PrimadonnaO:


To what extent does body count affect a lady? Is that what you meant to ask?

Feelings may come to play before acceptance... but you've already begun observing the man critically before feelings set in... you've sized him up... you've checked his values...you've scrutizned his intentions for you... checked out how consistent he is... you've assessed your own fondness of him... after all these should a person make a decision to begin a relationship.

Feelings shouldn't be primary... fickle feelings.

Dudotessy21:
Am so proud of my virginity

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I agree with all except no.3. How will I marry a man have not had sex with? what if he's a dickless man or has a big for nothing dick. I do t want to cheat on my husband abeg. Not after abstaining from sex I will now come and marry off point. Even the bible say we should 'test and see". For sex is very important in marriage and I'm not taking chances

pretydiva:
Lost a potential relationship because of no 1. He doesn't want a no sex relationship

Dudotessy21:
Am so proud of my virginity

PrimadonnaO:


Haba. But you don't have to have sex first to know if a man has a dick or that it gets erect. So many other ways to know!

You guys with "touch it, it's hard!"

alexola20:
@OP dis kain advice ehn,u no wan make we test before we buy a longterm suffering??

Guy don't listen to OP oo.Make sure you test before purchase.

Rozz:
Then simply don't spend your money and don't pester for sex too.Only virgin guys deserves a virgin girl too, men's virginity is equally as important as female virginity

MustFindLove:
Agreed, poster. I will advise ladies waiting for marriage to continue waiting. Don't fall into the it's-ok-to-have-sex-before-marriage-trap like you may be hearing. Don't mind any names you're being called - over-holy, pretender, liar. Stay true to yourself.

Alexaonfleek:

We're on the same page then....but the guy still takes majority of the bills sha

PrimadonnaO:


Haba. But you don't have to have sex first to know if a man has a dick or that it gets erect. So many other ways to know!

You guys with "touch it, it's hard!"

backbone503:
You all preach "No to Pre-marital sex", but none of you marries as a virgin. You're just a bunch of hypocrites.

I feel when of age, its ok to have sex if you feel you need it, but be responsible.

Chicent:



And when a marriage crashes as a result of that??

Let me share a quick true life story with you... A woman met a man who later became her husband but the man suggested no sex before marriage and she joyful accepted, then years later they settled down after getting married legally and then it was time to do the bedroom things and she found out that her husband's manhood was very tiny.... like too tiny for sight, not to talk of satisfaction. She started calling for divorce because she couldn't deal.... Save your self from shame and embarrassment if you have to. My ²cent.

MustFindLove:
Agreed, poster. I will advise ladies waiting for marriage to continue waiting. Don't fall into the it's-ok-to-have-sex-before-marriage-trap like you may be hearing. Don't mind any names you're being called - over-holy, pretender, liar. Stay true to yourself.

PrimadonnaO:


LOL!

rosalieene:

Make I follow you laugh.
That one dy find woman money to chop.

psychologist:
(6) A Man that trully have plans for you will not pester you with sex

Read it again.

paulolee:
nice mr o.p... pls include
6..always try be supportive to him financially when courting and even married no matter how much he earns...that small support give him, do matters....
i remember female co worker telling us her story that she do send 10k airtime monthly to her richer fiancee that do work in an oil company,
said she remembers how the guy do complain that she should keep her "change" and use it on herself and that she should "stop disturbing his phone with such peanuts"
but she kept sending the airtime as soon as she gets her monthly alert,
and a year after the guy proposed to her with a sweet ride just last year,
and also told her that what won his heart isn't about the small money she do send, but its her CONSISTENCY AND her PERSEVERANCE that always kept him surprised whenever he gets that crazy alert
because he keeps playing down the airtime and telling her to stop but she kept sending,
saying that such wife would always be there even when he goes broke...

UyaiIncomparabl:
There are no hard and fast rules. Just do you.

The most important thing is that undefined relationships should be highly discouraged, so also crazy-ass long term relationships. Dating someone for 5, 7-10 years? Odiegwu! Maka gini? Better give yourself a brain. Only date when you are ready for marriage. No go over use your toto on top one mumu boy. After one year of dating, you have the right to ask him where the relationship is heading to, any contrary or defunct answer, abort the mission. I repeat, abort the mission. [s]And that's why I advised against dating all these under 30-year-old.[/s]

I talk too much sef!

Unnerve:

I need to read you deny you have never fallen for that and touched it

PrimadonnaO:


Do you understand? Hahahahahah. In my mind, I was like... "look at this one...what kind of story is he narrating there?"

PrimadonnaO:


To what extent does body count affect a lady? Is that what you meant to ask?

Feelings may come to play before acceptance... but you've already begun observing the man critically before feelings set in... you've sized him up... you've checked his values...you've scrutizned his intentions for you... checked out how consistent he is... you've assessed your own fondness of him... after all these should a person make a decision to begin a relationship.

Feelings shouldn't be primary... fickle feelings.

Liposure:
my sista, food is enjoyed when its hot, not when its cold. There's no crime in eating it hot

pretydiva:
Lost a potential relationship because of no 1. He doesn't want a no sex relationship

Liposure:
u just won ursef a fan. u are just bursting my medulla oblongata this evening.