Rozz:
Let him find a way around that condition first before thinking of marriage.

eni4real:
Marriage is not a Philanthropist-Beneficiary relationship!!

It is not a 'Poverty alleviation program'!!

She should get a job and continue with her loving partner!!

If it is easy to choose a rich husband, no woman will be broke by now

Leave the couple alone!!!

savvy12:
My younger Sister has a suitor who has been disturbing her for marriage. The guy is an n-power beneficiary and currently runs his dad's little business.

The problem is that he still lives in his family house but promised my Sister that he will relocate once they get married. We told my sister not to accept his proposal because he might refuse to relocate after marriage.

Note: he stays in the village and he is a graduate too.

adecz:




Husbands are too scarce ohhh,

manage any condition, so long as
no be mad man, herdsman, or ritualisti;

One day, one day, una go get una own
place.

Smile4mee01:
Hmnnn...

I think this is why some girl might never get married.

5 years from now, you see this same guy has moved on , had his family and doing well , you wish you married him. By then she will be in Shilih crying to God to bless her with a Man.

Ladies discard good men because they dont see the future, they even dont ask more important questions like... Whats your 5 yr goal ? how would you raise our son/daughter? Have you got plans to improve yourself to be a better man ? how can i help with that ?

Instead, they bother about how huge their wedding is?, how many cows they killed ? is their wedding gown Instagram lit ? are my friends jealous ?

Lets not forget in the olden days, our mothers went to live with the fmilies of thier husband... when did it become a prerequisite to marrying?

savvy12:

According to her,he is not making any plans to relocate.He doesn't even know where to relocate to because the N-power job he does is in the village.He is not searching for alternative jobs too.He is 35.
He doesn't have any married brother.He is the first child.

femmyapson:

Like I said, if you are from a poor background; convert marriage to poverty alleviation even if you have a job.
I am kuku not holding anybody...
You talking as if a girl once dump u for a rich man..

VickyRotex:


Waawwwuuuu!!! This is another angle. Hopefully not.

Emotionss:
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99% probability. It's written all over him.

You signature is giving me mental orgasms.

franozx:


Let me not me biased... It all depends sha but u know living in your family house with your new wife won't make your wife very comfortable especially when your people/your wife aren't very tolerating... So started your new home away from home will be the best option here...

VickyRotex:


Mental what Wahala dey ooo

simplepee:
Never. As a woman I no longer live with my parents, so?

We can stay at my place and manage for a while before God answers but I can NEVER stay with him in his father's house.

Emotionss:
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not what you're thinking ma.

I love poetic quotes.

osazsky:
it will definitely end in tears ..a guy 35 still living with ur parents spits At 22 self me don move nonsence..that what u get when u are too comfortable in ur comfort zone..imagine the mum telling this adult that food is ready.i pray my son nor go be like this lazy beast God forbid

socialmediaman:
OP I didn’t read what your sister had to say about the situation, or doesn’t she have a choice in this?

Does she have something going on for herself by the way? Ladies should learn to be more self sufficient before getting married, you should encourage your sister to do same. Starting a family is zero achievement if you can’t give those kids the best in life.

Having said that, if she’s going to depend on him in their marriage, then he better be able to provide for both of them and future family... and most people don’t have the greatest experience living with in-laws so make sure she understands that before making her decision

osazsky:
if u reason like this at 40 he will still be under his parents...mum go still dey cook for a 40 year old man..I feel for the mum.no mum deserves this.the guy should return all monies spent during his naming ceremony it's not fair na

VickyRotex:


Ahh I'm not thinking anything o.

Cool

Omopinky:
Never!!! I can't even date a guy living in his family house

Emotionss:
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you're not serious.

Any more quotes ?

tpraiz:
Who still stays with his parents at age 35 ?
It's well oh

VickyRotex:


lol oh I didn't write that. It's a lyrics from a song by Casting Crown.

savvy12:
My younger Sister has a suitor who has been disturbing her for marriage. The guy is an n-power beneficiary and currently runs his dad's little business.

The problem is that he still lives in his family house but promised my Sister that he will relocate once they get married. We told my sister not to accept his proposal because he might refuse to relocate after marriage.

Note: he stays in the village and he is a graduate too.

frankson1:




Bro, I have a friend who was living with his family and only moved when he got married. You don't have to tell your sister to not accept his proposal, rather, he should make plans on moving a week to the wedding.

But If the guy is a PH guy especially from Ikwerre, she should forgerit o

savvy12:
My younger Sister has a suitor who has been disturbing her for marriage. The guy is an n-power beneficiary and currently runs his dad's little business.

The problem is that he still lives in his family house but promised my Sister that he will relocate once they get married. We told my sister not to accept his proposal because he might refuse to relocate after marriage.

Note: he stays in the village and he is a graduate too.

savvy12:
My younger Sister has a suitor who has been disturbing her for marriage. The guy is an n-power beneficiary and currently runs his dad's little business.

The problem is that he still lives in his family house but promised my Sister that he will relocate once they get married. We told my sister not to accept his proposal because he might refuse to relocate after marriage.

Note: he stays in the village and he is a graduate too.