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Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by dagreat4(f): 8:29am On Jun 18, 2020 |
From the beginning.You don't force relationship.If he/she will love you,it has to b with your baggage inclusive.most relationship where stuff like this are not disclosed have trust issues even if the marriage/relationship continues cos if you don't trust then you have nothing. |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by Nobody: 8:29am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Zeinymira: It only shows that not everyone who comes online come with their brains obviously. 1 Like |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by Nobody: 8:33am On Jun 18, 2020 |
PastorFire: Wait a minute! Your girlfriend got pregnant and had a baby for another man while you two were still dating and you're going ahead to marry her? Wow! I'm speechless. I hope you're prepared to raise other people's children through her cos you may have 10 kids and none would be yours eventually. Anyway, good luck. |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by friendl: 8:43am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Immediately you introduce yourself ,... |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by Adunaanuoluwa(f): 8:50am On Jun 18, 2020 |
I prefer knowing early,A child is not a curse rather a child is a blessing.. |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by MadeMan01(m): 8:52am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Dainy1:From the moment he asks you out and you agree to date him. Tell him then |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by masterflowx(m): 9:05am On Jun 18, 2020 |
BeautifulWoman: I had to ignore every other comments to read the replies under you comment. You need to visit a very good and intelligent marriage councilor before you consider going into marriage with any man. You seriously need help my sister. |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by Beegrace: 9:09am On Jun 18, 2020 |
HeavenlyCherub:okay |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by Ufedolove: 9:13am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Dainy1: Being nice or unnice is not the problem here. A child from a previous relationship is the problem. Most guys, especially me don't like scattered families. It's not too much to ask, so don't guilt trip anyone to choose what they don't want. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by MozB: 9:17am On Jun 18, 2020 |
The right time to tell him is the day he asks you out. Some men don't have any problem with dating or even marrying a lady who has a child already. But there are those ones who mind and you should let them know to avoid telling them things like "I thought you loved me" when they finally find out and want to leave the relationship. |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by MoIbrahim: 9:32am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Day 1, after he has seen the goodness in you. But certainly not beyond Day 1. Anything beyond Day 1 is deception. |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by Rolexjerry(m): 9:34am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Hathor5:What later happened? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by themaestro08(m): 9:36am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Right from the get-go The earlier the better |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by maasoap(m): 9:38am On Jun 18, 2020 |
LewsTherin: You have a point and that's exactly how it should be. But going by our own culture and mentality here, I don't think any positive thing will come out from it, ten out of ten. Plain and simple. What can only work positively here is that the confessing party should wait for a little bonding before spitting it out. There's chance that it might work that way, not guaranteed. |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by Bradiyung(m): 9:39am On Jun 18, 2020 |
It should be when the partner started showing real interest in you, possibly the first date so he or she should know what they are putting their hands into. As for me I can't get serious with such girl, knowing myself I don't think I can stand it and I don't want problems like the child father later coming to disturb for his child or causing trouble by disturbing the woman and the child might later be feeling left out or maybe the child don't like me. I no ft handle those kind stress jareh, let me know what's mine is mine thank you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by virago(f): 9:40am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Dainy1: Doesn't have to be like immediately immediately you meet the person but please let the person know before you start a relationship with him/her |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by iphi(m): 9:41am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Your child's picture should be your screen saver that's the very first bomb you drop before genotype self 1 Like |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by maasoap(m): 9:42am On Jun 18, 2020 |
BeautifulWoman: Lol. They have good messages, advice and the like. But would first say nasty things before making their points |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by womenareapes: 10:23am On Jun 18, 2020 |
all those piece of shiit of a woman coming here and be saying, a serious man, real man, true love will accept you and your said child are just piece of trash. when you wear busying fvcking the guy and having for him, don't you think he was a real man there if a woman has a child Before marriage, that's a bad luck in her side and no man should be responsible for any of her previous relationship leftover (child) only a simp can go ahead and accept that piece of shiit of a woman. By the way! if I'm in a relationship with those shiit head and she later told me about her previous leftover, that's the day all communication will cut. no time to start fathering someone mistake. only simps those that. and if I later know paraventure we got married (God forbid). that same week will be our divorce ceremony. in this modern age we are. there is nothing like true love. it is give and take. 3 Likes |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by SirMichael1: 10:24am On Jun 18, 2020 |
visiondee:What happened to paragraphs? |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by SirMichael1: 10:28am On Jun 18, 2020 |
virago:So when does a person start a relationship? After the first date or after the fifth? 'cause i don't understand '...before you start a relationship...' |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by 21cents: 10:37am On Jun 18, 2020 |
ATAKAM:negative.. |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by Danniey: 10:52am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Dainy1: take the child with you on the first date. |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by andrewtosin(m): 10:55am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Hehehe... E be thingz oh ibkayee: 1 Like |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by biggy26: 10:58am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Dainy1:Lol! No be so na baba! While the chat is getting sweet, you say wait, I just want to.... |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by visiondee(m): 11:04am On Jun 18, 2020 |
SirMichael1:They are in COVID-19 Isolation centre sir |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by mechanics(m): 11:05am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Now. |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by PastorFire: 11:19am On Jun 18, 2020 |
TripleOh7:The said child is already with her father and for good. |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by Tobichuks(m): 11:32am On Jun 18, 2020 |
I dey the same page with u.. Wey pretty Ladies full every..I go come dey manage the one wey don born for house...Its a Pure no no for me.. In my early years,I once met a gal ,pick her up for our first date from school,got talking,she mentioned she had a kid, I dont over react,kept my cool,dropped her off..and that it's the end,we never saw again..though till date we chat once in a while..her boy is over 13 years now..for mostly of my igbo brothers..To the Yorubas,I guess it doesn't matter much..they see it as a test of fertility..so I was told.. One4me: |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by everydayisaplus(f): 11:36am On Jun 18, 2020 |
From the onset. |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by Munzy14(m): 11:45am On Jun 18, 2020 |
dingbang:Exactly. Being open from onset goes a long way to fortify the relationship. A lady being secretive/telling lies is a huge turnoff. |
Re: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by tomdon(m): 11:55am On Jun 18, 2020 |
Dainy1: Before meeting for any date, let the person know! |
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