially stable than the other guy... Your girlfriend needs money not love.. That was why she gave another guy so much attention.. Be wise bro

when a far richer guy is dragging your girlfriend with you, then your will know the definition of torment and the power of money. e no easy

Moral of the story:
Abobi, jee chuba ego.
My guy go and make money.

Bro. I will rather advice you to develop your personal skill first before crying for LOVE, majority of ladies now adays are not ready to settle for"am still planning to". The one you are saying she loves you, am not disputing that fact but if the new guy can convince her with lot of material things, my dear brother "na OYO u dey". Focus on Ur carrier, develop yourself, once she notice you are making progress in Ur profession, she will easily forget the guy.

Additional, if the guy gives her more attention than you do, my dear brother, she is a GUNNER.

Finally bro, develop yourself first instead of crying for love with empty pocket, let her see enough reason why she should remain with you. Been with a girl throughout the 7 days in a week is not what they see or regarded as LOVE but your ability to multitask and your level of productivity is there watchword...I drop my pen here

I remember I was in a similar situation with my ex, I never allowed her to visit any guys, even though she always claim they are old friends or exes, she always felt I was strict but the day I use soft hands with her by allowing her to go pay one of them a visit and ask her to come back the next day, she didn’t come back till after a week, that was how I lost her o because things never went back to how they were before till we split not long after. I think your first mistake was letting her go just like that after which she was on a call with him for 30mins without returning your call immediately, that’s bad but don’t worry if she loves you and she will make the right choice.

meetmeonline:


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That is the best thing he did there. He was right to respect her in accepting the date cuz she could have done it without his knowing anyway. Whether she went out with the rich guy or not will not change or make her future decision on him. Your scolding a girl you are not married to cannot (and will not) control a her heart, so giving your approval gives her another reason to see you as the one to approve, remember, it is just an authority she ascribes to you and not your birthright.
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rubbish!!! Since she know she can do it without his approval then she should have gone ahead...oh! Maybe she just needs the mugu to validate it...lol. Marriage is not different too afterall like you stated it is just an authority she ascribe to you and not your birthright.

CosmicJames:

Is all your fault. What were you thinking before you permitted her to go on a date with another man? Next time use your head.

IMHO, I think the girl would have accepted the date request whether OP gave his consent or not. Asking him was just a form of reversed psychology validation. She wanted to go on the date, reason why she considered the request in the first place. However, she prolly didn't want to create an atmosphere of mistrust, reason why she hypocritically ask him if she could go on the date.

All in all, OP, I know it's not easy but trust me, it's better you move on now before you do more damage. Focus on your life and create a better future you'll be proud of. If you do this, believe me, the best amongst the girls will beg to be your wife later on.

Forget her... CHUBA EGO

She suffered with you within 6 months. Uhmm wait let her suffer with you for 6yearrs .

Toks2008:


You are the real weak guy for even thinking of confronting another man cos of a lady.

He acted like a man.

Rule #1 ....Never ever show desperation over any lady.

Thanks for reacting to these guys. I don't understand why they are blaming the OP for granting the girl's request to go out with her friend. The fact that they are/were dating means he should or should have block(ed) all her access to opposite sex? All these guys claiming woke in Nigeria sef? Nawa o...

Tell her you love her but you willing to let her follow her mind if she goes to him she never really loves you just using you to pass time but if she stays then keep her I just loan you ten cent from my one dollar

nelklyn:
I read where you said You are at the peak of your career trying to shape up your life for the better future

It beats my imagination What exactly you need a girlfriend for at this stage of your life?

Please go and hustle and if you must, do hookups only! that’s the only way you’ll have emotional stability to achieve your goals

Up here is The best advice sofar....op little enof 4 a wise niggar

YungMillionaire:
I don't understand. Your girlfriend asked you if she could go out with her crush and you said yes? Did I read that correctly OR did you type it wrong?

It's the girl that's stupid. How could she ask him such a stupid, demeaning question? In short, they're both stupid and childish. The op should respect himself and break up with her already.

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

NEVER fight for your place in ANYBODY'S heart.
Let her be the one to decide if she loves you enough or not.

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Melian:


It's the girl that's stupid. How could she ask him such a stupid, demeaning question? In short, they're both stupid and childish. The op should respect himself and break up with her already.

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pocohantas:


No be me be that. Thinking of it, maybe na the girl wey philip0906 carry go Coldstone be that. Thinking say na me.

lol for real?you mean he’s claiming he took you out on a date? phillip0906 must be your man-crush-everyday then when I saw that profile it reminded me of you ASAP...the only difference is poca while you’re poco cos you’re both hantas you know I guess he didn’t even see that so how are you doing this festive season babe in Wendy’s voice....still wanna take you out when I’m in lag tho ain’t some onye big shot tho lol

NwaMbeke:
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You're sick ngadaAwo.

YungMillionaire:
I don't understand. Your girlfriend asked you if she could go out with her crush and you said yes? Did I read that correctly OR did you type it wrong?

I was shocked too�

pocohantas:


Peak of which career? All these small boys sef. You think life and love is dy/dx.

i often log into thread like this just to get ur weird input..an trust me u never disappoint... How u go about dis savage replies is what I can't fathom.. Apparently why u have lots of sad followers


Will really love to cross part with u someday

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Melian:


You're sick ngadaAwo.

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Adeevah:


I don't do second hand(Akube) I beg...
I need to tear the nylon with my bear hands/head
There is no amount mentioned that I can't pay for it right now coz I am tired of sleeping on bear mattress....
It is harmattan for God sake

where will you get the one that still get nylon?
All available ones are used
the nylon don tear since
any dream to see nylon tear na still-born dream be dat

soberdrunk:
hahahhaha!!! You want to drag woman with a "deep pocket" man!!?? Why do you want to complicate your life? Isn't it obvious enough that she has already started a relationship with the other guy? Do you need 30mins to say "No"??

this guy dey talk oo.chaii.I swear u no need 30min to say no

post=85324962:
Lol, give her belle already

And what if the guy still don't let go of his feelings for her after delivery and she start flirting with him.
Which one go pain the baby father pass.?

Bro! There is nothing you can do. Just allow her make her decision. You don't need to convince her. Trying to convince your partner can be really stressful. Is like begging for someone to love you. Tell her yo follow her heart. If she is yours, then she is yours. Just be yourself.