eni4real:
Seun should marry first. Abeg

freesoul12:

Mom, so u think men can't be responsible without marriage. Na which kind mentality be that. There are many men out there that can easily cater for more than 2 wfs. For the fact we prefer our peace of mind than so called love scam doesnt mean we are irresponsible. Till this generation get it right. You girls are on a long thing.

DenreleDave:


Who report mi?

michaelpop50:


I dey nairaland before oh, but one babe chased me away from one astrology thread because my truth was too blunt for her to accept. I'm an astrologist.

okoroemeka:
honestly I can say companionship but that could also be easily achieved by not getting married,social media has given women the freedom they needed for thousands of years to advertise themselves and meet various exotic men,i am now married for 20 years now but this days of social media has made me not to look too deeply into most things ,you just have to develop an open mind when staying with women of nowadays.

michaelpop50:


Them dey, and many dey sleep with their bosses for office and cheat on their husbands. I know many of them that are working but still cheating.

Naija guys when dey their 20s, if you dey advise them, them nor dey hear. I'm in my 30s and i graduated from uni back in 2008. All the girls when graduate then with me when dey work for companies and banks now, all dey sleep around while working.

Unless you go marry ugly shapeless graduate before you fit get peace oh.

Carthman:


I was even expecting to see a lot of low key marriages due covid-19, but I haven't seen a lot actually


Bros most Nigeria ladies want an elaborate owambe wedding o

luminouz:


Lol...I know u ain't active but the key word is 'lately'


You intrigued me... and after skipping through your diary...I get the 'meeeeeeehhhhh' feeling.

I guess I'm not so interesting no more

pansophist:
Nuthead feminist fought so hard to wrongly convince themselves and women that marriage is a burden on women, what they didn't knew was that they made it so unattractive for men. Every poll shows women wants marriage than men, and now, the chicken has come home to roost.

Most importantly, people get marriage because there are some certain things marriage gives, that single life does not. Thing such as sex, companionship, kid(s), labour, and peace of mind. Right now, lots of, if not most marriage does the opposite. kids, sex, companionship, Labour and can be gotten outside marriage. Also, you're far more likely to have peace of mind, frugality, and freedom outside marriage. Also, the entitlement women brings to marriage is disgusting. To lots of women, showing up is contribution. No skills, not even their frminine allure, but to show up and take. More like parasitism, as oppose to mutualism.

Also, the incentive for men in the past to get married was that they are married to a girl at her prime, she gave her best years and virginity to him, and he stays with her during her beauty decline. Right now, our women make sure they chase vanity, sleep with as much men as possible, drunk under the illusion that they can have it all. Infact, many of our girls have seen more p.enis than a urologist, sex has lost its sacredness, and due to her experience in handling all sizes of p.enis, it may be hard to sexually satisfy her, which increases her chances to cheat.

Men are logical beings, they think through things from reasoning not emotions. I am sure most of the men on this thread that refuse to marry will do so if the girl is a virgin, in her prime, and is as wonderful and useful as their mothers. No man wants to get married to a woman who some of the wedding guest have slept with her. Thats a bad deal. Lots of our modern women will realise that you can not eat your cake and have it.

And because women prefer to "feel good", instead of truth, they will always be a victim of this culture thay lies to them to make them feel good, but when they find out about the truth, it would be a lonely existence and the beauty to attract a quality man would have depreciated.

Xeeex:


Why buy the cow when the milk is free?
Why marry the girl when sex before marriage is available?

simplepee:
Irresponsible men everywhere. Tueh!

Fact is, after spilling rubbish on Nl, they still get married every sayurday abi all the suitors we are getting falls from heaven.

Gerrard59:


Thank you so much. Most of these men are damn irresponsible but believe they are entitled to responsible ladies. Things don't work out in such ways. Irresponsible men will continue to attract irresponsible women and vice versa. Both parties deserve each other.

purplecoco:
I guess I'm not so interesting no more

OgogoroFreak:
A friend complained to me saying he is tiered of his marriage. He stated that his wife earns 250k monthly but even for little things like maggi ₦20 to cook, she comes to him to collect the money.

purplecoco:
Who gives a rat ass if y'all buy a ring? Shit i can buy me my own ring and propose to myself . Stop all these deluding bullcrap to keep me shut over my own opinion. If he don't match my grind, there's no reason to bring him to yankee. Lets keep that same energy over here

FreeSpirited:
If no woman will prove to me beyond reasonable doubt that she's worth a longtime investment and that she will really make marriage worth it for me, forget it, I may not marry cos I can't see what's in it for me that I can't get without it

If I desperately need a child, I will impregnate a stable working class lady. If I needed food badly, I would employ a cook. If pvssy is my issue, I will get on short fvckmate dates..or FWB.

But for the stress of a nagging, fickle wife and the overwhelming responsibility of marriage, a woman has to convinced me it's worth it, that she will give me rest. otherwise, I will live my life as detailed above, and pursue my own personal ambition. I know what makes me happy at my present age. And I can't see marriage in the picture of my happiness until I'm proven wrong by a woman.

Karlifate:

Hmmm... Successful35

vickydevoka:

Cut ur cloth according to your coat

Ajixegun:

During my undergraduate days, one of my friends told me he was surprised to see his name at number 21 on a list of those whom his so called girlfriend had slept in her dairy.

okoroemeka:
honestly I can say companionship but that could also be easily achieved by not getting married,social media has given women the freedom they needed for thousands of years to advertise themselves and meet various exotic men,i am now married for 20 years now but this days of social media has made me not to look too deeply into most things ,you just have to develop an open mind when staying with women of nowadays.

daewoorazer:


With this your “rachetness”, you’re only useful in the bedroom to scream “daddy destroy me” and wet our beds.

After which any guy(Even an homeless guy in this case) will run away, who wants to spend the rest of his life with an empty barrel?

Go and ask those big OSU aunties in the U.K, They are all married to an Army of dildos...

What he talm man! Shut your mouth, you reek of senselessness

crazyjean:
your right to some extent,I'm in my finals,and I can attest to this statement, uni girls dey Bleep like hell,God knows I don't see myself getting married, even if someone gives me one billion, God forbid, I'm 28 no girlfriend no problem, I cherish my peace,baby mama things :Dyour right to some extent,I'm in my finals,and I can attest to this statement, uni girls dey Bleep like hell,God knows I don't see myself getting married, even if someone gives me one billion, God forbid, I'm 28 no girlfriend no problem, I cherish my peace,baby mama things

CanadaOrBust:


Well, if a poor guy like u marries Linda Ikeji, how won’t it benefit u??

Yankee101:
Why ki yaself?

When you can live longer, stay younger, invest more?

A babe will pretend, marry you and become Dracula

purplecoco:
This is real life sad. Nobody is all into marriage no more, things are really happening.

michaelpop50:


Catch 100 level girl, then stop her education. She nor need graduate. Of what use is the graduation for women when they graduate and still depend on men? Na university nai babes for dey fuucck pass. Them dey damage their lives there.

She go gain admission as a slim girl, from 200 level, she go come dey thick due to numerous pricks and waka waka. Boy dey lash madness comot for babes head for uni nor be small.

In today's Nigeria, it is not wise to marry graduate. Na why Davido stop chioma from schooling