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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Nobody: 12:53pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
peacefulhome:Very big misconception. Childbirth takes a big toll on the mother's body a lot. Especially when not spaced. That we don't see women shout it to the moon is simply because when u look at your kids, u simply ignore the pains and sickness. Most illnesses women suffer today started from pregnancy. Lots of things just happen when one is pregnant and then giving birth. Some were horribly sewed up. Hbp, hip dislocation or leg cramp, or CS gone wrong. So many stuffs women endure just to carry and birth a child. 5 Likes |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by bdchange(m): 1:04pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
yvelchstores:Some of you will not cease to amaze me with this your statement of children comes with blessing palava. I wish I can take you round mainland such as ikorodu, badia, itire, ajegunle and so on to show you how children are really suffering because the stupid parents brought them to this world when they can't take care of them. Please refrain from this your advise if it is what you usually give couples who intend to bring children into this world without viable means of survival. Pls I beg of you.. It is for a sane society where louts and imbeciles will be on the low. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by momokiddies: 1:16pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
I was once exactly in this situation. Cs, fibroids, pregnant when baby was 9. We were agitated and the first person we talked to advised us to terminate. We did, but it has remained one of our biggest regrets. We always wish we kept it. Although I got pregnant again, but in always wish I kept that one. Who knows , that child could have been a blessing to us. Please keep it against all odds. It might look awkward, but you will be glad you did. Cheers! 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by yvelchstores(f): 1:56pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
bdchange:some of the children u are referring to are usually from crooked backgrounds; parent died of aids, father is a drunk, father left mother, mother is late, child stays with relative, etc. The same is not the case for op here. That aside, your solution to curb the problem is terminating the baby The probable solution is to avoid conception, when there is conception, mistake has been made, now you manage the situation... Except of course in extreme health complications such as foetus growing outside womb, blood clot etc 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by peacefulhome(f): 3:39pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
sassysure: Mama I know what am saying. Beside talking about surgery, haha, I can write a full book about it. Inspite of it all, I will never welcome abortion. They should have this baby and then decide if the woman womb should be tamper with or any other means of family planning. |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Alanzazani: 4:07pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
momokiddies: Very true. This is going to be the last kid anyway. Family planning all the way. He said they were using Billings and Creighton method which failed. The man is not irresponsible for some kids giving advice here. He is 36 years and a level 12 officer in a federal parastatal. Wife is also a lawyer so it is not a helpless situation. It is just the spacing and challenges that come with child bearing |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Saintmary(f): 5:33pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
peacefulhome:Look at your question, when did they start giving out kids for promo, in order to sound savage, you ended up sounding really stupid. Get help, you're losing it. |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by immaq8(f): 6:23pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
Gerrard59:the destiny of a child do not lie in your hands. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by immaq8(f): 6:27pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
michlins:the same reason, we have more TTC & ladies running from church to church looking for fruit of the womb. |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Alanzazani: 6:31pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
immaq8:Rather than abort the child should be put up for adoption. This will bring happiness to a barren couple 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by peacefulhome(f): 6:35pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
Saintmary: Seem your head had been tamper with, mumu. |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Lamanii22(f): 6:36pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
namiji2598: You're the one commenting anyhow... You should re-read the post again... Should she now abort the pregnancy? It's not about taking care of the baby? What then is it... Tell me... 1 Like |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Lamanii22(f): 6:38pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by namiji2598: 6:42pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
Lamanii22:the woman's state of health is a major factor |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by immaq8(f): 6:44pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
Alanzazani:spacing com'on, the first will be 1yr + when she will put to bed. just that, it will be stressful couple with career, house chores... |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Lamanii22(f): 6:46pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
namiji2598: Right... Loool... Pardon me.. Itara omo lo shey mi... I just don't like hearing the word "abortion"... |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by namiji2598: 7:09pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
Lamanii22:the thing nearly keee u abi? |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by iamarealman(m): 8:19pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
Omolarablg: God permitted her to conceive?? Una too dey put many things for God head. The sex(sperm) made her pregnant |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by seyenko(m): 10:10pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
Congratulations ! Alanzazani: |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by michlins(m): 10:37pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
immaq8:the reason we have the above is because women resort to bad family planning methods and end up damaging their womb. If they have access to professionals who know what they're doing and stop drinking hot water and salt |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Saintmary(f): 7:45am On Mar 03, 2020 |
Lamanii22:Just a question |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by GboyegaD(m): 1:16pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Afodot0022: Could it be that you got your priorities right and got better focused due to increased responsibilities? 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by mignone(f): 4:21pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:You may nt blame them much as someone said earlier, sometimes u think u got it all figured out bt alas... Maybe they as a young couple didn't know dt women cld be more fertile afta childbirth, abortion/miscarriage.Some also av lactational amenorrhea (absence of periods while breastfeeding) which prevents them frm getting pregnant while nursing a baby, whereas others don't. They cld av assumed this wld be applicable to dem. Moreso, it's common for couples to make 'mistakes' btw d first&2nd children. |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by frozen70(f): 5:32pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Alanzazani: All she needs is absolute rest and if the baby is giving her stress at home, they can take the baby to her mother they are I the best position to look after the child and make sure they supply all the child needs from provision, clothing and the rest Next time they will be strick with child spacing 1 Like |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Greatzeus(m): 6:08pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Lamanii22:Are you for real? If you love babies this much why not have yours,don't forget to invite me for naming ceremony 1 Like |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by lilyheaven: 6:17pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Baby is already 8months, Nothing to worry about |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by immaq8(f): 7:45pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
michlins:is this the level of your IQ? is it advisable for a lady that haven't put to bed, go for Family planning? |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by chelseamann(m): 8:36pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by michlins(m): 10:02pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
immaq8:I don't know what you have been told but every sexual active woman who don't want a child should be on contraceptive. If you're of child bearing age and having sex without contraceptive, I don't know what you expect to happen 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by michlins(m): 10:03pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
immaq8:I don't know what you have been told but every sexual active woman who don't want a child should be on contraceptive. If you're of child bearing age and having sex without contraceptive, I don't know what you expect to happen. And you questioning my intelligence, I don't know what has happened that will put it in question 1 Like |
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Raalsalghul: 7:21am On Mar 04, 2020 |
bdchange: 1 Like
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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Lamanii22(f): 8:20am On Mar 04, 2020 |
[quote author=chelseamann post=87142070][/quote] "It" because I don't know the sex of the baby... |
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