queensmith:

no- you start by telling me why you think yoruba men have any sort of superiority?

Judging by the crap youve barely managed to string together your simply proving my point! I dont need any sort of faithfulness from you   what do I look like? because our ancestors spoke the same language dont assume were on the same level! Throw your nursery words as much as you like you will never make any sense!
I refuse to even duel with an idi/ot, use your time to get yourself educated fool. Ignorance is a disease!

Its so unfortunate that the married women on here turns out to be the least intelligent. Are you saying your Yoruba Father is worthless? When that dude you snared into marriage finally finds out you are nothing but a cheap gaudily woman; your sorry face will be sent back to your Yoruba land. At that point, Who gets to put up with the useless you, the same Yoruba men you once trashed.

Dunno your level of education but its obvious your tutor left out tribal values. The more I learn about women like you, the more I love dogs. Oponu

Err,last time i checked,a white woman was concerned about her b/friend's underhand dealings.Has that changed

^^^

Tell that to the enraged biiitch that chose to put Yoruba men in the spotlight for bad reasons.

Haba!

Lol, how did this thread degenerate so quickly?

Less tribalism plz (that is for the politics section!) more love!

Oh, and to Oyinbo85. . . don't be so insecure. If you take care of your body you can still look good until 40, 45ish. Just don't overeat and balloon, spend lots of free time at the gym and eating salads, and you'll be OK.

And yes, naija dudes can be faithful to white girls. I dated a white girl for a long time and never cheated on her. We ended up breaking it off due to compatibility, not me cheating. And FWIW, I'm Yoruba too.

@Poster


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lol u dont even know how funny your virtual tribal war seems to me. im just dying out of laughter i guess i learned the most about how complicated and passionate nigerians are watching your fights. guys relax!!! its not for real, its just your laptop screen you are fighting


as for my boy i think that if i leave him now i would just regret it all through. i wont agree to marry him though yet, until i get rid of my hesitations. i dont know why but i believe that he really wants to make things right now so lets see how it goes, will try to show him i trust him and think good of him cause me telling him hes a cheater and lier will only make easier for him to be one since i already think so.

@eku_bear
im worried about it cause
1. i keep on coming across threads of guys who are sick and unhappy with their wives after they're changed into fat monsters when they got older so it seems like its bound to happen

2. of nigerians! cause they seem so concerned about looks. even my boyfriend seems to be happy when we are going out and he can show me to his friends as if i was his trophy,

oyinbo85:

lol u dont even know how funny your virtual tribal war seems to me. im just dying out of laughter i guess i learned the most about how complicated and passionate nigerians are watching your fights. guys relax!!! its not for real, its just your laptop screen you are fighting

Yoruba vs. Igbo online battles are pretty hilarious, I agree. But they are even more fun to participate in 

as for my boy i think that if i leave him now i would just regret it all through. i wont agree to marry him though yet, until i get rid of my hesitations. i dont know why but i believe that he really wants to make things right now so lets see how it goes,   will try to show him i trust him and think good of him cause me telling him hes a cheater and lier will only make easier for him to be one since i already think so.

Yeah, just shine your eyes well well! Don't let yourself be made a fool.

@eku_bear
im worried about it cause
1. i keep on coming across threads of guys who are sick and unhappy with their wives after they're changed into fat monsters when they got older so it seems like its bound to happen

Yeah. But if a woman works hard at it, she can still be amazing after kids/older. But women who are lazy, spend all their time stuffing their faces with cake, don't put in time at the gym? Of course they will turn fat. Just don't let that be you! Hire a personal training if you have to.

2. of nigerians! cause they seem so concerned about looks. even my boyfriend seems to be happy when we are going out and he can show me to his friends as if i was his trophy,

Yes o! Nothing more fun than having a beautiful woman on your arm and having your friends and random onlookers goggle in envy. But I don't think this is just Nigerians, all guys are like this. . . After all, which guys like showing off their ugly girlfriends to people?  If you have an ugly girlfriend, you make up excuses to stay at home and not be seen with her 

oyinbo85:

2. of nigerians! cause they seem so concerned about looks. even my boyfriend seems to be happy when we are going out and he can show me to his friends as if i was his trophy,

Thats because you are white

We are always dumbstruck with the white skin

I think its inferiority complex though. And we all suffer from it.

fstranger1:

Thats because you are white

We are alway dumbstruck with the white skin

I think its inferiority complex though. And we all suffer from it.

Think twice, speak type once

cold:

Think twice, speak type once

Am I lying?

Even you dont you wish you had a white wife to show to your folks back home?

^^^

Lol

@ eku_bear
well, i cant tell for all guys cause dont know all of them. but i had only white boyfriends before and they werent happy with me making up too much or wearing mini skirts. and if random guys were looking at me on the street they would be like it is my fault the guys are looking at me!
@fstranger_1
hmmm inferiority complex is a big issue itself. please guys dont attack me now but i think blacks are much more racists than whites. they are so meticulous when they hear the world 'black' checking if it was used in a correct sense and collocation and when they are not sure, they become crazy. and as for white people i think they are more relaxed when it comes to that. ive been insulted several times and the argument was me just being white and i didnt really care. i dont mind my boyfriend calling me whitey or whatever. his favourite topic seems to be the superiority of a black penis over a black one. i laugh inside over how superficial it is but i let him talk since it s making him feel better. but let me try call him any name connected to his race he will check if anyone heard it or let me  try to laugh at his fellow brothers, he would go wex!

fstranger1:

Am I lying?

Even you dont you wish you had a white wife to show to your folks back home?

I'v been living outside the shores of naija as far back as i can remember.Mingling with white folks-lyk forever.If i was going to marry a white lady,it wldn't be for the reasons you posited but for the same rzn i'd marry a nigerian lady or any other lady for that matter

cold:

I'v been living outside the shores of naija as far back as i can remember.Mingling with white folks-lyk forever.If i was going to marry a white lady,it wldn't be for the reasons you posited but for the same rzn i'd marry a nigerian lady or any other lady for that matter

whatever makes your pric-k stand!

fstranger1:

whatever makes your pric-k stand!

ok.At least we're on the same page

i dont mind my boyfriend calling me whitey or whatever. his favourite topic seems to be the superiority of a black manliness over a white one. i laugh inside over how superficial it is but i let him talk since it s making him feel better.

@oyinbo85
hahahaha your boyfriend is a nutcase. are you sure he is not on nairaland?
I think he might be roymary in disguise.

@Jenifa_
lol, i dont think so. he s not really keen on internet

Jenifa_:

@oyinbo85
hahahaha your boyfriend is a nutcase. are you sure he is not on nairaland?
I think he might be roymary in disguise.

Jenifa! now i'm nut case too huh?

just move on!!!!!!!!

I will be glad when someone get them some KONDO! Seriously.

i think some niaja men are faithful only when they have their ''kpale'' papers, before dating the white ladies, if not, all man to their own. OYO.

Hey Mygolidie! How you be sis?

Hi sis,im good,thnx.

roymary:

Jenifa! now i'm nut case too huh?

You need to go back and check ur birth certificate.
your middle name starts with a N and ends with a E.

^^^
Starts with a N and ends with a E. Hold up, lets see, mmmmmmmm gotcha! 'NUTCASE" Will get back to you soon.

hehehehe john bull my son

@OP, trust me he's cheated on you.

Now you gotta decide if you want to live with that or move on.

My advice: move on and find some1 with strong enough character not to cheat on.
A man who cheats is a weak man (so help me God!)


Cheating is a symptom of problems you are going to have in the future.


Good luck.

@sista-jay, why the hate now?
We all have personal experiences and must learn from them but
we shouldn't generalize.

A man or woman can be Nigerian, British, American or whatever.
There are good as well as bad eggs in every 20 dozen.

None of this is peculiar to Nigerians alone so don't generalize.


Peace!

For all the cheaters!!! Havent u heart of AIDES...Thats my biggest worry..yeah im with a yoruba man..havent met him yet have been with him almost a year...and i can guarentee he doesnt pull his poo over my eyes...If hes true im the luckiest girl in the world...but time will tell...@ poster...Dont hold noting back..if u got something to say say it to him..thats part of communication..and whats this bit of not looking in his bag...or he yours or even checking each others phones??I just know i never wanna be with someone thats sneaky ...coz it kills a relationship...best to be open...its ur life also if he wants to be a player...tell him to pack his bags...and dont slam his door on the way out...Goodluck sister oyimbo just dont be treated as a doormat!!!

Mrs.Chima:
Queensmith,

I thought yall were just kidding when yall said they were dangerous and whorish.  Let me add this before bullets start flying.  I know ALL MEN can be cheaters and dangerous.  I am talking about specifically what a gang of people saying about Yoruba men.   I have seen a few Yoruba men (non gay) were able to sweet talked themselves out of the obvious!  I was like damn they are skilled!

I never assumed that were the norm for Yoruba men.  I guess I wasn't in the right crowd.

They are skilled in sweet talking and getting themselves out of poo. 

Ouch

Onchedu: Postee, One more thing is, Ur problem with Ur naija man is not peculiar to naija men. Men & women from all over the world irrespective of origin, would be moved in such ways on seeing people they were once intimately involved with & if there's ever a time U need to be more mature than they or U are, it's at such a time.

The past is easily idealised. Emotions come flooding and voices start making cases. The ex knows she doesn't love the guy anymore but voices tell her he belongs to her and vice versa.
U should count Urself lucky he even spoke to his friend about it and didn't deny it & tell U in no kind words that U are letting paranoia get ahead of U.

Lastly, pls when U do get fat, ugly, have a baby that makes U feel like not having sex, U need to slim down And look healthy & attractive, beautify Ur ugliness & give him sex whether U 'feel' like it or not.and stop thinking like the little girls that assume men are ruled by your feelings.

Marriage should be enjoyed and not endured. I love white girls if what they say about them is true. Most of our African sisters really know how to stress a man out.

[quote author=oyinbo85 post=7532748]Hello everyone!

I need some advice from u guys. Im white going out with a Nigerian. We are very happy together. He is a really cute guy and treats me like a princess. Ive met his family and made good friends with some of them, Obviously we have some problems sometimes but most of the time we are enjoying ourselves.

He always tells me Im unlike all other white girls, cause im from a good, Christian Home, i dont cheat on him, i cook for him and treat him right i guess . (i dont think other white girls are bad though but thats what he thinks, probably cause of his previous experience) He is saying he wants to marry me and have children with me. (and its not the visa issue as hes already got it before  )
But it all got spoiled when his ex girlfriend came for a visit from Nigeria and they met after a very long time. He didnt tell me about that but then i got to know somehow after couple of months. After that i became obsessed and started checking everything, i even started going through his phone and came across some messages he sent to her  saying ‘i love you’, ‘i want to be with you forever’ … but when he was involved with her he was acting normally with me and i had no idea something like that was going on.

I confronted him about that and he said that it was over and that when they met some memories came back to him. And he was thinking that maybe it would be easier for him to have a black Nigerian wife and not me. And he said that after some time he realised im the one he loves not her and even though it might be difficult he will try to make us work. He also told me he spoke about that with his male friend and told him how bad he felt because of his lying to me and cheating, and the friend answered that he shouldnt be bothered cause im a white girl and that white girls want nigerian men only for sex so since im getting what i want he shouldnt have guilty conscience…

I have forgiven him, but its still in my mind. there are days i just stay in all by myself and cry causa ive been so hurt. I lost my trust to him.  I even found some condoms in the bag he takes to his workplace even though we dont use them. I dont know how long they ve been there for though. And i dont want to ask him about that cause hes gonna tell me they ve been tere for 3 years!  And hes a ladies girl so he receives millions of calls and texts from girls. I used to laugh it off but now everytime his phone rings im dying inside cause im thinking it must be her. I dont tell him about that though cause dont want to nag him.

Anyway I love him very much and would like to really marry him. But i want to have a peaceful, nice life, dont want to be worried everyday that hes cheating on me. And sometimes i think its impossible cause of the deregatory opinion Nigerians have on Whites and cause of their culture(hes from a polygamic home, hes Christian though) so I cant blame him for the way he is even though in my family adultery is not acceptable. And its high time now for us to decide if we want to move on or go our seperate ways as weve been together 2 years now.

if hes  messing around now, what is he going to do when im fat, ugly and not feeling like having sex after giving birth to a child?


What do u think? Can he be faithful??

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Jjampro123, you are a little late with the worshipping, this was posted in 2011. I hope she married him though. He sounds like a good man for her.