Explicit02:
Firstly it is wrong to call your in-law thug

I guess because he knew you call him a thug that makes him have no regard for you guys...

Be kind to him and fix a date for intro and accept the fate unless your sister will become a baby mama and that stigma may affect her later in future


My view on this

Airforce1:
That man you called "Thug" could become a governor tomorow

Example is Yaya Bello and Lagos future governor, MC OLUOMO.

lopsoj:
This is to seek for your honest solution to this situation, no insult pls.

My younger sister is very friendly, and cynical, but this attitude of hers, is always to the extreme, she mostly lived with our elderly sister and her husband, while they leave her alone at home with their children often, this continue for long. During this time, i was away from home, because my work took me out of town.

Before my return, I was informed that my sister was pregnant for a thug she met whenever she was sent on an errand. According to her, this guy always waylaid her on the road threatening her to have sex with him, but she said it happened after she frolic with him and some other friends around the neighborhood, before he started making advances toward her. She is in her early twenties

To cut the story short, how they get to become intimate was a surprise to us. Because right now she is with a child and he wants the child to be born, yet he has no regard for any of us in our family, he insult us at will, and he is also a muslim.

Recently his family came over to apologise for his misconduct and demand we release the mother and the unborn child to them. meanwhile we do not want to have anything to do with a thug, that has no regard for the family with no sign of remorse. what do you think we can possible do on this issue

Airforce1:
That man you called "Thug" could become a governor tomorow

Example is Yaya Bello and Lagos future governor, MC OLUOMO.

AfroKnight:


Lol.

Your gra gra shows that you were pained when he dismissed your advice.

Not everyone views abortion from your perspective.

Even you who are talking here; your parents didn’t raise you to become a troll on Nairaland. Have they failed? So calm down.

sowilli:
you think the sister who opens her leg for a thug is actually okay too. Was she raped? If No, there is a chance she will still open her legs for the same thug. This is a girl in her early twenties, so she is some way aware of what she is doing. Some girls like those gangsters .. I tell you... her sister should be examined first as this is his problem not the thug! There are other girls available for the thug !

Lamanii22:



She must have been taught... Ko GBA eko ni... She chose to do what was in her mind all along...

lopsoj:
humm, we are christain and we don't encourage abortion. thanks though, will look into " seeking a better future for her"

donbachi:
Ur smear campaign against the guy has already failed on arrival....any child dat goes to a party and dance....must be given party rice...ur sis got served...if na dangote son u for call am thug?...do u even know if he will end up becoming ur entire family breadwinner?...u all should thread with caution.

lopsoj:
humm, we are christain and we don't encourage abortion. thanks though, will look into " seeking a better future for her"

lopsoj:
This is to seek for your honest solution to this situation, no insult pls.

My younger sister is very friendly, and cynical, but this attitude of hers, is always to the extreme, she mostly lived with our elderly sister and her husband, while they leave her alone at home with their children often, this continue for long. During this time, i was away from home, because my work took me out of town.

Before my return, I was informed that my sister was pregnant for a thug she met whenever she was sent on an errand. According to her, this guy always waylaid her on the road threatening her to have sex with him, but she said it happened after she frolic with him and some other friends around the neighborhood, before he started making advances toward her. She is in her early twenties

To cut the story short, how they get to become intimate was a surprise to us. Because right now she is with a child and he wants the child to be born, yet he has no regard for any of us in our family, he insult us at will, and he is also a muslim.

Recently his family came over to apologise for his misconduct and demand we release the mother and the unborn child to them. meanwhile we do not want to have anything to do with a thug, that has no regard for the family with no sign of remorse. what do you think we can possible do on this issue

LilMissFavvy:
Look at the part of your message which I cut out. I guess all those telling you to allow the thug marry your sister did not see this part of your message. A thug threatened and waylaid your sister to have sex with him, she fell into it due to pressure/lack of sense, and you are even thinking of welcoming him into your family.

Better save your sister, she can keep the child, but do not have anything to do with a thug, he is not even remorseful, he does not respect your family, and he is a Muslim. Let your sister bear the lifetime shame of having a child for a scallywag......it's her shame to bear, but do not allow them marry. You should also be ready for custody battle with a thug, since his family wants marriage and he also wants the baby.

Lamanii22:



And so... Is it a crime to be a single mom... There are guys out there that will kill to marry a single mom... Op.. Don't mind this person... Don't ruin your sister's life... Let her give birth to that baby.. She should go back to school.. Get a good job.. And thank me later.... Her life would be ruined if you give her hand in marriage...

Charleys:


And you are a female

lopsoj:
This is to seek for your honest solution to this situation, no insult pls.

My younger sister is very friendly, and cynical, but this attitude of hers, is always to the extreme, she mostly lived with our elderly sister and her husband, while they leave her alone at home with their children often, this continue for long. During this time, i was away from home, because my work took me out of town.

Before my return, I was informed that my sister was pregnant for a thug she met whenever she was sent on an errand. According to her, this guy always waylaid her on the road threatening her to have sex with him, but she said it happened after she frolic with him and some other friends around the neighborhood, before he started making advances toward her. She is in her early twenties

To cut the story short, how they get to become intimate was a surprise to us. Because right now she is with a child and he wants the child to be born, yet he has no regard for any of us in our family, he insult us at will, and he is also a muslim.

Recently his family came over to apologise for his misconduct and demand we release the mother and the unborn child to them. meanwhile we do not want to have anything to do with a thug, that has no regard for the family with no sign of remorse. what do you think we can possible do on this issue

Lamanii22:



Awwwwn thank you... I'd take that as a compliment... Everything I say here is based on experience.. I'm not just saying....

uninspired07:


Being Muslim has a lot to do ooo.

Which sensible Christian will allow his daughter marry a Muslim?

LabDNA:
If you guys are Igbo, customary law demands that the child does not belong to him. You family does not have to release the child to him and his family, bride price was not paid and the relationship was not traditionally consummated.

The child belongs to your family and will add to the population of your lineage, he will also bear your surname and the mother's family- your family will put into the 'empty' innocent child the training that will help him become great regardless of who donated the sperm as an ingredient during his biological manufacturing.

lopsoj:


i'm not calling him a thug, thats how he is in the neighbourhood, for privacy sake his picture should have followed the post. and his behaviour is annoying.

TLION:
Person wey suppose dey cell now
Just imagine you impregnate person pikin come even get mind dey form Boss..Your family come still get mind waka come my house Dam. Some shit just don’t happen at right place..at same time you can’t wish for some shit..him for smell him pepe if na my family him try this shit with....Thank God say I no get sis

uninspired07:


Na lie oooo. His sister loves the guy to have bleeped him to the extent of getting pregnant.

The OP has not really given us enough facts. He’s jus calling the guy a thug & he has defined what a thug is.

His sister must be one of those young confused girls who like rough guys. The OP still needs to give us more facts for us to advice him.

lopsoj:

we don't want her to go, but looking at the plea from the guy family, because they said once they impregnate a lady they dont reject the baby or the girl in question