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Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by jaybankzz(m): 9:33pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
There's are lot of difference between tradition and religion. as the king you are the custodian of the tradition and expected to perform other rituals even before coronation and there after. If you know you can't uphold the values of your land, follow both the written and unwritten laws, i will advise you to forfeit the position to someone else. No CHRISTIANITY or ISLAM for royalty. Discuss the pros and cons with your wife if she's willing to conform to the new life. |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by SolarEdge: 9:34pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Wahala dey o |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by sisisioge: 9:36pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Eeeeze o!!! No mind me...I totally respect our traditional monarchy ni. |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by CodeTemplar: 9:38pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
shortgun:What technology and development? They couldn't discover crude oil for us or advance us to refine it and you think they are on your side or smart. Sorry o. 1 Like |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by Obakovicho: 9:38pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
bukatyne:Something like this happened in one of the South South states 5 years ago. The deity comes in form of a snake to the house of the chosen one. One gateman for AIT baff to go work na so e see python for em center table, being a stubborn man e lock d snake for house abandon the house for 1 week plus. Meanwhile, the chief priest say the gods have chosen someone. The village people begin wonder who na, during the town meeting the gateman was conspicously absent. Na so dem send messgae to em house, dem knock door no answer as dem peep see big snake for table na so dem gyrate go gate for AIT lift am for head straight to crowning. 1 Like |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by ninocia18(m): 9:39pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: Find any Dominion City Church around you and tell them about this. You will be glad you did. |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by DeraDeluca: 9:39pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Africa Magic Epic |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by mrkings84(m): 9:41pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Macphenson: Good advice man. But I am still looking for the traditional reason(s) why they want him to take another wife. And it appears no one here is interested in knowing the reasons.... |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by gnykelly(m): 9:41pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
eldoradoxx: women are truly the enemy of another woman |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by trinity11(m): 9:42pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
inviting someone to be crowned a king while his father is still alive is as good as saying come and become a king but the only sacrifice you have to make is for us to kill your father, cook him and we( entire community) all eat him together or your father go on a compulsory exile for the rest of his life and never to step foot on that soil, until his death. Anyway what do I knw? maybe your tradition permits it. |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by Ogbuu101: 9:43pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:Alternating b/w 2 pussies legally is sweeter than being stuck with one. You could even have a threeesome |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by shortgun(m): 9:43pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
CodeTemplar:What has the crude oil the white man discovered done for the people? People are still hungry, they still die of alien diseases in hundreds, they still die prematurely, people are still poor. What is the use of the crude oil. You need to think deeply my friend. |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by Johnjnr(m): 9:45pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
May your days be long...... Ohhhhh king |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:45pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Ogbuu101:...lol |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by saajus: 9:45pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Are you rich? Sometimes the Kingmakers choose base on wealth. If it's avoidable, please do. Focus on your career and family. |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by saintruky(m): 9:47pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: My brother it's now you've got d nail on d head... D whole conspiracy thing is to kill ur father, since they can't dethrone him. If I were u, I'd take my dad's advise where he said, "nothing will happen if I don't accept their kingship proposal"... Yet again ma fear na make dem no banish u n ur family from d village or declare una as OSU as a result of ur rejection... |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by dahlen71: 9:47pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
OP.., I don't know your tribe but if you are from eastern part of the country, it's an abomination to become a king while your father is still alive, your father cannot bow for you in the name that you a king. So check the source very well and do the consultation very well before taken it up. |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by toyotamuscle: 9:48pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
bukatyne:do you even no the meaning of leverage. |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:48pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
ninocia18:...I'm a member of Dominion city |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by viktuur(m): 9:48pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by shortgun(m): 9:49pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
mrkings84:His current wife is not from the community....a true king by some traditions needs to marry from the community to keep the royal bloodline pure. The children of his first wife will not be crowned kings in the future only the children of the wife he takes from the community will have a chance of been king in the future. 2 Likes |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by Blesyn22(m): 9:50pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
MPESA: According to his statement it is conspiracy because he clearly stated that he did not lobby for it |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by saintruky(m): 9:51pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: My brother it's now you've hit d nail on d head... D whole conspiracy thing is to kill ur father, since they can't dethrone him as president general. If I were u, I'd take my dad's advise where he said, "nothing will happen if I don't accept their kingship proposal"... Yet again ma fear na make dem no go banish u n ur family from d village or declare una as OSU as a result of ur rejection... |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by InvertedHammer: 9:51pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:/ Grab it with two hands. Don't forget to do Thanksgiving to God for his lowly servant. The tussle for a king has destroyed many communities leading to numerous violent and untimely deaths. But you were given on a platter of gold and you are complaining. Inside life. / |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by toyotamuscle: 9:52pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
let me tell you the truth. if I were you, I will grab that kingship with my two hand and two legs.i ll marry another wife from my village.i can see ur wife isnt from same village with you.as for my father, I ll tell him oye ma echi.he can bow to me if he wants but he should respect his king.cos only God can crown a man king. |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by shortgun(m): 9:56pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
dahlen71:Don't say what you don't know my friend. A diety can choose anyone for any position in the community, Remember theirs is rotational between two villages that makes up the community..doesn't matter if the person chosen father is dead or alive. Even in the bible David was made king while his father Jesse was still alive. By ur logic someone can't be given a title if their father have no title? Theirs a tradition in igbo land where the kingship falls on any of the grand children of the reigning king..traditions differ from community to community. 1 Like |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
shortgun:Most people that know about this thing don't comment on social media. They are secretive and reserve whenever such issue is discussed. My second rejected such nomination about 14 years ago because he is a prophet and knows a lot of mountains and a lot of men God. It was not easy, they gave him an example of 30 people that rejected such offer in different communities in Yoruba land up to Togo, he said nothing will happen. He started jumping from Mountain to Mountain, camp to camp, deliverance to deliverance, it is a long story. |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by eldoradoxx: 9:57pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
gnykelly:This is not Beijing conference , we are talking tradition here pls |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by shortgun(m): 10:00pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
babaolofin:No need to go further son of light....I know. |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by Queenesy: 10:00pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
From my experience with deities and kingship I have this advice if only you will take it; 1. You don't say no to the gods because it always have its consequences which may even come upon your children in future. Wisdom is the key and the truth in Igbo land, you don't take a staff of authority while your father is still alive(abomination) Answer: play the game of the spirit by telling the elders that your father will hold the crown for you until your ready. ( let me give you an example, Arthur Eze in Ukpo if u've heard of the name when his father died as a king, he was next in line but his multibillion dollar oil empire was his problem coupled with him saying no will affect his entire fortune. He played their game by telling the gods that his not too conversant with their tradition and that his uncle should hold it for him until his ready) with that the gods have only two options left 1. If they insists and crown him, he may destroy their custom and they can't harm him because he said it earlier 2. If they refused the uncle from holding the crown, it means that a stranger will be in charge which is also no for the gods. The bottom line is that Arthur Eze is over 70years now and his uncle is still holding the crown for him. Pls don't mind my typo and am writing from my wife's account am not a member just came across your message and felt the need to assist. Best Regards, Xp 4 Likes |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by ABELKIDO(m): 10:01pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
This thing is more spiritual than physical my brother. For you to reject the offer, you must be strong spiritually or else you won't be able to explain the consequences of your action. Thanks JONNYSPUTE: |
Re: I Was Chosen As King: Should I Damn The Consequence Or Forget About It Entirely? by Mrlazarus: 10:01pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
you only need to do one thing,find out if the gods truly chose you...if yes,they can’t be wrong,if no,you might be diving into a conspiracy far bigger and maybe older than you... |
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