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What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by DNA9(m): 1:58am On Jun 07, 2020
Few days ago i was with a medical doctor friend of mine who happens to be a gyna. We have been friends way back high school. He schooled in the US and had returned back to Nigeria since 2018. We were somewhat gisting about how Nigerian girls seems to be stigmatising their fellow girls that are single mum's who got pregnant out of wedlock.

He strongly condemned this very silly act by ladies and he further affirmed as a matter of fact to me that, 90% of every Sexually Active lady had at one point or the other aborted an issue before. Some have even done it more than 10 times without any complications or whatsoever. The fact that a particular decided to keep hers doesn't make her a forbidden fruit in the society.

He as well opened to me that it is very abnormal for a sexually active lady not to at some point get pregnant. That if you have a lady you constantly have unsafe sex with and she has never for one day missed her period, then there must be something seriously wrong somewhere. It calls for a quick attention.

In his words "any girl that is fertile and complete [b][/b]will always get pregnant, it's is left for her to decide if she wants to keep it or not"

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by IAmRoot(m): 2:02am On Jun 07, 2020
Commented first. Yay

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by Prodigee: 2:31am On Jun 07, 2020
undecided
Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by phr33man(m): 2:36am On Jun 07, 2020
Naked truth

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by mignone(f): 2:37am On Jun 07, 2020
Not everyone is reckless though. It's only that the abominable has become d normal. We've replaced morals&correction with "Don't judge, are u a saint? He who has no sin..., etc".
Where as deep within, everyone knows what is right.

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by nuggarito: 2:59am On Jun 07, 2020
been dating my girl for 5yrs plus, we've had unprotected sex, should I even be worried when I marry her?

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by unmask: 4:41am On Jun 07, 2020
mignone:
Not everyone is reckless though. It's only that the abominable has become d normal. We've replaced morals&correction with "Don't judge, are u a saint? He who has no sin..., etc".
Where as deep within, everyone knows what is right.
The abominable? And what makes it abominable?

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by Sugarpearlry(f): 5:17am On Jun 07, 2020
nuggarito:
been dating my girl for 5yrs plus, we've had unprotected sex, should I even be worried when I marry her?
Worried about what? I think it depends on how often you have unprotected sex, might be that she allows you on times she's less likely to be pregnant and if not, then she must be taking pregnancy prevention pills considering how long you've been dating her.

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by Sugarpearlry(f): 5:20am On Jun 07, 2020
unmask:
The abominable? And what makes it abominable?
Don't feign ignorance, like he said, ' deep within everyone knows what is right.

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by phemmyfour: 5:29am On Jun 07, 2020
nuggarito:
been dating my girl for 5yrs plus, we've had unprotected sex, should I even be worried when I marry her?
She's probably a fan of postinor2

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by diziki: 5:33am On Jun 07, 2020
phr33man:
Naked truth


It can't be true. 90% is too high.

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by Tasceupdate: 5:45am On Jun 07, 2020
Hmmmmmm.. Thanks for the information OP.
Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by Gentle0wavez: 5:49am On Jun 07, 2020
IAmRoot:
Commented first. Yay
I'm proud of you son

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by elderbros(m): 6:33am On Jun 07, 2020
nuggarito:
been dating my girl for 5yrs plus, we've had unprotected sex, should I even be worried when I marry her?

She should be worried

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by jeph19(m): 6:36am On Jun 07, 2020
phemmyfour:
She's probably a fan of postinor2
Sure but that thing makes the flow irregular... That same week but two days ahead

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by Judybash93(m): 6:57am On Jun 07, 2020
nuggarito:
been dating my girl for 5yrs plus, we've had unprotected sex, should I even be worried when I marry her?

If your pullout game is lit, you don't need to worry...

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by Stillthebest: 7:51am On Jun 07, 2020
shocked

And you needed actually to tell you this before you know it? Every young and old man out there know it.
Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by TheSourcerer: 7:54am On Jun 07, 2020
unmask:
The abominable? And what makes it abominable?
the bible

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by Michelle55: 7:55am On Jun 07, 2020
Hmmmmm..
Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by Nobody: 8:24am On Jun 07, 2020
Well, some ladies are just more careful than others, it doesn't mean they are not fertile.

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by aameyah(f): 8:28am On Jun 07, 2020
DNA9:
Few days ago i was with a medical doctor friend of mine who happens to be a gyna. We have been friends way back high school. He schooled in the US and had returned back to Nigeria since 2018. We were somewhat gisting about how Nigerian girls seems to be stigmatising their fellow girls that are single mum's who got pregnant out of wedlock.

He strongly condemned this very silly act by ladies and he further affirmed as a matter of fact to me that, 90% of every Sexually Active lady had at one point or the other aborted an issue before. Some have even done it more than 10 times without any complications or whatsoever. The fact that a particular decided to keep hers doesn't make her a forbidden fruit in the society.

He as well opened to me that it is very abnormal for a sexually active lady not to at some point get pregnant. That if you have a lady you constantly have unsafe sex with and she has never for one day missed her period, then there must be something seriously wrong somewhere. It calls for a quick attention.

In his words "any girl that is fertile and complete [b][/b]will always get pregnant, it's is left for her to decide if she wants to keep it or not"

Any girl old enough to have sex should know how to protect herself. Or is he saying girls should get pregnant just to prove fertility?
There is nothing to prove to anyone. People should go for comprehensive tests if they have concerns.

P.S I don’t judge single mothers, or those that aborted. They will live wth the consequences, not me.

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by Margy(f): 8:38am On Jun 07, 2020
I'm a girl too.. take it or leave it...this is the raw truth.. people usually hate to hear the truth.... aaahhh.. you can jump into the lagoon if this hurts you.

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by unmask: 8:44am On Jun 07, 2020
Sugarpearlry:
Don't feign ignorance, like he said, ' deep within everyone knows what is right.
sex between consenting adults is not one of them. What is wrong that you know deep within are those things you do that hurt others. Sex is not one of them
Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by unmask: 8:45am On Jun 07, 2020
TheSourcerer:
the bible
and for those that don't adopt the Bible?

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by DNA9(m): 8:47am On Jun 07, 2020
mignone:
Not everyone is reckless though. It's only that the abominable has become d normal. We've replaced morals&correction with "Don't judge, are u a saint? He who has no sin..., etc".
Where as deep within, everyone knows what is right.

Nevertheless. The very careful ones are not much, perhaps they belong to the remaining 10 percent.. And then no one said aborting is a legendary act. Everything contrary to the creatirs plans is considered abominable. Even the use of birth control pills by legally married couples is also seen as a very big sin to some.
Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by DNA9(m): 8:51am On Jun 07, 2020
Margy:
I'm a girl too.. take it or leave it...this is the raw truth.. people usually hate to hear the truth.... aaahhh.. you can jump into the lagoon if this hurts you.

A lot your girls just don't like accepting the truth. Everyone comes here to pretend careful n Stringent. My happiness is, at the end of the day, there is only one person u can't deceived and that person is yourself.

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by kode12: 8:52am On Jun 07, 2020
DNA9:
Few days ago i was with a medical doctor friend of mine who happens to be a gyna. We have been friends way back high school. He schooled in the US and had returned back to Nigeria since 2018. We were somewhat gisting about how Nigerian girls seems to be stigmatising their fellow girls that are single mum's who got pregnant out of wedlock.

He strongly condemned this very silly act by ladies and he further affirmed as a matter of fact to me that, 90% of every Sexually Active lady had at one point or the other aborted an issue before. Some have even done it more than 10 times without any complications or whatsoever. The fact that a particular decided to keep hers doesn't make her a forbidden fruit in the society.

He as well opened to me that it is very abnormal for a sexually active lady not to at some point get pregnant. That if you have a lady you constantly have unsafe sex with and she has never for one day missed her period, then there must be something seriously wrong somewhere. It calls for a quick attention.

In his words "any girl that is fertile and complete [/b]will always get pregnant, it's is left for her to decide if she wants to keep it or not"
Your friend came back to Nigeria, so his 90% of sexually active ladies, is [b]maybe American statistics not Nigerian. 90% or 1000% ni.

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by illicit(m): 9:18am On Jun 07, 2020
I say no to abortion....
I can't wait to have a baby, gawd....

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by XXLMANDIGO: 9:20am On Jun 07, 2020
We all know that,and not because you are telling us he is a Doctor from the USA.

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by dairykidd(m): 9:27am On Jun 07, 2020
Its a known fact

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by paulolee(m): 9:34am On Jun 07, 2020
chai...av bin with a bea for 2 yrs and its constant unprotected sex bcoz am a big fan of raw and she's not the cheating type bt the issue is dt my withdrawal game is on point bt i don pour inside numerous times and but they have not been any missing of period or pregnancy story, d least she do say is delaying of period..hope am safe with wifeing her?

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Re: What My Gynaecology Friend Told Me About Young Sexually Active Females. by delectablegyal(f): 9:53am On Jun 07, 2020
every lady has a w.hore tendency. women are whores, men are polygamous in nature.

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