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Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 4:20pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: Someone who is truly liberated would have enough self control not to sleep around and enter any yeye dead end relationship. The more people you sleep with, the harder it is to bond with anymore. You also have the mingling of spirits, the brokenness of mind and body. This applies to male and female. Which is why I am a fan of early fruitful relationships or steering clear of sexual relationships altogether. Some of the guys are sweet tongued and the girls do not want to listen to reason or are chasing the glittering things of this world. 5 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 4:22pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
@Romanoff: Welldone. I award you the most quoted moniker on this thread. Invite us to your wedding o! |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by pryme(m): 4:23pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Chi59: Hanty, you dont have to claim the obvious, its just what it is. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by DeRay98(m): 4:51pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: Don't waste your energy trying to educate further of convince Romanoff. Your piece is explicit enough for those willing to learn and know. Her type is the ITK, who 'll deliberately explore what she knows has the capacity to derail her but she'll pretend until she ends up there only to resort to pointing fingers elsewhere. 3 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Nobody: 4:55pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Magnoliaa:exactly..its better u share ur frustrations with your man than with a random dude under the illusion of bestie.just imagine a girl telling me her boyfriend cant satisfy her cos she regards me as bestie what then does she expect me to do? 2 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Nobody: 5:01pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
bukatyne:u exactly correct..there is a difference b/w having male buddies and besties.besties are male friends u tell about ur relationships and even letting them knwo about ur intimate moments.when ur boyfriend offends u then u go to their shoulder to cry on and they pet u and one thing leads to another thing |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by biz2get(m): 5:01pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: A lady below 30 CAN NOT understand this line.... they think excitement/free hand is love , but that is when they will get heart broken. 4 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by DeRay98(m): 5:02pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
You described me 99%...fun seeking ladies took me for a boring person who is too serious with everything I did or do... [quote author=bukatyne post=88098164]Good evening my people, how quarantine? This thread is primarily for young ladies in their late teens to early twenties who are in serious relationships. Disclaimer: 1. This thread is suited for ladies who want to date/sleep with as little men as possible before marriage. If you are in a relationship for a 'good' or 'fun' time, you don't need this thread as you will naturally gravitate towards men/boys who can provide the 'excitement.' 2. This thread is not claiming that serious minded guys/men are not 'exciting.' They can and do provide excitement in their own way. 3. I am a firm believer of young girls finding a young husband material as quickly as possible. I call it investing your youth in a husband material. I am not a fan of huge age gaps; I rather the young catch the young. . Bar exceptions, I not think building a career and a relationship/marriage cannot go hand in hand. To the thread proper: I see a number of young ladies call a serious young man 'boring' because he is not into the fast life. He is more grounded, focused on things that betters the future of you too such as education, mental capacity, emotional development etc. He is that guy that would invite you for a career fair or marriage seminar. He doesn't care about the 'get together' happening in the house of the Yahoo guy that just hammered nor is he interested in clubbing everyday. He is not seeking for a girl he just wants to sleep with; he has seen you as a wife material he wants to groom to be the best version of yourself. He is the guy that would rather help you with your coursework. He is seen as boring because he is principled and expects same from you. He is not going to give you drama and would not expect drama from you either. Cheating, collecting contacts from guys, double-dating, hanging out with questionable friends, claiming bestie with guys etc. He expects loyalty and faithfulness. He is not a 'I am just passing or marking my own' guy so he needs you really invested in the relationship. This characteristic of principle is sometimes mistaken for 'strictness' or 'rigidity.' He would most likely not be the fun seeking type. This doesn't mean you both cannot create the type of entertainment suited to you. He might suggest going for a book fair or GT Bank Food Fair over visiting the new club opening. If you want to dance, get music and dance together. His priorities would also be different; he would pick an future enhancing activity over fluff if he has to choose. And nope, he is not going to accept the version of yourself you bring to the table just like that. He will encourage and require you to finetune it. He might point out some stuffs about you he doesn't like; your dressing, makeup, hair do, carriage, attitude to classes, interests,friends etc. He is not the anything goes guy because he is invested in your future and naturally wants to protect his interests. He would be protective of you so don't be surprised if he doesn't want you mixing with a particular crowd or wearing certain clothes or conducting yourself in a certain way. He is not trying to stifle you or keep you from enjoying life; he just wants his woman to be the best version of herself for him. Hmmmmmmm, sex; he might have enough self-control to abstain, he might not. If it happens, the sex is going to be with care. Even if he wants to be a ruff rider, it would still be with the consciousness that this is my baby till the end. The way you use aso ebi for one time is different from the way you use lace kept at the bottom of the box. Jara: Any man who is fine with everything you do or doesn't have a contrary opinion is either with you for the short term therefore not willing to invest in you OR pretending and waiting till after marriage to show his true colours. Hence the popular 'men change in marriage'. I hope this would be very useful to a baby girl about to 'end' that relationship because the bobo is boring or 'not a happening guy.'[/quote] |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Romanoff(f): 5:19pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
DeRay98: Na you gan gan be ITK. You done psycho analyse person wey you no know. Shrink general of the federation. Carry on o. 2 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Romanoff(f): 5:21pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: My dear sis, I stand on what I believe in till I have course to change my beliefs, none of the men here have been able to shift my beliefs. I'll look out for more of your posts, you're very civil. 1 Like |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by poik(m): 5:42pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Romanoff: I honestly dont buy this male bestie thing. I don't. Cheating is not just sex. The loyalty will be divided. There would be things the husband will not know about his wife and the best friend would. What kind of thing is that? But then i agree with the part of move with your crowd. If someone i want to marry has a male bestie, and i talk about it to no avail, that ends it. 1 Like |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by poik(m): 5:44pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Romanoff: Nine and a half times out of ten, a man and a woman who get close will roll in the hay. Its biology. People just like an atmosphere of absolute freedom to chase wiles that have hooks calling it fun. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Toxay(m): 7:45pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Paxie55: For someone who promote marital rape,any other thing she says is not surprising and I think it's pointless to reply, just enjoy the reading. Besides you come off a little violent ( I know you are not) and that scares people who don't subscribe to your beliefs and they won't even access or analyse your writing but rather attack you immediately because they feel threatened 1 Like |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Nobody: 8:06pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: This is a good read for me. I have a question, are you in any way related to lord.ko? 1 Like |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 8:26pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
princessofpeace: Thank you princess, what was your major takeaway? No, we aren't related. Any reason why? |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Nobody: 8:33pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: Thanks ma'am. I agree with everything you said. I have learned a lot. Two of you reason alike. Honestly before now I used to think that maybe he is your husband. 2 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 8:38pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
princessofpeace: Hahahahahahahahahaha! Why don't I know how to use GIFs here? What is your old moniker? You joined today and have three posts. Two on this thread and one quoting him. P. S.: I am glad my thread could be of help to you. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Moneywirer: 8:40pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
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Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Amumaigwe: 9:37pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Romanoff: Read the disclaimer please. This thread is not for your type. Wasn't it written in black and white? 2 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Romanoff(f): 9:38pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Amumaigwe: Even the original poster was civil and welcoming of the opinion of others, something you can learn from. Adios. 2 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Amumaigwe: 9:58pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Romanoff: @Bolded: By their fruits we shall know them. No false claims here please. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Shugavee(f): 9:58pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
bukatyne:that’s non of ur business,,, don’t feel u hv to tell people what to do with their lives. Ur life isn’t perfect , everyone is trying to be happy, while u do what u think is right, allow others to do what they think is right . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 10:05pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Shugavee: Did I at any point force you to read this thread or prescribe a way to leave your life? Am I stopping you from doing whatever you like right now? My dear, whatever you like, carry go. 5 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Shugavee(f): 7:11am On Apr 07, 2020 |
bukatyne:b4 nko |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 2:15pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
biz2get: Just saw this mention. I disagree with you. It is not by age. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by biz2get(m): 2:37am On Apr 18, 2020 |
bukatyne: that age takes group takes more %% in your op points, after 30 they start reasoning |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Jeboy(m): 11:57am On Apr 22, 2020 |
I took my time to go through this thread and read everybody's comment. Firstly I want to say I will pay to have this content for my niece and future daughters so rich. Secondly people will always have their opinions. Some people have sworn in their hearts to learn by experience at the cost of having scars but a wise man or woman learns from other peoples experiences and knowledge. Finally, the bible says there is a way that seemeth right (exciting, fulfilled, attractive, enjoyable) unto a man but the end is destruction. I will send this link to my nieces and nephews in the varsity and in their early twenties. 4 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 12:26pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Jeboy: I wish them all the best. Hugs from me to them. This is usually what I want for my threads: to reach as many people especially ladies as possible so they learn from it. 2 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Alexaonfleek: 4:42pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Thanks @ bukatyne for this interesting thread. Just took my time and went through it, including the comments. I totally agree with your thoughts on this and the bestie part. The only problem is to get the diff between a serious minded guy and the one who wants to take you for a ride and dump you. 1 Like |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 7:48pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek: Sweetheart, I am coming for you. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 9:51pm On May 02, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek: I mentioned you on Rozz's thread about early marriage. I can't type twice, no vex. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Nobody: 11:07pm On May 02, 2020 |
It is this kind of "boring" guy I want to marry 2 Likes |
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