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Re: How Do Some Men Think? This Is Both Disappointing And Irritating. by missimelda01(f): 11:37pm On Jun 03, 2020
KingAzubuike:

That's what most people don't even know. It's almost impossible for a single guy to rape a lady. He will most likely fail. The rigor and stress will end up putting him off. Except he threatens you with a weapon or they were numerically much, it's not that easy to rape a lady. Many of them see sex with a little bit of struggle before they spread leg for the guy as rape.
I can't believe you're a female and you're saying this.. let's just assume you're speaking out of ignorance.
I pray you never meet a rapist, your mouth won't be able to explain the experience.
Re: How Do Some Men Think? This Is Both Disappointing And Irritating. by KingAzubuike(f): 11:41pm On Jun 03, 2020
missimelda01:

I can't believe you're a female and you're saying this.. let's just assume you're speaking out of ignorance.
I pray you never meet a rapist, your mouth won't be able to explain the experience.
So if a guy wants to have sex with a girl now, she started saying the normal "stop now" or "stop jhor" and closes her legs and resist ..... Only for her to later raise her waist up well so he can easily remove her pant, from your own method of reasoning, that's rape?

If na that one then 98% of guys who have had sex is a rapist because almost every sex you have with a girl always involve a bit of struggle or resistance from her before she finally allows you.

You're just being too emotional..
Re: How Do Some Men Think? This Is Both Disappointing And Irritating. by KingAzubuike(f): 11:44pm On Jun 03, 2020
Person wey dey struggle and shout "stop jhor" con later dey shout "fucck me harder baby" yet she say na rape Dem rape her lol
Re: How Do Some Men Think? This Is Both Disappointing And Irritating. by missimelda01(f): 11:49pm On Jun 03, 2020
KingAzubuike:

So if a guy wants to have sex with a girl now, she started saying the normal "stop now" or "stop jhor" and closes her legs and resist ..... Only for her to later raise her waist up well so he can easily remove her pant, from your own method of reasoning, that's rape?

If na that one then 98% of guys who have had sex is a rapist because almost every sex you have with a girl always involve a bit of struggle or resistance from her before she finally allows you.

You're just being too emotional..
So you think every rape follows that pattern? What of people that actually get raped? Did you think of that? Or are you a man hiding behind a female moniker trying to defend your gender. Uwa didn't ask for what she got, no rape victim did.
Girls who accuse guys falsely should face the same punishment, but if a girl never gave you consent and you go ahead to have sex with her, it's called RAPE!
NO is NO.
There's nothing like a normal STOP, STOP is STOP.
You are a RAPE APOLOGIST, simple and short.
I'm done responding to you.

Benee1000 just look at what a person is saying, it's hard to ignore things like this you know.
Re: How Do Some Men Think? This Is Both Disappointing And Irritating. by boiz2men(m): 12:32am On Jun 04, 2020
missimelda01:

I indicated clearly in my post that I support rape investigation (which should be a normal procedure in a sane country), however I do not agree that a lady shares in the blame for her own rape, which was what I was trying to point out in the screenshot.

OK your point is noted and well under stood


See this.


2 people have been chatting for a while until they decided to meet.


The lady travelled from zamfara to cross river to meet your brother in his house and decided to spend 3 days

She denied your brother sex for 2 days and on the third day before she left, your brother raped her...


You heard of this case...

Would you completely exonerate the girl or you'd blame her for a thing or 2.

I had to use your brother so you could put things in perspective without being emotional or sentimental towards the female gender.

Now you have your brother and female gender before you. I expect you to rationalize this with reason and not emotion.
Re: How Do Some Men Think? This Is Both Disappointing And Irritating. by Exclusive101: 12:49am On Jun 04, 2020
If a lady beat me, like say slap she'll be having triple of whatever she gave in return. How people dic stand during the act is what I do not understood.
missimelda01:
First of all, I can't believe I have such an animal on my contact list. How can you hate rape and try to justify it at the same time!!!!
Because you spend change on a girl, you think she deserves to be beaten or even raped??

We need to teach our boys the right thing, we owe it to them.

Say No To RAPE.

Modified
I am not against investigating a rape accusation, I have brothers and I also know how evil some ladies can be. However, in the screenshot below he said
If the girl too was at fault and maybe she wronged the guy, the judge will be more lenient on the guy.. to the people defending him, what does this statement mean? No matter what a lady does, beating her up or raping her shouldn't be an option.


Re: How Do Some Men Think? This Is Both Disappointing And Irritating. by missimelda01(f): 12:55am On Jun 04, 2020
boiz2men:


OK your point is noted and well under stood


See this.


2 people have been chatting for a while until they decided to meet.


The lady travelled from zamfara to cross river to meet your brother in his house and decided to spend 3 days

She denied your brother sex for 2 days and on the third day before she left, your brother raped her...


You heard of this case...

Would you completely exonerate the girl or you'd blame her for a thing or 2.

I had to use your brother so you could put things in perspective without being emotional or sentimental towards the female gender.

Now you have your brother and female gender before you. I expect you to rationalize this with reason and not emotion.
All rapists deserve to be castrated, my brother or not. It's quite simple, No means No. That she came to visit you is not a crime, that she slept over for days is still not a crime, self control is key and it's not going to be easy, but if allowing her stay would make you commit a crime, tell her to carry her load and go. Simple
Re: How Do Some Men Think? This Is Both Disappointing And Irritating. by boiz2men(m): 12:58am On Jun 04, 2020
missimelda01:

All rapists deserve to be castrated, my brother or not It's quite simple, No means No. That she came to visit you is not a crime, that she slept over for days is still not a crime, self control is key and it's not going to be easy, but if allowing her to say would make you commit a crime, tell her to carry her load and go. Simple


Noted. Its fine
Re: How Do Some Men Think? This Is Both Disappointing And Irritating. by Akpaamunsi: 2:35am On Jun 04, 2020
KingAzubuike:
Person wey dey struggle and shout "stop jhor" con later dey shout "fucck me harder baby" yet she say na rape Dem rape her lol

Are u an hermaphrodite?
Re: How Do Some Men Think? This Is Both Disappointing And Irritating. by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jun 04, 2020
KingAzubuike:
Person wey dey struggle and shout "stop jhor" con later dey shout "fucck me harder baby" yet she say na rape Dem rape her lol

embarassed
Re: How Do Some Men Think? This Is Both Disappointing And Irritating. by Benee1000(m): 10:12pm On Jun 04, 2020
missimelda01:

Benee1000 just look at what a person is saying, it's hard to ignore things like this you know.
Yeah, I know, but then, we have to realise that not everyone understands or see things the way we do.
It's a very thin blurry line & often intercrosses, when differentiating between seduction by physical arousal, sexually manipulative sex, and non-violent rape.
Many times only the victims of rape can know if he or she was raped or not & sometimes, people don't know if they're raping someone or not.
Many times, people experience “post-coital dysphoria”. PCD, is a condition marked by feelings of agitation, melancholy, anxiety or sadness after intercourse, even when it’s good, consensual sex. This is more commonly experienced by females than males, and females may often misunderstand it for being used, violated or even raped.
Also, most Nigerian ladies, like playing cat & mouse with men. They unnessarily like being chased by men for relationships and sex, even if they equally or even want it more sef, so they initially act like they're not interested in a relationship or sex with the chasing male before giving in. Many ladies believe this makes the men to value them and not see them as cheap.
This makes it hard for guys to differentiate when a lady is playing cat & mouse and when the lady actually not interested, as many guys believe that the only way to differentiate what from which is to persist.

So you see? This issue of rape is indeed a complex one. However, it's our responsibility to enlighten the people we can about the issue of rape.

I don try... Lol...
So I rest my case here.
Peace & Stay safe
Re: How Do Some Men Think? This Is Both Disappointing And Irritating. by Nobody: 11:44pm On Jun 04, 2020
missimelda01:
First of all, I can't believe I have such an animal on my contact list. How can you hate rape and try to justify it at the same time!!!!
Because you spend change on a girl, you think she deserves to be beaten or even raped??

We need to teach our boys the right thing, we owe it to them.

Say No To RAPE.

Modified
I am not against investigating a rape accusation, I have brothers and I also know how evil some ladies can be. However, in the screenshot below he said
If the girl too was at fault and maybe she wronged the guy, the judge will be more lenient on the guy.. to the people defending him, what does this statement mean? No matter what a lady does, beating her up or raping her shouldn't be an option.


Miss, you are very wrong and rude to call him an animal. Who are you and what gives you that right? I'm sure you're close to tagging him a rapist too for his view. His view may not have a perfect balance to it but he simply expressed it and not advocating for rape either. And yes, there are always many sides to a matter before justice can be determined. You women shouldn't bring sentiments and emotions into issues of justice. If you don't agree with his views, engage him intelligently and if you can't totally convince him to see it your way, you can end it there without the name calling.
I actually hate the way most of you ladies think you earn the right to go around tagging men rapists and all other foul labels for not reacting the way you'd like especially after rape sagas like this. Any man that doesn't melodramatize with y'all is a potential rapist..bla, bla.
Truth is that gets even the real rapists pretend to speak up just for public affirmation while their real capability is disguised under it all.
We men shouldn't be coaxed by your labels and political correctness to start acting up in a certain mould and saying what you think we should to look innocent in your eyes because of a few black sheep among us tainting our general image. No!
It's obvious these rapists should be served justice but allow people to speak from all angles as long as they don't promote rape and quit with the foul name calling and try to be more civil. I wonder if your Jesus you serve goes around calling people animals?

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