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Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by kunleweb: 3:33pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by dandrey: 3:34pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
let her get the car, its for your family comfort and you can't allow your wife and kid to be jumping from one bus to another when you can afford a car to take them around. Get one only car and invest the other, you guyz are a team Enjoy your life 1 Like |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by steppin: 3:34pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
victorian:You single ladies should stop giving marriage advice. Until you're married, you know nothing marriage. It's not her money, it's their money, including the man's earning. They need to come together and make a decision. 2 Likes |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by Diticonsult(m): 3:35pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
So you have your mind made up on what you’ll do and you’re here seeking attention.... Opeyemiebun: 1 Like |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by Sarah20A(f): 3:35pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Opeyemiebun:this is pure ego.you don't want to get her a car and you don't her to get herself one or do you feel threatened because she's not depending on you? 4 Likes |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by chegbe1104: 3:36pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Please to avoid any issues with your wife, add some money to whatever she has and buy a nice car for her to reduce the stress she is going through. If you still have extra saving, invest in the business. Wait for sometime if money comes from your work and investment, buy your own car. After all you have been managing without a car of your own. Always carry along your spouse in every plan since she is a good woman as confirmed in your write up. 2 Likes |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by Mouthgag: 3:36pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Opeyemiebun:I am a guy and I think you ARE EXTREMELY SELFISH! Why not let her buy and invest the money you are supposed to use to buy yours? 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by tranxo(m): 3:38pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
makydebbie:Oh. By your fruits, what you are, consciously or unconsciously, becomes evident. But not to worry, looks like you are just a kid still in the retail stages of life. Come back when you mature into the wholesale department - the real deal |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by Sprumbaba: 3:39pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Opeyemiebun: Arakunrin - Happy wife, happy life. You should prioritize her first especially when your child is even involved. |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by megastu(m): 3:42pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Buy a car for her. If you also need car badly because of client etc, sell one of those properties. You are still young. Money will always come. For now, make your home(s) comfortable in order for you to have a clear head to make more money. Opeyemiebun: 1 Like |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by sisisioge: 3:43pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
But she isn't about to use your money nau! Hian...its stressful hauling a baby about in public transportation oga... You can chalk yours biko. Chai...a typical naija husband is always selfish! 3 Likes |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Ogar, its her money. So let her buy the car especially as it will aid her mobility and reduce stress. After all, what is she working for? Is it not so you can afford a some comfort of life. |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by nini007(m): 3:45pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Here is the solution: 1. Gather money and buy your wife a good car. 2. Let her keep using the car without you having any for about two months. 3. By then, if she's not asking you about you having a car then she doesn't care. ( But she will ask ). 4. Like I said, after two months sit her down and raise the issue about your car. 5. You have to understand that women will always want comfort and in your own case, she deserves it.. 6. These are the reasons why you are a man, you learn to be the one to sacrifice yourself to make your home work. I can't imagine you driving a car with peace of mind when your wife is in another state with your baby jumping taxis. 7. Think about all I have said well. It is well with you! 1 Like |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by alexmakaay(m): 3:46pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Opeyemiebun: You make money for your wife and kids.. buy the two cars if you don't want to invite devil in your abode. must you be stingy?? 2 Likes |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by dbanjj1629(m): 3:46pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Its all about Sacrifice. Like someone said "a happy wife, equals happy home". Buy hers first .she needs it because of the baby. If you talk her into not buying hers, will mark the beginning of a new regime in your house. Wisdom is profitable bro. Peace. Opeyemiebun: 1 Like |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by SlimBrawnie(f): 3:47pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Opeyemiebun:Tell families you took a loan to get the car and you'd be paying loans for the next few months so nobody should disturb or stress you and your wife biko. It's a necessity for you both, and the extended families should stop feeling entitled or choking eyes in your family's money. 3 Likes |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by carnal: 3:48pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Let her get the car first, wait for about 5 months then get yours.though its her money but ensure she gets good and sound car i.e be part of the process to buy the car infact take charge,ask her brand and type,do research engage the seller well that will show you are happy for her plus also being head of the house. As for family members, seat her down,let her know that you guys need to reduce what you spend for them this period, if family disturb you tell them you took a loan for her car and you're repaying |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by tranxo(m): 3:49pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
steppin:Don't mind the retailers. |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by amadiwati(m): 3:49pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Right now, cars is not luxury it is a necessity and you know it. How would you feel you have your car and you wife is in another city with a child walking on the street when you guys can afford one. Opeyemiebun: 1 Like |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by Nazae(f): 3:50pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Bros, marriage is all about sacrifices. Your wife needs that car more than you because she is with your child. It's either you let her have the car or you let her buy hers and start saving for the projects you have. 1 Like |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by tommy589(m): 3:50pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Opeyemiebun: I am an older person and happy for you that you speak glowingly of your wife. It is hard to get a special one. Let her get the car. They say "who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the lord" 1 Like |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by humblespirit: 3:52pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
The parent with the child deserves the car: you are a man, making sacrifice for your home is your job. 2 Likes |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by 2sexycom(m): 3:53pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
kunleweb:Bro both of you have valid point. But me think he should let the woman get a car first... He can often borrow the car once a while to run whatever business he wants to do with it and make sure he returns before she needs it. |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by carnal: 3:54pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
sisisioge:some of us are not selfish 16yrs plus still counting.we don sacrifices enuff,na madam de take charge hence d home front de happy die |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by Mobree: 3:54pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Opeyemiebun: Take Uber naa..and share the car. |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by kunleweb: 3:54pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
2sexycom: Spot on |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by Galaxydon1(m): 3:55pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Allow her to get a get and use your money for the investment. Selfish man. 1 Like |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by UgoManchester(m): 3:56pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Allow her to buy the car. continue going to work on t.fares.Make the sacrifice if that's what will keep your wife happy. 1 Like |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by Solidkay(m): 3:57pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
I don't know why some people make a mountain out of a molehill. You see right now, there's no problem, but failure to get her the car means PROBLEMS. She's not asking for a range Rover or anything, Just a reasonable car to ease her stress. Remember, nobody is higher than the other in marriage.... My 19cents 1 Like |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by erumena(m): 3:57pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Opeyemiebun: Let her buy the car, you really dont want to be in her shoes to know what she's going through. 1 Like |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by kenyguy(m): 3:57pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Buy her own first and wait for money before buying your own 1 Like |
Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by Sarang(f): 3:57pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Mouthgag: I swear to God, I thought so too! 1 Like |
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