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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Finstar: 5:56pm On Apr 14
Eulalia:


I think the university these days is one of the contributing factor of moral decadence in our society. Most girls become something else once they enter the.university and its not suppose to be! Like seriously, the rate at which they become rotten nowadays, if I'm a man, I'll have a hard time getting married. I'm sorry to say this but that is the fact. Even the Guys are not left out. Getting a decent man for marriage these days has become a herculean task because all they talk, think and reason is only sex, sex,sex. And that is why marriages hardly last again cos everyone has lost sight of the original purpose of marriage and are now chasing the wrong things.

It is well.

If you see as marriage dey scare me eh cheesy It's not easy ooh.. I agree with you, the guys aren't saints either. It's well, even in the well.
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Ebidosia: 5:57pm On Apr 14
MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.







Why you dey fear to tell person make E comot for your house?
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Nobody: 5:57pm On Apr 14
Finstar:


If you see as marriage dey scare me eh cheesy It's not easy ooh.. I agree with you, the guys aren't saints either. It's well, even in the well.

smiley

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by zinolurv(m): 6:00pm On Apr 14
MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.


Bro just be plain with her and tell her how u feel. Life is too short to live a fake one
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Egypt209: 6:03pm On Apr 14
Find any hausa guy around you
Pay him to get you burantashi
Get to work
Whenever you're through, tell her you're just starting
Before then make sure you guys are not feeding well for like two days earlier.
Come back here to give testimony

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by darmilolah(m): 6:06pm On Apr 14
Mekenz:
it is a scope, you can't give her the opportunity to reason that side, you guys are meant to leave the room same day for the various travels, while she is away, you can come back to your apartment.......if you know u know.

Ok
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by darmilolah(m): 6:07pm On Apr 14
Eulalia:


You can conveniently say so cos you're not the one on the hot seat.
If the tables were turned now, you'll cry foul too. I know.

Why are you judgemental?
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by solreb: 6:10pm On Apr 14
MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.
You are already committing sin by fornicating with her So how are you comfortable praying in that situation. John 9:31 says "We know that God does not listen to sinners. He listens to the godly person who does his will". Go before God in repentance and desist from committing sin with her or any other lady.

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Nobody: 6:11pm On Apr 14
darmilolah:


Why are you judgemental?
How?
I apologize if I come across as judgemental though.
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by emmaodet: 6:11pm On Apr 14
Kingarthur21:

Sadly alot of men are not participating in men's right movement...they dont push for laws as feminist do,their only interest is telling men what to do,shaming single moms,learning PUA etc

Well, we all should know that - this heavy rain that is about to fall,the roaring thunder and lightning, nobody will escape it because the rain is going to fall on everybody's roof without omitting anyone.
Whether we men act fast or not, monk ooo, mtgow oo, redpill ooo, simp, manginas etc the rain will fall on everybody's roof.
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by darmilolah(m): 6:12pm On Apr 14
Eulalia:

How?
I apologize if I come across as judgemental though.

Apology accepted
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Nobody: 6:12pm On Apr 14
Eberechi24:
Making plans for the next available pusssy. As dem don announced another two weeks lock down, bobo dey make plans for new pussy for next two weeks.

New week, new soup.

Prayer ni prayer ko
u don talk am finish
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Danachuks(m): 6:12pm On Apr 14
[b][/b]kwantinue ! ;Kwantinue !
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Amaefuleteddy: 6:16pm On Apr 14
MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.


Tell her straight up!
You don't need to displeased urself to please somebody else!
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by shola07(f): 6:23pm On Apr 14
I guess this will give girls a small sense during this lockdown saga not to stay long in ur bf place if not ur hubby or engaged fiancee

And to you, you are lieing to a girl that u can't see future in her and u want God to answer ur prayer

do you think he is an hypocrites GOD like you. u better go and find Jesus
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by pansophist(m): 6:39pm On Apr 14
Kingarthur21:
they will still sham us when faced with the consequences of their feminism...they saw the repercussiom of sexual liberation and knew ladies will cry last so they put in measures to make sure ladies are not chopped and dumped...guess what? RAPE!
as i speak they are already look for ways to tag "regretted sex" non consexual...they are expanding the narrative of non consexual sex and statutory rape. If in the process of coitus,she tells you to stop and she has changed her mind,if you dont stop thrusting at the exact second she tells you to get off her,it is rape.if you release in her or take off the condom without telling her,it is rape.
Soon,the definition of rape will be that if she didnt give you verbal consent like "i want sex" and both of you just go into the act mutually,it is rape. Even if the ladies use their mouth to say "i want sex",they will question if the yes was genuine and how you manipulated or convinced her to do so or how she said the yes because of "fear" of losing you.
I hope you are aware that if a lady has sex when she is drunk(i am not talking about the male getting her drunk) and the man is also drunk,it is still rape.

In less than ten years from now,promising a girl love and marriage and not fufiling them after sex will be called rape,it will be sex acquired through deception and fraud. Never underestimate the power of gynocentrism.


Guess what?it is the manginas that are propagating all of this,ubunja and martinez39s may tell you to be careful with women but i tell you to be very careful with whiteknights and manginas,they are our real enemies and not women,they are more dangerous than women

Buchi is to Nigeria what Derrick Jackxn is to UK. Both of them pander to women's biases, tell women exactly what they want to hear, never hold them responsible for anything and scapegoat men as the source of all their life's problem. His business model is foundationed on male demonization, and female victimisation, the best recipe to make liberal woman get along with you.

Any man with no sense of dignity and is broke can set up an instagram business account and easily make money this way from these gullible women, while appearing as "woke", modern and an archetype that every man should aspire to be. Anybody with common sense and a mind of his own will see through his game. I can only feel sorry for any woman that will pay him for online session, but well, idiots abound.

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Martinez39s(m): 6:43pm On Apr 14
pansophist:
Buchi is to Nigeria what Derrick Jackxn is to UK. Both of them pander to women's biases, tell women exactly what they want to hear, never hold them responsible for anything and scapegoat men as the source of all their life's problem. His business model is foundationed on male demonization, and female victimisation, the best recipe to make liberal woman get along with you.

Any man with no sense of dignity and is broke can set up an instagram business account and easily make money this way, while appearing as "woke", modern and an archetype that every man should aspire to be. Anybody with common sense and a mind of his own will see through his game. I can only feel sorry for any woman that will pay him for online session, but well, idiots abound.
You forgot Steve Harvey. grin grin

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by pansophist(m): 6:44pm On Apr 14
Martinez39s:
You forgot Steve Harvey. grin grin

That one na their oga kpata kpata na, no wonder na woman de full him show pass.

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by victorian(f): 6:50pm On Apr 14
Ebidosia:








Why you dey fear to tell person make E comot for your house?






He is feeling guilty.
He Don sex her blue black , with all forms of wierd styles her pussy is now so wide and her boobs now flat after serious squeezing he can't deal anymore. Lol

One of my married male friends said he's tired fuxvkin his wife . He misses his side chick and hes drivin on his street looking for random babe to fuckv.
I said Guy! U need God in your life , wetin!
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by ithink7: 7:00pm On Apr 14
Premarital sex will kill your prayer life. It's an open door for whatever evil is trying to get you. It's better you find yourself a wife.

MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Cyynywhite: 7:05pm On Apr 14
in other words we want our advise on how to technically dump her without hurting her feelings?
if yes you have come to the wrong venue try somewhere else.....
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Martinez39s(m): 7:10pm On Apr 14
pansophist:


That one na their oga kpata kpata na, no wonder na woman de full him show pass.
Steve Harvey is indeed the grand lord of simps. Each time he fans women's ego and talks about the "man's way,'' I just can't stifle my laughter. grin Funny enough, Steve has been married and divorced twice, and he is currently in his third marriage. His recent wife is a single mum with a daughter.

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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by biafraisdead(m): 7:12pm On Apr 14
WildChild00:



A topical mkt woman....
Can't even spell 'typical'
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Kingarthur21: 7:21pm On Apr 14
pansophist:


Buchi is to Nigeria what Derrick Jackxn is to UK. Both of them pander to women's biases, tell women exactly what they want to hear, never hold them responsible for anything and scapegoat men as the source of all their life's problem. His business model is foundationed on male demonization, and female victimisation, the best recipe to make liberal woman get along with you.

Any man with no sense of dignity and is broke can set up an instagram business account and easily make money this way from these gullible women, while appearing as "woke", modern and an archetype that every man should aspire to be. Anybody with common sense and a mind of his own will see through his game. I can only feel sorry for any woman that will pay him for online session, but well, idiots abound.
honestly i have never had an issue with anyone being pro-woman,i have only had an issue with those dolts calling men misogynistic when they put themselves first and are pro-woman.
The new mantra is "the future is woman",its okay,at least we know what they want,power,elevation which they perceive men enjoy and not equality as they claim they want.

They never seem to look on both sides but from just the narrative of men are always villians and women victim. That is why redpill came up,to speak up for men that are been villified and demonized. They are yet to see anything from us.
Things are changing,men are the ones refusing to return home from work because of domestic violence,men are the ones deceived with paternity fraud,men are the ones used and exploited,yet they cant hold a balanced view....
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by highflyer012020: 7:44pm On Apr 14
MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

send her to me, so that she can stay with me i am bored provided she met my outlook criteria

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Ojukwubucket(m): 7:48pm On Apr 14
Bluezy13:


Ibo is a formal recognition of the tribe.
Example: An Ibo man.
Igbo is the language recognition of the tribe.
Example: An Igbo language.


You should be ashamed of yourself for being ignorant of your origin.
Lol...u must have been taught by a quack Igbo Teacher...
Ibo is used by deluded people like u to please ur slave masters seeing that they might run into difficulty pronouncing the consonant GB...
I would rather teach a foreigner how to pronounce it than changing it to sooth him/her thereby undermining the originality of my language...
The same reason some fellas like u would spell Okafo as Okafor, ofo as offor, uzo as uzor and would still come out to foolishly defend it.
Before u say anything further, I would like to let u know that had A1 in Igbo language and I am proud to flaunt it anywhere.
Let me teach what ur Igbo teacher didnt do....We say : A bu m onye Igbo ma na-asu kwa asusu Igbo ofuma. O bughi : a bu m onye "Ibo".....iti grin
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by skedy1(m): 7:57pm On Apr 14
Ladylite:



Hypocrite, you have smashed her finish then you are now bored.
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Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by heilige(m): 8:08pm On Apr 14
When one or two are gathered I will be in their mist. Make una pray together.

MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by juniorstar(m): 8:09pm On Apr 14
MadeBoy:
I have caught her like two time masturbating. I just pretend I don't know. Probably there is more I didn't see.
joy! joy!! joy!!!
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Bluezy13(m): 8:17pm On Apr 14
Ojukwubucket:

Lol...u must have been taught by a quack Igbo Teacher...
Ibo is used by deluded people like u to please ur slave masters seeing that they might run into difficulty pronouncing the consonant GB...
I would rather teach a foreigner how to pronounce it than changing it to sooth him/her thereby undermining the originality of my language...
The same reason some fellas like u would spell Okafo as Okafor, ofo as offor, uzo as uzor and would still come out to foolishly defend it.
Before u say anything further, I would like to let u know that had A1 in Igbo language and I am proud to flaunt it anywhere.
Let me teach what ur Igbo teacher didnt do....We say : A bu m onye Igbo ma na-asu kwa asusu Igbo ofuma. O bughi : a bu m onye "Ibo".....iti grin
Oh C'mon!!!

You had to go through this stress just to prove to me that you are not ashamed of yourself for being ignorant of your tribe.

If indeed you had an A1 in Igbo language, then sincerely you cheated.
Igbo turu ilu si na mgberede ka eji a mara dike. If you didn't cheat your way to A1, you wouldn't have embarrassed yourself the way you just did.

Since you harbour such indignation against the so called slave Masters, why are you typing in English language of the "slave Masters"
I bu ezigbo onye nzuzu!!!
Anuohia!!!
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by Therapyken(m): 8:24pm On Apr 14
Someone who is thoughtful and prayerful should not be cohabiting.
Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by alphaRego01(m): 8:26pm On Apr 14
Bluezy13:


An Ibo adage says that a good visitor is one who knows when to leave.
It is called "maturity".
Look that up and get it into your head...
That's if your head is not filled with trash already .





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