cmrendowed:

So on point only a simp will accept no sex till marriage when you are not a Virgin only virgins have the right and the remaining hoes should keep hoeing

pretydiva:
Lost a potential relationship because of no 1. He doesn't want a no sex relationship

Dudotessy21:
Am so proud of my virginity

ibkonekt:


if you are not a virgin, what is the point of a no sex relationship. you have already been defiled by another man's dna and that stays in a woman biology forever

ume1000:
says a divorcee

Rozz:
This one does not add up, when you will not cut your cloth according to your size what then do you expect?Some of these men will lie and deceive a high class lady into marriage but began to rant everywhere when they get served.As a man you should know where you belong and as such pick your wife within your level so as to avoid stories that touch.

pretydiva:


So a non virgin can't decide to stay celibate? Smh

LINTUNE:
show me were in the bible that virginity for men was emphasized on, unlike women...dont try and involve bible into this, cos u will fail woefully...back then virginity was the most important attribute that men look for in a woman..tell me how many women in the bible that married more than one man..ok now, we all knew great men in the bible that married thier first wife as virgin and went ahead to later marry thier second wife as a virgin..

psychologist:
(6) A Man that trully have plans for you will not pester you with sex

Read it again.

pretydiva:
Lost a potential relationship because of no 1. He doesn't want a no sex relationship

RuggedSniper:
^^^Dating is NOT for sex, but for asking questions! Check out top relationship expert...@Daniel Akpata on instagram, on MAX FM Lagos online and on radio from 10PM Mon-Fri for more. This will help you to weed out VERY FAST, all unserious people who just want to waste your time. It is good you spoke out in your post. Talk to you later. P.S. @pretydiva...via your NL profile: Are you an @Uduehi? A good friend of mine in the university back in Nigeria (called Igho), has the same surname... and he grew up and lived in Lagos.

paulolee:
nice mr o.p... pls include
6..always try be supportive to him financially when courting and even married no matter how much he earns...that small support give him, do matters....
i remember female co worker telling us her story that she do send 10k airtime monthly to her richer fiancee that do work in an oil company,
said she remembers how the guy do complain that she should keep her "change" and use it on herself and that she should "stop disturbing his phone with such peanuts"
but she kept sending the airtime as soon as she gets her monthly alert,
and a year after the guy proposed to her with a sweet ride just last year,
and also told her that what won his heart isn't about the small money she do send, but its her CONSISTENCY AND her PERSEVERANCE that always kept him surprised whenever he gets that crazy alert
because he keeps playing down the airtime and telling her to stop but she kept sending,
saying that such wife would always be there even when he goes broke...

Dudotessy21:
Am so proud of my virginity

chatinent:
All rights reserved.
(c) Chatinent
.
As a girl caught up in the circles of getting married, you must train yourself. Here are few things you should know and avoid.
.
1. Sex and sleeping over is not a marriage certification. Rather a sin because of what it begets. Engaging in pre-marital sex is like opening a surprise bag before it is being delivered to you. No matter how you sugarclothe it, whether you call it 'dating,' 'fianceship,' 'betrothedness' or all what not, it is wrong and it is very wrong to start living with the opposite sex before marriage; you pose yourself to be a toy to be played with then discarded when a new catch comes. By the way, whoever likes an old, overused stuff that came free! Dear singles, don't let anyone deceive you. Some married lady may be telling you to also do it, saying that's how she got hers. One question: with how many men was she this cheap before one unfortunate one was deceived?
.
2. Cooking, sweeping and laundry. You saw 'cooking' right? You must feel it's a misplaced priority, but I'll prove you wrong. The African man will always stress on this wife-to-be being a good cook who can bring out his best meals palatable. Come to think of it, do many of them not cheat after all and choose another girl -- probably sb who hasn't even cooked for him once? Whoever told you food restrain cheats! If you like, wash his dirty undies as well as his lineage's dump, mob the whole stair case from his house to the express, do the dishes, or sweep his house even to the next three streets, he'll marry the person he'll still marry. Sorry to poke your bubble. Many who did all these ended up in Titanic tears. In fact, I advise you to be you: let him know the boundaries of a wife and a girlfriend. As you yourself keep numerous male friends trying to sift the best option, guys also keep a handy of female friends till the 'heavenly' match is ascertained. Don't come and nanny another woman's husband for free!
.
3. Avoid the 'sex before marriage' crew.
I have little to say. Just realize that many perverts are finding the nearest gullible one to use this ancient trick on. What actually are they testing? If they don't believe you are the marriage type, why don't the choose another? Truth is if you accidentally get pregnant, there is still no guaranty of marriage. You have your permission to try it; it'll end in tears.
.
4. Take care of your body. Taking care does not mean you have to fix hawk feathers as eye-lashes, expose cleavages or wear mini-skirt, it actually means being responsible. Go easy on the make-up, it actually doesn't get anything positive, but sexually negative. Second, if you have a bump on your belly that protrudes, try treat it. Over 98% of guys alive will actually take it for what it commonly is: THAT YOU DON BORN BEFORE! Funnily, if that is the case, you cannot hide it, almost all guys are specially gifted in discovering this. You see why you shouldn't even have pre-marital sex in the first place, let alone an abortion?
.
5. Always say the truth about your details. Rather than lying, it's better you tell sb that a particular request is confidential. Remember, one lie must need more lies to keep the lie young. One thing is you can freely lie about your age, certification or any other thing and get married (a trophy you think) but believe you me, the day your partner discovers you fooled him all along, that is the day you pause the love, trust and peace forever, and start enjoy Buchi Emecheta's joy of motherhood.
.
Conclusion: It's not about looking beautiful or less beautiful that determines the speed, it's about discovering who you shouldn't be. It's about not following the worldly course of fashion. Most times, we are the reason why our relationSHIPS sail for the rift. Remember, not all engagement rings are an Alice-in-wonderland world, some are suffeRINGS.

ArcToyin:


Honestly, you spoke my mind. I have ever been ruminating on how ladies reach these level, demeaning themselves because they want the men to marry them. I pray that this write up minister to several and they have a rethink and thereby change their ways.

paulolee:
nice mr o.p... pls include
6..always try be supportive to him financially when courting and even married no matter how much he earns...that small support give him, do matters....
i remember female co worker telling us her story that she do send 10k airtime monthly to her richer fiancee that do work in an oil company,
said she remembers how the guy do complain that she should keep her "change" and use it on herself and that she should "stop disturbing his phone with such peanuts"
but she kept sending the airtime as soon as she gets her monthly alert,
and a year after the guy proposed to her with a sweet ride just last year,
and also told her that what won his heart isn't about the small money she do send, but its her CONSISTENCY AND her PERSEVERANCE that always kept him surprised whenever he gets that crazy alert
because he keeps playing down the airtime and telling her to stop but she kept sending,
saying that such wife would always be there even when he goes broke...

Oluromantic:

It's not about you, it's about d woman

pretydiva:
Lost a potential relationship because of no 1. He doesn't want a no sex relationship

ArcToyin:


Bros, there is no problem without solution. One of the essence of marrying is to help solve the weakness of the other. Marriage is not a bed of rose that you expect all to go flamboyantly.

pretydiva:


Yes that's my surname. I don't know any igho

chatinent:
All rights reserved.
(c) Chatinent
.
As a girl caught up in the circles of getting married, you must train yourself. Here are few things you should know and avoid.
.
1. Sex and sleeping over is not a marriage certification. Rather a sin because of what it begets. Engaging in pre-marital sex is like opening a surprise bag before it is being delivered to you. No matter how you sugarclothe it, whether you call it 'dating,' 'fianceship,' 'betrothedness' or all what not, it is wrong and it is very wrong to start living with the opposite sex before marriage; you pose yourself to be a toy to be played with then discarded when a new catch comes. By the way, whoever likes an old, overused stuff that came free! Dear singles, don't let anyone deceive you. Some married lady may be telling you to also do it, saying that's how she got hers. One question: with how many men was she this cheap before one unfortunate one was deceived?
.
2. Cooking, sweeping and laundry. You saw 'cooking' right? You must feel it's a misplaced priority, but I'll prove you wrong. The African man will always stress on this wife-to-be being a good cook who can bring out his best meals palatable. Come to think of it, do many of them not cheat after all and choose another girl -- probably sb who hasn't even cooked for him once? Whoever told you food restrain cheats! If you like, wash his dirty undies as well as his lineage's dump, mob the whole stair case from his house to the express, do the dishes, or sweep his house even to the next three streets, he'll marry the person he'll still marry. Sorry to poke your bubble. Many who did all these ended up in Titanic tears. In fact, I advise you to be you: let him know the boundaries of a wife and a girlfriend. As you yourself keep numerous male friends trying to sift the best option, guys also keep a handy of female friends till the 'heavenly' match is ascertained. Don't come and nanny another woman's husband for free!
.
3. Avoid the 'sex before marriage' crew.
I have little to say. Just realize that many perverts are finding the nearest gullible one to use this ancient trick on. What actually are they testing? If they don't believe you are the marriage type, why don't the choose another? Truth is if you accidentally get pregnant, there is still no guaranty of marriage. You have your permission to try it; it'll end in tears.
.
4. Take care of your body. Taking care does not mean you have to fix hawk feathers as eye-lashes, expose cleavages or wear mini-skirt, it actually means being responsible. Go easy on the make-up, it actually doesn't get anything positive, but sexually negative. Second, if you have a bump on your belly that protrudes, try treat it. Over 98% of guys alive will actually take it for what it commonly is: THAT YOU DON BORN BEFORE! Funnily, if that is the case, you cannot hide it, almost all guys are specially gifted in discovering this. You see why you shouldn't even have pre-marital sex in the first place, let alone an abortion?
.
5. Always say the truth about your details. Rather than lying, it's better you tell sb that a particular request is confidential. Remember, one lie must need more lies to keep the lie young. One thing is you can freely lie about your age, certification or any other thing and get married (a trophy you think) but believe you me, the day your partner discovers you fooled him all along, that is the day you pause the love, trust and peace forever, and start enjoy Buchi Emecheta's joy of motherhood.
.
Conclusion: It's not about looking beautiful or less beautiful that determines the speed, it's about discovering who you shouldn't be. It's about not following the worldly course of fashion. Most times, we are the reason why our relationSHIPS sail for the rift. Remember, not all engagement rings are an Alice-in-wonderland world, some are suffeRINGS.